<reference name="top.links">
        <action method="addLink" translate="label title" module="customer">
            <label>My Account</label>
            <url helper="customer/getAccountUrl"/>
            <title>My Account</title>
            <prepare/>
            <urlParams/>
            <class/>
            <position>10</position>
            <aParams>
                <class>my-account-link</class>
            </aParams>
        </action>
    </reference>