When a Woman is the Violator

Am a man,who was a victim of violence and abuse by my wife!! Who do I tell this to?? Where do I complain against her abuse?? In a society where you are taken for granted,a man is alway the perpetrator, even if his wife or girl Freind beats the shit out of him, she can still get away with few tears when police arrived, why? Cause it's a sick,feminised society. Don't get me wrong my dear lady, am just highlighting how single track minded we are. If a woman beats the shit out of her child and kills him,she walks free. If she scratch,bite and injure her man, she walks free. If she breaks the whole house and destroy everything earned by the man, she walks free.????!
And as I am a man,trying to lodge a complaint in police about that woman,the police offices(Lady)she looks at me and smiles,then frowns as if I came to the wrong place with the wrong complaint. She asks me as if I agitated my wife? But dose it suffice her abuse?? She asks if I have affairs?? Looking at it as if it's OK to beat me n break my house for it. But what if the tables were turned???
What if I was the "Perpetrator"??
I would be locked up with cuffs and mugshots & to the extent my life would be destroyed, why?? Just cause am a man!!!!