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- Goblin King
- It's so nice to talk to someone and have them say "yeah, I'm have my the same troubles, for the same or similar reasons".
- Goblin King
- It might not fix things but I feel a lot better.
- moonsey
- that's goooood
- Goblin King
- And that perhaps rp is too toxic for me to deal with right now. or ever
- moonsey
- how so? D:
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- ;A; How come?
- Goblin King
- For me, I suppose, I want to matter but it's just too big. I'm a grain of sand on a beach. (And this is game wise)
- Goblin King
- I unfortunately do compare myself to others and wonder why do they have x and I y etc etc
- gσηє вαтту
- yep
- Goblin King
- Sometimes it's just for comparative reasons. Others it is solely selfish of "why are they so popular" or "have so much cr" or fill in the blank.
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- To be honest, I feel the same about that, that wanting to matter in a whole scheme of a game. And sometimes it does get me down as well. But you know...you do matter to the people where you do matter to.
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- I think for me it helps. Even though I've been snubbed and blown off by people so many times, it helps to know that there are people you matter to.
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- I messaged people for CR and they never get back to me, I asked people to plot on plurk and no way in hell they add me, I put up logs for people and no way they reply to it. It is shit, really shit.
- Goblin King
- I imagine we all do it to some extent. I just take it to heart sometimes a bit harder. Like its a good thing as I'll never be mentioned on the bad side of the anon come but the converse is true to
- Goblin King
- *too. In that I'll never be mentioned on the good side either.
- moonsey
- Are you basing your worth also on an anon comm?
- Goblin King
- Man, I haven't even touched on the amount of flakes you have to put up with. Of course, it's done of those flakes that I see get so celebrated. Which pisses me off even more. And then hate spiral.
- moonsey
- There are quite a few of us who do believe you're worth it and really enjoy playing with you.
- moonsey
- RP can be toxic but only if you let it :-(
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- Exactly! You matter to me, and to moonsey and to a whole lot of others.
- ricatrix.
- this makes me so sad bc you're definitely at the top of my favorite cr
- ricatrix.
- but... okay
- sakura
- it sounds like you may need to take a break from rp for a bit...
- moonsey
- It's tough to look past, all of that stuff, but man you matter and we're here to have fun with you and we do
- sakura
- or at least plurk or something? focus on what makes you happy about tags
- sakura
- and just doing tags, doing your thing
- ricatrix.
- ^this
- moonsey
- rp is supposed to be a fun hobby ;_; not one where you worry about being mentioned/popular
- sakura
- try not to focus on what anyone else is doing
- sakura
- we all get these feelings in rp
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- You're absolutely worth it, you are fun and dedicated to your character and plots. Just do your thing, you do a good thing.
- sakura
- when i notice i'm having them, i tell myself "ok you need to distance"
- ricatrix.
- do your thing and don't focus so much on the one thing in rp that absolutely do not matter one bit. Focus on US who actually love you and want to play with you
- sakura
- and i'll stay off plurk and just try to do tags or focus on fun cr or a thread
- ricatrix.
- the grass is totally not greener on the other side
- moonsey
- A very good thing X-(
- sakura
- what rica said
- sakura
- you could even hiatus and just do other things!! you will feel better before you notice
- ricatrix.
- and maybe this is just me but whenever I see plurks like this I feel like... okay then. What we're doing isn't enough apparently.
- ricatrix.
- so maybe think about that as well
- sakura
- but when you're comparing yourself and thinking things like that it's really time to step away
- sakura
- yes
- sakura
- that too
- moonsey
- I agree with Rica, especially when we all tell you that you do matter and that we do have a lot of fun with you and want to thread lots
- ricatrix.
- I squirm with happiness whenever I get a Norman tag but if that's not fun for you? Maybe you really should take a break
- sakura
- even if you may not mean it, if you say things like that it either sends a difficult message to your friends or makes us wonder who you're talking about
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- Ugh, I love it when my inbox is full of Norman
- sakura
- aka "who is popular but doesn't deserve it", etc.
- moonsey
- As do I
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- Don't let this all get to you because it'll make you feel miserable. All these people love you and your tags. Just know that you're loved bb.
- Goblin King
- Sorry, work needed me. Okay. You're right to call out the selfishness of this. 99% percent of the time I don't even think about it but there is always that 1% of dark moments that I do.
- moonsey
- <3
- Goblin King
- (Like now) I shouldn't and I don't know why I do. I guess a need for validation that isn't necessarily from someone I know? It's stupid. And I'm sorry if I hurt anyone here.
- Goblin King
- Know that I love guys and your tags. (And I wish I could give some back to you, I really do.)
- moonsey
- You can ;;
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- Goblin King
- I guess some people are like the movie frozen to me: I personally wasn't wowed but others are all over it so it makes my head tilt a little in wonder. It's not fair for me to lash out.
- Goblin King
- But thank you, know that I'm hold back tears at work and I love you all. I'll work on pulling my head out from the darkness. (heart_beat)
- Goblin King
- (And yeah I do need to stay off plurk but it is a bad habit and also one of the few places I can talk about stuff i want to. Not much room for comics talk in the er.)
- ѕoвв ѕтαrĸ
- If you ever feel like venting or letting things out, you can always PP me.
- moonsey
- I understand that logic, the movie frozen thing compared to people, I understand it so much and can relate but at the sametime don't let it get to you too
- moonsey
- At the end of the day you should do what you do best, have fun with it and those that are here to enjoy your company and tags and have fun with you ;;
- ricatrix.
- not understanding why people like frozen doesn't mean you can't like other movies
- moonsey
- And if you want I'm down to do anything outside of a game, like a musebox thing with Norman & Tess or Norman & Lucy, whatever you want if you just need a break from games and want to write/tag still
- moonsey
- PP me too if you ever need to, if something's wrong or you just want to chat
- Goblin King
- Yeah. I need to remember to enjoy what I have, not be jealous of what I perceive I don't. (~Life lessons ~) I really do love all my cr here.
- moonsey
- Some jealousy is okay, it's a natural feeling but don't let it rule you and ruin your funtimes ;;
- Goblin King
- 99% of the time I'm okay, I guess all the things aligned correctly for it to all come to s head right now. (I'm blaming the month of November. I think it messes with me.)
- Goblin King
- <3 I'll definitely keep that in mind.
- moonsey
- <33333
- kioaun
- I am late to the party and definitely feel you on this
- kioaun
- And everyone has said pretty much what I would say. It sucks sometimes when people have things you want and things you try to work toward and it doesn't seem to work. Ariel is really bad about that
- kioaun
- But I definitely have fun playing with you and enjoy your tags and I know others do as well. Sometimes like just gets us down and it helps RP get us down and just repeats
- kioaun
- I wish I could do something to help but it's just one of those things. I think you've got a grip on it.
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