Bravo - Six Notes log

Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
Bravo,

I want to thank you for the very kind words you said to my dear friend Vanessa. She shared the log with me of your response to her heartfelt desired to make things right with you. You have kind of a ferocious nick, profile, kinks etc. It's good to know there's a quality dude behind it all.

Anyway, you didn't have to compliment Vanessa so honestly for her efforts to make it right or give her such positive feedback. That you did... I want you to know, she was really touched, and very much relieved. This has been on her mind awhile. She is really, really special. Take good care of her.

Six

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Six,

As I told Vanessa, and as you've probably read since she showed you the log, I don't think I've ever had someone go out of their way to apologize to me for something like that. To be honest the fact that she blew me off initially was frustrating at the time (but fairly commonplace around here), but is rather trivial compared to her apology. It takes a special person to own up to their mistakes, not because someone else is pushing them to, but because they feel it is right. As such, I see what you mean- she is really special.

I'll keep an eye on her. Maybe one day I'll actually get her to play with me *chuckles*, or maybe the three of us could get together sometime.

Thank you for your kind words, and have a great day.
Bravo

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
I believe she likes you, and would enjoy playing with you. Music is a powerful medium for her, and I think you guys sorts of bonded over musical tastes. Point is, she likes you. But she has her issues with submission, particularly with males. Its part of why she blew you off. Suffice to say its a known issue, and we're working on it.

A threesome is something Van has mentioned to me as an interest. But only if I'm there to manage and supervise. As a general non-binding exploration of your interest, would you be up for something like that?

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Yes, we're both loyal followers of Reverend Maynard, I believe that's how it all got started.

You know usually I like to play with someone one on one before getting into a threesome however, given our special circumstances I think that having the three of us get together initially could be a lot of fun. In fact, I've already got some ideas brewing for a bit of plot to go behind it if you two, or just you would like to discuss.

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
I was actually in the room that night you two were enjoying the common musical tastes. Thought you two hit it off well. Glad that things are cleared up.

Regarding threesomes. I'm totally with you in that one, I almost always need to know and be comfortable with all the participants before attempting a threesome. But, as you accurately guess, this is a bit of an unusual situation. Full disclosure, I am Van's Domme. Which is why I feel a responsibility to mentor her growth as a sub. Van is also a Domme, and a very good one.... not at all a natural sub in any way. But, like many Dommes, she has lingering but undeniable submission urges that were pretty much eating her up. I've helped stabilize some of those urges.

I don't want to lay a huge psych deal on you. Long story short, Van is comfortable enough in her progression as a sub that she has asked me, point-blank, to investigate the possibility of arranging a session with her in a private room with me and a male partner. But, she's really laying it on the line, and I can tell it will be a big deal for her emotionally and sexually. She wants me to whore her, basically. Which is why it works better if she literally doesn't know who is going to be fucking her until it's actually happening. I'm mixed about trying to fulfill this interest of hers. Dommes like her, when they have long-pent-up submission issues, can easily go overboard in trying to placate them (believe me, I know). It all comes down to the choice of partner. I've interviewed several males about this idea and have a candidate or two, but no one that really makes me think, THIS is the one.

What I'm thinking is, given your history with Vanessa, bringing you to her would be a really powerful scene, because of that specific history. I think she might really feel, karmically, like this was meant to be, and that she 'owed' her body, her arousal, to you in some metaphorical and literal sense. There's no timeline for this, and neither she nor I are in any hurry.

I'd like you to keep this portion of our conversation to yourself. I don't want Van to know I'm discussing this possibility with you. Also, I really want you to know that, if you and she hit it off and she wants to sub to you independent of this conversation, by all means do so! I don't want any plans we make here to interfere with her ongoing desires.

After all of this, if you're STILL interested in discussing the possibilities, then be all means let's do. Van has expressed some specific interests and conditions for such a scene. I'd be interested in sharing them, as well as hearing your own ideas.

Gah, sorry about this wall-o-text.
Six

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
I'm even more interested than I was before. In fact, if this presents itself as a real possibility, I'm not sure how I could pass it up. Her feelings/hesitation toward males only makes it that much more enticing. In fact there are so many intriguing elements:

1. Van's resistance to submit to males
2. My short but interesting history with Van
3. The fact that she wouldn't know ahead of time
4. That you, her domme, and her guide would be the one putting her in this situation

That certainly sets things up for a lot of enjoyable tension going in. I absolutely agree that this would have the potential to be a powerful scene. I will make no mention of it to her.

I'm STILL *grin* quite keen on hearing your ideas, and am already thinking about a couple ways this scenario could dovetail into Bravo's established occupation/history. In essence, what you're proposing OOC is what Bravo does in character; he's contracted by other dominants to assist with their submissive in a variety of ways. In fact, if you wanted our characters to have some sort of introduction I could visualize a scene where they meet to discuss the terms of his contract. These are just some ideas I had- obviously I'm not set on any of them.

Please let me know what you think, as well as additional ideas you may have had.

No worries about the wall- I gave you one back.
Bravo

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
(Laughs.) Man, you are a cool dude. Your concise, logical layout of the four reasons that Van's head will explode if we set up a threesome for her was perfect. She of course knows generally that I'm making inquires about this with various males I know. But not the exact date, nor male. To be honest, she's having fun with just the fact that she's admitted her interest in this to me, and that I'm actually doing something about it. The kind of fun a sub has when you're flirting with a limit of hers... excited, scared, embarrassed, horny as hell. I'm sure you know, good professional Dom that you obviously are.

So, um... holy shit Bravo! You're actually in the business of contracting with dominants to assist in their submissive interests/urges? No WONDER you got Van's attention. Fucking hell, you have MY attention. I'm getting that Van's "punk bitch' vibe is very much inline with your sexual tastes. I do want to confirm something though. Van is a shemale. I'm a herm. Both genders being on your No list. Plus you self-listing as "straight." Are you cool with this? I can keep my dick outta your way in a threesome if needs be, but Van's gorgeous dick is going to be front and center, even if you're vaguely distasteful of it. I need to know that you're okay with that. Or, if not, what we can do to mitigate. Give it some thought.

As far as you and I meeting in character to discuss Van's whoring contract, I think you're a fucking genius. I am logging all of our interactions, including these Notes, because I'll want to share them with her eventually, so she'll really know how carefully we planned this for her. I want her to KNOW how much I love and respect her, and want to help her achieve all her submission goals. Plus, honestly, I'm curious about Bravo's history and credentials in the biz of Domming Dommes and breaking bitches. I like the idea of both of us having heard about each other from a professional reputation standpoint. I'll basically play what I am. A genetically hybridized former soldier who's unique genetic gifts make her particularly in demand sexually in her post-military career. Private-sector security consultant by day, Domme by night. Not a professional, I Domme my friends, not for pay. We can sharpen up any details that particularly appeal to you as required.

The basic plot... Six hears through the grapevine that Bravo is THE guy to hire for the sort of session that Van is interested in. Six will pay all of Bravo's expenses, assuming that Bravo takes Van's case. Bravo being the kind of in-demand dude who's business is entirely referrals, and who can afford to vet and select only those clients who appeal to him. Six presents Van's case in person to Bravo, at a time and place of his choosing. Discussions ensue.

Bravo... I think you might be 'the one'. A hunch.

Six

re:Thanks
Sent 1w, 1d ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Heh, I dig your style too, but there's one thing I should state, and along those same lines, there's something I'd like you to clarify. Though I certainly portray Bravo as a professional dom, I myself have no real world experience in the matter. I have RPed these relationships countless times over the past 20 years but I have no 'academic' knowledge of how they work. When playing Bravo, I base his brand on dominance mostly on canine social behaviors along with whatever else I feel fits. Along these same lines I wanted to ask if you are Van's domme in more ways than just the role-playing sense, as you two already seem to be very close.

I'm glad you brought up this next part. I have never fucked anyone that has a cock before- at least in character, OOC I'm sure they have been plenty of dudes playing my partners. Now I think when Van, and I initially started talking, and sharing links to songs she was a female, though I could be wrong about that one. We'll have to talk about this one and see what our options are. I kind of like the idea that while Van's getting her boundaries pushed, so is Bravo even if he's vaguely distasteful of it at the beginning. That could add yet another layer of complexity to this. Also, if she really wants to play a shemale I don't want her to have to bend her rules for this scene given the amount of effort you're putting into it, and what it means to her. It also might make it interesting if Six leaves out the fact that Van is a shemale when the two meet to discuss their terms.

You know both Six, and Bravo have military backgrounds. Part of Bravo's skill set is derived from his special ops experience, primarily as it relates to prisoner interrogation. I could see it being possible that they've heard about one another through their military connections, or even worked together in the past, though the prior is vastly more probable.

Lastly, I love how you're saving all this to give to her at a later date, kind of like a perverted scrap-book- very hot!

Bravo

re:Thanks
Sent 1w ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
I am not a "professional Domme" either in the sense that I've never been formally trained or anything, nor do I or have I taken money for it (I paid once, memorably, but that's another story). I have been the dominant in pretty much all the relationships I've been in, and it comes very easily for me both RL and in RP. I am Van's RP Domme... we've never met in person and have no plans to, but as meaningfully at two people can share experiences and click together in RP, that's Van and me. We are very, very similar in outlook, sexual tastes, personal issues, the whole thing. I consider her a very good friend, my best friend on F-List to be sure, and I feel a responsibility for guiding her and mentoring her, as I have with RL subs.

As long as we're clarifying RL vs. RP things, full disclosure: I am female in RL, and believe or not, a lesbian. I come to F-List for many of the same reasons Van does, to explore sexuality that either isn't easily accessible in RL or which we don't care to explore in RL. For Van, it's submission. For me, it's males. No repercussions, no recriminations, (relatively) little guilt if I want to suck a dick or let a male ride me hard. So, that's all my cards on the table.

Thank you for being completely honest about fucking someone with a dick. For what it's worth, males like you are among my very favorite males to play with... I LOVE gently (or not so gently, depending on their preference) introducing them to the idea of sexually interacting with a cock in a "safe" environment, with a partner who's got recognizable female touchstones (tits, a cunt, or at least a female's perspective). I don't think there's any mistaking either Van or myself as anything but women, despite the equipment differences. I can't speak for Van but I play a herm here because I specifically wanted to explore having a dick as a theme... I freely admit to cock-envy and think that cocks (separate of their owners) are really amazing, and occasionally gorgeous machines. I DO VERY MUCH like the idea of Bravo perhaps not knowing that Six's partner for whom she's arranging the scene is a shemale... or Six herself a herm, for that matter. I would be very interested to see your in-character reactions to such a revelation, and how we deal with it. Some vague, intimate distaste would be delicious, and I think it would THRILL Van if you sort of overcame that in the scene with her and kind of discovered some stuff at the same time she is. All of which would make me, as the Domme in charge, go apeshit with arousal... kind of 'mating' the two of you, as it were. Mmmmmff. So, in closing, that's ALL good, and look to discussing in detail.

Okay, I wanted to specifically tell you that Bravo's military background is intensely interesting to me. I've often considered that interrogation techniques innocently taught in the military could easily and brutally enslaved to overt sexual ends, and the fact that Bravo is actually a true example of this makes me tingle with anticipation. It's just soooo damn kinky. And not just physical techniques, but the mental game too, keeping a subject off balance, alternating hard with soft, compliments with brutality, drugplay, violating limits, etc etc etc. It's a mindset that makes me very curious indeed. I agree with the concept that Six and Bravo heard of each other in theater during their combat tours. I see perhaps Six's squad having brought in some particularly heinous and wanted bad guy, and Bravo being the dude who breaks him. So, both having a favorable prior impression of each other. I see Six being a bit older than Bravo, her service dating from a time when genetic bioengineering could only hybridize humans, not create full anthros. Six and Bravo would have been among the first of their respective kinds. That's my off-the-spur thinking anyway.

I really, really fucking want to blow Van's mind with this. There's no guarantee it'll all work out, but I think the three of us could have a really fantastic time. This would be a big deal for Van... she's alternately completely aroused and authentically terrified of the possibility of it. I'm not sure the thinks she's completely ready for this, but I know she is. Gods, she is so tough and gorgeous, but inside, she is the most amazingly kinky, passionate sub I've ever met. It just needs some cultivation, from someone she trusts completely. You've already experienced her reactive urge, which is very common among Dommes trying to explore submission (at least in my experience). With me there, she will be WIDE open for you, physically and emotionally. We'll tread carefully, but deliberately. This feels soooo right.

Afterwards, yeah, I think she'll love reading how all this came about, how we were talking this whole time behind her back, setting her up (Hi you sweet fucking kinky big dog if you're reading this, Van!). Van loves pet and animal references a lot, so I call her my big dog, which she totally is. I call her punk bitch now and then as well, in your honor, since you coined the expression.

(Grinning in delight!)

Six

The best-laid schemes o' mice an' men
Sent 1w ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
... Gang aft agley!

I had a long conversation with Vanessa tonight. She brought you up independently, without prompting. You've been much on her mind it turns out ;)

A lot of personal stuff was said that I can't share with you. All I can tell you is, Vanessa is coming for you, sexually. It's the right thing, it's entirely her idea, it's because you're firing all her submissive urges, and... well, sometimes a Domme just has to get the hell outta the way.

I will say this. She wants to do something very specific for you. She wants it to be sort of an 'apology' of sorts for blowing you off. Indulge that, if I could ask you to. Make your acceptance of her penitence as sensual and intimate as you can. Pet her. Call her a good bitch. *Touch her*. She's literally just budding her submission wings, so walk that line, of masculinity and confidence, with intimacy. You are going to have a fantastic time.

Also, a news item. She actually *had* changed her nick to full female when she was talking to you before. I just found out tonight that she does this now and then. So it wasn't your imagination. She too noticed your shemale "No". I literally have no idea if she'll come to you as a shemale or not. Having some (ahem) insider knowledge about your deal with shemales and herms, I urge you to take it as a learning opportunity for yourself as well, if she does choose to visit you with a dick in her pants ;)

I have no other words of encouragement for you, other than to rejoice at what you'll share with her. I do have one firm request. Do NOT tell her that we were planning her whoring until after you and she have had at least one sexual experience together. Only then, IF it should somehow come to light, then you have my permission to tell the entire story in full. And whatever happens, it's between you and Van entirely, and the two of you alone.

There may be a time when Van's ready for a threesome after all. It will, obviously, be a somewhat different scene than what we had in mind. If so, I would very much enjoy working with you :)

(Grinning.) You are a massively cool dude, Bravo, and you give a dyke hope for males everywhere. And I really can't think of anyone I'd rather have showing Van the ropes.

I know it now, in my heart. Knew it the moment we started talking. You were the one!

Warmest thanks,
Six

re:The best-laid schemes o' mice an' men
Sent 1w ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Wow, so this appears to change things significantly. Let me ask you this; are we abandoning the threesome idea because she's not ready, or because she wants to offer me this apology? If the later is the case, I don't see why we can't still go through with the threesome using a bit of deception on either an IC, or OOC level.

In character, I could see Bravo's aversion to shemales coming into play when she tries approaching him outside the bounds of a contracted scenario- perhaps enticing him but not enough to make him completely go through with it. Again this could be another element that adds to the magnitude of the threesome scenario we've discussed. Conversely, I could see this back-firing. What do you think?

Out of character, I can simply feign being too busy at the time she approaches me- politely of course.

Make no mistake, I'm very excited for her to engage me one on one. In fact the first night we met I approached her in a rather crass manner about such a thing. All of that said, I think our threesome idea has a lot of potential and that your presence in the scene will add a lot.

In summary, I'm highly enthused, and aroused by either possibility, but I would obviously need to know your feelings on the matter.

Lastly, you need to stop feeding my ego before it consumes me *grin* though I do appreciate, and am flattered by every word. I hope you know that the feeling, and respect is mutual and it impresses me to no end what lengths you will go to for her.

Kind Regards
Bravo

re:The best-laid schemes o mice an men
Sent 1w ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
Bravo, just some quick thoughts so you're prepared if Van makes her move sooner rather than later.

Basically I'm not writing off the threesome -- between you and me, it's one of the hottest prospects I've ever thought I might have a chance to make come true on f-List. It will just be different, yanno? Since by that time Van will presumably know you well, as a friend and lover. I have some ideas on how to keep a future threesome fresh... you and I can discuss when the time's right.

Mostly, what I really want is to "not get in the way of Van's explorations out to you." Plain and simple, this is a big deal for her, a big step in her evolution as a sub. I want it to happen as naturally and effortlessly as possible between you and her, which is why I'm deliberately stepping back and letting things take their course. She wants to do this herself, offer herself to you. I very much want to just let that happen. It's between her and you, and all I would do at this point is muddy the water. And, to be honest, she saw you first... I don't want to steal her toys, yanno? It would seem sort of not-right to me. I thought really hard about just letting your threesome idea pass by uncommented on when you made the comment for that very reason. But, I wanted Van to have that threesome experience. However, I MORE want for her to pursue this urge of hers to be with you and express herself sexually -- submissively -- with you.

I propose we table the threesome idea until you see how it plays out with Vanessa. Let's wait for her to come to you, let you judge things by what transpires between you, and you tell me what you think about her development and readiness as you and her relationship progresses.

I really do NOT want you to play hard to get with her or purposefully put her off. There's way too much possibility of misinterpretation with that, and as I mentioned, Van is *just* coming out of her shell as a sub, and I want her to have EVERY chance to succeed. To the extent possible, I really, honestly want you to respond with her as if you and I had never spoken. I know that's not exactly possible, but you know what I mean. Let her come to you, let her show you what she wants from you, and provide it as best you can. The damn girl, she really threw us a curve here :) But her development and exploration is the most important thing here, everything else has to take a back seat.

So, in short, you don't have to do anything, other than enjoy yourself as naturally as possible with Vanessa. I suppose I could ask you, purely as a friend and at your discretion, not to get too rough with her even if she asks for it. It's a tricky time for her now... like a lot of Dommes with long-pent-up submissive urges, there's a big tendency for her eyes to get too big for her stomach :) A hint: the threesome is where I'm now thinking about indulging Van's interest in something darker and rougher, at some later date.

Sorry this turned into a whole big email. I have a bit of a tendency to over-analyze. I hope she comes to you in shemale form, but it wouldn't surprise me if she didn't. Either way, more sauce for a future goose. Just do what comes naturally to you at the right time, and have FUN with her! She is just amazing, and I know I'll be proud of her, and you.

As far as feeding your ego :) That's actually almost like a political statement to myself. As a dyke, I feel almost honor-bound to identify and call out when males behave in really cool ways. Fair is fair, for all the shit I've been dealt by males in my life, I feel like I need to recognize good men when I meet them to even the ledger where possible with your gender. Particularly since I'm on F-list to fuck your gender, it's always seemed to me like something I should do, give you dudes a shout-out when it's appropriate. And here, it is very appropriate. You are a really cool guy, and you've done me a total solid with Van. And without putting to fine a point on it, you're exactly the kind of male I've looked for for a long time on F-List to address some of my own needs. I just want you to know that, so that you really understand why I go to deliberate lengths to tell you when you've been honorable and a pleasure to chat and work with.

Gratitude,
Six

P.S. Now if Van wimps out and doesn't approach you for three months, that would TRULY be karmic. Here's hoping her nerve holds (evil laugh here)

re:The best-laid schemes o mice an men
Sent 6d, 21h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Fair enough, we'll let Van make the first move.

Let me just throw this out there as an offer, though judging from how close you two are, perhaps you'll get this anyway. If you'd like I'd be happy to share our log with you- no pun intended. As far as not getting too rough with her, that will depend greatly upon how she approaches Bravo. Some of this introduction is a bit confusing to me because I'm not certain whether or not she's actually met Bravo in character. Sure we've chatted but I don't know if we've ever had a formal RP encounter, if that makes sense. In short, I'm not sure how much of our previous actions have been in-character or out of it. I will not be overly abusive with her, however I also will not betray Bravo's true character. That said, even though I play a cold-hearted Alpha wolf, OOC I want my partners to enjoy themselves. I will take cues from her and do my best to make sure she enjoys it, and push her boundaries where I feel it's appropriate.

As far as tabling the threesome, I'm fine with that. I'm sure that between the two, or even the three of us, we can come up with something enthralling.

Regardless of the reasoning behind your appraisal, I'm not ashamed to say I enjoy, and appreciate it. I don't usually trade notes, especially not ones this lengthy however, I find you to be very interesting, and articulate. It's obvious what Van sees in you. As far as you being a dyke, and me being, well whatever I am, I dunno that it matter to me too much. Though there's more of them, I've had vastly more straight people be rude to me than dykes, or gay dudes. In fact I don't think I've ever known a homosexual to be rude to me. I don't find that gender, or sexual preference has much to do with how one person treats another, every one of us is capable of the most unimaginable cruelty, or the deepest compassion. It's just a matter of which one you choose.

Bravo

P.S. (You did it so I have to) You've used the 'karmic' several times and now I'm curious: Do you meditate?

re:The best-laid schemes o mice an men
Sent 6d, 20h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
I'm touched by the log offer, and much as I'd like to say hell yes, it doesn't seem... well, it seems like I'm invading her privacy. This really is between you and her, and I don't want to overshadow her in the least. Plus, I think I'd rather hear about what happens, if anything, secondhand from her. I'd rather she processed it first, then shared with me... if she shares anything. Tell you what... save the logs, and at some point if it comes to light that you and I have this side conversation, then perhaps a trade can be arranged. That might seem more egalitarian to me.

I can tell you almost certainly that it's partly the "bitchbreaker", rough, violent edge of your persona that attracts Van. She doesn't *quite* know it yet, or at least isn't quite ready to admit it fully, but she wants to be used hard... I mean, HARD. There is a distinct possibility that's all going to come out with you. Part of me is protective, part of me had wanted to be there to ease the lesson and provide a little background security for Van. But she wants to do this on her own, and I think it's critically important to let her. Anyway, I hear you. I don't want you to compromise yourself for my or her sake. Your assurance of making sure she enjoys it, I completely and unreservedly accept. In a meaningful way, you're her Dom now, at least for awhile. Being able to offer her things I can't. I accept that too. Grateful, a little wistful. Like all teachers watching their students breach out and explore their independence.

I enjoy the Notes, but don't ever feel like you have to reply, or match my length. You're fascinating to chat with and you have good insights, and I always enjoy stirring a male's mind to see how it works. Plus, male doms are always really interesting to talk to, particularly when they have (like you) that unique, and rare mix of intelligence, imagination, raw kink and a willingness to get hardcore, rough, violent, use those military interrogation skills in perverted ways. It's a pretty kinky mix, dude.

If there's one rule above all for what I've learned about D/s, it's that it's only as good as the Dom/me. The Dom/me has to be the rational, experienced adult in the room. Inexperienced subs are fine, a treasure to an extent if you enjoy training and teaching like I do. But an inexperienced Dom/me can be brutal. <shivers>

I don't meditate formally, but I do enjoy Zen states. For myself, it's weightlifting. It's consistently been my Zen world for... gods... a long time, suffice to say. It centers me and recharges me in exactly the way meditation is suppose to. I've alwyas been uncomfortable 'doing nothing', so conventional meditation isn't really my thing. But I do have a sense balance in nature, spirituality, karma if you will. Doing good things brings good to you. But also, you need to let your dark side come out and play occasionally, you *cannot* give give give all the time. Same with domination... every good Dom/me needs to sub now and then, just... well, karmically, it balances you, calibrates your experiences and motivations. [Six edit: I got chills re-reading this -- I wonder if knew I was falling for you at this point?  I think maybe yes] So that's the answer for meditation.

Six

re:The best-laid schemes o mice an men
Sent 6d, 20h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
I did sort of not answer the question you posed about how your interaction with Van will go down, like IC vs. OOC or in the context of a "formal RP"... I think it will be informal. Van feels like she wants to "make amends" and has a fairly clear idea how to do that. Whether you accept, and if you bring elements of your RP persona into the mix is your choice. You could certainly let her know that you're a professional Dom with a military background. I think she'd like knowing that. In other words, it's really up to you, and I suspect that the right course of action will occur naturally to you as part of your encounter with her. She likes it when people play straight with her. I probably wouldn't make a huge deal about the RP end of things at first... just subbing to you is going to blow her mind. [Six edit:  I should have realized at this point that having the threesome have a formal RP framework wasn't going to work.  Van doesn't actually RP, so it was always going to have to be an OOC experience for her.  She plays herself even more than I do, there is no IC with her.]

Anyway, for that it's worth.
Six

Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
Smirk.

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
*laughs* And just what are you smirking about?

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
Take a fucking guess, dumbfuck :)

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Well go figure, she's thrown me another curve ball. Right before she logged on I was getting ready to log off because I'm just not feeling it tonight. At first I thought we were just chatting, and then she extended her offer. So I'm doing my best to stay in character, keep my interest apparent, and reschedule for a later date without losing any momentum.

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
Ah, damn. Well, hazard of the business. I jumped offline to give her some room to maneuver and own her experience with you (she wanted to chat between her posts with you). Just make sure that you reassure her it's just an off-night thing, not her. Which is hopefully true.

What gender did she come to you in?

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Oh I think I made it pretty clear it was just an off night thing, actually I think I may have riled her up even more. She came to me as a shemale.

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
GRINS. That makes me really, REALLY happy, that she came to you with her dick on. ELATED. I'll be curious to hear how *you* react to it, at some possible future time.

I have begun to wonder lately, if Vanessa is really, underneath all that armor plate and badassitude, a natural sub. And all the Domme stuff is the overlay because she's too controlled to give into it.

We women are freaks... you *knew* that, right?

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Freaks? Not sure if I knew that. Mysterious maybe, though as I get older I find your gender easier to relate to.

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
That is sooooo funny... I am finding the same thing to be true.

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
Well if you talk to Van, you'll have to tell me what she thought after tonight. I got a good vibe, but I'd like to know she wasn't disappointed.

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
She'll be disappointed she didn't get completely fucked, I suspect. And she'll be hot to get after it with you soon. She was sort of freaky last night, and I could tell she was nervous, I presume about approaching you. I didn't say anything.

I will let you know what she says about it, if anything. You seem like you're more than smart enough for your vibes to ring true. We'll see.

I've said it before, but the dyke in me needs to emphasize it. You're a GOOD dude. Even for a bitch breaker!

re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 22h ago, by Bitch Breaker Bravo to Hardsix
So that's one thing I'd like to ask you about, her getting completely fucked. She made mention that she would not be broken, or taken, and if I betrayed her respect I wouldn't see her again. I don't want to be gentle with her, and sure she doesn't either. Are there any hard "no"s with her?
re:Congratulations
Sent 5d, 21h ago, by Hardsix to Bitch Breaker Bravo
Huh. Let me think about that one. I *think* that means (and yes, there's irony here, given your nick), don't act like a typical breaker. Honestly, you're intelligent and honest, and that right there is probably more than enough to reassure Van that you're doing what you do because you honestly think she needs it, or that she'd enjoy it, not just because you're a selfish prick. In short, be virile, be a stud, be forceful, be ungentle, but mean it like a Dom, which is what you are. Like, if you're doing something really HARD with her, whisper or hiss how fantastic she looks while you're doing it, or how fucking aroused you are. She really REALLY digs approval.

I can't think of any hard no's other than the usuals (shitplay, mutilation, diapers, etc). Mess up her mohawk a little, but with that edge of respect, tell her she's unique for having it, respect it while you're molesting it :)

If I think of anything else, I'll let you know. And really, thank you so much for asking, I can tell you really want this to go right.

Gratitude,
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