private void cascadeDelete(MyRow<Value> o){
		ArrayList<ReferenceValue> rv = new ArrayList<ReferenceValue>();
		for(Value v: o){
			if(v instanceof ReferenceValue){
				rv.add((ReferenceValue) v);
			}
		}
		values.remove(o);


		for(ReferenceValue value : rv){
			Table table = backReference.backReference.table(value.table());
			MyRow referencedRow = (MyRow) table.row(value.keys());
			cascadeDelete(referencedRow);
		}
	}

	@Override
	public boolean remove(Object o) {
		cascadeDelete((MyRow<Value>) o);

		return true;
	}

	@Override
	public E remove(int index) {
		E value = (E) values.get(index);
		cascadeDelete((MyRow<Value>) value);
		return value;

	}