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- Open Source Is Not A Warzone. Not Every Man Is A Dick.
- We are women of tech. We do Open Source. We are part of Open Source
- communities.
- We attend tech conferences, usergroups and hackathons along with our
- fellow male developers.
- And we like it.
- We feel the overwhelming majority of men we have to deal with being
- any variety of a sensible person - some are even nice guys we like.
- Yes, we encountered dicks in our lives. Yes, we have been assaulted in
- our lives, maybe in broad daylight, in public. Yes, we've been hit on
- tastelessly and repeatedly and we have been disgusted and annoyed and
- sometimes we have been near panic. Some of us have encountered
- violence. We've gotten grabbed our asses, gotten felt up our boobs,
- have been stared at, wolf whistles at us and had some drunken moron
- hang in front of us. Yes, some of us have hit the proverbial glass
- ceiling in our careers.
- This is (a bad) part of our lives and yes, we judge social gathering and
- human encounters by how comfortable we are and how safe we feel and by
- their level of open or veiled dickishness.
- But this is only ONE aspect of being a woman and we do not like to let
- this aspect dominate how we live and behave within the tech
- communities of our choice.
- We feel the recent tendency of developing "codes of conducts" and
- rules and regulations just for technology conferences and other
- tech-related gatherings goes far beyond our reality we have
- encountered so far.
- We do not support the generalization of spreading guilt onto an entire
- gender and we do not like to put each and every of our fellow
- community attendees under general suspicion.
- We also see a gathering of tech people as a professional event.
- Therefore we expect all people to behave along the lines of what
- Open Source communities regard as "professionalism". Recent events of
- tasteless presentations for example created an level of outrage which
- has been more than enough to make a point.
- We also like to keep the vocabulary appropriate: An "assault" is an
- act of violence, an agressive act to overpower a person. We do not
- feel being hit on tastelessly being an assault. A blunt stare into
- our cleavage is not an assault. Someone accidently touching us is not
- an assault. The typical french pseudo-kiss-hug is a cultural thing
- and not an assault. A hug might be a completely friendly act and not
- an assault - even if it might not be welcome.
- We also like to think logically and as women of tech, we might even
- argue with statistics: Considering we're about 1% - 20% (which already
- is a revolutionary high count of women) of any given community,
- encountering 2 dicks at a 500 people conference are AMAZING odds -
- nowhere else in our every day lives the odds are THAT good.
- Let's also argue with legal issues: How is any code of conduct
- actually help against assaults, rape or getting beaten up? All this is
- illegal ANYWAYS in most places of the world. There already IS
- a code of conduct in place - the law - as biased and weak it
- sometimes might be.
- And let's face it: No real dick will be put off by a code of conduct
- helplessly condemning all kinds of unwelcome behavior - that's why
- they're dicks - but a huge portion of men will keep to themselves
- ridden by guilt because they're the ones actually thinking sensibly and
- will ask themselves about their own dickishness.
- We prefer taste, professionalism and behavior being created by living
- a culture of taste, fun, substance and standards and not by writing a
- long list of forbidden unpleasant things. We prefer to stand up
- against dickish behavior when it happens.
- But we also see Open Source gatherings as a social event and we're
- going to actually say it in public: At a social event *gasp*
- sexuality, friendship, teasing or flirting might happen. This is part
- of humans living with each other. We consider the sexual liberation of
- the 70ies as progress which gave us women new liberties to live as we
- choose. We will not give up on that.
- We see ourselves in the tradition of empowering feminism, of
- emancipation by having learned to say No, by being able to defend
- ourselves and we do not want to be indirectly victimized by
- overarching acts of protection by condemning basically every social
- behavior between men and women.
- We are women of Perl and we're actually quite happy with our
- community.
- (You might be part of a completely different community and still agree
- - let me know. :)
- And so are others who shall remain unnamed.
- Yours, truly - Su-Shee (Susanne Schmidt), castaway (Jess Robinson),
- gshank (Gerda Shank), ether (Karen Etheridge), druthb (D Ruth
- Bavousett), auggy (Augustina Ragwitz), Lady Aleena
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