Deep Relationships. Notes on the article

Secrets to deep relationships:
    -> asking deep questions
	-> talking about deep relationships
	   with the person.
	-> going camping with the person.
	-> make the person a part of your
	   life  (this may not work, though think about
	           it, we live with a mom and dad for many
       many years, or we may not know anything deep
	   about them - might want to ask that person
	   a deep question to get things going)
	-> make up something deep about the
	   person and then ask "is this true?"
	   ("i heard you have a whole other
	     side to you that is very interesting
		 and i want to ask if this is true")
    -> avoid using pseudonyms, use your
	   proper first and last name and avoid
	   other kinds of lying. (although you might
	                          want to prepare a short
	   pseudonym that's just for deep relationships -
	   these special names are code for "i know you
	   deeper" and don't take pictures of yourself
	   with the person because pictures make the relation
	   ship not as deep - unless its a very old picture)
	-> touch the person on the arm just once and
	   no more
	-> promise to meet the person one hour from
	   now in the same spot (secret rendezvous technique,
	                         good for when you're pressed
	   for time and need a deep relationship.)
	-> joke and laugh - these seemingly light things
	   are surprisingly deep