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Intent -
Showing why we uniquely like them. Here we are covering verbal intent, but please
notice that it is not just verbal, it can be with any tool of communication. Too many
times people see intent as simply saying you like someone. However it is more than
that. Intent takes investment on both ends before it can have any real meaning. Our
intent needs to be specifically why we like them.
It is important to note, intent is an empty technique if you’re not serving an exchange.
Many times people think simply being aggressive or direct is seductive. It can repel
seduction if it does not facilitate an exchange. This means if a woman can’t state her
intent or enjoy it then it is just being aggressive, annoying and bullying.
Intent is an art in itself, the true art comes from moving in a clear direction then relaxing
it enough to elicit an exchange from the woman.
Examples -
First meeting someone -
When we first meet someone it is best to state something unique about them
specifically. My personal preference is to state intent about a part of their personal
more than anything. However, their clothing or demeanor is great too. Our intent
should take some investment and risk as well.
Many times I see guy just say, “You make nice decisions, I like that.” That is stating an
opinion.
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Intent is more like, “I like the way you think, that is really attractive. I want to know
more.”
As you can see there is more of a direct emphasis on what you want sexually also an
opportunity for her to exchange.
• “I really like the way you blush it’s cute.”
• “I can’t believe you act so weird when you get nervous, but its kinda hot.”
• My personal favorite - “I really like your eyes, but mainly your left one...no really it is
really different.”
• “I hate to interrupt but when you talk I really like how you speak, it makes you attracted
in a way that kind of make me nervous. I like it.”
After knowing them
After we have known someone we might verbalize intent intent on a date or while
hanging out with them. It might be on the first night we met them, but because
escalation cycles we might need to emphasize it more.
• “I know we just met, and I thought you were attractive when we first met but now I
think your really attractive, I need to talk to you more.”
• “Obviously I like you, but it is really hard not to get carried away talking to you. What
is your favorite thing to do?” (the ending qualifier can change, but you should have
one at the end to give her an opportunity to exchange)
Wanting to turn them on
Every man needs to know what it is like to verbally turn a woman on. There are many
ways to do it, but all of them will have some sort of intent involved in them. Realize that
the element of exchange is key in having a woman turned on.
• “When you were talking about (insert) a few mins ago I have got to tell you it gave me
a dirty thought.”
• “If I told you, that I think you’re one of the hottest women in every way would it make
you nervous or would you walk away from something that might be one of the best
experiences of your life.”
• “I can tell you’re looking at me like you want me but are too afraid to say it. What
about me is making you nervous?”
• “You’re making me nervous but I think you like it. Why don’t you let yourself enjoy it.
Do we need to go somewhere else.”
• “You have made me think of some crazy things, why does it embarrass you to like
what you feel.”