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  1. Here are some real ENTJ weaknesses that aren't just ENTJ ass-kissing, as provided to you by your dual ;)
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  3. - Lose track of their environment: Entjs can be clumsy, and especially forgetful. Often times they will end up sun burned at the beach, or lose their car keys... It almost seems as if they have a cloud of bad luck around them, but it is really because they are not quite paying attention to the details of whats going on... (Yes, intuitives, details are important, lol.)
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  5. - Avoidance of (emotional) conflict: Often times, ENTJs fear conflict because of not knowing what to say, or how to express it, especially if it is an emotional conflict with a loved one.
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  7. -Lives too much in the future: They can get paralyzed by future possibilities that likely won't happen, be they good or bad, ie, "This relationship will likely get better, so I'll just stay in it for the next five years," or, "I can't go out with that person because it will likely end in flames."
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  9. - Suppression of feelings: Although many ENTJs practically hail this as a strength, it is actually a weakness. Because, while it seems to them it makes them strong, in all actuality they are running away from their problems with others, and themselves. Unfortunately, repeated suppression leads them to be out of touch with themselves, and their humanity, which not only causes problems in their internal world, but also their interpersonal world. People begin to "feel for them," by interjecting or projecting their feelings onto them, and in addition, people begin to relate to them in a way where they subconsciously believe the Entj has no feelings, and therefore it does not matter how they are treated.
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  11. This is a problem, because despite what ENTJs would like to think, they are actually quite emotional people, and they know it, deep down. They might even be more emotional than their INTJ brethren. So, when people repeatedly treat them like shit, they learn to build barriers against other people and themselves. They learn to relate to the world as a "badass" or "strong person" because they have to in order to keep others at a safe distance. They don't know what people's true motives are. Because of this, they can be either the doormat, the asshole, or more often both at the same time.
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