</Button>
                                    <Button x:Name="Cancelbutton" Grid.Column="5"  Content="Cancel" VerticalAlignment="Bottom" Margin="0,0,0,10">

                                    </Button>
                                    <Button x:Name="FirstDeleteButton" Grid.Column="6"  VerticalAlignment="top" Margin="3,5,2,0" />
                                </Grid>
                            </Border>
                          </Border>
                    </Grid>

                    <DataTemplate.Triggers>
                        <Trigger Property="IsMouseOver" Value="True">
                            <Setter TargetName="FirstNormalBorder" Property="Background" Value="Green"/>
                        </Trigger>
                        <Trigger Property="IsSelected" Value="True">
                            <Setter TargetName="FirstNormalBorder" Property="Background" Value="Red"/>
                        </Trigger>
                    </DataTemplate.Triggers>
                </DataTemplate>
            </ItemsControl.ItemTemplate>
        </ItemsControl>

cs:
 public MainWindow()
        {
            InitializeComponent();

            List<User> items = new List<User>();
            items.Add(new User() { Name = "John Doe", Age = 42, Mail = "john@doe-family.com" });
            items.Add(new User() { Name = "Jane Doe", Age = 39, Mail = "jane@doe-family.com" });
            items.Add(new User() { Name = "Sammy Doe", Age = 13, Mail = "sammy.doe@gmail.com" });
            lvDataBinding.ItemsSource = items;
        }

    }

    public class User
    {
        public string Name { get; set; }

        public int Age { get; set; }

        public string Mail { get; set; }
    }