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friend posted:

 Okay, today was a really bad day.
I quit volleyball after an incidence yesterday and I'm dying.
So, a girl was going around school telling everyone I wanted to be called my birth name and she again and I got mad and called her the B word and then I had to practice with her at VB practice and ugh.

The coach ended up forcing us to talk and in conclusion the coach said I need to stop flip-flopping my gender and that she wouldn't play me my last day on the team. I ended up crying and stuff.

Then the next day (today) I went to my teams game, and my coach asked why I was even there. I started crying even more and I'm starting to wonder why I'm anywhere.

Friends, help me ;-;

i posted:

kian, don't listen to anyone there. they didn't understand what was going on in the first place and the girl was already very unliked. she took it way too far and didn't understand that it was only for you to be comfortable in volleyball. i remember when they couldn't fucking let you play because you were trans. i have doubt that i might stay in tennis if i come out as genderfluid to everybody, but yours is a much worse case.

i defend you in every way. your coach had no right to call you out on that and even ask why you were there. she could as well have asked me why i was there if i was there because it would have been the same thing: just to watch the game. i'm glad you don't have to hang out with those assholes anymore. they didn't deserve you anyway.

another thing that bugs me is "flip-flopping your gender." that's literally what genderfluids do 99% of the time: switch between genders they're comfortable with. as a genderfluid myself, that offends me and they have no right to do that. if they don't know what to call you, how about just a simple "they?" this is intolerable behavior towards you and myself and this cannot happen again.

and remember: it's not school-punishable if it's not on school grounds. n.n