public bool DoUpdate(string query, string[] data) {

        using (OleDbConnection conn = new OleDbConnection(this.ConnStr))
        {
            try
            {
                OleDbCommand cmd = new OleDbCommand(query, conn);
                DateTime tmp;
                for (int i = 0; i < data.Length; i++)
                {
                    if (DateTime.TryParse(data[i], out tmp)) // Checks if valid date...
                        cmd.Parameters.Add(new OleDbParameter("?", OleDbType.Date) { Value = tmp.ToString() });
                    else
                        cmd.Parameters.AddWithValue("?", data[i]);
                }
                conn.Open();
                cmd.ExecuteNonQuery();
                conn.Close();
            }
            catch (OleDbException ex)
            {
                MessageBox.Show(ex.ErrorCode.ToString() + "nn" + ex.Message + "nn" + query);
                if (conn.State == ConnectionState.Open)
                {
                    conn.Close();
                    return false;
                }
            }
        }
        return true;
    }

// [ time string is DateTime.Now.ToString("M/dd/yyyy h:mm:ss tt") ]
if ( DB.DoUpdate("UPDATE Loads SET Customer='?', FinishTime=?, Carrier='?', Reference='?', Tags='?', Status='Received' WHERE LoadID = ?",
         new string[] { Item["Customer"], Item["FinishTime"], Item["Carrier"], Item["Reference"], Item["TagIDs"], Item["LoadID"] }) ) { ... }