ME AND KOPAKA:


Session Start: Thu Feb 16 17:23:40 2012
Session Ident: #kopper
[17:23] * Now talking in #kopper
[17:24] * Kopaka (18dc4a55@RUIN-8E9FBBB6.midco.net) has joined #kopper
[17:24] <Purge> Can you type here?
[17:25] <Kopaka> Dude freaking bad time im multitasking
[17:25] <Purge> That's fine.
[17:25] <Purge> Tell me what is going on? Why are you hating at cici?
[17:25] <Kopaka> Im not hating on her
[17:26] <Kopaka> #1 She says stuff that she doesn't know will piss me off
[17:26] <Purge> So then you say that was offensive
[17:26] <Purge> in a nice way
[17:26] <Purge> and kindly ask her not to repeat it
[17:27] <Kopaka> If I had a chance to go back in time I would definatly take it
[17:27] <Kopaka> I mean ruin is the only reason I still play Minecraft
[17:27] <Kopaka> Otherwise I would be gone in an instant
[17:27] <Kopaka> And ever since Cheese got banned Cici has been my punishment
[17:28] <Kopaka> And she doesn't really help when she brings up his name either
[17:28] <Kopaka> Because personally she doesn't have any right to talk about him
[17:29] <Purge> What about cheese?
[17:29] <Kopaka> Oh he pissed me off and now Cici does the same thing
[17:29] <Kopaka> You think I need a person raging in my face?
[17:29] <Kopaka> Because she does it to people
[17:29] <Kopaka> And when she's losing
[17:29] <Kopaka> She goes to a staff member to save her
[17:30] <Kopaka> Personally if she was getting yelled at and I was the only staff on irc and minecraft
[17:30] <Kopaka> I would probably close out
[17:30] <Kopaka> And play runescape
[17:31] <Purge> What kind of things
[17:31] <Purge> cause this to happen?
[17:31] <Kopaka> Oh her denying stuff she said in the past
[17:31] <Kopaka> That she knows she said
[17:31] <Kopaka> And acts like she didn't
[17:31] <Kopaka> Like calling my friend nerd a idiot twice
[17:31] <Kopaka> And then acting like she didn't do it
[17:34] <Purge> Okay, well
[17:34] <Purge> For one
[17:35] <Purge> You are a member of staff.
[17:35] <Purge> THis is completely unacceptable behavior.
[17:35] <Purge> Even if you do not like her, you do not start talking about her behind her back with other people like that. You do not make channels and talk about her.
[17:35] <Kopaka> Well like I said to neoinr yesterday from now on im keeping to myself
[17:35] <Kopaka> And so far i've said nothing directly to her
[17:35] <Purge> THere is a reason neoinr shut down the channel, because it's inappropriate for staff to do something like that
[17:35] <Purge> you have not kept to yourself
[17:36] <Purge> you were talking to ninja in regular server chat about talking about cici
[17:36] <Purge> that looks REALLY bad
[17:36] <Purge> the channel was #CiciRagesTooMuch?
[17:36] <Kopaka> Yes
[17:36] <Purge> Yeah
[17:37] <Purge> that's extremely inappropriate.
[17:37] <Kopaka> Well I got 4 people agreeing with me on Cici
[17:37] <Kopaka> Plus 1 admin who said she was insane
[17:38] <Purge> This isn't a contest.
[17:38] <Kopaka> Yeah I know
[17:38] <Purge> There is no "agreeing" or "disagreeing"
[17:38] <Purge> YOu cannot go around acting like that.
[17:38] <Purge> Regardless of what she may or may not be
[17:39] <Kopaka> Well if Cici doesn't talk to me
[17:39] <Purge> how she may or may not act
[17:39] <Purge> I will tell you something
[17:39] <Kopaka> I won't talk to her or talk about he
[17:39] <Purge> There are people on this server
[17:39] <Kopaka> her
[17:39] <Purge> that if I met IRL
[17:39] <Purge> I'd probably punch in the face
[17:39] <Purge> But I am polite and I treat them respectfully
[17:39] <Purge> Because that is what it means to be staff.
[17:39] <Kopaka> Yeah and im probably one of them
[17:39] <Purge> Staff members don't have friends.
[17:39] <Purge> We have to be objective with every situation
[17:39] <Kopaka> Hang on
[17:39] <Purge> we cannot cause situations, like these.
[17:40] <Kopaka> K
[17:40] <Kopaka> Well like I said if she doesn't talk to me or mention me I won't talk to her or mention her either
[17:41] <Kopaka> Unless she needs a protect or something done
[17:43] <Kopaka> If you need my attention say my name
[17:44] <Purge> Kopaka
[17:44] <Kopaka> Yes
[17:44] <Kopaka> What?
[17:44] <Purge> She has agreed to ignore you on a personal level.
[17:44] <Purge> So
[17:44] <Purge> Just do the same
[17:44] <Kopaka> Well fine
[17:44] <Purge> Only talk to her if you have to
[17:44] <Purge> If I hear anything else about this
[17:44] <Purge> there will be punishment for all parties involved.
[17:44] <Purge> Now
[17:45] <Kopaka> Meh all my problems will be solved if I could get my town done
[17:45] <Kopaka> But, that day is hardly in my grasp
[17:45] <Kopaka> I mean if Nerd was here
[17:45] <Kopaka> I would probably forget everything
[17:46] <Purge> I want you to apologize to her.
[17:46] <Kopaka> And I can do it without him around
[17:46] <Purge> Okay?
[17:46] <Kopaka> Lol how can I appologize if she's not here?
[17:46] <Purge> Nothing specific is necessary
[17:46] <Purge> Just apologize.
[17:46] <Purge> She's on mc
[17:46] <Purge> or was
[17:46] <Purge> she is in IRC.
[17:48] * Kopaka (18dc4a55@RUIN-8E9FBBB6.midco.net) has left #kopper
Session Close: Thu Feb 16 17:49:52 2012
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ME AND DEIJ:


Session Start: Thu Feb 16 17:20:08 2012
Session Ident: deij
[17:20] <Purge> Please reply if you are able to
[17:22] <Purge> Do you have a tab with my name on it?
[17:23] <Purge> You, please /join #kkdei
[17:24] <deij> ???
[17:24] <deij> test 1 2 3
[17:24] <Purge> that worked!
[17:24] <deij> :D
[17:24] <Purge> don't bother joining the channel then, :)
[17:24] <deij> ok
[17:25] <deij> you wanted to talk to me right?
[17:25] <Purge> Yes.
[17:25] <Purge> What's going on between cici and kopa?
[17:25] <deij> I have no clue
[17:25] <Purge> I've noticed some things being said.
[17:25] <deij> But
[17:26] <Purge> but?
[17:27] <deij> Cici and Kop where friends Awile ago I guess and.Cici Doesn't like being around him cause she's afraid he will be rude to her when he starts annoyin her she gets pissed.
[17:27] <Purge> hmmmm
[17:27] <deij> But kop annoys me also, I just wanna say to him sometimes fuk off..
[17:27] <deij> -_-
[17:28] <Purge> Even if he annoys you, he's also a staff member so all such conversations should either be done in private, or not at all.
[17:28] <Purge> Or come to me about it
[17:28] <Purge> And I will handle it
[17:28] <Purge> LIke I'm doing now.
[17:29] <deij> whats he sayin?
[17:29] <Purge> That's my concern.
[17:29] <deij> ok.
[17:29] <Purge> I need unobjective remarks from all people involved in this.
[17:29] <deij> Um. Oh yea I wanted to tell you somethin
[17:29] <Purge> Meaning if I told you something the other has said, it ruins that.
[17:29] <Purge> ?
[17:30] <deij> I got recommended for Jazz camp "Joy"
[17:31] <Purge> Oh?
[17:31] <deij> I just like bein with my friends playin instroments, Not 2 weeks at Jazz camp -_-
[17:31] <Purge> lol.
[17:31] <deij> hold on, brb for a sec.
[17:32] <deij> purge
[17:32] <deij> cici's on
[17:32] <deij> want me to get her on?
[17:32] <deij> ??
[17:32] <Purge> Yes
[17:32] <Purge> Please.
[17:32] <deij> kk
[17:33] <deij> can I be involved in this one?
[17:34] <deij> Plz? I can help.
[17:34] <Purge> No.
[17:34] <deij> epic face P_P
[17:34] <deij> Alrighty
[17:34] <deij> just wanted to know
[17:34] <deij> ill be on ruim
[17:34] <deij> ruin*
[17:36] <Purge> k
[17:36] <Purge> ty
[17:46] <Purge> Now, I want you to apologize to kopaka. I know I stopped you before you did anything, but I want you to apologize anyway. Got it?
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ME AND CICI:


Session Start: Thu Feb 16 17:33:54 2012
Session Ident: Cici
[17:34] <Purge> k if you can respond to this, please do.
[17:34] <Cici> yea i can...
[17:34] <Purge> okay
[17:34] <Purge> so what is going on between you and kopa?
[17:35] <Cici> He is was always making fun of me, and made a # thing about me called #CiciRagesTooMuch and he doesnt really respect me in my opinion...
[17:36] <Purge> hmm
[17:36] <Cici> And he is mad at me because he thinks i called his friend an idiot,
[17:37] <Cici> when i know i didnt! i always try to help and just ignore it but he purposely doesnt. He is always saying, "Dont try to make it better," or when i ask something "Why should I tell you?"
[17:40] <Purge> Well
[17:40] <Purge> This is going to sound
[17:40] <Purge> a lot like your parents
[17:40] <Purge> but
[17:40] <Purge> If you can't say anything nice
[17:40] <Purge> just don't bother talking to him
[17:40] <Purge> ignore him
[17:40] <Purge> unless he's doing his job
[17:40] <Purge> if he's telling you to stop doing caps, don't ignore him, etc.
[17:41] <Purge> Okay?
[17:41] <Purge> If you need a protection or something
[17:41] <Purge> go ahead and ask
[17:41] <Purge> and he will do it because it is his job to do so
[17:41] <Purge> But don't have any other kind of contact
[17:41] <Purge> keep it civil, polite, simple, and professional
[17:42] <Purge> Okay?
[17:42] <Cici> Ok... I'll try.
[17:42] <Purge> I'll tell you something
[17:42] <Cici> Thanks Purge :/
[17:42] <Purge> there are people ont his server
[17:42] <Purge> I absolutely cannot stand
[17:42] <Purge> if I met them IRL
[17:42] <Purge> I'd probably punch them in the face
[17:42] <Cici> Lol,
[17:42] <Purge> But I do not rage at people
[17:42] <Purge> just because I do not like them
[17:42] <Purge> I either ignore them
[17:42] <Purge> on a personal level
[17:42] <Purge> or
[17:43] <Purge> I just act civil
[17:43] <Cici> Ok,
[17:44] <Purge> If I hear any more about this, there will be punishment for all parties involved.
[17:44] <Cici> Really. Thanks though.
[17:44] <Cici> kk
[17:46] <Purge> One last thing. I want you to apologize. I don't care if you did anything that warrants apologizing. Just do it.
[17:46] <Cici> k i will...


In the end, they all apologized, and cici and kopa agreed to have minimal contact with each other.