forEach(request.body.contact,function(row,index){

               if(request.body.contact[index].tempid)
                {
                    var o=request.body.contact[index];
                    pair=Object.keys(o).map(function(a){ return [a, o[a]] });
                    AM.addcontact(pair,request.session.user,request.body.contact.length,function(e,o){
                        if(!o)
                        {
                             response.send('something went wrong'+e);

                        }
                        else
                        {  //response.send(o);
                           ardata+=o;
                        }

                    });


                }
                else
                {
                  response.send('please provide atleast cid or tempid for insertion or updation of contacts');
                }
response.send(ardata);

           });