Otto01/16/2020
Umm.... hey.
You doing okay?

Kay01/16/2020
Yeeeees, hey. If you'd sent a friend request around when I left the server, I think I assumed it was a request from Erti and auto-refused it. So, uh. Sorry about that!

Otto01/16/2020
Hah... I was wondering why I was declined, cuz afaik I haven't really done anything. Which... could be seen as a good or bad thing.

Kay01/16/2020
I was not in the best of places, so. I do remember seeing a request and refusing it, but like I said, I thought it was Erti's request, not you. (And I refused that for self-preservation. Erti's gone attack-dog on people before in similar situations, and I just did not want to deal with that.

Otto01/16/2020
Hes... working on it. Even then... I don't think its wrong to get upset or angered when someone hurts someone you care for.
Doesn't mean he can't go about it better but...
it happened.

Kay01/16/2020
It's not wrong to be upset or angry about it. It's wrong to attack someone though, I'd say.

Otto01/16/2020
Hes just passionate... and it bleeds into his anger. Again... hes trying to work on it. Doesn't make it okay with the way he responded, but hes trying.(edited)
and you have every right to be fearful or not want to be apart of that
sigh...

Kay01/16/2020
Less 'fear' more just 'not down with that'.

Otto01/16/2020
I think... you and Fox need to start getting better at not making assumptions and it seems to always boil down to some misunderstanding and miscommunication. Both of you are also easy to get heated... its something that seems to be of a pattern whenever you two get into arguments.

Kay01/16/2020
Noted. No-one seems to be able to get me angry like Fox, though. We're aware of it, and we've talked about it.

Otto01/16/2020
You talk about it but... I don't know if things have really changed at all or if you two really understand. Or perhaps its one of you who don't fully understand(edited)
It just seems to keep happening afaik
and its why I don't like it when you two go at it, besides how emotionally taxing it can be on both of you

Kay01/16/2020
We don't like it either, y'know.

Otto01/16/2020
I don't doubt that
but it still happens, regardless if you two don't enjoy it or not(edited)

Kay01/16/2020
Well, yeah. We have been trying to work on stuff, it just ain't working that well.

Otto01/16/2020
Well... why do you think it isn't?
Is it you? Is it him? Is it both of you?

Kay01/16/2020
Bit of both.

Otto01/16/2020
What do you feel is making things harder from your end?

Kay01/16/2020
I don't think my messages are getting through.


Otto01/16/2020

testing testing

Kay01/16/2020

I think I'm going to bed.

Otto01/16/2020
Thats fine