private void boxCheckar(object sender, EventArgs e)
        {

            CheckBox box = (CheckBox)sender;
            int boxID = Convert.ToInt16(box.AccessibleName);
            if (box.Checked)
            {   // Yes I know I could have used radio buttons for this but I didn't want to
                if (box == AggressiveStance)
                {
                    DefendOnlyCheck.Checked = false;
                    whatToWrite[boxID] = whatToWrite[boxID].Replace("false", "true");
                }
                if (box == DefendOnlyCheck)
                {
                    AggressiveStance.Checked = false;
                    whatToWrite[boxID] = whatToWrite[boxID].Replace("false", "true");
                }
                whatToWrite[boxID] = whatToWrite[boxID].Replace("false", "true");
            }
            else
            {
                whatToWrite[boxID] = whatToWrite[boxID].Replace("true", "false");
            }
            // for testing purposes
            InfoText.Text = whatToWrite[boxID];
        }