It’s sad that the advent of cellphones, incognito mode, voip has made cheating a lot easier.
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This is a warning for all couples. Sorry for the long post but please do read it.

You don’t f know what your spouse is doing on the phone. If they are using a browser in incognito mode for everything there’s just no way you can find out.

Ok, you ask what about phone calls. Well ppl have got smart. They use text only for all communication. Sign up for an alternative phone number on Google voice and you are all set. It can be used to send and receive messages in a browser, app, etc.

Ok, you ask what about money. Easy. Set up direct deposit from your employer in a separate online only account with almost zero interest (to avoid reporting on tax forms). Get a debit card and link it to cash app. Done.

If you have to use a separate phone use your work phone that you keep separate any way. Usually spouses never bother with the work phone. Of course you can’t install everything on your work phone but you can always use a browser for texting (see above).

Couples need to be extra careful and watch for body language.
- Reduced intimacy is generally the best indicator. Make adhoc video phone calls in the evening to check where they are.
- Repeated violations of not answering the phone especially during certain time pockets is usually a tell tale sign that something is brewing.
- The other obvious indication is smell. Spouses will take a shower to avoid smelling like their affair partner’s perfume. Fresh shower smell is obvious (even if they use the same soap as home).
- Random bag inspections. There is always something in the bag that you can find.