Orgodemir's Succubism Profiler:

In this file, Succubi and Incubi are measured by their psychic qualities, such as orientation, personality traits, modus operandi, and overall influence.
I am also using new terminology to better classify some things. (I am going to use the 'she/her' pronoun to describe all of the following, because that is what I always did, and it's most natural for me.)
Cumcubus   - A sexual spirit that includes polar succubus, polar incubus, and anything in between
Succubus   - A feminine expression of the sexual spirit
Incubus    - A masculine expression of the sexual spirit
Intercubus - A sexual spirit that is masculinity and femininty in balanced expression.
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The categories are:

POLARITY - This is metaphysical maleness and femaleness. At highest (5) she is a pure succubus, and will operate under the premise that you give her energy, and she does favors for you. At lowest (1) she is an incubus, and she will operate under the premise that she gives you energy, and you do favors for her. At middle (3) she is in a balanced state, Intercubus. This means that she will express no preference of exchange type, and she will have more capacity for ambiguity or felxibility.
NOTE: Polarity does not in any ways suggest a certain image or form. The most alluring, female looking spirit could be 100% incubus, and be able to perform the sexual magic in the same way as a 100% succubus would, no matter the human partner. Some can also change form, so be aware of that possibility.

VIRTUE - This is her fighting ability and sense of justice. At lowest (1) she is very defensive, passive, and would rather avoid battles. At highest (5) she is offensive, aggressive, and would rather fight out battles.
PRIDE - This is her sense of self-worth. This determines who she spends time with, what she spends her time doing, and the reasons for doing what she does. At most (5) she is very proper, confident, even arrogant, and at lowest (1) she is very humble, open, and laid back.

FRIENDLINESS - This is how likable and agreable she is. At best (5) she is very charming, kind, and obedient, and at worst (1) she is abrasive, defiant, or hostile.
DESIRE - This is how much attention and energy she requires. At least (1) she is very content going longer times without even interacting with you. At most (5) she will be asking you multiple times each day for sexual energy.

PRESENCE - This is how noticable the succubus is when you are not engaged with her in the sexual exchange. At lowest (1) she is constantly behind the scenes and avoids interacting with your environment and things in it. At highest (5) she is actively by your side checking things out.
SOPHISTICATION - This is its level of simplicity or complication. At highest (5) she will have elaborate M.O., or/and may have much wisdom to share. At lowest (1) she is very simple in actions, not difficult to understand, but may not have much to say.

SUPPORT - This is how helpful the she is, and her ability to cooperate. At best (5) she is very concerned and easy to work with, and at worst (1) she can be indolent.
STAMINA - This is her ability to do things without resting. At best (5) she is constantly vigil and active. At worst (1) she may be sometimes unresponsive or unable to complete tasks.

ELEMENT - (Fire, Water, Air, Earth, or Aether) This relates to her
dominant emotions, preferred M.O., and abilities.
FIRE rules Pride and Virtue.
A Fire type is energetic and powerful. At best she is noble and brave. At worse she is consuming or wrathful.
WATER rules Friendliness and Desire.
A Water type is intimate and sensual. At best she is totally connected and in tune. At worse she is depressive or irratable.
AIR rules Presence and Sophistication.
An Air type is chatty and intellectual. At best she is witty and ingenious. At worst she is inconsistent or judgemental.
EARTH rules Support and Stamina.
An Earth type is resilient and industrious. At best she is efficienct and overachieving. At worst she is stubborn or gluttonous.
AETHER is exceptional to the above.
An Aether type may be able to change expression when she sees fit, and could be difficult to understand or identify. (I personally do not have much experience with a known ones of this kind, but I believe it exists)
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