How to get your ex girlfriend back...


Some women end up becoming a lesbian because most men can't handle their women very well.
If you want to get your ex girlfriend back, here's what you have to do...
First, you need to learn how to love your self. you can do that by starting to work on your issues.
First, you have to be financially stable because a NEEDY MAN is a BIG TURN OFF to women. and besides,
how can you be able to support her if you can't even provide something for yourself;
how can you bring her to a date if you don't have money. A man must be a provider.
Second, you have to be emotionally stable, when you say emotionally stable that means you have to have a self esteem.
self esteem is gained through one's accomplishment's, work, achievements. You have to be able to love and appreciate yourself
first before you can love someone. Third, i suggest you to read books on how to improve relationship with your partners.
I know some books that could be very helpful. try reading "Why Mars and Venus collide" and "the five love languages" and "the law of attraction"
The law of attraction makes perfect sense if you align your intentions with the universal intention of life, which is peace. It won't work if all you think about is how to advance yourself. Once you aim to bring peace into your own life, life itself will give you more of that. That's where the abundance comes from.
these books could help you handle your partners as well as improve your personality, your perception, and yourself.
you'll be able to gain a wide understanding of what a relationship should be, how you will cope with stress, and how will you sustain the romance.
after gaining enough learning and realizing what your partner needs, this is the time you should think...
What is the reason why you and your partner broke up? either its your fault or her fault. if you want her back, you should be more understanding
and instead of thinking of the bad thoughts you have in your mind, realize that you also commit mistakes and you should work on it.
don't repeat what you did and try your best to be sensitive about the feelings of your partner. A women wants someone who can understand her, someone who can be there for her and listen to her. She needs to be pampered and to be treated like a lady. Above everyone else, she wants to get emotional security and support from her partner. Try to compliment her in every way, she needs that. she has to feel that she's loved, cared for, and wanted. Try to appreciate each little thing she does for you. Bring her to nice places and make her feel special. whenever you fight, try not to talk first and calm yourself so that you'll avoid hurting her with your words. A women is to vulnerable to take harsh words. wait until your calm enough to talk to each other and avoid raising your voice.
Always put your feet on her shoes. put yourself in her place so that you'll understand what she feels. Give her flowers or gifts to make her happy.
write her a letter... she'll probably appreciate that sweet thing, every girl wants to receive a letter from the one that she loves.
Tell her how much you love her everyday in every way. Your effort will make her smile. start to get her back by saying your sorry and when you say your sorry, you have to say the reason what you are sorry for. you have to acknowledge her feelings. Say that you are sorry because you know it hurt her feelings (state the reason why) and you'll be more understanding, tell her that you were wrong and you've already realized your mistake and that you'll do your best to make things better.  Give her a peace offering that is made with your effort. she will love it. keep in mind that a good communication leads to a good relationship. Goodluck!!!