Q: What's the link to the dating site?
A: http://obsessivedating.com/

Q: Why should I join?
A: To talk to people with similar interests and keep dating posts out of the thread.

Q: But it shows where people live on their profile. Why do I have to give away where I live?
A: You don't have to. Though the site does ask for your zip code when you sign up, a lot of people prefer to type "11111" to hide where they live.

Q: But I have to show people what I look like, right?
A: You don't have to upload an avatar, either. Most people either leave their avatars blank or upload something that isn't them, like a picture of an anime girl.

Q: But I still have to share personal information, right?
A: No, you don't. A lot of people choose to keep their profiles as blank as possible and use internet aliases, rather than their real names. You can, too.

Q: But what if people in real life find my profile?
A: Considering you don't have to list any personal information whatsoever, this seems highly unlikely, unless you flat-out gave it to them yourself or listed personally identifying information (such as your full name) on your profile.

Q: I joined the dating site. Now what?
A: Try getting to know people. Don't expect people to message you first.


What follows is a judgmental list of people who MIGHT not reply to you. Keep in mind that YOUR MILEAGE MAY VARY, and please note that just because some people have been ignored by them doesn't mean that everyone will be. For all you know, those people could have been ignored due to sending creepy or threatening messages. Try to approach this list with an open mind and, whenever possible, consider all sides of a story.


Q: Should I even bother trying to talk to the following people?
A: Of course! They're human beings just like you and me. You never know, they might reply.

Q: Should I send them rude or threatening messages?
A: Absolutely not. If you do, expect to be IP banned from the site.


Girls who may or may not reply to greetings: (Remember, just because some people were ignored by them doesn't mean everyone will be.)

kitchfaf		Probably left the site for good, but even when she was active on it, she might have ignored greetings

kittychampion		Probably left the site for good, but even when she was active on it, she might have ignored greetings

meowza

sombercat



Girls who may or may not reply at first, then ignore subsequent messages: (Remember, just because some people were ignored by them doesn't mean everyone will be.)

arial

disappointmentsimulator

horrorqueen		Might have left the site for good, but even when she was active on it, she might have started ignoring messages

melguca

redhermitcrab

thelastofthehecks		Catfish

thewitchinpurple

yangirl



Mixed results: (Remember, just because some people were ignored by them doesn't mean everyone will be.)

fujidai		Might ignore all messages if you live far away. Has reportedly given someone who lived nearby 1 response, then ignored them afterward

opal

transientvalhalla	After reaching out to help her, she resorted to ad hominem attacks, then ignored all messages afterward. At the same time, she was refreshing the dating site repeatedly and clicking buttons on Skype, but later on, claimed to be AFK while she was doing this. She also claimed to be AFK while ignoring messages on skype, but replying on the dating site, which proves that she was there when she claimed she wasn't. This is Jody !lveRsaceVE in the /yg/s