robogrill v. thrusty, round #4080

<Thrusthamster> Bgumbel, no, I just said stolen valor, is free speech. But that's just until someone makes a law saying it's illegal or course
<Avocadokadabra> thanks robo
<robogirl> np
<Bgumbel> thats what i mean about you burning a bridge with him
<Thrusthamster> I didnt get into it with him, it's not like it's a passion of mine to make sure people can go around saying that
<Bgumbel> well it is a passion of yours to get into internet arguments with people
<godsbae> lel
<Avocadokadabra> Amen
<robogirl> Thrusthamster: honest question, can you tell the difference between a good natured argument, and when you are crossing the line into upsetting folks?
<godsbae> lel
<robogirl> I feel like, you don't seem to understand, when it's courtesy to back down Thrusthamster .
<Bgumbel> robogirl, did you ever listen to bob and tom?
<robogirl> Honestly, do you not understand, or are you really just going for the asshole jugular?
<Bgumbel> they had this skit called "Mr. Obvious"
<robogirl> Bgumbel: no
<robogirl> Bgumbel: I really have no idea, which is why I'm asking. IRC has no tone of voice, so people project their tone.
<Bgumbel> oh gotcha
<robogirl> But chances are it's incorrect.
<robogirl> Thrusthamster:
<robogirl> pls respond
<godsbae> very badgers esque in their search for thruths
<robogirl> did you just compare me to badgers godsbae ?
<godsbae> no
<Bgumbel> i had to unfollow her on instagram recently
<Thrusthamster> robogirl, yeah, you said I treated you like shit the other day, and I have no idea what you were talking about. I just discuss because it's fun, there aren't any feeling involved for me. Usually I can see when there are feelings involved for others, like jizzy and the stolen valor thing
<godsbae> just that thrust and badgers responded similarly to their bans in powerlifting and weakpots
<robogirl> Thrusthamster: you really need to learn, when a good natured argument is no longer good natured.
<Thrusthamster> Sometimes people get their feelings hurt and I dont even realize it until they give me the cold shoulder
<Bgumbel> why the fuck can't ghormeasabzi pick a damned name i can remember how to spell?
<robogirl> You don't seem to want to take responsibility for upsetting other people.
<robogirl> it's not "them getting their feelings hurt"
<robogirl> you are inflicting damage sometimes
<robogirl> and you are rarely apologetic about it.
<Thrusthamster> Of course, another difference is that I'm not conflict-averse like many others are. So when someone does get riled up it doesnt mean I will stop because I see that they are
<redpanda_> Avocadokadabra I'm part of the lollipop guild
<robogirl> Thrusthamster: so basically you will argue your point at all costs?
<robogirl> including the respect and compassion for others?
<Thrusthamster> lol
<Avocadokadabra> redpanda_: Does that mean I should kill a hydrophobic woman somewhere?
<Thrusthamster> please
<robogirl> this is my point
<robogirl> you seem to lack this sense
<Thrusthamster> "I'm just an unfeeling robot bleep bloop"
<robogirl> no, I don't think so. But you certainly can come across that way
<Thrusthamster> That's really condescending
<redpanda_> Avocadokadabra hydrophobic?
<Thrusthamster> Seriously
<Avocadokadabra> redpanda_: afraid of water
<robogirl> Well, here is a case in point. You are offended at my questions
<robogirl> So should I keep hammering you
<robogirl> or stop?
<Bgumbel> its not an altogether ridiculous question though
<redpanda_> Avocadokadabra I understand but what does that have to do with the lollipop guild
<Ferboten> no keep going
<Bgumbel> understanding tone in online interactions is a learned thing
<robogirl> maybe I should hammer you until you rage quit
<robogirl> or de-mod
<Bgumbel> lol
<robogirl> or otherwise stop coming to irc
<Thrusthamster_> I don't care. But I dont know what I ever did to you
<Avocadokadabra> redpanda_: I thought I was being clever with a wicked witch of the west joke, sorry
<robogirl> Thrusthamster_: It was an honest question. And you are offended.
<robogirl> So I am going to do the courteous thing and allow the subject to be changed.
<Mekka> mjpopcorn.webm
<Bgumbel> can we change the topic to my lunch i just ate
<Thrusthamster_> You know the answer or are pretending to be stupid. That's what offends me
<Avocadokadabra> I tried low bar squatting for the first time today
<Thrusthamster_> Or you're actually stupid, which offends me still
<godsbae> Thrusthamster_ its neither, shes trying to make a point
<godsbae> theres no need to lash out like this
<redpanda_> Avocadokadabra oh I got it noa. I'm slow you'll have to excuse me
<robogirl> godsbae: it's okay. He made my point for me.
<robogirl> He will argue at all costs
<robogirl> let it go now
<Avocadokadabra> redpanda_: No problem. But why are you lollipop guild?
<Bgumbel> robogirl, you got mejier there?
<redpanda_> cuz I'm a manlets
<redpanda_> Jesus
<Avocadokadabra> Oh, of course
<robogirl> Bgumbel: yes, given it's headquartered in Grand Rapids, mi
<Avocadokadabra> My turn to be slow
<Thrusthamster_> I just dont get it. I treat you nicely, I've never said anything bad about you, and still you respond by saying shit like this robogirl
<Thrusthamster_> Give me one example of me saying anything bad about you like you are doing to me now
<robogirl> Thrusthamster_: I really was asking an honest question. I wasn't trying to offend you. But you have been very rude to me.
<Thrusthamster_> When?
<robogirl> You just called me stupid.
<robogirl> like 20 lines ago
<robogirl> and that's not the first time.
<Thrusthamster_> Of course, now that you're calling me all this shit
<Ferboten> mom and dad are fighting again
<godsbae> more mom and stepbrother
<robogirl> Thrusthamster_: I'm sorry if I offended you. I really was thinking maybe you don't understand when you upset people and I was trying to help.
<Avocadokadabra> Should I go hide in the basement again?
<Thrusthamster_> Why should I treat you nicely when you've been treating me like shit for months despite me ignoring it and trying to be nice
<robogirl> I won't bring it up again.
<Thrusthamster_> Sure
<queerass1> i was supposed to eat a pizza today
<queerass1> but i think i ate too much lunch
<godsbae> this is an opportunity
<queerass1> i'm still going to eat the pizza, of course
<queerass1> it will just be less enjoyable because i'll feel like a fatty
<Bgumbel> hey queerass1 i've been meaning to ask you
<Bgumbel> have you looked into buying a whole bison?
<Avocadokadabra> queerass1: My cutting self doesn't really like you right now
<Avocadokadabra> wait that sounds wrong
<godsbae> i think that both of you have very strong opinions about stuff
<queerass1> my cutting self doesn't like me either
<godsbae> and robo feels that her strong opinions are not always respected.
<godsbae> thrust you may not feel like your opinions are respected either
<queerass1> Bgumbel: not really, because i mostly buy local cows and i don't know any bison herders local
<queerass1> but i would not be averse
<Bgumbel> dude i was looking into it last night
<Bgumbel> its fucking crazy expensive
<Bgumbel> 4K shipped for like 350 lbs of meat
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<godsbae> robo is just trying to ask if you were willing to hurt friends for your strong opinions
<queerass1> yeah, i imagine
<queerass1> i should raise a bison
<godsbae> when you reply taht its just someone else's problem, it makes it sound like you are willing to
<Bgumbel> thats sort of what i was thinking queerass1
<queerass1> i wonder how ornery they are though
<Bgumbel> you ever seen the movie "Buffalo Rider" ?
<queerass1> no
<godsbae> so i dont think that robo is trying to be patronizing or upsetting, i think she was just reacting from frustration about the matter
<Bgumbel> look it up youtube, its just barely worth watching once
<Bgumbel> a guy rides around on a bison
<Bgumbel> thats the movie
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<queerass1> there's a rifftrax of it
<Thrusthamster_> godsbae She's saying "I dont think you know what others are feeling", which is just plain idiotic. Knowing what others are feeling is not the same as wanting to avoid having them feel that
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<SnaKiZeMobile> 1st sq attempt went smooth
<godsbae> Thrusthamster:  yes it is
<Thrusthamster_> No?
<SnaKiZeMobile> 430 :)
<SnaKiZeMobile> 2nd attempt 463!
<Bgumbel> git
<Bgumbel> it
<Bgumbel> SnaKiZeMobile,
<godsbae> i know what it means to feel bad, and because i know that, i dont want others to feel that way
<Thrusthamster_> SnaKiZeMobile That's the best case scenario attempt, right?
<Avocadokadabra> dewit snakize
<queerass1> but sometimes feeling bad is necessary to growth godsbae
<godsbae> absolutely
<queerass1> legdae.txt
<godsbae> lmfao
<Thrusthamster_> godsbae Aka being conflict-averse
<godsbae> no i am pretty good at conflict
<godsbae> but i also pick my battles
<Thrusthamster_> Not everyone is afraid of conflicts
<SnaKiZeMobile> Thrust
<SnaKiZeMobile> That's 2a
<godsbae> some people are even conflict prone
<SnaKiZeMobile> 2b was 468
<Bgumbel> i am not going to argue at work about whether or not ford is gay or not
<SnaKiZeMobile> 470 is an all time pr
<Bgumbel> but i will drop the hammer if i hear any more about apple cider curing cancer
<queerass1> Bgumbel: how is that an argument?
<godsbae> and when your conflict prone, its easy to view everyone else as conflict averse
<robogirl> Thrusthamster_: you just called me idiotic. I don't know how you can say you have been nice to me.
<queerass1> though it's not as gay as dodge ram
<queerass1> the symbol is literally ovaries and a uterus
<Bgumbel> actually queerass1 i think a used dodge dakota is a great pick up truck
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<Thrusthamster_> robogirl Yes, because I dont care about being nice to you anymore when this is what I get
<Bgumbel> they cost nothing, and will usually run to 150k miles
<queerass1> really?
<godsbae> Thrusthamster:  robo is treating you pretty nice
<Bgumbel> yeah
<robogirl> godsbae: there is no point.
<Bgumbel> you get a v6, full length bed, all for less than 3k$
<Thrusthamster_> No, she's been making little snide comments and calling me and asshole for months
<Bgumbel> if you're just a guy thats plenty of truck
<godsbae> well theres two ways to view that
<godsbae> 1 is that youre not an asshole and shes just trying to bring you down
<Thrusthamster_> She called me an asshole in November, back when I was treating her well. Now she still does it 5 months later
<godsbae> or 2 is that you have some habits that hurt peoples feelings, and she's giving you the information to change it
<robogirl> 'treating me well'
<queerass1> that's kind of a weird truck size
<Thrusthamster_> Yeah, fuck off robogirl
<godsbae> a lot of people wouldnt tell you, and just cut you off thrust
<robogirl> oh wow
<godsbae> hey you need to be respectful here Thrusthamster_
<robogirl> I guess driving dan out wasnt enough for your Thrusthamster_
<Bgumbel> god damnit just as i run out of beer
<godsbae> yeah see thats the alternative
<queerass1> Bgumbel: you should get some founders breakfast stout
<Thrusthamster_> godsbae why should I be respectful when I only get shit on in return. Just like with Dan
<godsbae> Thrusthamster_:  youre not as respectful as you think
<godsbae> i promise that you arent
<godsbae> and number two when you're respectful you dont get shit on
<Thrusthamster_> Of course not now, because I have no reason to be. You earn respect
<godsbae> the world isnt out to get you. the world is just reacting
<godsbae> no you give respect
<godsbae> thats just being decent
<godsbae> it costs you nothing
<godsbae> and gives you so much in return
<robogirl> Thrusthamster_: maybe you should try earning some respect then.
<robogirl> or maybe you'd like to yell about how you're a racist all over the sub again?
<robogirl> and call me and balloo names over it.
<Ferboten> good ol' racist thrusty
<Thrusthamster_> So that was it? That was the turning point?
<queerass1> nah, now he just does that all over r/the_donald to that stuff
<robogirl> Thrusthamster_: you were highly disrespectful and you are not even remotely apologetic about it. I made one comment about you weak shaming and you were rude to me for days about it.
<robogirl> and everytime I tried to ask you about it, you were an asshole
<robogirl> Don't even say you were nice
<robogirl> You would rather win your arguement than be kind
<Mekka> Thrusty died for our sins.
<Thrusthamster> robogirl, I was nice before that, and tried to be after to not have it be a big thing
<Thrusthamster> Apparently you still hold a grudge
<robogirl> even just now, I was genuinely asking you if this is just how you think, and you couldn't hear me.
<Thrusthamster> I'm not going to get into that whole thing again
<queerass1> i tried to trim my mustache hairs over my lip yesterday
<robogirl> You were too busy getting offended and calling me stupid and idiotic
<Thrusthamster> robogirl, because the question itself is preposterous
<queerass1> it was a horrendous mistake
<robogirl> is it?
<Thrusthamster> Yes
<queerass1> like any kind of beard trimming
<queerass1> when will i learn?
<robogirl> I think it was on point given the result of the conversation.
<Ferboten> http://i.imgur.com/XRsnujt.gifv
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<queerass1> .w tulsa, ok
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<queerass1> tarps off boys
<Ferboten> .w
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<Thrusthamster> See, people who treat me bad, call me racist and saying I dont have feeling or dont understand feeling, I dont care how they feel
<Thrusthamster> Like you can shit on me, and then turn around and whine about your feelings because I dont respond well?
<Thrusthamster> Do you understand your own question?
<Avocadokadabra> queerass1: Now you gotta show us
<Bgumbel> Avocadokadabra, you don't want that evil
<robogirl> I'm not the one upset in this conversation thrusty.
<robogirl> you are
<robogirl> I really don't give a shit.
<Bgumbel> rule 1 of weakpots, only one person actually looks good shirtless
<Bgumbel> and that's AJCoastie
<SnaKiZeMobile> Fuck my life
<SnaKiZeMobile> 1/3 on squats
<robogirl> I was trying to help and you got upset
<SnaKiZeMobile> I think it was a meet PR
<godsbae> thrusty the only point of this conversation is to understand that we all make mistakes
<Thrusthamster> robogirl, alright then, why didnt we stop talking 10 minutes ago
<SnaKiZeMobile> Or tied my meet pr
<redpanda_> SnaKiZeMobile u make weight?
<robogirl> Thrusthamster: cause you asked me questions and I answered them.
<SnaKiZeMobile> Panda no
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<SnaKiZeMobile> .8kg over
<redpanda_> SnaKiZeMobile sorry man
<redpanda_> that's rough
<Thrusthamster> robogirl, alright, well we can stop talking now
<godsbae> but when you think that all mistakes are only made by others
<Avocadokadabra> bgumbel: I came here to feel better, and now I'm curious
<robogirl> no problem
<redpanda_> Avocadokadabra what's ur snap
<Thrusthamster> godsbae, jfc man
<godsbae> it tends to make people upset
<redpanda_> I'll make u feel better
<Thrusthamster> Can you please stop playing psychologist
<Avocadokadabra> olivier.comeau
<redpanda_> SnaKiZeMobile was the cut rough?
<godsbae> i could
<godsbae> would you like me to?
<Thrusthamster> Then do that
<Avocadokadabra> redpanda_: You're opening a pandora's box asking him that
<queerass1> wait, dots in snaps?
<godsbae> you want me to drop it?
<SnaKiZeMobile> Yeah it was part da
<SnaKiZeMobile> Panda*
<SnaKiZeMobile> First time my nose started bleeding tho
<godsbae> but what if i feel that i'm right
<Thrusthamster> You dont need to explain things to me like I'm in elementary school. I know all the things you are saying already. The issue lies in what I do with that information godsbae
<Avocadokadabra> yeah
<godsbae> yes thrusty
<godsbae> pls choose love
<godsbae> choose love every time