tutor evaluation

[QUOTE=shnen]So, for round 59 I was tutored by user D4rr3n for BW LC and (unofficially) BW RU. I am sad to say that he has been an awful tutor, and perhaps the worst person I have ever met on Smogon so far. To be honest, I do not think he is fit to tutor. I will not follow the standard evaluation form as this is completely different to a normal evaluation, I hope you don't mind. Allow me to explain: even before he tutored me I had known him to have a terrible attitude; [URL="http://pokemon.aesoft.org/replay-D4RR3N-vs-Sinister-Vigil--2012-02-18"]he[/URL] [URL="http://pokemon.aesoft.org/replay-shnen-vs-D4RR3N--2012-02-19"]goes[/URL] [URL="http://pokemon.aesoft.org/replay-Thoomass-vs-D4RR3N--2012-01-22"]completely[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/UfqnDH8i"]bananas[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/QLPBe95D"]over[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/txHgaUyn"]hax[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/ykvvzNJC"]and[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/4pMeYme2"]spams[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/wv2cjSRU"]dumb[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/MT8XHBH4"]and[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/YaxRsE8Y"]inane[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/U3L0UCCT"]shit[/URL] [URL="http://pastebin.com/XR0yiKc5"]going as far as to use the fact that my father died recently as an insult[/URL]. I first "met" him on one quiet day on irc when he asked to build a NU team with me, and from then on we were "friends". However, I had always thought that he had a terrible attitude and found his silly ragings to be mildly amusing. I carried on being nice to him despite not liking him due to just not wanting to be an asshole. He told me that he was becoming a tutor, and asked if I wanted to be his first tutee so he wouldn't get some "clueless noob", and I agreed as I wanted to learn some more RU and LC after comatt6 tutored me in LC the round before. He quickly decided that I knew enough LC after I beat him so we moved onto RU quickly. For the first lesson, he decided to go through the threatlist and tell me what things do. I had done a bit of lurking in RU so I knew what most things did, and I sort of changed the exercise into me telling him what my knowledge of each mon is, which shouldn't be too bad as it lets him know where I am so far. However, he quickly blew his top and ended the session early because of how "annoying" I am and how much of a fucktard I am. Sadly, this was true for most of our sessions; he ended it by telling me how much tutoring sucked and how much he hated me. There was a particular incident where he accused me of trying to show him up which basically went something like this:
[CODE][15:01] shnen: hey, Ice Beam Crawdaunt sounds kinda cool to hit Tangrowth
[15:01] D4rr3n: yeah but what move would you drop for it?
[15:01] shnen: uhh
[15:02] shnen: you need Waterfall to hit loads of stuff and Superpower for Ferroseed so Crunch I guess
[15:02] D4rr3n: lol.
[15:02] D4rr3n: what you gonna hit Grass-types with then?
[15:03] shnen: Ice Beam…
[15:03] D4rr3n: fine then, go use your stupid set, see if I care
[15:03] D4rr3n: stupid fag trying to make me look dumb.
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I was not trying to call him out at all in this scenario, I was merely suggesting something and he could have just told me that it wasn't good and explained why to help me, as a tutor should do.

Later on, he decided that the fact that "I never contacted him and he was forced to contact me" made me a fag and that it was solely the tutee's responsibility to contact the tutor and he should never contact me. There may be truth to this statement, I did not contact him most of the time, however this is due to the fact that if I checked the user list and saw that he was online, I would /whois him, and most of the time it said that he had been idling for over an hour, which led to me (wrongfully apparently) assuming that he was afk. Eventually, when we had about a week left of tutoring he went completely berserk as he realized that we hadn't had too many lessons and decided that this was entirely my fault. Despite the fact that I did not believe that I was completely in the wrong and he had been an asshole to me,  I tried to be agreeable by asking him what he wanted me to do and apologizing repeatedly.[CODE][14:21] shnen: I'm sorry
[14:21] D4RR3N: look
[14:21] D4RR3N: it's not my fault k
[14:21] shnen: I'm not trying to blame you
[14:21] shnen: this is my fault
[14:21] shnen: and I'm sorry
[14:21] shnen: I can be an annoying fucktard
[14:21] shnen: that's just the way I am
[14:22] shnen: and I'm sorry about that
[14:22] shnen: how about we give this one last shot ok?
[14:22] shnen: and if you don't want to
[14:22] shnen: then I'll happily give up
[14:23] D4RR3N: and then i'll have to pay the responsibilities
[/CODE] However, this didn't strike a chord with him for whatever reason, him just sticking to his old "you didn't contact me so I can't tutor you well" argument, and not telling me what we should do now. Stuff led to stuff, and he ended up just insulting me and (again) telling me how much tutoring sucked (showing that he doesn't enjoy it) and how much he hates me, and declaring that we were done with tutoring:
[CODE][14:39] D4RR3N: all thanks to you faggot.
[14:39] D4RR3N: i hate you.
[14:39] D4RR3N: thanks for destroying my name.
[14:39] D4RR3N: thanks for making people say darren sucks at tutoring'
[14:39] D4RR3N: thanks for everything.
[14:39] D4RR3N: we're done.[/CODE]

After he constantly insulted me for a while, I just logged of IRC for about an hour as I forgot that I could just /ignore him and I'd had enough of him. I came back on later, and he was still there and that is where the pastebin I showed you earlier came from. He pm'd me again, and I thought perhaps he was going to be reasonable this time but no. He maintained that he deserved a good evaluation despite repeatedly insulting me: [CODE]
[15:29] D4RR3N: looks like i'm getting a shit ass evaluation
[15:29] D4RR3N: :p
[15:29] shnen: possibly
[15:30] D4RR3N: sigh it's your fault and you wanna fuck me up
[15:30] D4RR3N: sigh..
[15:30] shnen: to be fair you do deserve a shit evaluation
[15:30] D4RR3N: all i have to say is smh...
[15:30] D4RR3N: rofl
[15:30] D4RR3N: coolstorybro
[15:30] D4RR3N: you never put an effort in contacting me
[15:30] D4RR3N: and you blame it on me?
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I then pasted him the logs above with him insulting me and asked him if I was supposed to give him a good evaluation after that. To be completely honest, I still wasn't sure if I wanted to give a truthful bad evaluation in or just say nice things about him as it obviously meant a lot to him. He then told me that I hadn't apologized [CODE]
[15:31] D4RR3N: it's your fault in the first place
[15:31] D4RR3N: not only you didnt apologize
[15:31] D4RR3N: but you didnt admit it's your fault either
[15:31] D4RR3N: when it obviously is.[/CODE]
despite the fact that I had apologized earlier, and I pasted that log in to him. He then declared that the reason he was getting a bad evaluation was not cause he was a bad tutor, it was due to my own problems and my vendetta against him!
[CODE][15:31] D4RR3N: it's still your fault tho
[15:31] D4RR3N: sending me a shit ass evaluation
[15:31] D4RR3N: cuz of your own problem
[15:32] D4RR3N: i dont see the reason fag.
[15:32] D4RR3N: unless you're admitting the fact that you're a faggot
[15:32] shnen: are you seriously telling me you deserve a good evaluation from me
[15:32] D4RR3N: i dnot but
[15:32] D4RR3N: i dont deserve a shitty one either
[15:32] D4RR3N: and it was obviously your fault
[15:32] D4RR3N: for not contacting me
[15:32] D4RR3N: so you're sending a shit ass one
[15:32] D4RR3N: saying i suck
[15:32] D4RR3N: just cuz
[15:33] D4RR3N: you didnt bother contacting me
[15:33] D4RR3N: and
[15:33] D4RR3N: the fact that how annoying you are.
[15:33] D4RR3N: and it was always me contacting you.
[15:33] D4RR3N: to be exact.[/CODE]
At this point, I had had enough so I began telling him exactly why I didn't think he had tutored me very well: [CODE][15:33] shnen: everytime we had lessons
[15:33] shnen: you ended up telling me how much you hated me
[15:33] shnen: and teaching me nothing
[15:33] shnen: ok
[15:33] shnen: as a tutee
15:34] shnen: my resposibiltys are to contact you
[15:34] shnen: as a tutor
[15:34] shnen: your responsibilites
[15:34] shnen: are to teach me things
[15:34] shnen: to be helpful
[15:34] D4RR3N: and you never contacted me
[15:34] D4RR3N: so why should i be helpful?[15:34] shnen: to show me a good attitude
[15:34] shnen: to give me an example
[15:34] shnen: to get me into a tier
[15:34] D4RR3N: you annoyed me on purpose
[15:34] D4RR3N: how could i even tutor well
[15:34] shnen: you haven't done any of those things well
[15:34] shnen: why should I not give you a shit evalutation[/CODE]
He still fails to realise that I don't have a personal vendetta against him and am not out to get him and so am giving him a bad evaluation just because I want to "ruin his tutoring career":
[CODE]
[15:35] D4RR3N: it's your fault for not contacting me
[15:35] D4RR3N: NOW YOU'RE PUTTING ALL THE BLAME ON ME?
[15:35] D4RR3N: PUTTING ALL THE BLAME ON ME CUZ YOU'RE ANNOYING?
[15:35] D4RR3N: wow man
[15:35] D4RR3N: you're truly a faggot[/CODE]
Honestly, I think that along with the fact that I'm not the kind of guy who arranges things himself and instead waits for them to be arranged; and so didn't contact him, part of the reason was how bad he tutored me in the sessions that we did have and the fact that I didn't enjoy them or learn anything. However, apparently none of the sessions that we did have counted as I didn't contact him: [CODE]15:35] shnen: I didn't do my responsibilites
[15:35] shnen: neither did you
[15:35] D4RR3N: if you have done yours
[15:35] D4RR3N: i would've have done mine
[15:35] shnen: even when I did contact you
[15:35] D4RR3N: simple matter
[15:35] D4RR3N: you never contacted me
[15:35] D4RR3N: lemme repeast
[15:35] D4RR3N: *repeat
[15:35] shnen: ok
[15:35] shnen: even when
[15:36] D4RR3N: you NEVER contacted me.
[15:36] shnen: we did have sessions
[15:36] D4RR3N: i never considered any of those
[15:36] D4RR3N: as sessions
[15:36] D4RR3N: as you didnt contacted me.[/CODE]
At this point, I'm completely fed up with his idiocy and I tell him so: [CODE]
[15:36] shnen: you're a fucking idiot then[/CODE]

As you might expect, he didn't take too kindly too this and started flaming me: [CODE][15:36] D4RR3N: no
[15:36] D4RR3N: you're 13
[15:36] D4RR3N: shut up[/CODE] I find this particular bit ironic as he had just turned 15 and I'm about to turn 14 so there is effectively no difference. However, the next bit is where things really took a turn for the worse:
[CODE][15:36] D4RR3N: you're a guy whom father dies because of you[/CODE] So yeah, I had trusted him enough to tell him that my father died recently, my personal matters. Being that it is recent, it is still a touchy subject to me, and I was completely outraged at him bringing this up.
[CODE][15:36] shnen: what the total fuck
[15:37] shnen:  you fucking cunt
[15:37] D4RR3N: yeah and you're talking bout yourself[/CODE]
To be honest, I'm ashamed that he managed to get to me and got me to flip out, but I feel that it was justified as that was completely stupid, uncalled for, and a misabuse of trust.
[CODE][15:37] shnen: what the fuck
[15:37] D4RR3N: wow umad?
[15:37] shnen: yes I fucking am
[15:37] shnen: you don't say that[/CODE]
At this point, he decides to see how mad he can get me to be, and so continues to insult me:
[CODE][15:37] D4RR3N: your father died because of you
[15:37] shnen: fuck you
[15:37] D4RR3N: dont you feel bad?
[15:38] shnen: ok
[15:38] shnen: lemme tell you something
[15:38] D4RR3N: DoNt YoU FeEl BaD
[15:38] shnen: you're a fucking whining cunt
[15:38] D4RR3N: yeah tell me something
[15:38] shnen: always have been
[15:38] D4RR3N: the fact that
[15:38] D4RR3N: your father died
[15:38] D4RR3N: cuz of you
[15:38] D4RR3N: and you've never ever felt bad
[15:38] shnen: I agreed to let you tutor me
[15:38] D4RR3N: for making your father die
[15:39] shnen: because I wanted to learn
[15:39] shnen: not because I liked you
[15:39] D4RR3N: because of you.
[15:39] shnen: you don't even fucking know what happened[/CODE]
Yeah, I completely lost my cool but honestly, I cannot believe he could make such a dick move. He refers to my father dying, which yes, is true, but he has absolutely no clue how this happened and what happened and it is in no way his place to say this kind of thing to me. At this point, I had to leave to go to my friend's house, and so I left.

After that, we didn't talk to each other for a while. However, there was one time in which someone said that D4rr3n is dumb without realising that he was itc, and it soon developed into another argument, this time in public. However, I cannot find the logs for this.
So, to summarise, d4rr3n was an awful tutor and I do not feel that he is fit to tutor, I beg you to consider everything that I have stated here.[/QUOTE]