Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:25 PM
I honestly think he has a problem with people
Cause I mean, he went off just because he knew Jessie was going out with someone
Like, should it matter?
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:26 PM
Tbh, knowing the context, he had the right to go off
But not that fucking bad
Rather, he had the right to be upset, but not the right to go off
I think hes just really, really depressed
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:26 PM
The problem is, she was damned if she told people, damned if she didn't tell people
because you and other people didn't approve of Rigel at all, which made her feel invalid
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:27 PM
Yeah, but that doesn't mean she shouldn't of told us, especially since I was really tame about my reaction
Yeah I was upset, and I said I wish she at least told me, but at the same time its her own damn life
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:27 PM
From what she told me, you were acting very passive aggressive when they were just hanging out with each other
not even when they started dating
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:28 PM
Yeah, because Rigel kept getting up on her and touching her and that made me uncomfortable and he blatantly disrespected me several times
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:28 PM
From what I heard, he just rolled his eyes at you because you were being aggro
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:28 PM
Yeah, which made me more pissed off
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:29 PM
But he also wasn't doing anything?
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:29 PM
No that wasn't all that he was doing
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:29 PM
Jessie knows how to take care of herself, and she knows how to say no. If she truly had a problem with it, she would have told him so.
From the sounds of it, she had zero qualms about his actions
(Please note, I'm not doing this to anger you in any way, I'm just saying what I was told)
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:30 PM
Its not that she didn't want to say no, it is just that it made me uncomfortable because it was suppose to just me Jessie and I hanging out, and I told her specifically I didn't want to get third wheeled
Then last second Riguel asked to come over and she said yes without asking my insight
Because for a while I was just really wanting to hang out with just Jessie
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:31 PM
Well, you could have said that, and she could have arranged another time to hang out??
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:31 PM
I did
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:31 PM
I understand completely, but it was no need to be aggro on the guy. He's awkward.
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:31 PM
I get it, but also you have to remember my personality is genuinely aggro
Passive-aggressive aggro
It just made it worse because he was making me uncomfortable even after I asked him to stop
If my boyfriend and I were doing stuff like holding hands and whatnot, and someone asked politely to stop, I would
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:32 PM
The guy has ADHD, hasn't really had much of a friend group since graduating, and usually only stays at home.
But it's kinda not fair of you to say that you're being uncomfortable with something as simple as hand holding
Now if they were making out, I could understand that
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:33 PM
Having ADHD isn't an excuse, neither is not many friends or staying home... being taught that if you're making someone uncomfortable and being asked to stop is something they teach in elementary school
Also it was mostly the neck massage because it was.... really creepy cause she just kind of bunched up and genuinely looked uncomfortable
At least to me
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:34 PM
Jessie's neck is sensitive
That's the only reason she looked like that
She wasn't uncomfortable at all, cause she would have said no
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:34 PM
Are you just going to defend her or are you actually seeing my side of the story?
Cause you do that a lot
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:35 PM
I'm seeing both sides of this, but it's kinda not fair that you're judging rigel after one interaction
I understand that you were being creeped out, and he wasn't listening
but it's kinda not fair for you to be completely against the guy when you just hung out with him one time
It would have been like if I didn't want to be your friend in middle school because you looked like an emo chick
that's not fair to you
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:36 PM
Literally it was a first impression, of course I'm going to at least somewhat judge him. That is what people do when they first meet people. (Yeah we met once before, but that wasn't nearly as one on one.)

In fact, we've set aside our fucking differences the other day, I don't really care anymore, but I still stand beside what I felt in that moment
Hoodie_DragonToday at 9:36 PM
And that's ok
But I'm just stating that Jessie kinda felt like her feelings weren't valid since you and other people had a problem with it
thus, she told no one
I didn't mean to make you angry at all, just explaining
.-.
A M B U L A N C EToday at 9:37 PM
I've literally heard this from Jessie herself
You don't have to reiterate anything, and explaining it again doesn't change how I feel