Q: What's the link to the dating site?
A: http://obsessivedating.com/

Q: Why should I join?
A: To talk to people with similar interests and keep dating posts out of the thread.

Q: But it shows where people live on their profile. Why do I have to give away where I live?
A: You don't have to. Though the site does ask for your zip code when you sign up, a lot of people prefer to type "11111" to hide where they live.

Q: But I have to show people what I look like, right?
A: You don't have to upload an avatar, either. Most people either leave their avatars blank or upload something that isn't them, like a picture of an anime girl.

Q: But I still have to share personal information, right?
A: No, you don't. A lot of people choose to keep their profiles as blank as possible and use internet aliases, rather than their real names. You can, too.

Q: But what if people in real life find my profile?
A: Considering you don't have to list any personal information whatsoever, this seems highly unlikely, unless you flat-out gave it to them yourself or listed personally identifying information (such as your full name) on your profile.

Q: I joined the dating site. Now what?
A: Try getting to know people. Don't expect people to message you first.

Q: I talked to a girl and she didn't respond. Should I send them rude or threatening messages?
A: Absolutely not. If you do, expect to be IP banned from the site.

What follows is a quote from a female user. This is included so that you can see what some - if not most - of them go through on the dating site.

I think I should delete my account... Every single time I come here people are always talking about me complaining about how Im never on and I never reply. ITS NOT MY FAULT MY INTERNET IS SO SHIT! I can't help that I'm hardly ever on and every time I do I have 30 new messages from people.
That's the other thing. In FLOODED with message after message from all of you. It's just so hard to keep up with the constant stream of messaging.
The smart thing to do is just ignore messages from people that i don't like right? Yeah, I would do that EXCEPT EVERYONE STARTS BITCHING ABOUT HOW I IGNORE YOU AND HOW IM SUCH A HUGE WHORE!
I keep getting abussive messages telling me I'm a slut and that I have to treat each of you like special snowflakes just because I didn't have the time to responsed to your message or because my internet drops out for days sometimes. I was in here yesterday and I saw guys talking about me calling me a typical woman whore. Do you know how many people messages me? I just checked earlier. 147 guys! 147 guys have messaged me and you know what? I've been messaging EACH AND EVERY SINGLE ONE OF YOU BACK. But I'm only one girl that had hardly any time on the Internet. How would you feel if you were forced to message hundreds of faggots for hours just so people don't say anything bad about you so the one guy you like doesn't think that you're just some whore.
Now normally this wouldn't be such a problem but some of you, and I mean most of you, are SOOOOOOOOOOOO bad at having a conversation. I mean holy shit I thought I was bad but God damn some of you idiots don't know how to talk to girls for shit. If I have so many messages tell me why I have to talk with your boron ass? Because of shit like the stupid dating site list thing I HAVE to keep up a conversation with all of you retards and when I give unenthusiastic replies you bitch to me about how I'm such a bitch. IM TIRED FROM ALL THE OTHER IDIOTS YOU FUCK!
It's really sad because there are a few guys on there that seem really cool and of like to get to know them better. But no! Thanks to you abussive idiots I can't!
I just wanted to find a guy, any guy, that wouldn't mind me being so obsessive. Is that too much to ask?
You're all autistic and I fucking hate all of you

Try not to contribute to that kind of negativity. Keep in mind that the 5 message limit on the right hand side of the screen could mean that she just never saw your message, but would've replied to it if she had seen it. If you think that might be the case, consider sending only ONE more message, in which you POLITELY ask if she didn't see your message, due to the limited site layout. If she still doesn't reply, then just move on and look for someone new to talk to.