<asp:UpdatePanel runat="server" ID="FamilyFriendsUpdate">
                        <ContentTemplate>
                            <asp:ListView runat="server" ID="FamilyFriendsList">
                                <ItemTemplate>
                                    <asp:ValidationSummary runat="server" ID="EditFamilyEmailValidation" ValidationGroup='<%# Eval("email") & "-" & Eval("extra_id") %>' />
                                    <asp:PlaceHolder runat="server" ID="FamilyEmailInfo">
                                        <tr>
                                            <td width="100">
                                                <asp:Literal runat="server" ID="ExtraIdValue" Text='<%# Eval("extra_id")%>' Visible="false" />
                                                <asp:Literal runat="server" ID="TitleEmail" Text='<%# Eval("title")%>' />
                                                <asp:DropDownList runat="server" ID="TitleField" Visible="false" DataSource='<%# GetTitles() %>' DataTextField="title" DataValueField="id" />
                                            </td>
                                            <td width="180">
                                                <asp:Literal runat="server" ID="ForenameEmail" Text='<%# Eval("forename")%>' />
                                                <asp:TextBox runat="server" ID="ForenameField" Visible="false" />
                                            </td>
                                            <td width="180">
                                                <asp:Literal runat="server" ID="SurnameEmail" Text='<%# Eval("surname")%>' />
                                                <asp:TextBox runat="server" ID="SurnameField" Visible="false" />
                                            </td>
                                            <td width="180">
                                                <asp:Literal runat="server" ID="FamilyEmail" Text='<%# Eval("email")%>' />
                                                <asp:TextBox runat="server" ID="EmailField" Visible="false" />
                                            </td>
                                            <td width="85">
                                                <asp:LinkButton runat="server" ID="EditMember" CommandName="EditMember" Text="Edit" CssClass="button tiny" />
                                                <asp:LinkButton runat="server" ID="SubmitFamilyChanges" CommandArgument='<%# Eval("extra_id")%>' CommandName="SubmitFamilyChanges" CssClass="button green tiny" Text="Submit" Visible="false" />
                                            </td>
                                            <td width="85">
                                                <asp:LinkButton runat="server" ID="DeleteFamilyEmail" CommandArgument='<%# Eval("extra_id")%>' CommandName="DeleteFamilyEmail" CssClass="button tiny" Text="Delete" />
                                                <asp:LinkButton runat="server" ID="CancelFamilyChanges" CommandArgument='<%# Eval("extra_id")%>' CommandName="CancelFamilyChanges" CssClass="button tiny" Text="Cancel" Visible="false" />
                                            </td>
                                        </tr>
                                        <asp:Panel runat="server" ID="ConfirmDeletePnl" CssClass="del-Confirm-pnl" Visible="false">
                                            <div class="fix-bg"></div>
                                            <div class="confirm-del">
                                                <h2 class="delTextBox">Are you sure you want to delete this family member?</h2>
                                                <asp:LinkButton runat="server" ID="ConfirmDelete" CommandName="ConfirmDelete" CommandArgument='<%# Eval("extra_id")%>' CssClass="button green btn" Text="Confirm" />
                                                <asp:LinkButton runat="server" ID="CancelDelete"  CommandName="CancelDelete" CommandArgument='<%# Eval("extra_id")%>' CssClass="button btn right" Text="Cancel" />
                                            </div>
                                        </asp:Panel>
                                    </asp:PlaceHolder>
                                </ItemTemplate>
                                <ItemSeparatorTemplate>
                                </ItemSeparatorTemplate>
                            </asp:ListView>
                        </ContentTemplate>
                    </asp:UpdatePanel>

Protected Sub FamilyFriendsList_ItemCommand(sender As Object, e As ListViewCommandEventArgs) Handles FamilyFriendsList.ItemCommand
        Select Case e.CommandName
            Case "EditMember"
                EditMember(sender, e)
            Case "CancelFamilyChanges"
                CancelMember(sender, e)
            Case "SubmitFamilyChanges"
                SubmitMember(sender, e)
            Case "DeleteFamilyEmail"
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("ConfirmDeletePnl"), Panel).Visible = True
            Case "ConfirmDelete"
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("ConfirmDeletePnl"), Panel).Visible = False
                DeleteMember(sender, e)
            Case "CancelDelete"
                CancelDeleteMember(sender, e)
        End Select
    End Sub

Protected Sub EditMember(ByVal sender As Object, e As ListViewCommandEventArgs)


       'FOR EACH LISTVIEW ITEM
             'CALL CANCEL FUNCTION (sender, e)
       'NEXT


        Select Case CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleEmail"), Literal).Text
            Case ""
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleField"), DropDownList).SelectedValue = "0"
            Case "Mr"
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleField"), DropDownList).SelectedValue = "1"
            Case "Mrs"
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleField"), DropDownList).SelectedValue = "2"
            Case "Miss"
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleField"), DropDownList).SelectedValue = "3"
            Case "Dr"
                CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleField"), DropDownList).SelectedValue = "4"
        End Select

        CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleField"), DropDownList).Visible = True
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("ForenameField"), TextBox).Visible = True
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("SurnameField"), TextBox).Visible = True
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("EmailField"), TextBox).Visible = True
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("SubmitFamilyChanges"), LinkButton).Visible = True
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("CancelFamilyChanges"), LinkButton).Visible = True

        CType(e.Item.FindControl("ForenameField"), TextBox).Text = CType(e.Item.FindControl("ForenameEmail"), Literal).Text
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("SurnameField"), TextBox).Text = CType(e.Item.FindControl("SurnameEmail"), Literal).Text
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("EmailField"), TextBox).Text = CType(e.Item.FindControl("FamilyEmail"), Literal).Text

        CType(e.Item.FindControl("TitleEmail"), Literal).Visible = False
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("ForenameEmail"), Literal).Visible = False
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("SurnameEmail"), Literal).Visible = False
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("FamilyEmail"), Literal).Visible = False
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("EditMember"), LinkButton).Visible = False
        CType(e.Item.FindControl("DeleteFamilyEmail"), LinkButton).Visible = False

    End Sub