[4:09:28 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: idk I just don't things are going well for her at all
[4:09:36 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: she says all these ominous things
[4:09:52 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: constantly dropping hints about how poor she is, how she can't/doesn't even eat
[4:10:00 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: a lot of ominous things about her man Rob
[4:10:19 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: like "oh i'm not allowed to do this"  - to even the most simplest of things
[4:11:07 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: like I might need more information but my thoughts are in the direction that she's in an inescapable position - maybe even abusive one.
[4:12:18 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: now part of it might be me over implying things, cause it very well may simply be the case that shan is dropping this shit for attention,

But that's why I say I might need more information.
[4:12:57 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: Not sure what your thoughts are, but iv'e been noticing this trend for a few weeks now, and there' doesn't seem to be absolutely any improvement.
[10:44:31 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Nah, I've straight up asked if he's hurt her and she said no. But that sometimes he throw things when he gets mad at her I think? And it worries me a bit
[10:44:48 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She says she's happy with the position she's in. I'm not buying it.
[10:45:00 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And I wasn't happy with the job she was doing yesterday.
[10:45:08 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: "Job"
[10:45:40 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But I mean she's an adult and if she wants to go to the lengths of starving and losing so much weight because she's just downright not eating then she's doing it to herself
[10:46:03 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I told her she could have a healthy job at home and be back to usual
She said yeah but she wants to keep doing this
[10:46:15 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: For what? I guess the guy and... No other reason?
[10:47:11 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But he would guilt trip her if she would play video games with me and others
Or how she said she would have to ask Rob if it's okay to watch a movie with us like lol...
[10:47:51 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: He didn't want her playing video games at all cause it would make her seem likes she's bored over there? Except everyone else in that house plays video games? Doesn't make sense
[10:48:01 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: So I think he's slightly whacked
[10:48:35 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But it's whatever she has every opportunity to go nothing is holding her back
She's gone to her grandparents house 3-4 times on her own before but she chooses to go back
[10:48:49 AM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: So I guess it's w/e
As long as she's happy
[7:27:54 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: nah I completely agree
[7:28:00 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: as long as she's happy it's w/e
[7:28:01 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: but
[7:28:02 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: She says she's happy with the position she's in. I'm not buying it.
[7:28:10 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: like you said yourself its unfathomable
[7:28:21 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah a lot doesn't make sense about her situation
[7:28:31 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: and all the ominous comments don't really ease any concern.
[7:28:48 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: Even if he's not physical with her, she could still feel entrapped in that situation.
[7:35:16 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She doesn't seem happy.
[7:35:28 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And for whatever reason she allows herself into these type of situations.
[7:35:35 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I've told her she should just head home and work there, but eh.
[7:35:45 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah I would have to agree.
[7:35:50 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: this can't be good
[7:35:56 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: nothing about it sounds good
[7:35:57 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ..
[7:35:59 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Think she's just lonely and wants to be around the guy even if she's not really in love with him or shit.
[7:36:03 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She's said before she doesn't know. so
[7:36:05 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: ...
[7:36:07 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yeah it doesn't
[7:36:10 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah I think you're right
[7:36:14 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And her losing so much weight from basically starvation.
[7:36:18 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Or claiming how she has no food for a day.
[7:36:21 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yeah that's not okay either.
[7:36:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yah exactly
[7:36:31 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: that's not healthy even a little
[7:36:41 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Not at all. And going back and forth because they argue
[7:36:43 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: After what
[7:36:50 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: 6 months of dating not even? On and off?
[7:37:00 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yeah that doesn't scream happy to me but
[7:37:06 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I've explained this before
[7:37:16 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She factors in opinions, sure, but doesn't really
[7:37:22 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Fully understand so
[7:37:24 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Guess it takes time
[7:37:35 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: LOL TIME. its been like you said, what 6 months?
[7:37:39 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: That's a fair passage of time
[7:37:41 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: to realise
[7:37:50 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yup... SHe's wasting her time. But what can we do?
[7:37:57 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: >you have no money
>you have no food
>you're in a shitty relationship
>you have no happiness
[7:37:59 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Can only inform her of our concerns and voice them. I've tried.
[7:38:04 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: I would have realised that after 2 weeks
[7:38:05 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yeah
[7:38:08 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She needs to work
[7:38:13 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: & save up to go back to school
[7:38:22 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: If she wants to do anything with life. not waste it on a relationship that's unstable.
[7:38:34 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah I know
[7:38:44 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: its just annoying to be a part of, you know
[7:38:46 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: especially me
[7:38:47 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: you know me
[7:38:52 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: im very uhhh vocal
[7:39:06 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: idk I've said all this to her too. she basically stated how
[7:39:06 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: that's why
[7:39:15 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: she likes to make things more difficult and some nonsense in that ballpark
[7:39:20 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: and its not fair lol
[7:39:22 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ive hd to be extra careful with even saying shit
[7:39:32 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: if u notice in her group chat
[7:39:34 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: like
[7:39:41 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: I cant express myself the way I normally would
[7:39:42 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: cause
[7:39:47 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: I don't know how to.
[7:39:50 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: and that's not how you're supposed to live your life... why else is family there and shit LOL
[7:40:00 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: and yeah
[7:40:02 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I've noticed
[7:40:06 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: cause I've had to hold back a bit too
[7:40:13 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: LOL yeah
[7:40:16 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: and youre nicer than me
[7:40:18 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: on average
[7:40:20 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ...
[7:40:22 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Cause I want to flip shit about things, but
[7:40:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: so imagine how tough it is for me
[7:40:27 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I know she's already hurting so what good would it do
[7:40:28 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: LOL
[7:40:29 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: yeah
[7:40:31 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But nah
[7:40:34 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I was seething when she told me
[7:40:43 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She's raising uh
[7:41:02 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: little marijuana plants. and that she's painting a drug person's house
[7:41:07 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: referring to him as a kingpin or w/e
[7:41:08 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: like
[7:41:09 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: YEAH THATS IT
[7:41:13 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: THATS WHY I WAS CONCERNED
[7:41:14 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: He's not a kingpin.
[7:41:16 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: He's a pile of shit.
[7:41:18 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yah
[7:41:21 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And should be gunned down.
[7:41:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah remember in the group chat
[7:41:31 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I wante dto say something extremely fucked up, but
[7:41:32 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: she said I was concerned cause she was working
[7:41:33 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: and im like
[7:41:34 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: It's truth behind it
[7:41:35 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: uhhhh
[7:41:38 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: you know damn well
[7:41:41 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: that's not the full reason
[7:41:41 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ...
[7:41:42 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: but at the same time there was no reason to. it just hurts her.
[7:41:45 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: yeah.
[7:41:46 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: like
[7:41:55 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: who cares if she's working LOL aside from taking breaks and all
[7:42:17 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: [12:22:07 AM] Shan-: he doesn't always have work
[12:22:24 AM] Shan-: because he just helps us out
[12:22:26 AM] Shan-: nice guy tho
[12:22:32 AM] Shan-: did oyu have a good day
[12:23:31 AM] Shan-: that's when you said you thought i was getting into trouble
[12:23:35 AM] Shan-: remember now?
[12:23:37 AM] Shan-: o ^o
[12:24:21 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: well yeah, but that's not the full reason why I was concerned
[12:24:22 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: also
[12:24:26 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: that was many many months ago
[12:24:31 AM] Heartbreakingly Human: and you never mentioned it again after that
[7:43:04 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah I just hate to see someone I care about
[7:43:15 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: their life is basically disintegrating in front of me
[7:43:18 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: and im kinda limited
[7:43:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: with my responses
[7:43:46 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: ^
[7:43:55 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: cause like you said If I confront her / voice my reason she's going to do what she usually does which is run away and/or paint me as the bully/bad guy
[7:44:06 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: hell shes been doing that recently anyway and ive been very tepid
[7:44:28 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yeah she told me about it and I just told her "Ohhh"
[7:44:29 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Exactly
[7:44:43 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: LOL yeah
[7:44:43 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She will just basically run away from it
[7:44:46 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And evade it
[7:44:53 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: its a real.. conundrum
[7:44:54 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ..
[7:44:59 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And if you voice any dissent towards the issue
[7:45:05 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She herself gets upset too
[7:45:07 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: So it's like okay
[7:45:12 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Should we just allow this or what's up
[7:45:13 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: ...
[7:45:16 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: I know. LOL
[7:45:18 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: It legit makes no sense
[7:45:51 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: like I said part of it really could be her embellishing for attention or something, but. Idk.
[7:46:13 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: If you want attention you wouldn't force yourself to stay at a guy's house for 6 months and date the man.
[7:46:17 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I can see where the attention part comes in.
[7:46:18 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: no I mean
[7:46:23 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Where she peaks her head in and says that type of stuff, but
[7:46:25 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: embellishing how bad things are over there
[7:46:30 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: just to get sympathy
[7:46:45 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: What's the ulterior motive out of that?
You can receive sympathy, but for what?
[7:46:52 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: At the end of the day she bites the bullet for it.
[7:46:53 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: to feel loved/appreciated?
[7:46:56 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: people do really weird things
[7:46:57 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: buddy
[7:46:58 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: LOL
[7:47:04 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: you're asking the wrong guy
[7:47:15 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Yeah, but she still has to suffer with no food or anything. LMFAO. So it's like okay
[7:47:18 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: You got your sympathy
[7:47:21 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But now you suffer everyday
[7:47:26 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: When you don't pop your head in every now and then
[7:47:30 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And she's only been showing up recently
[7:47:34 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But yo
[7:47:36 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: no I mean maybe shes exaggerating her situation
[7:47:42 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: All those people in her house legit plays video games
[7:47:43 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: about the no money/no food / how shitty her bf is
[7:47:46 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: just in general
[7:47:51 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: and that rob guy would get upset when she would have her laptop around and play games with people
[7:47:54 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: cause she wasn't having fun with him
[7:47:56 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: or so the excuse was
[7:47:57 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: like
[7:47:58 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: ????
[7:47:59 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah
[7:48:06 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: nah she's not exaggerating it
[7:48:07 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: cause she legit
[7:48:12 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: ditched all her friends playing games and shit
[7:48:23 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: i didn't see her playing for god knows how long
[7:49:05 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: I mean maybe part of me is just hoping she's exaggerating/embellishing so that someone I care about's life is actually not that shitty
[7:49:10 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: cause that would be a real shame
[7:49:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: and there's people who really love and care about her, like her grandma
[7:49:35 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: and this situation is WORSE than anything that ever happened with Yagi
[7:49:37 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ...
[7:49:57 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Her grandparents care for her and probably want her home, just as when she left last time.
[7:50:00 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I want to hope she's exagerating
[7:50:03 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah
[7:50:04 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: But looking at her recent photos
[7:50:09 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And how she expressed 40 pounds lost
[7:50:15 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And how she doesn't play any games
[7:50:19 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: and I have her added on everything
[7:50:20 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: yeah I know
[7:50:20 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: idk man
[7:50:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: the evidence isn't good
[7:50:25 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ...
[7:50:32 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: And like I told her after that dog situation
[7:50:39 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: oh yeah
[7:50:41 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: I told her she needs to be careful and look out for herself
[7:50:43 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: Like
[7:51:00 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: That's serious shit the dog could have mauled her face off. She doesn't know the dog. Nobody was there.
[7:51:03 PM] ᴵᴺᵀᴱᴿᵀᵂᴵᴺᴱ /: She needs to be careful.
[7:51:22 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: Yo its time to start Mission Codename Ritsuka. Where we get Yagi and Shan back together
[7:51:23 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: ...
[7:51:25 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: I g2g
[7:51:26 PM] Heartbreakingly Human: LMFAO