$(".check_update").change(
function(){
 $.ajax(
    {
      type: "POST",
      url: "/_include/update.php",
      data: "player_id=95&parameter="+this.getAttribute("name")+"&value="+$(this)[0].value,
      success: function(result){
        if(result != 1){
            alert('update failed');
          console.log(result)
        }
      },
      dataType: "tinyint"
    }
  )
}