mplayer vid.mp4 on ssh -XY

$ mplayer WatchTV_p20_r04_v05_c05.mp4
Creating config file: /home/mona/.mplayer/config
MPlayer 1.3.0 (Debian), built with gcc-8 (C) 2000-2016 MPlayer Team
do_connect: could not connect to socket
connect: No such file or directory
Failed to open LIRC support. You will not be able to use your remote control.

Playing WatchTV_p20_r04_v05_c05.mp4.
libavformat version 58.20.100 (external)
Mismatching header version 58.12.100
libavformat file format detected.
[mov,mp4,m4a,3gp,3g2,mj2 @ 0x7fdba4b67e00]Protocol name not provided, cannot determine if input is local or a network protocol, buffers and access patterns cannot be configured optimally without knowing the protocol
[lavf] stream 0: video (h264), -vid 0
VIDEO:  [H264]  640x480  24bpp  20.000 fps  459.8 kbps (56.1 kbyte/s)
X11 error: BadRequest (invalid request code or no such operation)
[vdpau] Error when calling vdp_device_create_x11: 1
==========================================================================
Opening video decoder: [ffmpeg] FFmpeg's libavcodec codec family
libavcodec version 58.35.100 (external)
Mismatching header version 58.18.100
Selected video codec: [ffh264] vfm: ffmpeg (FFmpeg H.264)
==========================================================================
Clip info:
 major_brand: isom
 minor_version: 512
 compatible_brands: isomiso2avc1mp41
 encoder: Lavf56.25.101
Load subtitles in ./
Audio: no sound
Starting playback...
Movie-Aspect is 1.33:1 - prescaling to correct movie aspect.
VO: [xv] 640x480 => 640x480 Planar YV12
[VO_XV] Shared memory not supported
Reverting to normal Xv.
[VO_XV] Shared memory not supported
Reverting to normal Xv.
V:   8.8   0/  0 26% 120%  0.0% 0 0


Exiting... (End of file)