RR Survey Personality Responses

This is the collection of all responses to the personality section of this survey. The section containing responses from women starts with [WOMEN], while the section containing responses from men starts with [MEN].

[WOMEN]
Kind, loving, family-oriented, a little vain/petty sometimes

Kind, thoughtful, gentle, empathetic, sensitive, open, honest, shy, private, clingy

Communicative, verbal, open-hearted, affectionate, obedient, and shyness.

Kind, gentle, sweet, caring, understanding, nurturing, sensitive, intelligent, empathetic, romatic, and on the same wavelength.

Cool with me being presenting as pretty masculine both privately and publicly. Other than that..same sense of humour? Don't know if I have a type. Personality has a cute femme side to it and he embraces it.

Beta

Funny, caring, honest, sweet, outgoing, attentive

Intelligent, knowledgeable, good at communication, good sense of humor, and a natural submissive.

Soft, tender, cute

Shy, friendly, funny, loyal

Good sense of humor, doesn't take himself too seriously, educated, awkward/adorkable, sweet and loving, submissive

Nice. considerate, caring, loyal, openminded, patient, FUNNY, cute (if that makes sense???), rebel, FEMININE.

Witty and cute and intellectual. Entertaining. A gentleman who's subby only for me

Good communicator, assertive, sweet, kind, thoughtful, funny, bratty, kinky, creative, curious, supportive, non-macho, comfortable in himself, secure, playful, energetic, excitable, intelligent, open

Service-minded, loves praise, independent but refers back to me as his touchstone

Funny, sweet, thoughtful, intelligent, curious, playful

Big bear, stud, confidant and in charge in public.... Needs cuddles, submissive and obedient but still very confident...bratty

Smart, curious, witty, shy.

Deeply submissive, even if it's just in the bedroom. We don't have to agree on everything, but similar political views are pretty major. A good listener.

Kind, caring, good listener, similar interests but can show me new things, strong, edgelord, animal lover

I'd like him to be cute, sweet and submissive

Hygenic Kind Geeky Supportive Caring Humble Intelligent

Compassion, humour and an interest in themselves

Personality traits really don't matter to me, just the dynamic itself or the experiences/life encounter the person has been through or we've been through together. I've like a variety of people and a lot of them aren't really that much alike so I can't really pinpoint certain personality traits ! One thing I like tho is if their easy to read (I used to think "open and honest" til I met this tsundere dude and holydfhjvkb\la a cutiie ;--;) because with nonrr guys it's kind of hard to tell intentions and I hate that ! I could just describe the guys I've like I guess cause most of them gave of rr vibes even if they didn't know it !! (hh sorry this might a l ready be too long) (dw I have a really hard time falling in love so there's like, hardly any lol) (plus y'all want female input since 0.2% of us use reddit)(BUT I PROMISE A LOT MORE EXIST IRL trust I'd know we hang) 1) Dude 1 was really tall, shy, liked reading books a LOT, really honest and kind and sweet and innocent. He's good at math, liked little kids (he was a big bro to 2 ;--;) and generally hung out w loud hyper ppl so I knew we'd be able to hang :D He was kinda timid and wouldn't stand up for himself so he was subject to bullying D: I mean that's a bad thing but every time I intervened that gave me a chance to see him more? ya know?? I should add: manz is one year older than me 2) Asshole. Was really outgoing, bubbly and confident and we had like, the same sense of humour. He didn't care when I "stole" his phone so I could call it from my phone only for it to ring in my back pocket (so he knows I was onto him aND now I had his number ^3^^^). This guy was smart but such a dumbass at the same time and he was also The Biggest HoeTM. Too many girls liked him at once and so he dated like, 5 at the same time and didn't tell any of them. I snaked and told them now he singleAf. seriously fck this guy (This is just a MinorTM DetailTM but he crossed dressed like, twice for school presentations and mimics girls really well but FCK HIM HE'S AN ASSHOLE HE'S MEAN TO MY FRIENDS and he's fjdksvbmn a misogynist hypocrite pervert) This kid's my age. 3) This guy is tsundere x1000 and he's good at guitar (HE CAN PLAY DEATH NOTE SONGS) and he comes from abroad so he Has Taste and his hair is shoulder length and fluffy and he's kinda scared of me its sO YUMMY. I wanna make fun of this kid so much but he might get mad so gOTTa respect the manz,, He might say some harsh things but it's reaaaally hard to believe he actually means any of it I WANNA SHARE SOME OF his tsundere moments but this isn't really the place for that hahahaha. He also like physics and beat every single game of pokemon why is he cool who let him. he's a year younger than me and hangs w ppl a year younger than him(kinda like a "senpai")9ew gross I actually used that word 4) LAST ONE I SWEAR I hardly kno this dude but I saw this skinny ass acne shy boy at work and went to talk to him and HE'S REALLY SWEET? GAVE ME GENUINE ADVICE BELIEVING I WAS 4 YEARS YOUNGER THAN HIM?? (we the same age loool) and HE. MAKES. ART. literally if you draw/have a creative outlet that's the most attractive thing the planet bc we have something in common HAHAHfck we're both awkward af was it meant to be?? SORRY THIS IS SO LONG IT'S LIKE: WHAT DO YOU MEAN PERSONALITY TRAITS RR IS IN ALL SHAPES AND SIZES?? CUTE BOYS WILL BE CUTE, NO ONE CAN STOP THEM FROM STEALING MY <3

Gentle, cute, warm heart, and nerdy.

Resilient, smart, classy, and most of all know what matters. For say, the situation of your dog eats your expensive shoes and you're upset. You have to be certain you love the dog more than the shoes, and choose not to be upset.

sweet, loyal, honest, emotional, caring

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Funny Caring Loving

Adorable, quirky, kind, funny, dorky, nerdy, sweet, loving, not afraid to be himself around me, someone who loves to cuddle, hold and be held.

patience, honesty, obedience, submission, sense of humor, when he knows what he wants

Funny, smart, empathetic, gentle, and clingy

Kind, soft, gentle

Smart, domestic, athletic, adventurous, truthful.

Shy, nerdy, interested in cute things, generally subby

Outwardly aggressive, tough, and rugged in public. Polite and chivalrous in all situations. In private, more open to being vulnerable and candidly submissive.

Sweet. Funny. Bighearted. Deeply kind. Possessed of great generosity of spirit. Very playful and affectionate.

Kind Humble Smart Honest Dignified With empathetic values

Submissive, playfully, naughty, witty, intelligent, caring, "dilf" qualities

Sensitive, able to hold a serious conversation, laughing about my jokes, likes to cuddle, has close friendships, doesn't have many expectations for me, doesn't expect monogamy, a bit shy, polite, has similar political beliefs as I do, bonus points if he likes to bake

patient, kind, calm, open minded and down to earth.

I have more than just one type, but I certainly love complex independent people who don't submit out of necessity, but actually choose to do it because they enjoy it. I'd also love an innocent idealistic guy who's always up for learning new things. Someone who is sensitive, but sensible enough not to overreact or blame me for things I'm not guilty for. It would be even better if we had common interest.

A submissive personality in general, he likes to follow orders, gets easily flustered and nervous when he's intersted in a girl, believes in open communication and honesty

Sense of humor

Able to say wants or opinions that the other person might not like but doesn't actively seek out uneccisary confrontation. Able to give and take in a conversation. Easy-going and sweet. Not too clingy or try-hard to the point where it interfeirs with my life, but not interested in mind games either.

Kind Soft - but only when it’s safe for him Brave Knows some feminist theory so that he doesn’t get red eyes at the term “Toxic Masculinity” and understands that masculinity inherently isn’t toxic but toxic masculinity is a problem Gamer Good kisser and cuddler Can take a joke Do no harm but take no shit, y’know? Can stand up for me or himself Is fine with me being bi! And/or a nonbinary woman.

tolerates the fact that I suck at relationships

Open, communicative, likes to try out new things, calm, gentle

Intelligent, masochistic, highly emotionally tuned in/self aware, a bit of a hermit/misanthrope/misfit, intensity seeking, someone who really understands people and prioritizes empathy more than me (I'm very empathetic but I often tamp it down to try to fit better into society and can struggle with being cold/nihilistic), someone who is really easygoing and adaptable most of the time but is strong when pushed and is not afraid to state their opinion even if it's contrary... Just someone who is really of their own mind, but gets off on being 'taken' and is easygoing about the 99% of things that are not important.

Reliable, caring, willing to be social/able to communicate well, sense of humour, strong(?)

Kind, sweet, understanding, and cute

Clear about what he wants, knows what I want. Cuddler, borderline (physically) clingy. Confident in himself and interests. Feminine taste.

smart, responsible, loyal, good sense of humour, honest

Sweet, shy, easily embarrassed

Kind and gentle, but firm. Not going to completely walk all over him but not going to take charge too much.

Someone gentle, smart, and with a sense of humor. ideally also someone with good looks.

Cute! Cuddly! Soft! Able to let go of society's notions of masculinity. Unafraid to be who he is in public. Passionate about his interests. Caring and supportive. Able to express his emotions in a healthy way.

Shy, funny, caring, reliable, adventurous

Sense of humor, caring, ambitious

Chill, fun, nerdy, experimental, adventurous, reliable, emotional, good communication.

kind, thoughtful, loves animals, younger than me

Considerate, Honest, Tries his best, Responsible, Open-minded and accepting, Sensitive

Kind, intelligent, a free thinker, interested in literature and/or gaming

Assertive, spoiled, cocky, defiant, humorous, bratty, submissive

The list could go on for a mile, but to keep it short, some of my favorite qualities in my s/o are: • He is extremely caring and thoughtful. He's great at taking care of pets, children, plants, and chores. And he takes care of me, and takes care of himself. ♥ • He's working on reducing his meat and dairy intake, and hopefully he'll go vegan with me, soon. This might sound unimportant, but it's super, super, important to me! • When he appreciates something I do, he vocalizes it. It helps my self-esteem so much, and makes me want to do more for him. • He listens. He's open to new information, he's open to being wrong sometimes, and he always, always, hears me out. • He's super calm. We rarely have arguments, because we just talk things through. • He's sensitive, he's cuddly, he has stuffed animals, he likes cartoons, he's not caught up in looking "masculine", he just enjoys who he is. And I love that. He's very accepting. ♥

Sensitive, funny, passionate, relaxed and happy to let me take control and make decisions.

Caring kind sweet is

Metro, nerdy, bi, sub, neutral/fem, well groomed

Kind, smart, caring, funny, gentle

memes

I have no specific traits in mind, just someone that I like

Be a disney princess.

Submissive, timid, reserved, sassy, feisty, insecure, clever, thrifty, maternal/motherly, genuine, sensitive, sweet, naive, conservative, modest, a bit clumsy, curious

Expressive about emotions, not afraid to cry at sad movies, wants to be cuddled, cares about making people feel comfortable, enjoys cooking or willing to learn, cares about helping other humans and animals, sensitive

Sweet and respectful

Artistic, kind, empathetic, open/comfortable feeling and expressing their emotions, passionate, good communication, honest, open minded, non-judgmental,

kind, gentle, shy, funny, geeky, intelligent, unconcerned with societal expectations

spoiled, assertive, initiative, cocky, arrogant, bratty, submissive

I'm generally attracted to all sorts of people but in my last three crushes, some parallels I can draw between all three were that they showed humbleness, kindness, passion towards their friends, they achieved high grades and were studious, the shy ones were confident about their meekness and the outgoing dude was confident in the way he communicated too,,, uhHH also?? If they can be themselves I guesss YEAH cliche I knoww. I think I touched on the major ones I hope none of them sound too contradictory so as not to impose double standard or smth hh

feminine, extroverted, nurturing, goofy, youthful at heart, good with emotions, cuddly, artsy

Honest, loyal, kind, humorous, understanding, patient, well-mannered, hard-working, respectful, compassionate, fair, courageous, generous, reliable, lovable, conscientious.

I just want someone easy to be around. Someone who is kindhearted and funny, doesn't make people uncomfortable by saying harsh or lewd things. I am a nurturing person so I want them to be able to let themselves be taken care of, but if they're embarrassed by my attention that can be cute too.

Soft spoken, gentle, playful, creative, kind

kind, blushy, submissive, attentive, affectionate

I'm fine with everything as long as we understand each other.

Cute Shy, or embarassed easily Passionate about a subject, so that we can talk for a long time Smart, or at least curious Cheerful Somewhat feminine

Caring, sensitive, thoughtful, principled, cheerful and funny.

Emapethic Affectionate Responsible Funny Patient

coyness, shyness, enthusiasm, kindness, compassion, sensitivity, loyalty, open-mindedness, understanding, submissiveness

cute, emotionally stable and in touch, above average amount of feminine qualities for a guy

soft, passive, shy (when with me) but has a personality of their own

Solid, reliable, protective, reasonable, logical, sane.

Funny submissive but with an attitude, feisty, nit afraid to try nee things.

Empathatic, good sense of humor, nerdy


[MEN]
Dominant Giggley Bubbly

Someone really caring and gentle... who makes me feel safe, loved, and special, but can also sometimes be evil in a teasing kind of way. Someone who shares similar interests with me and who I enjoy spending time with outside of the bedroom. Someone who is interested in exploring interests with me as I am with them. Someone who is honest, trusting, funny, outgoing, and sweet.

Kind,laid back,into cuddling,easy to talk to,thoughtful

Confident Weeaboo Funny Patient Understanding

Understanding Supportive Same Music and Game taste Someone that can talk to me about stuff that expands my mind.

honest, kind-hearted, has the sense of humour, intelligent, patient

Intelligent, caring

Emphatic, smart, funny, sacarstic, curious

Honestly, I don’t have much standards for this. I’ve found in my experience that for me, personally, it matters on how someone uses their skills and traits rather than those skills and traits they have. Obviously, I don’t want someone who’s unintelligent (not saying I’m particularly smart, I’m just saying that I don’t want to date someone who’s blatantly an idiot) or has no similar interests to me. Also, pretty much everything associated with role reversal is appealing to me anyways.

Funny, smart, assertive,

Intelligent Caring

Assertive Intelligent Career-driven

Intelligence Confidence Empathy Sadistic

Kasumigaoka Utaha

Honesty, Caring and not too serious

Happy/joyful, confident, brave, strong, and determined but has a sweet and soft center if you can dig deep enough.

For them to be there when i need them as well as when i dont, to have a good sense of humour, be able to get on independantly, be comforting

Kind, collected, ambitious.

Doting, very caring and dominant but kind

Funny, confident, loving, sadistic

Has interests and views in common with me, and is my best friend as well as my romantic partner.

Ideally, I would like to be married to a woman with traditional right-wing values and with whom, in our private sphere, we will engage with non-traditional "activities". A specific profile is impossible for me to formulate but there's two things important for me. One is having some form of humor and two, to be able to recognize her mistakes and assume the consequences.

Assertive, Confident, Demanding, Intimidating, Sweet, Intelligent, Witty, Charming

Funny, Smart, Playful, Charming, Charismatic

Physically affectionate, open-minded, confident

Loyal, nice, dominant, cuddly, likes attention, trustworthy, horny all the time, forceful

Inetlligence, Gentleness, Caring, Motherly, Loving

Alpha, bossy, controlling

Intelligent sweet, strong (mentaly), brave

Domineering but willing to listen to what I have to say. Willing to take charge.

Caring, warm, has her own passions/hobbies, close to me in education (more or less is fine, just close), open-minded

Someone that helps me be more confident in myself :)

Good sense of humor. Open and doesn't play mind games. Similar interests such as games/music/dnd. Respects boundaries and how I feel about others seeing us in RR mode.

Dominant Kind

Kind, Loving, Assertive, Loyal, Independent

Strong, honest and caring

Decisive and dominant, a “knows what’s best” and can be playfully condescending.

Assertive, upbeat

Caring, good sense of humor, smart, open-minded, romantic

A girl who knows what she is doing and what she wants, especially be in control.

Smart, modest, mature, honest, level-headed

Kind Caring Confident

Confident, inquisitive, considerate

Kind, Caring, Confident, Ambitious, Driven, Intelligent

Cute, kind, funny, happy

independent, funny, smart

Confidence. Sense of humor. Knows what they want.

Confidence, pursuing attitude (as in "takes what she wants" where in a best case scenario that is me), intelligence, honesty, openness

Intelligent, humorous, kind, accepting, kinky

Confident driven

Caring, patient, understanding, sarcastic, confident, somewhat intimidating, intelligent.

Confidence, dominant, analytical, tough

I honestly just want someone who cares about me since that seems to be scarce for me and my reclusive personality

Emotionally understanding, playful teasing, cuddly

able to attune to my emotions and see the quesitons behind the words

I'd like someone who is able top take the lead in pushing the boundaries of a relationship and just generally would makeme feel appreciated. It be nice to communicate well instead of trying to interpret signals.

In general, I like someone who is comforting. I find the ability to take the lead in situations to be attractive and comforting. Being good at communication and understanding me is also comforting. Being respectful, humorous, and kind are also nice traits.

Bold, firm, fearless, direct

Confident, energetic, playful, cracks dumb jokes, caring, a bit aggressive, direct, emotional, intelligent

Confident Smart Funny appreciates subtle Humor quirky Able to take the lead (in every sense) caring respect for each other

Beauty, intelligence, kindness, Christian, funny, strong to name a few

Intelligent, emotionally receptive, active and adventurous, a good listener

Caring, trustworthy, funny, kind, smart

Dominant, willing to take charge, confident/outgoing, flatterer(bit odd I know)

Caring, curious, altruistic, passionate, idiosyncratic, likes thinking about technical subjects.

Funny, Kind, Determined, Thoughtful, Driven, Ambitious,

caring, mature, protective, loving,

Someone who will let me finally know what it feels like to be loved by someone who's nurturing and supportive in a way that makes you feel wanted.

Assertive, spontaneous, can whisk me away with her charm / intellect.

Knows what she wants and tells me, doesn't take my shit, teases me

I'd love a women who's gentle and sweet just with me, but rude and cold with others.

Introvert, enjoys listening to music, open to suggestions, has her own point of views and challenges mine

Not an asshole

Clingy/close/likes attention, caring, firm but loving, willing to take charge in the bedroom, sense of humour, intelligent, kind.

Dominant

A little mean, but loving, and rough, and when she wants sex she takes it, even if at the time i dont feel like it

Dominating

Kind, Loving, Dominant

Accepting, honest, and able to deal with me being a dork all the time.

Oh boy, this is hard. Tenderly assertive. Thoughtful. Self-assured. Intellectual. Outdoorsy. Touchy-feely. Warm.

I would love a partner who’s strong and takes charge... it’s a bit embarrassing to admit but one who would grope me in random places. And not like grab my crotch at the dinner table, I mean when we’re in line she runs her hands up my hips and grabs my ass and chest... or when I’m doing the dishes she’s grabbing me. But yeah, someone like that... who shows affection by “dominating” me in normal situations.

Sarcastic, witty, sexually aggressive, smart, likes cuddling

I'd like her to be very out spoken.

Dominant but also sweet. Someone who isn't afraid to tie me up and gag me for hours and then want's to cuddle. Also someone who is confident in who they are and what they want.

Very dominant in bed and supportive throughout the relationship

Calm, intelligent and kind

Assertive, headstrong, dominant, hardworking, open to experiences, funny

Kind and sweet, even in the bedroom

Accepting of my sedentary lifestyle. Isn't afraid to make the first move and will initiate a lot of the time. Would be nice to have someone to play videogames and watch anime with too.

Kind and independent

Caring Motherly Kind Funny Flirtatious Forward Confident Enthusiastic

Domineering, perhaps even a little cruel at times. But still an average person, someone I can just relax with and trust. Someone who accepts me and who I can in turn accept.

Kind, caring, dominant, sexually aggressive, loyal and probably more that i can't think of right now.

Kind,gentle,reasonable

Caring, supportive, strong personality, good morals, trustworthy.

Assertive and demanding in the bedroom, confident in dress, professional, yet flirty and fun.

Patient Compassionate Thoughtful Non-judgmental Determined Loving Polite Witty Fun

Nice Caring Confident Dominant (but not too much) Protective (a little bit) supportive

Responsible, caring and a straigth forward person of few but appropriate words

Dominant and witty.

Open-minded, wholesome, witty, nerdy, geeky, dorky, awkward, sociable, talkative, understanding, intelligent, creative. This all sounds perfect but I hope she has flaws too.

Confident, Spunky, Independent, Punk, Caring, Open to New Things

Outgoing, assertive, dominant

Optimistic, Caring, Confident, Brave, Loving

Smart, Kind, Will call me out when needed, someone I can talk to, is keen for random events and adventures

Loyal, caring, dominant

Confidence, loyalty, generosity, kindness

Caring

Kind Mature Playful Wise Loving Assertive Controlling Curious Intelligent Slightly physically sadistic

>actually loves me >isn't 2d

Caring, gentle (of course), motherly. Teasing, but not all the time. Playful, generally happy.

Curious, level headed, patient

I’d have to say confident. Someone that’d be fairly aggressive in the bedroom. Tell me the flaws of my character. Last thing would be the ability to push through hardships

1. Confident 2. Passionate 3. Take-charge 4. Fun-loving 5. Intelligent

Smart, kind, strong, loving, loyal, cool, confident, helpful

Protective, bubbly, calming, thoughtful, sweet, smart, confident

Funny, honest, smart, easy to talk to, hard working (sorry if list is too vague)

Confident, Assertive, Leadership qualities, Dominant, Nurturing, Self-assured, Sexually aggressive, Bold, Intelligent, Educated, Ambitious, Successful, Charismatic, Energetic, Sensitive, Romantic, Affectionate, Strong-willed

Nice

Assertive, caring, "bad girl",

Kind and gentle

Caring

intelligence, empathy, affection, assertiveness

Hard to describe, I think everyone is unique so what might attract me in one person would turn me off another. But someone having the confidence to be themselves is always good and beautiful.

playful confident caring/gentle

Confident, Driven, Adventurous

I just want her to make me feel important and beautiful and valued and in return ill do the same for her. I want her to make me feel safe. Also ideally she'd have similar nerdy interests. ...and not a picky eater, dear god

Kind, introverted

Grounded, humble, knows-themself, gets shit done when needed (which could be being assertive), cooperative, can step up to being a leader when required. Someone you'd want to work with.

Supportive and caring.

Takes initiative. Speaks their mind.

Playful, kind, stern at times.

Cool, humorous, loyal, protective, confident, brash, smart, hardworking

She has to know what she wants, open minded and calm, I would tell more but my english isn't good enough for these things

Strong, assertive, kind, brave

Loving, caring, wanting to share life together. Like to do things in a cute and loving caring way.

Independent

I prefer someone who is brutally honest but still kind, someone who is outgoing, emotionally grounded, very quirky but in a balanced way, not too pepy but not too tom boy-ish, someone who is very much in touch with their sexuality but not someone who will constantly want to partake in sexual activity, someone who is very loyal, someone who will put a lot of energy and devotion towards our relationship.

Soft, caring, motherly, gentle, helpful, nerdy, will spoil me, will play miniature games she spoils me with expansions for.

Outspoken, outgoing, someone who can motivate me to be the best person that i can be.

Funny, confident, independent, faithful, supportive,

Fun optimistic  Teasing witty Forceful

Assertive, playful, altruistic

I'd like someone who is confident in everything they do but still rely on me for some things. Someone who is blunt and playful. Someone who is dominant

Someone who's as smart or smarter than me; someone who can psychologically dominate me; someone who knows how to leverage my weaknesses; an affectionate caretaker, who wants the best in life for me; someone who's a little obsessive/protective over me; someone who makes me feel what she wants me to feel, empowered in my times of need, yet controlled in her time of desire.

decisive, controlling, dominiant

Loving, understanding, rational, kind, determined

Humorous, assertive, honest, gentle, spiritual, religious

Possessive, appreciative, caring

Affectionate and sometimes assertive

Feminine, cute, playful, girlish in public. Is a total man in the bedroom: dominant, aggressive, initiates sex, takes her pleasure. Nurturing and caring in other relationship aspects. Makes me feel confident and supports me to succeed.

Loud and Proud. Someone really funny and not afraid to speak her mind. Open to new things

Sweet, Slightly dominant, enjoys games, a bit silly, but it depends on who they are.

Confident, aggressive, cheeky/playful, caring, smart, funny

caring, protective, common interest, makes me feel safe.

Loving, caring, motherly, kind, very nurturing

A smart and funny friend you can talk for hours with An assertive but thoughtful personality

A natural leader

Confident, funny, dominant, cheeky

Highly intelligent and driven but still able to mess around.

confident, stable and crazy, independent (for her own good :P). Likes to grab hair ;)

Really taller than me, Strong and muscular like a bodybuilder. Very leading and always in charge. Handsy, like quick to grope me and feel me up. Smoking isn’t a deal breaker but I would prefer if they didn’t. Wants to initiate sex very often and uses a strap on or they could have gotten surgery to get an actual penis. Wants to fuck me it as many places as they can imagine. I like force; having my wrist grabbed, being choked and spanked. I want to feel protected but I also want to someone that would kno all my buttons to push to make me blush and can have soft touch like when caressing me. I like ownership and symbolic ownership like hickeys and collars. Tattoos are really sexy too I would love for them to have a full sleeve. They need to be a good person above all else though. They can’t be racist, homophobic,islamaphobic or problematic at all.

Caring, protective, romantic, assertive (but not necessarily strict), good sense of humour.

Confident, knows what she wants, caring

Tough, confident, smart, sly, cool, terrifying, competent, pragmatic

Intelligent, independent and content people. Those who enjoy expressing themselves, learning and growing with another. One that enjoys and thrives off emotion but can also layback and smoke a joint.

Very kind, smart, funny.

Dominant smart funny

assertive but gentle

Nerdy and "bossy" that likes to take control of situations, but still leaves an 'out' that I can take if I ever feel uncomfortable. Including outside of the bedroom.

Confident, warm, nurturing, funny, kind, bright, open minded

Kind, Chill I don't know man

Kind, gentle, like r/gentlefemdom, curious, wants to try things, go places, etc. An energy at times, but still happy to stay in and relax

I'll love for her to be: dominant, sexually aggressive, protective, and loving.

interested in similar things as me, nice, caring, intelligent

Confident Protective Seductress Kinky Affectionate Bossy

Assertive, ambitious, confident

Caring, yet aggressive. Like a momma bear I guess? Also teasing/playful.

strong confident assertive caring patient attentive trustworthy reliable

Confidence, optimism, open-mindedness

someone who loves me despite my imperfections

Delicate , intelligent , confident

Nurturing, affectionate, motherly, comforting, supportive

outgoing, extroverted, cute, funny, confident

dominant, caring, nerdy/geeky, mildly sadistic

Energetic, confident, tomboyish, caring, driven

Sweet, cuddly, encouraging

Nice Caring stuff like that

Dominant, smart, protective, appreciative

Loving dominant

No lies, no cheating, no upholding of society's expectations

Kind, funny, loving, caring, similar interests, accepting

Someone who is confident enough to be the dominant partner.

Assertiveness, hard-working, loving, and dominant

Good Sense of humor Thoughtful Kind Good listener Adventurous Deep Affectionate Generous

Kind caring faithful honest open minded slightly possessive

Genuinely nice, trustworthy, considerate, friendly, playful, and is able to take the lead (ie. be the one taking initiative in a relationship)

Trustworthy, kind, understanding, chill

sense of humor strong willed emotionally stable domineering

Aggressive, dominant, caring, nice

Someone who would accept both sides of me and help me in moderating myself, to aid in sorting out my head while also having common interests so we both enjoy doing something together. someone who is open to thoughts, ideas, and experiences in the same way as I am so we can always do something new. Most importantly, someone who can finally get me out of my shy shell and have someone to talk to again and play.

Dominant, motherly, caring, sweet, super nerdy!, Kind, moral, funny, protective, cuddly.

Assertive, kind, reasonable (yet somewhat possessive and domineering in the bedroom)

dominant, open, honest, strong

Likes to negotiate, dominant and submissive in bed (switch), sensitive, romantic, confident when necessary, kind, nurturing, hard-working

Kind, introverted, intelligent

She should be caring and protective. Would love a motherly woman. Who would love you and show you the affection you want. And since this is "role reversal", I wouldn't mind her occasionally getting flowers, chocolates and other stuff for me. Lastly, I hope she is ambitious, has a certain goal in life that she wants to achieve and is focused on that.

Strong willed, gentle, charismatic.

Motherly, caring, kind, gentle, playful, and overall a thoughtful person.

Caring Funny Nurturing Knows what they want More dom then sub Aggressive

I like strong, self-assured, ambitious women. Confidence is sexy. Women who are unafraid of voicing their opinions and who are not scared or intimidated easily. A partner with intelligence and passion. I absolutely adore artistic or academic girls and I think that is one of the most attractive parts of my girlfriend's personality. I love listening to a girl talk passionately about something interesting that they know a lot about. This is most important to me. I can be attracted masculine or feminine, dominant or submissive girls (although I prefer more dominant I suppose) as long as I can learn something from them. I love women and femininity, perhaps to a naive degree. Motherly, nurturing ways of performing femininity are great in a partner.

Humor, empathic

Smart, confident, kind

Emotionally supportive, playfull occasionally, loyal, and loving.

honest, adventurous, charming, confident, helpful, cuddly

Motherly, kind, encouraging, a bit forceful, enjoys similar humor, etc.

Caring, fun to be around and somewhat dominant.

Confident, quirky, independent

Intelligent Sensitive Understanding Soft-spoken Decisive Cuddly

Geeky, sweet, kind, loving, smart, witty, funny, memey

A sense of self-confidence, self-determination and a willing to stand by my side as an equal rather than needing to be rescued 24/7. Someone who is just comfortable in her own skin, be she more fiery or calmer, tomboyish or traditionally feminine.

Funny Smart Kind Weird Dominating Sexually aggressive

Accepts my hobbies (likes them is better) Caring

Nurturing, emotionally stable and resilient, intelligent, charismatic, confident, and empathetic.

Dedicated attitude towards what she wants from others / in life. Motherly, protective behavior towards me, but still commanding.

The types can vary, but generally I like a more tomboyish sort of personality. Someone kind, caring, understanding and maybe even gentle at times, but tough. A bit of spunk to them is also quite attractive. Think Scarlet and Hinoka from Fire Emblem, or Naoto from persona.

Passionate about their personal intrests, drivem, fun-loving amd optimistic, assertive

Tall, dominant, soft voice, willing to put me in my place, patient (so very patient)

A degree of innocence, not necessarily naieve. Playful in a cunning/manipulative way.

I'd like a woman who is confident, assertive, geeky, intelligent, motherly, somewhat teasing, and can take a joke, even if it might be dark humor.

Accepting Loving Honest Funny

Independent, confident, kind

Strong, Funny, Smart, Nice, Tolerates Me, Weird, a real person.

Someone who is relaxed and tolerating, doesnt complain about insignificant things. Is generally a happy person

Someone who's gentle and kind, but honest.

More dominant, warm, empathetic, down to earth

ability to support a constructive dialogue prudence

There is no really personality traits that i like. But i have some favorites, they are kind of common. Reliable, sarcastic ( :D ), Helpful

Funny, thoughtful, playful.

sweet, caring... i dunno!

Smart, kind and very calm

Assertive, confident, smart

loves me touchy feely strong smart ambitious cheerful drama-free kind flexible resourceful

Loving and caring, almost motherly in nature. Someome who treats me like I'm her whole world, and will hold me and let me cry in her embrace if I'm ever sad or stressed.

Nerdy

Smart, maybe even a bit cynical but caring. Idealist/realist. Nerdy, driven, individual.

strong, loving, affectionate, leader, outspoken

Protective, caring, dark humored, and someone who will hold me asleep

Assertive, gentle and kind.

Uhhhh breathing. I like punk/emo kinda girls

Dominant, masculine, loving, smarter than me, and confident

Outgoing, Extraverted, bubbly,

caring, clingy, similar interests, possessive, protective.

Modest. Intelligent. Driven. Funny. Romantic. Caring. Tomboy.

Fun, smart, assertive, loving

Take charge attitude, caring, smart

Lots of self-control. Sense of stoicism. Quiet, perceptive, understanding. Self-confidence to engender trust

Confident without being a jerk, protective without being controlling, comforting without being pushy, ambitious without being a snob

Confident, expressive, enthusiastic, playful, leading, argumentative, conscientious, strong, knows what she wants in life and knows how to get it.

Assertive Motherly Outgoing in a guidance kind of way

Funny, optimistic, healthy, neat, cool, into bdsm

Intelligence, wicked sense of humour, curiosity

Tenderly aggressive. Sweetly domineering. Kind, principled, and independent. Outdoorsy and nature-loving.

Kind, girlish, cute, strong, passionate, overprotective, Yamato Nadeshiko, "action girl", lovely, careful

I mainly only care if they are not too over weight, but it is not necessary.

Motherly

Kindness of course. Also confident and be able to take charge and sort of “lead the way” so to speak

Funny Teasing Gentle but sometimes cruel in the bedroom Strong and decisive Sweet and Caring

Observant, honest, confident, comfortable with self, very affectionate, not abusive, empathetic, thoughtful, assertive, kind and loving.

Intelligence, sense of humor, likes body contact, a little too controlling

Friendly, laughs at my bad puns, has somewhat similar hobbies, supportive, caring. For some reason I have a hard time imagining a situation where someone would care for me romantically as much as I care for them.

A strong female who loves to spoil and treat with the understanding that I do what I can for her.

Confident, protective

someone nice, smart and is open minded.

Confident, high libido, kink compatibility, kindness

Assertive, not aggressive/abusive. Prone to "boyish-like" mischievous physicality (like, needing to make me aware of their presence and appreciation via touch, be it tight snuggles, a nibble on the neck or cheek, caressing my hair, random grabbing, roughousing, nose-booping or lying still on top of me just for the warmth and playful dominance). Leaning more extroverted than me. Initiative when it comes to sexuality (i have a troubled internalization regarding sexuality, abuse and womanhood that it's hard to shake off). Kinda protective. Interests in carpentry and cosplay are a plus too. Non-alcoholic, nor smoker of any kind.

Creative, smart, witty, dependable, aggressive, communicative, manipulative

A bit sadistic, but loving

Fierce high femmes who terrify me but make me laugh, enjoy my dark humor, have an impeccable sense of style, and can function on their own.

Respectful, understanding, aggressive, confident, funny, mature, responsible, well-kept

Kind, patient, creative, even-tempered, compassionate, affectionate,

Competitive and smart, with a high sex drive, who’s not afraid to occasionally take control

Serious, proactive, cat lover, spiritual, health-conscious, confident.

assertive flirtatious domineering loyal

smart,assertive,sarcastic,competitive

Confident, assertive, emotionally stable.

Funny and confident

extroverted

Real

Confident

Caring

Cunning; confidence in their role; appreciation and understanding of the submissive in their role; Open, curious mind; Fondness of and good taste in art and aesthetics; matronising affection Guidance and manipulation more than scolding and regimen.

Strong, bullying but in a playful way, brave/protecting, spoiling yet demanding

dominant in the bedroom preferably with a fisting/pegging desire.

Funny, Independent, Intelligent, driven, stubborn and flirty.

Personality traits I would like in a partner would be: funny, intelligent, confident, dominant, loving, kind, romantic, protective, playful, nerdy, honest, loyal, thoughtful, talkative, and affectionate.

Definitely dom in the bedroom but in public appearance of a "normal" relationship a must.

Loving, caring, nurturing, positive, optimistic, determined

Understanding, caring, enthusiastic, honest

Calmness, elegance, leadership, sexual sadism

Ambitious, aggressive, caring

Reliant, trustworthy

Nurturing but not patronizing Calm demeanor Says/does what’s on her mind Touchy Protective

Assertive, intelligent, willing to participate in banter, open minded, playful

Inquisitive, outgoing, extroverted, ambitious, loyal, optimistic, confident, honest, pragmatic, affectionate, even-tempered, goes with the flow.

Dominant, generous, protective, indulgent, unafraid, lazy

I'd like someone who is caring, a bit "maternal" perhaps. I'd also like her to be smart, funny and laid-back. Someone willing to take risks.

Ambitious, open to new things, accepting, happy to sit down and have a conversation.

Assertive, supportive, not an sjw, motherly,

Slightly more masculine than average and comfortable in a more masculine role

Assertive, direct, loud, stubborn,

Stoic, skeptical of emotion. A very strong drive to persue her own interests independantly. Doesn't feel guilty expecting and feeling entitled to things she wants from her husband. Willing to take a backseat when it comes to domestic life. Maybe a little misandristic.

Confident, kind, smart, playful, realistic

Empathy, kindness, cares about the well being of others. Finds me attractive, finds aspects of my personality to appreciate. Confidence, strength, happiness with what they've set out to do and have done. Good sense of humor, fun to have conversations with. Nurturing and dominant in bed. Has some common interests with me.

Confident, intelligent, caring, interested in gaming, history or politics

Knows what she wants and upfront about what she wants, courageous,trustworthy, sense of humour,honest, direct, chivalrous, protective, curious, openminded

confidence, playful, intelligent, funny, bossy, kind

Childfree (has no kids, don't ever want kids, always willing to get an abortion in case birth control fails). Is willing to wait until a monogamous (both romantic and sexual) relationship is established before sex occurs. [I am not comfortable having sex with strangers or platonic friends.] Dominant in bedroom (but no whips and chains, just reversed vanilla roles). Cannot be a switch. Not too keen on marriage [I'm aware of the legal benefits of marriage but still lean towards not marrying due to the history and connotations marriage entails & the possible financial messiness of a divorce.]

Fit, funny, a good friend

Confident, dominant, protective, loving, kind, assertive

I honestly have no idea

Teasy, dominant, nerdy, compassionate, honest

Nerdy, gamer, pervert, kinky, aggressive (in and out of bed), caring, loving, possessive

Serious relationship, so responsible, loyal, kind. Smart, someone that I can talk a lot with, about many different topics. Open to try new things, and is willing to commit to make things work out.

Competitive, indoor person, protective, gamer

Strong-willed, competent, independent, feminist, caring

masculine, strong personality, physically stronger than me, bold, alpha, confidence,

Sweet, fun, artistic, caring,

Most importantly i would like is that she is the leader. She has the dominant role of where to take the relationship. And she has a strong will.

I'd like a confident and assertive woman, who doesn't shy away from challenges on her way to achieving her goals

Emotional competence, pragmatism, compassionate, open-minded, curious, noncompetitive, irreverent, anti-authoritarian, nonreligious, disdainful of anyone who cares deeply about the state of anyone else's lawn

Funny, Intelligent, Nerdy

Someone strong, willful, aggressive, playful, ambitious, with a raunchy sense of humor. A "one of the guys" type of woman, but still capable of being emotional and caring.

Assertive, gentle, confident

Assertive, reasonable, and loyal. I want someone who will not make me feel emasculated outside of the bedroom or flirt with other men.

caring

Smart, interesting, keeps up a conversation, enjoys similar things but I’m very open to try new things,

Open, caring and trusting

A little over bearing, motherly and supportive

Strong, determined, kinky

Loyal, curious

A strong, leading personality, boarder line motherly. Kind but still firm in how she speaks to me. I would love for her to have an aura of maturity to her

Assertive, knows what she wants, reassuring, patient, kind, honest, trustworthy, knows when to call me out on my bullshit, wants to grow with me as a person, dedicated, intelligent, cuddly, slightly kinky, curious about the world, out-doorsy, can be social and willing to drag me to events but also really loves staying in playing boardgames / videogames or watching a show / movie, so many things!

extroverted, thinking, generally a tomboy

Confidence Leadership Understanding Loving Playful Toughness Supportive

Too long to list.

Kind, affectionate, passionate, dominant, a little sadistic, arrogant, a little possessive

Tender, affectionate, assertive, vulnerable, passionate, sexually aggressive, curious, nerdy, nurturing, protective, a little possessive, wise, supportive, willing to confront and struggle against her weaknesses, very sincere.

Open, smart, relaxed, caring, curious

Assertive; Self-confident; Empathetic; Intelligent; Creative; Open to new experiences; Knows her limits; Respects others boundaries; Self-Awareness; Witty Humor (I am a sucker for cheesy puns); Enjoys philosophical discussion

confident, caring, intelligent, able to make fun of things, light hearted.

Protective, playful, compassionate, enthusiastic, helpful, loyal, encouraging, takes the initiative when I'm too shy to

personally im a "soft butch" lesbian and social wise take up more of a masculine role. But with partners i find femdoms super sexy and i love being doted on, as in resting my head in their lap, cuddling in more submissive roles, etc. overall im a bit of a minority in RR since theres no crossdressing really involved (me wearing masculine clothing is just my personality), but im all for a more feminine partner who dominates me in relationship roles, whether that be in a sexual or a romantic sense.
(Please note this last response was from a lesbian; I chose to group it with the men's responses about what they prefer in women for the sake of convenience.)