I am monogamous by default. Reason I said monogamy or polygamy is because I know polygamy is becoming quite a demand on IMVU a least in the BDSM part. Being none sexual does pose difficult for me being alot want sexual sub missives which I am not so I struggle to meet about 99% of dominants needs no matter what lifestyle they are in which is okay I don't wish to change my Asexuality.  I don't really like to share my dominant and I have territorial tendencies. I do prefer IMVU/RL

For what I seek in a Dominant. I am looking for someone who has experience in the lifestyle with a decent level of confidence but not someone who's all about the control.  Personality I like when he's understanding with patience and good control over his role.  Past experiences I often feel like I'm the top sometimes because yeah they don't actually know what to do but don't admit that. Expectations of his I would need to be told because I can't submit to someone who hasn't got good communication and doesn't even know what they expect from a submissive. I do not mind a strict dynamic long as it's planned carefully and consent from both sides is fully understood. I would like my dominant to like matching fits in shop and taking pictures for photo albums. Be able to engage with me in little space and make me bottle/Sippys of drinks (in RP) and watch movies with me time to time.

Important:
I  am gender fluid so I would need this to be accepted. I do not wish to change that. I will always be female around my dominant.