I've been trying to compile a list and possibly a downloadable RAR for both myself and people new to modding. The idea is that it'd contain a DATA folder with all the files already in it, and the rars for the mods that require mod organizer to run. I've got this so far:

unofficial patches + DLC

—–Technical stuff:

SKSE
bawl bugs CE
FNIS
FNIS sexy move
HDT High Heels
Auto Unequip Arrows
ActorEvents (for pregnancy purposes)
dead body collision
realistic force
onetweak
realistic lightning overhaul

SkyUI
360 walk and run plus
alternate start
escape the cell
a quality world map
XP32 Maximum Skeleton Extended (always load this last so nothing can overwrite it)


—–Appearance:

Bodyslide++
Racemenu
Zaz animation pack
Zaz Texture Pack
CBBE body replacer
Shlongs of Skyrim
Apachii Hair

—-Lewd essentials:

Sexlab
Non-Sexlab animation pack
Sexlab Aroused
Devious Devices assets
Devious Devices Intergration
Devious Devices Expansion
Captured Dreams

More Nasty Critters
Beastiality animation pack(?)


—-Lewd Suggestions:

Skooma Whore
Xaz Prison Overhaul (might break with mods that change the dungeons/prisons)
Hydra's slavegirls
Banditslut
Devious Regulations
Dangerous Nights
Sexlab College days
Devious Traps
Abigail follower mod
Animal Mansion
Sexlab Amerous Adventures
Display Model
Soulgem Oven
Sexlab Submit + Progressive Bondage
Slavetats + JC containers + additional tattoos you might want, see download page.
Alicia PainSlut (only works on UNP?)
Beastial Essence
Deviously enchanted chests
Deviously Cursed loot
Deviously Helpless (might conflict with mods that bind slaves into bondage

Estrus for Skyrim
Estrus Chaurus(+)



Sanguine Debauchery+ (unstable) +patches +SDcages


—-General suggestions:

Death Alternative (nessecary for some lewd mods)
Craftable and Movable bedrolls (works well with Dangerous Nights)
Unread Book Glow
Ultimate Followers Mod (UFO)



—-armour:

Bodyslide compatible:
Ancient Nord Chainmail
Remodelled armour for CBBE bodyslide
Latex Corset with TBBP




—-Note:
There should be a mod that adjusts devious devices assets to conform to custom bodyslide settings and body physics
Consider the skyrim Scale Stopper and Lavish Loot to make content harder when put at a disadvantage by devious assets. and harder to start out with

—-Looking into: (unorganised)

Immerslave
Slaves of Tamriel
Trapped in Rubber
SexLab Sex Slaves 2.6
Devious Captures
HDT weapon sling
player succubus quest
Fill Her Up
piercings for CBBE
Joys of Perspective
ReSky
Darkwind Island
Calypsia the Adult Toys Merchant (I think one of the mods required this)
Dibellas Recruit
Dibellas defender
SexLab Stop Combat
The Captured Dreams addons
Populated Lands Roads Paths
MidianBorn book of silence (HD armor textures?)
LSAR (little sexual appeal something something) -armor replacer
sexlab guild
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