Wanda probe Stalks Children & Teens

so we all know somebody somewhere that has attempted suicide maybe you have a friend that cuts themselves , today I seen a tweet about a girl I know who yes has cut . Wanda Probe seems to get some enjoyment from making fun of this girl and her parents see tweet here

Wanda Probe @Voice4Silent · 16h16 hours ago
To the mom of 9 -1 stalking me, please parent your kids. Your teen daughter is cutting because of you. Seek help.

Does Wanda know why this person is truly cutting ? Wanda seems to know everything so she should be aware of the reason why kids  kids self harm in the first place. and what parents can do about it Does Wanda know what steps this parent has taken . I don’t think she does . I think Wanda is attacking and trying to put Blame on the other person

There are many reasons why children and young people try to hurt themselves. And once they start, it can become a compulsion. The exact reasons why children and young people decide to hurt themselves aren’t always easy to work out. In fact, they might not even know exactly why they do it.

Discovering that your child is self-harming will inevitably have a big emotional effect on you. But however it makes you feel, it’s very important that you stay calm and let your child know that you’re there to help and support them.

Try not to jump to immediate conclusions or to find instant solutions. And never give the impression that their self-harming has created a big problem for you.

You shouldn’t take it personally or blame yourself either. Just concentrate on showing you understand and want to help. If your child wants to talk about their self-harm and why they’re doing it, sit down and listen. If they’re finding it hard to speak to you face-to-face then why not suggest they put their thoughts into an email or letter instead? Try to get to the bottom of what makes your child start to self-harm and think about how triggers can be avoided. Addressing the causes is going to be much more effective than removing the methods of self-harm like scissors or razors because anyone who really wants to hurt themselves is always going to find a way. Think of things they can do well and be praised for. It could be arranging a surprise party for a friend or even learning to play the guitar – it doesn’t matter, as long as they enjoy doing it.Your instinct might be to constantly keep your eye on your child, and that’s understandable. But by giving them their own space you’ll help build up their confidence and trust. Try to find a balance between monitoring what they’re doing and respecting their privacy.If you feel you need to talk to someone about your child’s self-harming you should only tell people who really need to know – and you should always speak with your child first. Just a little Note on this last part I think the biggest mistake this mother ever did was talking to Wanda about her child how was she supposed to know wanda was going to try and use the information to extort her and try once again to publicly shame her .