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  1. Why LDRs are meaningless and stupid.
  2. I've had literally only one LDR in my lifetime. I have found out how stupid a LDR can be and how annoying they can be. They are a waste of time and mean little to nothing.
  3. Why I Find Them Stupid:
  4. -You aren't physically with the person
  5. -You can't do things that you can do in an IRL relationship
  6. -You piss the other one off, higher chance of a breakup
  7. -Easy to cheat (Even in a LDR I wouldn't cheat)
  8. -They are boring
  9. -The "love isn't real"
  10. -No kissing, cuddling, l33t s3x, nothing, unless you fly out to the other one.
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  12. Why They Can Be Good:
  13. -Good for training(?) idek
  14. -You can learn what not to say
  15. -You can feel some kind of love/commitment I guess.
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  17. FYI this turns into a flame as well, you have been warned xD.
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  19. Why I Am Telling You This: (ponder this shiz y0)
  20. I was in one LDR with a girl, if you get this from my skype a few of you know who that girl is. To the girl- Seriously don't take offence to this and if you bitch to me I'm seriously going to not hold back on you because you've done enough bad shit to me already.
  21. To the story.
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  23. I met her on Xbawx, we was on BO2 y0. I was modding with my mod menu and I ran into her a lot. I eventually befriended one of her annoying friends, and from then on the girl and I were friends. blah blah blah useless stuff about our friendship. My friend of 4 years met her, and they both started dating. They lasted for like a week or whatever. Then she got into an IRL relationship with a druggy. She got dumped. Fast forward in time, she tells me she likes me, I ask her out. Second or third day of dating, she tells me she loves me. lol wut? You love me when it's a LDR and you've known me for like 4 weeks lol. Whatever, I went along with it, I didn't want to lose her, she had (notice how I said HAD), a great personality and was a great person to talk to. I tell her I loved her when I didn't, stupid decision it seems. So, she decides to tell her best friend about us (I highly suggest you don't tell IRL friends about an LDR). She told me when we first started dating not to tell her best friend about us, and I didn't. But now she is telling her about us. So she tells her, and my ex's bestfriend ignores her for days on end. Causes me to get dumped. We get in argument, she said she never loved me, etc. Skip ahead to a week or two after that. Her and I are talking and she goes "Michael, I love you... I want you back.." lolk, thought you didn't love me. Before that she whined to me about how she felt like she cheated on me when she kissed a guy and when she was dirty talking some other faggot. I assured her I didn't care at all, but she was stubborn about it lol. Whatever, we get back together. Bad decision, sure we lasted like 3 or 4 weeks, but it was completely different. We didn't talk like we used too, she didn't have the same personality. It sucked. Never and I mean never get back together with a girl in a LDR. Even a boy for that matter, things WILL BE DIFFERENT NO MATTER WHAT THE OTHER PERSON SAYS. She was more snappy at me, and it took everything in my power to not lose control like I would if a guy was annoying the fuck out of me and being snappy. Skip ahead a few weeks, she keeps telling me to call her but I can't, I'm at a haunted house I told her. I tell her when I get home that I'm back. No response. I message her the next day (Saturday), telling her good morning like I always do. No response and I know she was up. I send her 2 skype messages. Removes me from skype. I Kik her. She reads it but doesn't respond. I'm thinking "Is she seriously fucking ignoring me? What a bitch." I message her one last time. No response. I sleep, feeling like shit knowing I'm getting ignored. Next day. I'm ignored all day, and I have my bestfriend message her to see what the fuck her problem is. Turns out I'm getting ignored because of "Stress her parents are putting on her, and I'm making things worse" lolk. She finally messages me saying that she's sorry for ignoring me, because her parents are stressing her out so much and that she isn't talking to anyone. She goes "it's best if you and I don't talk to each other anymore, or at least until things settle down". Fuck. You. Bitch. That is one of the reasons you don't go into an LDR. It's easy to ignore you and get rid of you, unlike IRL. Plus you can't properly comfort the other person as well if you were with them IRL. The next day. She tells me about some faggot from Ireland that she "loved" and they haven't talked for 2 years because she lied about her age. Lol I really don't give a shit about that guy or what you say about him and you "loving him" for that matter. If you love him so much go date him you lil faggot. Oh wait, you said you were scared to talk to him because your last memory is you lying to him, you're a dumbass.
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  27. This turned into a flame about her but you get the point. Avoid LDR's. They are not worth your time.
  28. tl;dr: Don't go into LDR's. They are worthless and barely mean anything. Easy to cheat. If one of you actually flies out to see the other, that's fucking commitment and you have a good thing. If you aren't willing to fly out to see the person, don't bother getting into a relationship through a computer screen.
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  30. --Fuzed--
  31. Skype: fuzedgaming because y0l0 m8 r8 8/8
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