i'll simplify the situation down to the core

rob did most of the work on SAG and wanted ownership so he could work even more on roles, perms, and all of that stuff. rob wanted to continue working to prevent people from getting scammed.
honey bought SAG from Wolfarine for $25 and did less work than rob, and wanted to help those who have already been scammed. rob offered honey an admin position so honey could continue doing the work she believed in.
rob thought it was fair that he should get ownership because he did most of the work. since they believed in the same cause (preventing scams), it would make sense that honey should transfer the server to rob (as that is how she would get the most out of her $25). instead, honey liked the idea of being owner of SAG.
after disagreeing about who should be owner, honey decided to host a vote. while hosting the vote, she removed all of rob's perms. not to mention deleting admin, mod, helper, and eventually member roles.
honey was losing the vote by 5 votes and decided to purge all inactive members, hoping that rob's supporters were inactive. honey purged over 700 members who were inactive that day, and then said said they were all inactive for 30 days or more.
after removing all of the rules and purging 700 players, she said "oh yeah rob can have owner now" and left SAG, practically nuking the server.
rob didn't have admin perms, so only honey could end the vote early. honey ended the vote early after nuking the server, but then said "oh yeah i would've won", then suggested rob holds **a second vote** so honey can try and get ownership again. extremely scummy to hold a vote, try and remove all of your opponents supporters (not to mention banning players in chat for talking about the conflict), nuke the server, then leave. on top of that then saying "i would've won if members from my other server voted for me" which is rigging the votes. the weird thing is that she was already rigging votes by banning rob's supporters.
finally honey called rob a scammer and said her server was "stolen" by rob.
the server is being converted into a community server by doom_ninja, and rebuilding the server is in progress.

tldr: rob wanted ownership and offered honey admin perms if she gave him ownership. this was fair because rob did the majority of the work on SAG. honey wanted to cling to ownership because she bought the server for $25, though she would've gotten the most out of her money by exchanging ownership with rob. honey decided to held a vote, and was losing the vote. honey banned members who discussed the conflict they were pinged for in chat. honey wanted to get rid of rob's supporters, and purged all members inactive that day (over 700 members), but she said she purged all members who were inactive for 30 days or more. honey then removed admin, mod, helper, and member roles. honey then decided to transfer ownership to rob, leaving the server. honey rejoined and explained how she could've rigged the vote even more, then called rob a scammer for stealing her server. the server is now being converted into a community server.