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  1. [2014-10-21, 12:20:07 AM] King Awkward Pocket: it's alright.
  2. [2014-10-21, 12:20:15 AM] King Awkward Pocket: It's not like I wasn't paying attention to any of it
  3. [2014-10-21, 12:20:18 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: haha no I know
  4. [2014-10-21, 12:20:49 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: but its like… I dunno man. At first it was cute, but it just really sounds like she isn’t ready to separate herself from him
  5. [2014-10-21, 12:20:58 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I'm just really lonely, and she DOES know how to make me feel like I matter.
  6. [2014-10-21, 12:21:00 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and thats not a good situation to be in as the new boyfriend
  7. [2014-10-21, 12:22:02 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I stand by what I said man.
  8. [2014-10-21, 12:22:28 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I hope shit works out for you but if she doesn’t push him out of the picture I do not see your relationship being healthy or functional
  9. [2014-10-21, 12:22:32 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: ESPECIALLY as long distance.
  10. [2014-10-21, 12:25:43 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: you haven’t spoken to her about this yet right?
  11. [2014-10-21, 12:26:16 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I've told her how I feel about the situation kind of
  12. [2014-10-21, 12:26:46 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and how did she react?
  13. [2014-10-21, 12:26:59 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: this is important.
  14. [2014-10-21, 12:27:07 AM] King Awkward Pocket: she pretty much agreed with me as weird as that sounds.
  15. [2014-10-21, 12:27:27 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: but she hasn’t done anything to alleviate the situation about him?
  16. [2014-10-21, 12:28:14 AM] King Awkward Pocket: well, she talks to me whenever she damn well pleases now instead of just not communicating with me while he's about
  17. [2014-10-21, 12:28:27 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: but he’s still about.
  18. [2014-10-21, 12:28:32 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: thats more of what i mean
  19. [2014-10-21, 12:28:45 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: you have expressed that it makes you uncomfortable/unhappy/not a good emotion
  20. [2014-10-21, 12:28:57 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and she “agrees” with you, but hasn’t actually done much to push him out
  21. [2014-10-21, 12:29:04 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I want you to seriously think about that okay? thats not a good thing
  22. [2014-10-21, 12:29:36 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: When the person you love says something makes them unhappy, you do the utfuckingmost to fix it
  23. [2014-10-21, 12:29:53 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: ~~twinsies~~ or not
  24. [2014-10-21, 12:30:17 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and like, again, I feel bad for being so blunt but i’m in a rough place right now too
  25. [2014-10-21, 12:30:33 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: Because I don’t want you to spend a lot of time having her lie to you
  26. [2014-10-21, 12:30:37 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: or making excuses and thinking its you
  27. [2014-10-21, 12:30:38 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: when its her
  28. [2014-10-21, 12:31:06 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: And then you’ll try to fix yourself
  29. [2014-10-21, 12:31:15 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: when you don’t need to because its her that needs to fix shit man
  30. [2014-10-21, 12:31:33 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: like, I just learned this with Aren. Aren would make excuse upon excuse to make things MY problem so he didn’t have to deal with his
  31. [2014-10-21, 12:31:44 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and thats part of his depression and i get that
  32. [2014-10-21, 12:32:01 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: but its a shitty way to be in a relationship. I mean it paid off, he said I make him actually wanna fix his shit so thats good
  33. [2014-10-21, 12:32:18 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: but its SO SHITTY to have that done to you when you aren’t the problem
  34. [2014-10-21, 12:32:43 AM] King Awkward Pocket: Yeah.
  35. [2014-10-21, 12:33:20 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: what do you want out of your relationship with Heather?
  36. [2014-10-21, 12:33:37 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I know you haven’t really been together long, but what do you want out of it. Where do you see yourselves goign
  37. [2014-10-21, 12:34:21 AM] King Awkward Pocket: Just companionship, for the most part, even though that's probably not a good enough answer.
  38. [2014-10-21, 12:34:31 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: No, given the timeframe, thats fine.
  39. [2014-10-21, 12:34:50 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: maybe you’ll want more in the future right?
  40. [2014-10-21, 12:35:03 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: But there is a force that is honestly driving a wedge in that.
  41. [2014-10-21, 12:35:33 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: You need to talk to her seriously about this. And if she isn’t ready or willing to cut him more than she has ( which tbh doesn’t seem like a lot but I don’t know the whole situation there)
  42. [2014-10-21, 12:35:42 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: then you do NOT have someone who is deserving of what you feel for them
  43. [2014-10-21, 12:35:50 AM] King Awkward Pocket: possibly, I mean, we click better than at least I have with anyone, which isn't saying much given my experience but still.
  44. [2014-10-21, 12:36:21 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: you deserve love and respect Jacob. You do.
  45. [2014-10-21, 12:36:56 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I am worried she isn’t going to deliver it in the capacity you deserve because she can’t let go of someone who is bad for her and bad for the collective you
  46. [2014-10-21, 12:37:34 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: so please. Don’t wait to sit her down and tell her. be honest and frank with her.
  47. [2014-10-21, 12:37:55 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: if she reacts poorly or doesn’t seem sure, I hate to say it but you need to get yourself out of that situation until she is ready
  48. [2014-10-21, 12:39:18 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and i don’t expect you to be okay with that either
  49. [2014-10-21, 12:39:31 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: its tough. its tough to know you want someone but that you have to let them go to grow.
  50. [2014-10-21, 12:40:34 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and if heather isn’t willing to let justin go then to me, she isn’t willing to grow.
  51. [2014-10-21, 12:40:35 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: okay?
  52. [2014-10-21, 12:40:43 AM] King Awkward Pocket: okay.
  53. [2014-10-21, 12:41:33 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I'll just talk to her face to face I guess since I'm pretty sure she passed out for tonight and I'm gonna be racing around tomorrow to get to the airport.
  54. [2014-10-21, 12:41:41 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: Thats a good idea.
  55. [2014-10-21, 12:41:52 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: Emotions get lost behind text, I learned that with Aren too.
  56. [2014-10-21, 12:42:00 AM] King Awkward Pocket: All I can do right now is hope that my intuition didn't fail me.
  57. [2014-10-21, 12:42:11 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: Of course, having dated online for a significant portion of time, i’m really bad at dealing with my feelings in person
  58. [2014-10-21, 12:42:31 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I hope you can talk to her and I hope she understands
  59. [2014-10-21, 12:42:58 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: and i hope you understand i haven’t said anything to just be mean or because i’m not happy for you, but because I have always felt that this was going to be an issue and its not one you should have to deal with
  60. [2014-10-21, 12:44:18 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I know, I knew what I was getting into and went anyways.
  61. [2014-10-21, 12:45:31 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: yeah. thats kinda worrisome haha
  62. [2014-10-21, 12:45:41 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: but, just think about what i said okay? and let me know how it goes.
  63. [2014-10-21, 12:45:59 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: i’m gunna curl up and be sad for a few hours before finally falling asleep
  64. [2014-10-21, 12:46:28 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I have NOT been in a good mental state myself this year but something felt right for once and I'm kind of hoping it wasn't just a big dumb fluke I guess.
  65. [2014-10-21, 12:46:41 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: I get that.
  66. [2014-10-21, 12:46:55 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: something good comes along and you take the chance and you’ll do anything to keep it
  67. [2014-10-21, 12:47:04 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: i hear you 100000% on this one
  68. [2014-10-21, 12:47:15 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I have to say I appreciate her being around for my eviction issues which I won't even get into, and then my dad dying next week and I thought I was going to fucking lose it.
  69. [2014-10-21, 12:47:31 AM] King Awkward Pocket: and honestly if we didn't happen to be a thing I would have had no one to talk to for countless hours and stuff.
  70. [2014-10-21, 12:47:41 AM] King Awkward Pocket: and would have been left with my thoughts pretty much
  71. [2014-10-21, 12:47:49 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: man you’ve got people to reach out to bruh
  72. [2014-10-21, 12:47:55 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: we rib you but we all care.
  73. [2014-10-21, 12:48:11 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: “we” here means me and christopher, mostly.
  74. [2014-10-21, 12:48:35 AM] King Awkward Pocket: yeah I talked to Chris a lot about the shit that was going on when I got kicked out x.x
  75. [2014-10-21, 12:48:37 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: i know i’m kinda slippery to get ahold of,especially when i have a boyfriend haha
  76. [2014-10-21, 12:48:54 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I'm good now though
  77. [2014-10-21, 12:48:58 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: i’m glad.
  78. [2014-10-21, 12:49:05 AM] King Awkward Pocket: moved in with my sister and it's actually better here than at my apartment
  79. [2014-10-21, 12:49:20 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I get respected and I don't feel bad because I don't feel like cleaning up after my mom
  80. [2014-10-21, 12:49:35 AM] King Awkward Pocket: pretty much just get a few chores and take care of my own stuff.
  81. [2014-10-21, 12:49:39 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: nice
  82. [2014-10-21, 12:49:59 AM] King Awkward Pocket: and a bed that's not a 50 dollar twin is nice too I guess
  83. [2014-10-21, 12:50:08 AM] King Awkward Pocket: but that's my own fault for buying electronics when I had extra money
  84. [2014-10-21, 12:50:12 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: ahahaha
  85. [2014-10-21, 12:50:19 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: yeaahhh.. I know that feeling
  86. [2014-10-21, 12:50:24 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: anyway, i really do wanna lay down
  87. [2014-10-21, 12:50:27 AM] King Awkward Pocket: okay
  88. [2014-10-21, 12:50:29 AM] King Awkward Pocket: I should pack
  89. [2014-10-21, 12:50:29 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: i had to go be a people today
  90. [2014-10-21, 12:50:32 AM] King Awkward Pocket: even if something dumb happens
  91. [2014-10-21, 12:50:39 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: so i’m pretty exhaused
  92. [2014-10-21, 12:50:45 AM] King Awkward Pocket: being in a suite alone will at least be nice since I'll be in orlando land
  93. [2014-10-21, 12:50:55 AM] King Awkward Pocket: AND THAT'S THE WORST CASE SCENARIO
  94. [2014-10-21, 12:50:56 AM] King Awkward Pocket: OF COURSE
  95. [2014-10-21, 12:50:58 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: ahhah of course.
  96. [2014-10-21, 12:51:10 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: who’s picking you up from the airport?
  97. [2014-10-21, 12:51:14 AM] King Awkward Pocket: Heather
  98. [2014-10-21, 12:51:16 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: okie
  99. [2014-10-21, 12:51:28 AM] King Awkward Pocket: yeah we got a suite and a bunch of plans for the week
  100. [2014-10-21, 12:51:59 AM] King Awkward Pocket: anyways thanks
  101. [2014-10-21, 12:52:02 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: well i hope everything works out for you then
  102. [2014-10-21, 12:52:03 AM] Assistant Manager K1tty: no problem man.
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