advise-to-priscilla-18feb2017

Hi Priscilla,

Most people respond to extra attention by thinking about the person who gives them the attention more often.
This happens because people are always curious to find out why do others care about them. Usually people try to find the answer to that question in order to reassure themselves that they are worthy.
Now i am sure that it happened that you showered someone with attention only to find him pulling back!!

The question now is, why do some people respond to this extra attention by becoming attached to the provider of this attention and why do others pull away and even become annoyed when the same thing happens!

You need to know this priscilla. This knowledge will greatly help you, now and n the future :)

People become obsessed with attention when it comes from the right person. In other words, you need to impress a person first before you start giving him attention else he might find your extra attention annoying!

The best thing you can do is to work on increasing your perceived worth before you pursue someone. The more you impress the person by your good traits the more likely will he think about you more often when you give him attention

You're probably wondering why I'm telling you all this :)
Well, this bit is basic knowledge is required for you to understand the 'Underlying Stragegy' used by him, SUBCONCIOUSLY.

By initially showering the target with attention and waiting till he/she gets addicted to it before pulling back will simply force the target to come back for more, after all, it's the addiction that's driving him/her. You see, initially he showered you with attention, then gave you a reason that's just enough twisted to keep you think about him, and invariably end up giving him the priviledge to occupy your thoughts. It's a known fact that, the more you think about someone, the more you tend to care for them. Now, he withdrew, thus forcing you to be in the "Confused State" that you are in, right now.

All these moves are being played by him SUBCONCIOUSLY, which means that he's not conciously aware of him making these moves.

Basically, now he expects you to chase him, give him back just enough attention to make him believe that the time and effort that he spent on you isin't  a total waste.

You're a smart gal, I'm sure that you'll make the best out of this knowledge and make a smart move.

I had trouble texting you all of this on whatsapp because of the stupid stupid network problem. That's why I've put it up here, also, I've been quite busy for most of the day. I hope you don't mind.

If You encounter and confision, Please feel free to approach me. You'll ALWAYS be welcome :)