do not

don't quit the game in a show of pique or we will take you at your word
do not argue when you are handed a temp ban and then have someone else page on your behalf.
do not break alt number rules.
do not circumvent your temporary ban if you receive one.
do not engage in RP of a sensitive or sexual nature without clearly establishing boundaries and consent with your RP partners
do not lie to staff.
do not make suicide threats
do not page staff on behalf of people who have been banned
do not send us ultimatums
don't act like that.
don't ask the other player if they can inflict something potentially emotionally traumatic on their character because you want to avoid 'drama'
don't be a gross, creepy, abusive stalker
don't be manipulative IC and OOC.
don't be so extra that ten billion people immediately cannot with you
don't circumvent the alt cap.
don't contact players and tell them what kind of outfits you think would look attractive on their characters and start offering examples of what you like.
don't creep on people.
don't have your character start yelling about stuff regarding that other character that isn't even thematic anyway
don't insist that you want an open relationship as far as it concerns your character, but theirs must remain monogamous
don't lie OOC.
don't make characters that come across as white supremacists
don't mock other players on PRPs for bad luck
don't pressure people to RP incest
don't publicly put your fellow RPers into a position that they're faced with uncomfortable details of your PCs personal life
don't ruin other peoples' fun.
don't run roughshod over characters your character is in a relationship with
don't say you'll avoid all problematic behavior and then have someone literally complain about it like a couple days later for the same stupid bullshit
don't stalk people.
don't start dictating what those characters can and cannot do ICly or OOCly
don't start OOC conversations about uncomfortable IC events and lie OOC in order to manipulate another player into reacting a different way IC.
don't start paging other people about your thoughts on political and social views and then not stopping when they ask you to stop.
don't use thought posing to engage in creepy or borderline antagonistic behavior.
if people ask you to keep your communication with them IC and give them some breathing room, maybe don't page them 20 times during an event to say they better not be cheating on you.
if someone page/blocks you, do not circumvent it with messengers.
don't be passive aggressive, controlling and a total asshole to other people.
don't ask someone to convey your apologies and get around a page block so you can continue to be a controlling asshole
if you dislike someone OOCly, don't roleplay with them.
don't continue to cross boundaries after being explicitly told to stop by staff.
when someone turns you down ICly as a romantic partner, you don't find a different character and pursue them again.
when you do RP with someone regularly, don't page them about who they're RPing with that isn't you.
Do not lie to staff.
Do not use another person in your lie against their knowledge.
Do not lie in order to subvert alt rules.