mike@vmd3176:/etc/init.d$ sudo ps aux | grep -in mysqld
62:mike      1914  0.0  0.0   6552   640 pts/16   S+   22:52   0:00 grep --color=auto -in mysqld
mike@vmd3176:/etc/init.d$ ls -l /etc/mysql
total 16
drwxr-xr-x 2 root root 4096 Oct  7 22:21 conf.d
-rwxr-xr-x 1 root root 1220 Jul 24 03:46 debian-start
-rw------- 1 root root  333 Oct  7 22:21 debian.cnf
-rw-r--r-- 1 root root 3505 Oct  7 22:51 my.cnf
mike@vmd3176:/etc/init.d$