'You're boring. You're a pussy. Drop some balls.'
Those up here are few of the comments i hear and receive when telling people that i dont drink/smoke/ever tried drugs.
Is it such an amazing and cool and entertaining thing to use alcohol and hang around ,stoned and wasted as fuck?
Are people really boring when they preffer to drink something else ,like..water/soda/orange juice/what ever?


Just a little clarification: I used to drink (little amounts per..few months? xD)
and decided to just..stop it. didnt had such a great effects (read:Unable to sleep, mentally numb,and more stuff,never been drunk tho but still. )
When people offered me something to drink and i'd rejected it and preffered something like soda, their reactions would be like: 'Haha,you're just joking' or 'Dont be stupid,just take one glass of [Add alcoholic drink in here] ' or 'Did you lost your manhood?'
It just doesnt make sense :/


It feels like,
people are..only able to have fun and make fun after filling themselves with Bacardi/vodka/beer/whateverthefuckyouwanttoaddhere.. and expect you to do it aswel because apparently Everyone drinks and if you aint a drinker,You're unable to have and make fun and enjoy the evening/night.

Is it weird if you aint using alcohol?
Not at all! its a personal prefference, and it isnt a reason for others to start bitching about it..

Compare it with beeing a vegetarian/veganist.
Not wanting to eat meat/natural products is also someones decision.
Does it make them weakand weird for saying no to hamburgers,steak, salmon,chicken?
No! Its someones prefference. (And,Imo,a very respectable prefference! :) )

Exactly the same thing is going on with 'Going out'.
What if you Dont like to? Would you force yourself to stand in some sort of club between dancing drunks/stoners and get bored as fuck?
What if you preffer to stay at home and hang out with friends over there,
or like..draw or be creative during nighttimes?
Who would give a damn about it!
Its what someone loves to do and enjoys..
One of the many things you'd probally hear is.. 'This person doesnt haz a social life cause he/she never go's out and never gets to meet other people :') '
Its absolutely stereotype and single minded bullshit.

Its someones prefference,
its something someone loves and likes to do
Its something you personally enjoy.
Dont go hating on what someone else does and doesnt,
Calling someone weak because he/she never visits a club or never uses alcohol or weed..
now Thats what i would call weak. ;)

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Like it if you'd agree,haters gnna hate!