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Apr 19th, 2019
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  1. SELFWORTHLOBSTERMAXXX (PETERSON - SEE URSELF AS A TOOP DOG IN INTERACTION , FRAME)
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  3. NAPUERDALAJ HANE W ANGRY FEJSA JAK MA KUTONA W DUPIE I DUS
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  5. I was feeling super confident the whole time, being indifferent, not giving much attention, acting spontaneously, leading her to cool places and waterfalls and just having fun for once
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  7. They have wonderfully primitive instincts. We have emancipated them, but they remain slaves looking for their masters, all the same. They love being dominated
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  9. They have decided it is your job to lead, to initiate, to make things happen, to smile first, to approach first, to talk first. In short to do 90% of the work and take 100% of the risk out of the interaction for them, at least at first.
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  11. bardzo waznej rzeczy sie nauczylem : posiadz jej emocje a ci sie odda, cialo tez. wejdz w glowe rozemocjionuj na maksa
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  13. BEING NEVRVOUS = BEING WEAK
  14. SHOWING WEAKNESS TO A FEMALE = PANTIES DRY
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  16. BP IS ANTISEDUCTION SINCE IT REQUIRES YOU TO PLACE HER OVER U. U CAN REWARD HER BUT ONLY FOR SUBMISSION AND FOLLOWING
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  18. THEY ARE ATTRACTED TO POWER/LEADING/SUPERIORITY - FRAME URSELF AS SUCH,LEAD THEM ,DONT LISTEN TO THEM,ASSERT DOM OVER THEM
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  20. THEY LIKE TO SUBMIT BUT YOU HAVE TO BE MASCULINE ASSERTIVE AND DOMINANT
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  22. THE ANGRIER SHE PRESENTS HERSELF THE MORE SHE SEEKS TO BE DOMINATED
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  24. FRAME, TREATING HER AS INFERIOR SUBMISSIVE SEXUAL BEING IS NUMBER ONE
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  26. Authority. Being rough isn't just about strength. It's in your tone of voice, the way you carry yourself, etc. If you let her know you're in charge, and assume the dominant persona, you can toss her around, because she won't resist in any way. If you can't get her where you want her, make her do it.
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  28. This is one if the reasons we tell married guys to lift. Pick your wife up, set her down. Lizard brain foreplay.
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  30. One of my signature finishing moves during a position change is to drag the girl across the bed by her ankle. They all fucking LOVE it.
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  32. You can (lightly) pull her hair.. give her a smack on her ass now and again. Tell her to get on her knees or other sexual positions. Larger girls often feel more "petite" when handled aggressively because it makes them feel better about their size. At least from what they've told me. Obviously you can't toss her around like you can a tiny girl.. but just assuming she's into it, acting like the dominate male will get her juices flowing nicely.
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  34. You seem alpha and strong now, by demonstrating both imposing physical presence and social leadership / mental discipline for preventing the fight.
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  38. Physical strength = good genes = mating call. They are all animals end of day.
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  40. PATRZ NA NIE JAK NA MALE ZAGUBIONE DZIEWCZYNKI DO ZERZNIECIA I POPROWADZENIA
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  42. ONE SA SEKSUALNYMI LUDZMI I CHCA BY IM KTOS CIPE PRZETRZEPAL
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  44. GOOD LOOKS TO TYLKO FURTKA I POZWOLENIE BYS MOGL ZACZAC, WCIAZ PRACA NA TOBIE JEST
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  46. PODSTAWA TO POPRWADZENIE INTERAKCJI I MOWIENIE BY JA NAKRECIC TO CO CHCE USLYSZEC. ONA CHCE BYC ZDOBYTA POZOSTAJAC PASYWNA I NIE NARAZAJAC SIE. SEKSUALNY TON ODRAZU. NIE STRAC JEJ JAK TYCH CIPEK Z ASOSA
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  48. FEMINIS IS A SHIT TEST, THEY ARE TO BE TAKEN. REMEMBER SHE WANTS TO BE TAKEN AND DOMINATED WHILE REMAINING PASSIVE
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  50. Began meditation as a habit and completely recovered from depression and depersonalization/derealization
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  52. I upped my wardrobe, styled my hair, improved my teeth, and drastically improved my physique.
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  54. I have read 25+ books since January 1st
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  56. Quiet confidence is something women immediately pick up on and find extremely attractive.
  57. dont try to fit in,fuck em
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  59. I don’t do anything to impress anyone
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  61. 'Pleaser' behavior lies at the heart of most of my failures. It isn't so much a habit as an ingrained worldview.
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  63. Me and my buddy talk about this all the time. We were both raised to be the worlds doormat. Now we are adults with wives and realizing we were sold a lie. The worst part is, pleasing people is what feels natural and good. Sticking up for ourselves is extremely uncomfortable.
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  65. Social media. Shitty Food. Porn. Alcohol. Gaming. All beta dopamine releases..... Instead of fucking. Combat. Sport. Sex. Competition etc which is alpha
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  67. Easy...just don't give a fuck (look up IDGAF attitude and outcome independence). You just have to realize that rejection doesn't change anything. Life is not about maintaining a perfect batting average (baseball analogy for non US redditors), it is about the number of hits you get--regardless of the number of strikeouts.
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  69. It does not make sense even more when you've been lifting for years and you actually intimidate women.
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  71. Yet in your head you fear them.
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  73. That's even more brutal.
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  75. If there's one thing you must remember it is :
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  77. Women's bitchiness is just a facade. Women's frame is naturally weak. It crumbles sooner or later. They fake it.
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  79. Imagine a girl wanting to fight you. You lift twice or thrice her weight in the gym, just imagine how much physical damage you could to her if you wanted to.
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  81. Be rational, guys.
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  83. What the fuck could happen?
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  85. We fear rejection because of our ego, nothing more. The ego is what stops us.
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  88. Caring too much, trying too much to please her, not focusing on my own happiness and map, not owning my shit, being too emotional, opening up too much, not confiding enough in my male friends as an alternative, not working out hard enough, spending too much energy complaining and being negative, arguing, DEERING, trying to explain myself, always needing to prove I was right, not resetting every day, feeling bad for myself, and not taking enough action while talking too much.
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  92. Idk any content but in everyday life you're always competing against other males. Establish dominance. Convince others that you're better. Follow TRP rules: Appearance(lift, posture, dress well), Frame(confidence, stoicism, control) & beta shaming/shit test(puts them down and let's you know who's in control). Pretty much the other side of the fence than OP is talking about.
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  95. 5’11”
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  97. 31 years old
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  99. 15% bodyfat
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  101. $130k (salary + investments)
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  103. Ginger (I get compared to Dameon Louis, for a reference)
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  105. Live in my own apartment in downtown Boston
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  107. Tinder profile has recent pics from a bachelor party and wedding
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  109. Normal social life but nothing crazy
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  111. A few hobbies (rock climbing, photography, drawing, cooking)
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  114. Good hygiene
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  116. Matching clothes
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  118. Furniture that isn’t disgusting
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  120. A clean apartment
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  122. At least one skill that can also be sexual (I learned massage and own a table)
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  124. A career you care about, or at least working towards one
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  126. Attending social events that are not just about drinking
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  128. A dating profile that doesn’t have just bathroom selfies
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  130. A social circle of people that are interesting
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  132. Hobbies that she will want to be a part of (rock climbing for me)
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  134. That’s it. That’s what it takes to stand out. That is the bare minimum you need to make yourself attractive, and you don't even need everything on that list. I didn’t include lifting/fitness on here because that should be a given. If money is an issue, order new furniture off of WayFair (do not buy Ikea). Get a new haircut from a gay stylist, and tell him you want a masculine/clean look. If you have no fashion sense, go to an affordable but trendy clothing store and tell the girl working there that you want a new outfit to go see your friends band in, and let her pick it out for you. Take pictures of you doing things and being around people and use that on Tinder instead of a selfie. Say something other than "hey" when you message your matches. If you get nervous talking to women, then talk to them like it is one of your friends but make a note to turn the conversation sexual at some point. That is all you have to do. You don’t have to be Chad. You don’t have to be 6’5”. You don’t have to earn $300k. You don’t have to drive a Porsche.
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  140. LMSMAXX ,BE ON UR PURPOSE
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  142. USE SEX TO ESTABLISH DOMINANCE OVER HER AND SHOW UR STRENGTH
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  146. Be dominant right from the start. Even the first kiss should abolutely show where the trip will be going. Don't try. Just do.
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  149. MAKE URSELF AWARE THAT U A RARE COMMODITY , MOST GUYS R NOT SHIT AND U INTIMIDATE HIM , U EVEN INTIMIDATED THIS BALD PAKI
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  151. U NEED THAT DOM SEXUAL I LL FUCK THE SHIT OUT OF YOU WHORE AND DOMINATE YOU FRAME
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  153. Confidence and attitude is such a large oart of the equation. Entitlement as chris calls it butnI guess I'm only understanding it right now. Whats stopping me from just assuming I'm top shit?I know where I get my source of happiness from though. I want to be known as a hard worker. I dont care what it is I'm doing, whether its girls, study etc. I just want to be seen as a hard worker. Thats my source of validation and the one thing I actually can control. That is they key to my confidence. (Getting laid evidently was not). Just work hard. Be a hard worker and you will be happy. It is the ultimate skill and universally respected.Thats my waffle for now. Going ti setup some dates with all these matches. Also start preparing for continuing the AA program - thinking of getting a hidden cam and recording drills.
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  155. --learn womanese because the more a woman subcoms with you, the more she is sexually attracted and being able to transfer between these modes of communication while maintaining your masculinity is the secret to seduction.
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  157. powoli gotuj zabe do poddanczejbdsm pozycji jako twoja dziewczynka
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  159. a man who wins is the man who thinks he can win
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  161. adversity is opportunity in disguise
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  163. MANUP,JUST DO IT , APPROACH ANXIETY IS A FRAME ISSUE, REFRAME IT SEE URSELF AS GIIVING THE VLAUE
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  165. obiektywnie jestem wyzszy lepiej zbudowany bardziej odwazny i mam lepszy ryjec niz wiekszosc i bardziej zadbany jestem inteligentny i mam wiecej sily charakteru i wieksze ambicje , nie ma powodu dla ktorego mialbym zle sobie radzic z laskami
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  167. If she meets an average or below-average looking guy who can attract her in more important ways and make her feel the way that she truly wants to feel when with a guy, then she will be a winner in life for being with him.
  168. Her life is going to be GREAT because she is attracted to her man and he makes her feel the way she really wants to feel with a guy
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  170. A woman’s attraction for a man is mostly based on how his personality, behavior and communication style makes her feel.
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  172. . One of the things women think about, when deciding whether to date you or not, is your social circle. The people you surround yourself with matter a lot when it comes to what sort of girls you can attract. There are two reasons why. First, it signals to potential mates what your "sexual market value" is (i.e., how good a catch you are). If you're a millionaire, what are the chances your five closest friends are not millionaires? Slim. If you're a successful musician, what are the chances your five closest friends are not also successful musicians or music executives? Slim. By hanging out with certain kinds of people, you signal to her what sort of mate you are. Perhaps you've not heard it, but it's often said that you are the sum of the five people you spend time with most. If you spend a lot of time with successful, ambitious people who look after themselves, you'll probably pick up on their habits and become the sixth.
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  174. rule 1: assume a sexual frame from the very beginning, straight til the bitter end. if she challenges it, double downrule 2: less is more. the less you say, the more her imagination can fill in the gaps. being wordy is for suckers. the balance you have to find is knowing how to be the driver of the conversation without being a weird wordy mother fuckerjust go practice, you will figure it out. trial and error style, just like the rest of us. learn what works and what doesnt. there aint no formula, its not a math equation
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  176. play : i hate , you always speak to me like thaat i need to punish u girl
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  178. NAJPROSCIEJ SIE ZMOTYWOWAC WYOBRAZAJAC SOBIE SEKS Z BABKA , ZDOMINUJ JA MA BYC TWOJA
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  180. HOW U MAKE HER FEEL ?
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  182. MUSISZ BYC AKTYWNA STRONA BIORACA INICJATYWE ZAWSZE , BYCIE PASYWNYM = WALENIE KONIA. ONA CHCE BYC ZDOBYTA A SAMA POZOSTAC PASYWNA
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  184. VOICETONE
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  186. MASTER SEXUAL CONFIDENT STARE
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  190. DONT PUT HER ABOVE YOU ,YOU'RE BETTER THAN HER
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  194. NON SCARED OF REJECTION , NOT LETTING OTHERS DEFINE YOUR WORTH
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  196. NIE BYC WYDMUSZKA , MIEC FACETA I SILE MENTALNA W SOBIE
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  198. LEADING
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  200. MASCULINE FRAME
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  202. IM ADDING TO HER LIFE FRAME
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  204. DONT OVERVALIDATE , GIVE SCRAPS ONLY
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  206. DONT O VERPURSUE, KEEP IT COOL
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  208. DONT TAKE SHIT FROM ANYBODY
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  210. FLIRT TO VERBAL TICKLE, SHE IS A SEXUAL BEING
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  214. EMOTIONALLY SECURE AND OUTCOME INDEPENDENT
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  216. ONE LUBIA CZUC EMOCJE, ODPLYNAC W HAJ EMOCJONALNY
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  218. MOWA WOLNA PEWNA STWIERDZJAACA
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  221. ABUDANCE, NON NEEDINESS
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  223. ACCEPT PUTTING YOURSELF IN POSITION TO BE REJECTED ,IN VULNERABLE ONE
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  225. DONT OVERCOMPENSATE WITH GIFTS / ASSKISSING
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  227. HAVE BOUNDARIES AND ENFORCE THEM, DONT LET HER WALK OVER YOU
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  229. ● Being rejected by a woman is polarization, and polarizing women is more important than being pleasant to them.
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  231. IF YOU DONT ADVANCE WOMAN WILL GO TOWARDS BEING UNRECEPTIVE , TIME TICKS
  232. The goal is to take an action that forces her to decide how she feels about you.
  233. You must express sexual interest, or you will end up in the friend zone.
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  235. Strongly believe in the idea of “fuck yes” or “fuck no”.
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  237. ● Focus your time and energy on meeting women in situations where they are likely to share your values, interests, and needs.
  238.  
  239. ● People tend to conform to what we expect of them.
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  241. When we are confronted with our fears or anxieties, we have a pattern or strategy that we usually use to deal with them. Here are some of the common patterns: 
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  243. o Blame Game: When confronted with something he fears, a man blames something/someone else for his fear. This often comes with anger and frustration. The anger can pile up and lead to some bitter and irrational beliefs about women. 
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  245. o Apathy/Avoidance: A man convinces himself that he doesn’t care, and that it doesn’t matter if the girls he likes don’t find him attractive. 
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  247. o Intellectualizing: Instead of ​ doing​ something, you look up an answer that you can study. There comes a certain point where learning more about a subject is no longer beneficial and on the contrary, is just going to get you more mixed up and confused, since you have no experience to actually apply your knowledge to. 
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  249. ● These patterns aim to ​ avoid​ the fear and they usually do it by convincing themselves of something that’s not necessarily true.
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  251. Challenge yourself to find the good and beautiful thing inside of everyone
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  253. They  don’t  do  it  so  that  they  can  revel  in  rejecting  a  bunch  of  guys. 
  254. They’re just as lonely and frustrated as we are. They want to meet a man.
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  256. Feeling fear and acting despite it builds courage
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  258. ● If  a  man  begins  to  flirt  with  a  woman  by  teasing  her,  then  suddenly  he adds  a  new  dimension  by  creating  uncertainty:  Does  he  like  me  or  not?
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  260. ● The  most  important  rule  of  emotional  connection  is  to relate to feelings, not facts. Seduction is about feelings, not facts.
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  276. MAINTAIN POWER AND DECISIVNESS
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  278. BE SURE OF YOURSELF, NEVER TIMIDNESS NERVOUSNES , AVOIDING OR FEELING ANXIOUS
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  282. NON RACTIVE , NON NEEDY , NON SEEKING VALIDATION ,
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  284. READY FOR CONFRONTATION
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  286. OTWARTOSC,LUZ,USMIECH,PEWNOSC SIEBIE ,BYCIE APPROACHABLE
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  288. FEELS OVER LOGIC , MUSISZ UMIEC JE WYWOLYWAC
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  292. MAINTAIN STEADY HAND
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  294. DOMINANCE ( DURING SEX FOR EXAMPLE )
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  296. MASCULINE
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  298. CHARMING
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  302. NON NEEDY
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  304. UMARCIE BEZ PROBOWANIA TO ULTIMATE PORAZKA
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  306. GET HER TRU EAR,EMOTIONAL WHISPERING
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  308. MINDSET GRA DO JEDNEJ BRAMKI
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  310. PUT HER IN FEMININE SUBMISSIVE CHILDLIKE PROTECTED FRAME
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  312. INNER GAME , INNER BELIEFS , MINDSETS THAT ARE OPEN
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  314. BOLDNESS,MASCULINITY,CONFIDENCE,
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  316. BODYLANGUAGE (WALK LIKE YOU OWN THIS MFKA)
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  318. EYECONTACT , ESCALATION
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  322. VIBE
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  324. HAVE FRAME BACKBONE AND BALLS
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  326. ZESZMAC ALE NIECH TO BEDZIE TWOJA SZMATA POD TWOJA PROTEKCJA
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  329. FLIRT TECHNIQUES :
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