SELECT friends.user_id, friends.friend_id, username

FROM
      FRIEND_LIST friends, USER

WHERE
      CAT_USER.id = friends.friend_id
AND
      friends.user_id = 1

UNION

SELECT
        fof.user_id, fof.friend_id, username
FROM
        FRIEND_LIST friends, FRIEND_LIST fof, USER
WHERE
        USER.id = fof.friend_id
 AND
        friends.friend_id = fof.user_id
 AND
        friends.user_id = 1;