[7:46:34 PM] Peter VW: So Gabie talked with me today and can I ask why you all of a sudden developed such an animosity for her? It doesn't make sense
[7:49:20 PM] Peter VW: I just want some clarity on all this and your understanding
[7:50:09 PM] Cody Smith: Ok let me put this into context for you
[7:50:22 PM] Cody Smith: I'm a 24 year old virgin with more close calls that I can count
[7:50:35 PM] Cody Smith: my life is pretty much great, minus one large gaping area
[7:50:41 PM] Cody Smith: I'm in Computer Science
[7:50:52 PM] Cody Smith: a highly profitable, highly respected career path
[7:51:04 PM] Cody Smith: I'm taking on 16 creidts
[7:51:13 PM] Cody Smith: did 15 last term and nearly got all A's
[7:51:15 PM] Cody Smith: IQ 130
[7:51:28 PM] Cody Smith: I'm one of the smartest people in the program
[7:51:36 PM] Cody Smith: sure that's going to sound ego-dick ish
[7:51:48 PM] Cody Smith: but there's a lot of truth behind that, ask Gabie if you doubt it
[7:51:58 PM] Cody Smith: there are about 10 girls in this program
[7:52:01 PM] Cody Smith: out of 200+ guys
[7:52:13 PM] Cody Smith: yeah shitty fact of life
[7:52:26 PM] Cody Smith: but it's not just me
[7:52:38 PM] Cody Smith: a lot of CS guys get royally fucked on datable relatable girls
[7:52:48 PM] Cody Smith: most of those girls are dating people outside the program too
[7:53:08 PM] Cody Smith: sure I came onto Gabie
[7:53:14 PM] Cody Smith: I didn't know you existed
[7:53:26 PM] Cody Smith: and it was crystal clear that Cecil was barking up the wrong tree
[7:54:00 PM] Peter VW: Let me know when you're done posting thoughts. I'm not gonna argue with you, I just want to talk about it cause you are cool dude. I just want to get all the facts
[7:54:11 PM] Cody Smith: sure
[7:54:43 PM] Cody Smith: I really don't owe you an explanation
[7:54:46 PM] Cody Smith: but
[7:54:56 PM] Cody Smith: whatever
[7:55:54 PM] Cody Smith: It took her up until three days ago to tell me about you guys
[7:56:03 PM] Cody Smith: why, I have no idea
[7:57:02 PM] Cody Smith: she did like me and it showed
[7:57:08 PM] Cody Smith: choosing you pained her
[7:57:18 PM] Cody Smith: but I guess you guys already had something planned or whatever
[7:57:28 PM] Cody Smith: something she probably should have mentioned
[7:57:43 PM] Cody Smith: and
[7:57:45 PM] Cody Smith: I...
[7:57:53 PM] Cody Smith: I'm not going to fight her on this
[7:58:03 PM] Cody Smith: she sort of lied to me anyway
[7:58:12 PM] Cody Smith: which isn't right
[7:58:19 PM] Cody Smith: told me religion doesn't matter to her
[7:58:30 PM] Cody Smith: then later sighted religious differences in why we wouldn't work
[7:58:31 PM] Cody Smith: cute
[7:58:40 PM] Cody Smith: and overall
[7:59:23 PM] Cody Smith: I just, can't see myself suffering for a one-sided deal where she only wins and I lose shittons of sleep and watch my grades slip
[7:59:48 PM] Cody Smith: so yeah I'm a little pissed off
[8:00:06 PM] Cody Smith: but I wouldn't say I have angst
[8:00:13 PM] Cody Smith: or whatever
[8:00:24 PM] Cody Smith: she made up her mind, I reacted
[8:00:33 PM] Cody Smith: good for you, don't fuck it up
[8:01:15 PM] Cody Smith: </explanation>
[8:11:46 PM] Peter VW: Let me put my context into play, I'm a 21 year old with only ever having 2 girlfriends in my life and fewer close calls than the average male on this planet. I'm in the Reserves for the Army and balance two different lives. I maintain a job that is very well paying and my military life once a month. On top of that I'm finishing out my Associates degree and getting close to my Bachelors. I slammed the entire CS course into an AP course in High School, I know the feeling. IQ: I really don't know or care, I just know I am smart and perform well in what I do. There are hundreds of women in the military and many woman out in the job field where I am at. Most of them choose other men too. A lot of military guys get fucked on women too, just because we have one doesn't mean we get the world put out in front of us. We fight for everything too. Just because women in your program aren't searching for you doesn't mean you cant get out into the world and search for them. I've known Gabie for almost 9 years now. We've been friends for a long time. Yes we had our times apart but in the end I confided in her and relied on her as a friend and a person. Don't ever let a woman be the reason you fail in life. I've gotten myself caught in up in feelings before man and yes it sucks and hurts but you and I are both still young and it's not like she is the last woman on this planet for you to find. There are thousands upon thousands of other women out there. I understand why you are pissed off because I have been in the exact same situation. </paragraph>