Basically someone new to the smogon community was unhappy with the slurs thrown around, and then some members of the community, including an admin (Oglemi) attacked what they were saying (also for the mediocre grammar/spelling). Then, myself and leremyju wrote a couple of posts in their defense, and another rectified image of me and my girlfriend was used to try and get a rise out of me, and got more likes than the posts that I or leremy had written.
my deleted posts: https://imgur.com/a/7ZHwO
the hyperlinks in the last post link to these: http://www.smogon.com/forums/threads/in-memoriam.3538706/ http://pastebin.com/L7kgWyYg https://yourlogicalfallacyis.com/ad-hominem