Davian

♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Last Tuesday at 1:02 PM
Why? o-o ;
Well to be fair we haven't spoke in years since then so I guess I might have.
At least I didn't forget -you- :u

Yep that's right.
Whatever happened to you and Davian? I left shortly after I found out about you two when I was Severus and he added me on fb and was telling me you guys were on the verge of breaking up.
⋆ ★ ⋆Last Tuesday at 1:09 PM
Cause playing online gives me anxiety.
I mean, I guess that’s okay, I guess. xT
Uhh, I don’t mean to sound horrible or anything but I found him to be surprisingly manipulative and controlling.
I dunno what he spoke to you about but apparently me talking to you and being generically friendly threatened him somehow. I wasn’t into that so we split up, aaaand I haven’t spoken to him since.
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Last Tuesday at 1:17 PM
You're gonna have to explain that. Why? You talk or did talk to mad ppl online all the time. It's the same idea but just your playing a game.
But then again ive been playing mmos for over 10 years. I remember when I first started wow I was so scared to go in a dungeon with my friends I made excuses on why I couldnt go lmao then I finally went in and it was no big deal.

& That's really funny cause he said the same about you. When I left I was mad af cause he's always been after me ever since we split, and then you know how I would get about you. No matter how long it was. Well he friended me on fb and said you were being bratty and manipulative about some money he gave you or something about a blanket? Well.. after that he got super like i want to date you irl shit and at first i was just talking to him cos rp wise like he was legit the only one on the /editor/ side of rp that could go toe to toe with me with the kid gloves off. So we'd talk and although im writing alot now you KNOW he types ALOT. Like every reply. So idk eventually I was like I can't reply to all this, he sent me this custom drawn valentine and asked me out with it and I turned him down cos he was saying irl and I told him way before I dont date long distance. Been burned to many damn times. Plus he was like doing this im a girl one day im a boy the next and it was weird for me.
i logged into my div tester the other day and saw he had messaged this secret account i had and was like Vincent is this you?
and i was like well shit
I don't think hes active tho, cos i sent him a link and he hasnt added me.
You guys just dont talk anymore?
did it end that bad?
⋆ ★ ⋆Last Tuesday at 1:29 PM
I dunno, I feel like my gaming has to be on point if I’m online, the thought of having someone criticise me is terrifying. It’s different when I’m casually talking about nonsense to people I hang with.

Uh, that stuff about the blanket was because I was living in a hostel, poor and cold, etc. He kept trying to send me money and I kept saying no because I felt bad, and also that if I did accept the money, I didn’t want to use it to buy a blanket, but he kept saying that I should, and that I was homeless because my fam didn’t care about me and all this weird shit. He also kept trying to get me to live with him, which I didn’t want to cause yeah, I was homeless but moving to another country entirely didn’t make any sense. He got someone else from rp living with him and he treated her like dirt, then he got someone else and also treated her like dirt. Then someone else visited him and all he did was hit on her and try to have sex with her.
After we split up, he persuaded someone to like... put in a good word for him or some shit, like they’d keep saying how Davian missed me and that he was sorry and that he wanted to talk to me. So I was like, no means no, lmao.
And he was hella nasty the last I spoke to him so, I ain’t interested.
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Last Tuesday at 1:36 PM
Jesus fucking christ. See thats the shit he was talking to me like i said in the beginning I AM NOT INTERESTED IN A RL THING WITH U
and he was like oh yeah def i get it but maybe one day you might grow feelings and i was like dont hold ur fucking breath but he still pushed it. Anyways but about that move in shit you were right dont fucking do that unless you like deadass fucking been with them for some years. I moved to nyc and my bf of a year dumped me on Yule eve after accepting $600 in presents from me, i bought that fucker a tablet and a buncha other shit, but like I had told him before i left BREAK UP WITH ME if you aren't wanting to eventually move to nyc and he just bsed all the way till I figured out his lies w/e but like  HOW DID HE GET 3 fucking ppl from ani to move??? WHAT? must be young ppl. Moving is a big god damn thing i did that all through my twenties like it wasn't shit but never again. I lost sooo much shit. Im glad to be settled. Not relying on others.

I deleted him from fb just before i came back to ani tho cause like id forget he was on there cos when I told no when he asked me out we just fell out. But hed like go on there and beg for stuff from ppl and it was cringey so I just removed him. What kinda shit did he say that was nasty? And how was he controlling? He never tried that shit with me.
As far as the pressure you must be a perfectionist
theres hundreds thousands of ppl on mmos
like if ppl got a problem with how I play they can suck my ass
unless you're a tank or heals
then its a little different
but still im new af to FFXIV so I know i be looking dumb still figuring mad shit out
⋆ ★ ⋆Last Tuesday at 2:04 PM
It was him making me feel like my fam didn’t care about me, always offering to buy me shit, which he quickly tried to revoke after we had our argument. If I spoke to certain people, he’d get upset. If I played ffxiv without him, he’d get upset. He’d get weird about edits and stuff. When we argued he said that he didn’t trust me and that I was a bitch, etc, then told others something similar.
The thing is tho, he has this image in rp which is all charming and sincere and romantic but it’s literally just to lure you in. A friend of mine who visited him said his place was dirty, he didn’t take care of his dogs, the place stunk of cigarettes and he made the other girl living with him do everything for him. He makes it seem like he really cares about you but honestly, he’s living off his moms disability benefits and he doesn’t do shit for himself.
Ffxiv was my first mmo so, yeah, I was nervous.
Not really a perfectionist, just nervous.
And I picked healer for my first class so... yeah, hella nervous.
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Last Tuesday at 2:15 PM
Well to be fair many significant others would be bothered/offer most of that stuff. The whole he called you a bitch thing that's a first red flag that he doesnt give a shit. & As far as all that rl crap, rl isnt rp so hes bound to be different. But I remember him giving me sob storys and doing go fund mes on fb and shit too. I didnt know he was that bad tho. Disability isnt shit idk how BOTH of them are even living off of it.

Oh god you done goofed. Picked a healer first
He might have felt like your fam didnt care about you genuinely and it upset him
OR
he mighta been manipulating that so you'd run into his arms and move with him
maybe he moves these ppl in so he can get money out of them
Howd you find all this shit out about him tho personally?
You talked to those ppl that lived with him?
⋆ ★ ⋆Last Tuesday at 2:58 PM
Yeah, he started pressuring me after saying that he wanted his money back, and if I couldn’t give it back he’d be “nice” enough to let me pay him in Gil instead.
Yeeee, no. I’ve had nothing but good things to say about my fam, with the exception of my dad, he knew full well that they were trying their best to support me despite their circumstances.
Oh, I know both of the girls he lured over there, I met one of them in London last year, actually. So she spilled all the tea.
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Last Tuesday at 11:51 PM
Why did he ask for his money back? Who does that? In gil? Lmao what? Is he on ffxiv too? e_o;
What am I talking about everyone is. & Oh my, that must of been entertaining.
June 19, 2019
⋆ ★ ⋆Yesterday at 2:04 AM
Idk, he’s an asshole. Clearly he didn’t mean to help me out or something. He asked for like, 10mil in Gil.
Yeah, and she messaged me while she was at Davian’s place, she showed me pictures and everything.
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Yesterday at 6:45 AM
How much money did he send you?
cos it better have had a equal turn over rate
⋆ ★ ⋆Yesterday at 7:25 AM
Over the course of our relationship, he sent me like... £95?
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Yesterday at 8:22 AM
Oh well that probably would convert to that much gil but still why send money if you're gonna ask for it back. That's a douchey move.
⋆ ★ ⋆Yesterday at 9:12 AM
Well, I've sent him money in the past and bought him gifts, but I never expected him to pay it back.
There's a difference between gifts and loans.
♛𝕮𝖔𝖗𝖕𝖘𝖊 𝕻𝖗𝖎𝖓𝖈𝖊―Yesterday at 9:13 AM
Oh then he can go fuck himself tbh
Exactly
gifts you don't expect shit back