kioaun
[rl/drama/mute] In retrospect, pretty much I hope the person on my list leaking things gets cancer and I hope it's the bad kind <3
kioaun
I'm sorry I vented about the boyfriend. God forbid anyone get irritated. Also I'm glad to be rid of him because if you're willing to take an anonymous person's word over your SO's?
kioaun
And happily accept the violation of their privacy?
kioaun
So to tealdeer, pretty much, someone went through my plurks from over a year ago where I made vague references to being out of town. Claimed I was obviously boning some other guy.
kioaun
Admitting to it on a plurk where several of my RL friends, and quite a few mutual friends can see it?
kioaun
And then somehow having an affair in Seattle when someone was with me 99% of the time and can attest to the fact I did nothing but complain and eat pizza
Pumpkjenn
:\\\\\\\\
SHSL Turk
woooooooow yeah, someone has issues here and I'm pretty sure that someone is not you
kioaun
And pretty much every one who knows me irl who I've told has laughed and gone "Oh my God you don't even like people in general"
SHSL Turk
and yeah, if he's willing to believe that over you then you're better off without
kioaun
Which is true. I hate people. I have like five people I ever do things with
kioaun
Mostly I'm still just because who cares that much over RP?
kioaunhas
to be someone from Scorched because they copied plurks that were locked to that game.
Pumpkjenn
Yeah, seriously.....
kioaun
By the way the incriminating plurks were that I was in a house full of men and had my period and obviously I was cheating
Pumpkjenn
That was their first mistake.
kioaun
Spoiler I was with my dad and his highschool buddy in bumfuck Ohio
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
so you broke up with boy?
kioaun
It's mostly just, I can verify my whereabouts with someone if he'd bothered to check?
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
//so out of loop
kioaun
I don't drive more than two hours by myself.
kioaun
I don't go anywhere by myself
Pumpkjenn
.... Jesus how would you even be able to have a libido
ary
wow what
ary
scorched was forever ago, i can't even...
ary
why would someone from rp be that invested
kioaun
Out of the loop he called me a cheating whore and I told him to go fuck himself and never speak to me again
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
wow
kioaun
Then I cancelled all his birthday presents and left him with a bill in the multiple hundreds for a vacation he can't refund
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
dude after the way he's acted i gotta say you are so fuckin better off without him what a dick
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
this the same guy who whines about cons and stuff, yeah?
kioaun
Yeah and then afterward I find out that girls leave him sexy messages on his facebook all the time
kioaun
And he lets them sit on his lap when I'm not there
kioaun
BUT CLEARLY I'M THE WHORE GUYS
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
you know what that is? guilty conscience
commandbro
God I'm still so angry about this on your behalf.
kioaun
I'm like 90% sure I know who it was now
kioaun
Based on what they had access to and where they live
вαмвαмღвιт¢н
^this
kioaun
I've never met this girl in person
kioaun
We had CR in one game several years ago. She was in Scorched briefly but I never interacted with her there
commandbro
Do you really?
Pumpkjenn
Urghhhhh. At least you have a good idea.
SHSL Turk
yeah, I agree it's guilty conscience at play and trying to make himself feel better by thinking you're doing it too or worse. Because he's a dick
Pumpkjenn
Yeah, he's definitely a sexist dick that applies double standards
kioaun
Like I saw one guy he doesn't like when I was in Ohio. I went to dinner with him AND HIS CRAZY GIRLFRIEND
kioaun
I didn't tell him because I had an awful time and didn't want him to tell me "I told you so"
kioaun
But still. Jesus. Who the fuck goes through an account to over a year ago and why am I supposed to remember when I get a condescending call with "WHO WERE YOU WITH LAST HALLOWEEN?"
kioaun
The answer is I was at work. It's on the work facebook page if he didn't believe me. I AM IN A PHOTO OF OUR HALLOWEEN PARTY
kioaun
And mostly it sucks having someone go through everything you post with the purpose of hurting someone else
NSFWizards
god that's so fucked up, who the hell even does that
kioaun
It's such a 6th grade girl thing to do. But then RPers and why am I surprised they are not mentally mature?
kioaun
So pretty much the ex boyfriend insulted me. Three of our mutual friends by apparently thinking they wouldn't tell him and thinking one of them actually was the one doing it
kioaun
My parents who had just bought him an expensive luggage set for his birthday.
kioaun
He used to tell me how stupid it was for me to get upset if someone was mean to me. How people could say mean things and it doesn't make them true so why get your feelings hurt
kioaun
Well he sure got his delicate little feelings hurt easily.
NSFWizards
it's bullshit but to be honest you're probably better off in the end not being in a relationship with someone who doesn't trust you (and that you've had problems with already)
kioaun
And I can honestly say if I met a couple at a con and the guy messaged me telling me how much he disliked his girlfriend and how he was going to break up with her? I would block him
kioaun
And if someone sent me an anon message saying "Hey your boyfriend is posting things about you, want to see?" I would say no
kioaun
Because if you were my friend, you would be up front about it
Pumpkjenn
Yeah, seriously. This is fucked up in multiple ways.
«kate»
what the fuck, man
Always Naked
Ugh >:T
Goblin King
This whole thing is still baffling to me, to do such things over a brief time that you might have rp'ed together. And that he would prefer to believe anon messages as opposed to you.
kioaun
But oh well. I can go to Disney with other people
Goblin King
Exactly. When are good hours to call, since I don't know what normal people hours are?
cσsmσgαsmíc
That is still the craziest shit I've ever heard
ko♏ix
wow
ko♏ix
But yeah, no wonder he was so eager to think you were cheating
kioaun
It's pretty crazy because wtf. When irl I have issues with even casual contact with people
kioaun
Like shaking hands with someone can make me retch with the feeling of my skin crawling
ko♏ix
Yeah but people who are doing something wrong - and he is - are going to assume their behavior is 'normal' and stuff
ko♏ix
So if HE is borderline cheating then CLEARLY it makes sense you would cheat because he isn't a bad person!
Pumpkjenn
Sad part is that the person who tried to hurt you actually probably did you a major favor.
Goblin King
Karma, perhaps.