HexesHexes Whisper: i jokingly called her outfit basic and she like..exploded
Gconai: Show me?
Rhapsodyae: I made a comment about her wearing blue jeans with a black top and a grey/white-black jacket. Saying I would have worn black pants it would have looked better. Vi made a comment about me calling the "basic police". She exploded.
Rhapsodyae: Something along those lines.
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Hexes: that was the last one
Gconai: Hm.
Gconai: Mon is very self-conscious about what she wears, even in real life and IMVU wise. At this day and age. She's trying to find her voice and apart of it is her trying to find what she likes and what's her medium. That inclides the style of clothing as well, because clothing at first, speaks about what you are before you even say a word. For example. If a girl walks into a room and she's half naked. Most people would get the idea that she's. a hoe? But, she isnt. In reality she's just a girl with her own sense of fashion and can change to where it'll be compatible to her personality.
Gconai: I genuinely feel like an Apology is required, to mon.
Hexes: i am like this
Hexes: all the time
Gconai: But this isn't about you.
Gconai: This is about Moni.
Hexes: if she can't take this one joke, how is it gonna go when i am in the same room with her for a week
Gconai: You perceive it as a joke.
Gconai: But, she doesn't.
Gconai: A joke might be a joke for some specific group, but it won't to another group of people.
Hexes: then i better not take that vacation. i'll have her angry bf on my doorstep then.
Gconai: Hold your horses.
Hexes: im serious dean
Hexes: this is how i roll.
Gconai: No, your exaggerating.
Hexes: i dont want to hurt someone because i am just being myself
Gconai: Is it hard to simply apologize?
Gconai: It's okay to be yourself,
HexesHexes Whisper: "call the basic police"
GconaiGconai : I read what happened.
Gconai: Claudia.
Gconai: But, look at it this way.
Hexes: i am not sorry for that and so i shall not pretend to.
Hexes: i will tell her
Gconai: But, listen to me first.
Hexes: i am.
Gconai: The reason she exploded at you is that. For one, let's identify her stress factors. She's studying, she has more than 10+ exams she has to study for. She has a very troublesome life at her home in, from what I gather. And that's enough for her to be timid and be prone to exploding at the very notion of what you call a joke. But, she see's it as an Insult. A knife to what she is as a female, a girl. Like I've said before. She's at a very critical point in her life where she's trying to find her self, and that includes her appearance. There's no wrong in you to be yourself and crack jokes that you and some other people find funny. But, to her? That's wronging her. I'm not saying you need to apologize for being yourself. I'm saying that you should just apologize for that ''Joke.'' Sacrifice your pride and be grateful that you received a little bit of easiness at such a bargain.
GconaiGconai : If that's difficult for you, cut ties. Because that's not family at all.
Hexes: i'm not gonna be fake sorry, thats even worse.
Gconai  Sigh.
Gconai: That's not a fake sorry, though?
Hexes: i'm just going to be honest
Gconai: That's a sorry for a joke, not a sorry for you being you.
Hexes: im not sorry for the joke either
HexesHexes Whisper: so imma just be honest
Gconai: Go on.
Hexes: can i just ask you for one favor?
Gconai: What is it.
Hexes: don't justify behaviour through hard life. if it would go like that, i wouldve been in jail for first degree murder.
Gconai: Nah.
Gconai: You want me to be considerate?
Gconai: Here I am.
Gconai: I'm being considerate to both you and everyone in the family.
Gconai: Like I said,
Gconai: It's not that difficult.
Gconai: It's simple.
Gconai: Just apologize.
GconaiGconai : Just apologize.
Gconai: Is it that hard?
Gconai: Like, really?
Hexes: it is, when i don't mean it.
Hexes: i gotta mean it
Hexes: thats important to me
Gconai: Who fucking cares if you mean it your don't.
Gconai: It's a moral responsibility.
Gconai: You cracked a joke, someone didn't see it as a joke.
Gconai: That's wronging somebdy.
Gconai: It's within your moral obligation to apologize.
Gconai: It's not rocket science.