guys, when I play this game, I have fun

guys, when I play this game, I have fun.
I play solo, with 1-4 friends, ranked and unranked.
sometimes I tryhard, sometimes I don't.
I have 4,9 k solo mmr and 5,1 k party mmr.
I usually enjoy this game and when I have bad games I shake them off mentally and take a break or go que again.
I enjoy this game and have been doing so for almost 3 k hours total. whenever I see someone whining on d2g I try to give them tips, I try to tell them to stop being autistic ragers, and I try to tell them at losing isnt the end of the world, but I just get called a valve apologist.
So I only have 1 question
what am I doing so RIGHT, that you guys are doing so WRONG? because I honestly don't know anymore
I just want you all to be happy.