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- 00:00:20,140 --> 00:00:25,020
- This is the first foretaste of the eternal:
- having time for love.
- 2
- 00:00:25,220 --> 00:00:27,140
- Rainer Maria Rilke
- 3
- 00:01:39,850 --> 00:01:41,470
- lsocitrate...
- 4
- 00:01:41,600 --> 00:01:45,100
- Through isocitrate dehydrogenase
- in alpha-ketoglytarate...
- 5
- 00:01:45,560 --> 00:01:49,640
- By alpha-ketoglytarate
- hydrogenase in...
- 6
- 00:01:51,470 --> 00:01:52,600
- Yes?
- 7
- 00:01:53,060 --> 00:01:55,020
- Sorry, can't remember that right now.
- 8
- 00:01:55,220 --> 00:01:59,680
- Miss Wolf. The citric acid cycle.
- ATP isthe...
- 9
- 00:01:59,850 --> 00:02:02,470
- ...energy unit of organic life.
- You've got to know that.
- 10
- 00:02:02,520 --> 00:02:03,350
- Yeah.
- 11
- 00:02:03,470 --> 00:02:07,060
- With one acid missing,
- the cycle is not closed.
- 12
- 00:02:07,220 --> 00:02:09,560
- I know. Learning by heart
- was never my strong point.
- 13
- 00:02:09,720 --> 00:02:13,600
- But as a biologist, I mean,
- if I need it later, then...
- 14
- 00:02:13,770 --> 00:02:15,390
- I'll ask this.
- 15
- 00:02:16,470 --> 00:02:19,020
- Then maybe you should
- start working for Google.
- 16
- 00:02:19,180 --> 00:02:20,470
- Well...
- 17
- 00:02:20,970 --> 00:02:24,430
- I'm sorry. I can't
- let you pass like this.
- 18
- 00:02:48,680 --> 00:02:51,470
- Alright, ladies and gentlemen,
- that's it, see you in fall.
- 19
- 00:02:53,810 --> 00:02:55,970
- Mr. Laube, do you have a moment?
- 20
- 00:02:57,470 --> 00:02:59,520
- It's about the scholarship.
- 21
- 00:02:59,680 --> 00:03:02,470
- Unfortunately,
- the foundation chose someone else.
- 22
- 00:03:02,600 --> 00:03:05,890
- Your work was great, one of the best.
- 23
- 00:03:06,060 --> 00:03:09,890
- And I know that you can use the money
- well, better than most in here.
- 24
- 00:03:10,060 --> 00:03:12,470
- But you've been a bit naive,
- haven't you?
- 25
- 00:03:12,640 --> 00:03:13,640
- Why?
- 26
- 00:03:13,680 --> 00:03:18,310
- Well, the Adenauer Foundation
- is not a liberal think tank.
- 27
- 00:03:18,640 --> 00:03:22,560
- And your attitude towards American
- drones was quite radical.
- 28
- 00:03:22,720 --> 00:03:25,180
- Radical?
- That was all thoroughly researched.
- 29
- 00:03:25,350 --> 00:03:28,810
- I know, Mr. Laube.
- But in politics you have to consider:
- 30
- 00:03:29,140 --> 00:03:31,140
- What is my goal
- and how can I achieve it?
- 31
- 00:03:31,310 --> 00:03:34,100
- Strategic thinking.
- That's what you still have to learn.
- 32
- 00:03:35,020 --> 00:03:38,720
- And what about attitude?
- You did talk about attitude.
- 33
- 00:03:40,770 --> 00:03:43,470
- I'm sorry, Mr. Laube.
- Have a nice summer.
- 34
- 00:03:43,770 --> 00:03:44,770
- Likewise.
- 35
- 00:04:06,600 --> 00:04:10,560
- To make yourself really stable
- you can do this.
- 36
- 00:04:10,720 --> 00:04:12,140
- That's right.
- 37
- 00:04:12,810 --> 00:04:15,890
- Let's do it again.
- Starting position.
- 38
- 00:05:32,140 --> 00:05:34,020
- Did you get the pills?
- 39
- 00:05:35,140 --> 00:05:37,720
- Yes, I did.
- - Ok.
- 40
- 00:05:39,720 --> 00:05:42,020
- Mom, I don't know if I'll do it.
- 41
- 00:05:42,220 --> 00:05:44,430
- Jule, please.
- We discussed this.
- 42
- 00:05:44,560 --> 00:05:48,140
- Consider your future...
- - Yeah, but it's my decision, ok?
- 43
- 00:05:48,270 --> 00:05:51,100
- And I can't make this decision alone.
- I...
- 44
- 00:05:51,270 --> 00:05:53,100
- ...have to talk to Alex.
- 45
- 00:05:53,270 --> 00:05:55,560
- He's involved too, right?
- - So call him.
- 46
- 00:05:55,720 --> 00:05:57,890
- I tried, he's not answering.
- 47
- 00:05:58,100 --> 00:05:59,970
- And maybe that's better.
- 48
- 00:06:00,180 --> 00:06:01,470
- Why?
- 49
- 00:06:01,640 --> 00:06:05,810
- I have to speak to him personally. It's
- not something you discuss on the phone.
- 50
- 00:06:06,020 --> 00:06:07,560
- I need to see him.
- 51
- 00:06:30,270 --> 00:06:31,890
- No.
- No, definitely not.
- 52
- 00:06:32,140 --> 00:06:34,770
- Please don't call him.
- Don't tell him, OK?
- 53
- 00:06:38,600 --> 00:06:42,060
- No, by carpool.
- Flying is too expensive this late.
- 54
- 00:07:24,640 --> 00:07:27,430
- Hi, it's Jan.
- From "Share A Ride", yes.
- 55
- 00:07:27,560 --> 00:07:29,140
- Where are you?
- 56
- 00:07:30,770 --> 00:07:33,180
- What?
- No...
- 57
- 00:07:33,350 --> 00:07:36,100
- On the website it said 5 p.m.!
- 58
- 00:07:36,470 --> 00:07:38,100
- Wait...
- No, wait!
- 59
- 00:07:38,270 --> 00:07:39,270
- Hello!
- 60
- 00:08:19,430 --> 00:08:22,100
- Are you heading west,
- like to Cologne?
- 61
- 00:08:22,270 --> 00:08:23,520
- Not at all, no.
- 62
- 00:08:23,720 --> 00:08:25,220
- Ok, thanks.
- 63
- 00:08:38,970 --> 00:08:40,350
- Hello.
- - Hi.
- 64
- 00:08:41,390 --> 00:08:45,180
- Are you heading to Cologne by chance?
- - No, sorry. Hamburg.
- 65
- 00:08:45,890 --> 00:08:48,560
- Thanks anyway.
- Safe trip.
- 66
- 00:08:51,220 --> 00:08:52,810
- Hello.
- 67
- 00:08:53,020 --> 00:08:54,970
- Are you heading to Cologne?
- - Yes, why?
- 68
- 00:08:55,140 --> 00:08:56,850
- Could you give me a ride?
- 69
- 00:08:57,060 --> 00:08:58,850
- No, sorry, we're full.
- 70
- 00:08:59,060 --> 00:09:01,060
- No problem, thanks anyway.
- 71
- 00:09:19,100 --> 00:09:21,310
- Are you heading to Cologne, by chance?
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- 00:09:22,600 --> 00:09:23,770
- Yes.
- 73
- 00:09:23,970 --> 00:09:26,470
- Could you maybe give me a ride?
- 74
- 00:09:26,640 --> 00:09:29,470
- I had a carpool, but they stood me up.
- 75
- 00:09:29,600 --> 00:09:32,020
- Now I'm stuck here and...
- 76
- 00:09:32,810 --> 00:09:34,810
- I'd throw in some gas money.
- 77
- 00:09:35,060 --> 00:09:37,060
- Or motor oil.
- 78
- 00:09:42,350 --> 00:09:44,180
- That's ok.
- You can come along.
- 79
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- Really? Cool!
- - No problem.
- 80
- 00:09:46,270 --> 00:09:47,470
- Great.
- 81
- 00:09:49,350 --> 00:09:51,890
- I just need to wash my hands.
- 82
- 00:09:52,100 --> 00:09:53,140
- Okay.
- 83
- 00:09:53,310 --> 00:09:54,430
- Just wait here, ok?
- 84
- 00:09:54,560 --> 00:09:56,180
- Perfect, thanks.
- 85
- 00:09:56,310 --> 00:09:58,470
- See you.
- - See you.
- 86
- 00:10:17,430 --> 00:10:19,270
- Okay.
- - All cleaned up?
- 87
- 00:10:23,720 --> 00:10:24,810
- Jump in.
- 88
- 00:10:25,270 --> 00:10:27,850
- Alright?
- - Yeah, fine.
- 89
- 00:10:28,060 --> 00:10:30,350
- You can sit here.
- 90
- 00:10:43,720 --> 00:10:45,770
- Jule.
- - Jan, hi.
- 91
- 00:11:01,470 --> 00:11:02,810
- You hitchhike a lot?
- 92
- 00:11:03,890 --> 00:11:05,970
- No, first time.
- 93
- 00:11:08,470 --> 00:11:12,560
- Lucky me.
- I asked two people before you.
- 94
- 00:11:12,770 --> 00:11:15,430
- But they were full or headed elsewhere.
- 95
- 00:11:15,600 --> 00:11:17,390
- And then you showed up.
- 96
- 00:11:18,140 --> 00:11:21,350
- Cool ride!
- Real nice.
- 97
- 00:11:21,470 --> 00:11:22,470
- Thanks.
- 98
- 00:11:23,470 --> 00:11:25,100
- It even has a fridge, right?
- 99
- 00:11:25,270 --> 00:11:27,470
- Yeah, and an oven.
- 100
- 00:11:29,350 --> 00:11:32,100
- What model is it?
- 101
- 00:11:32,770 --> 00:11:35,680
- It's a Hymermobil
- on a Mercedes 303 chassis.
- 102
- 00:11:35,850 --> 00:11:37,350
- Cool.
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- 00:11:37,470 --> 00:11:39,600
- It's a bit older, right?
- 104
- 00:11:39,770 --> 00:11:41,890
- No, brand-new.
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- 00:11:42,720 --> 00:11:44,600
- About 30.
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- 00:11:45,060 --> 00:11:46,600
- 30 years old?
- 107
- 00:11:46,770 --> 00:11:49,060
- You travel a lot in it?
- 108
- 00:11:49,220 --> 00:11:50,470
- Not really, no.
- 109
- 00:11:50,560 --> 00:11:53,180
- But it's yours.
- - Yes.
- 110
- 00:11:53,350 --> 00:11:56,810
- It used to belong to my brother.
- - Okay.
- 111
- 00:11:57,430 --> 00:12:00,600
- We traveled in it a lot,
- but now it's mine.
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- 00:12:01,100 --> 00:12:03,520
- It "used to" belong to your brother?
- 113
- 00:12:04,270 --> 00:12:07,270
- My brother...
- He passed away two years ago.
- 114
- 00:12:08,640 --> 00:12:11,770
- Shit.
- I'm sorry.
- 115
- 00:12:12,560 --> 00:12:14,350
- It's OK.
- 116
- 00:12:21,270 --> 00:12:23,640
- Want a sip?
- It's still cold.
- 117
- 00:12:23,770 --> 00:12:25,720
- Sure.
- - Shall I open it?
- 118
- 00:12:28,890 --> 00:12:29,970
- Thanks.
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- 00:12:33,970 --> 00:12:34,970
- Elderflower?
- 120
- 00:12:36,310 --> 00:12:37,430
- Homemade?
- - Yep.
- 121
- 00:12:37,560 --> 00:12:38,890
- Cool.
- 122
- 00:12:40,640 --> 00:12:43,520
- Are you from Cologne?
- - No, Berlin.
- 123
- 00:12:46,100 --> 00:12:48,640
- So what are you doing in Cologne?
- 124
- 00:12:49,470 --> 00:12:54,180
- Moving on. I'm taking a bus.
- To Spain.
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- 00:12:54,350 --> 00:12:55,890
- Vacation?
- 126
- 00:12:56,600 --> 00:12:59,060
- No, I'm...
- visiting my father.
- 127
- 00:12:59,520 --> 00:13:01,470
- He lives there?
- - Exactly.
- 128
- 00:13:01,640 --> 00:13:03,470
- In northern Spain.
- 129
- 00:13:05,100 --> 00:13:06,810
- What do you do in Berlin?
- 130
- 00:13:07,850 --> 00:13:10,180
- I study biology at the
- Humboldt University.
- 131
- 00:13:10,350 --> 00:13:12,350
- Cool.
- - And you?
- 132
- 00:13:12,470 --> 00:13:15,270
- I study, too.
- Political science.
- 133
- 00:13:15,430 --> 00:13:18,390
- Cool.
- - Well, it's a lot of statistics.
- 134
- 00:13:18,850 --> 00:13:21,270
- I sometimes envy you natural scientists.
- 135
- 00:13:21,390 --> 00:13:25,180
- Theory, experiment, result:
- that has such a nice clarity.
- 136
- 00:13:25,310 --> 00:13:27,100
- Well, it's not that simple...
- 137
- 00:13:29,470 --> 00:13:32,560
- I blew my biochemistry exam
- this morning.
- 138
- 00:13:32,720 --> 00:13:34,600
- I'd prefer not to talk about my studies.
- 139
- 00:13:34,770 --> 00:13:36,390
- Sure, sorry.
- 140
- 00:13:42,390 --> 00:13:43,640
- May I ask how old you are?
- 141
- 00:13:44,680 --> 00:13:46,220
- 24.
- 142
- 00:13:46,890 --> 00:13:49,100
- And you?
- - Me too.
- 143
- 00:13:50,520 --> 00:13:52,640
- So we have three more years.
- 144
- 00:13:52,810 --> 00:13:55,640
- Three years before what?
- - Before we turn 27.
- 145
- 00:13:56,470 --> 00:13:58,770
- When all cool people bail out.
- 146
- 00:13:59,600 --> 00:14:03,810
- Kurt Cobain, Janis Joplin,
- Amy Winehouse, Heath Ledger...
- 147
- 00:14:04,020 --> 00:14:05,520
- You think so?
- 148
- 00:14:06,520 --> 00:14:10,220
- Well, that's the saying.
- Never heard of it?
- 149
- 00:14:13,850 --> 00:14:17,470
- I'm totally against suicide,
- if that's what you're thinking.
- 150
- 00:14:19,270 --> 00:14:23,270
- It may sound strange,
- but I think suicide's selfish.
- 151
- 00:14:23,640 --> 00:14:27,520
- I mean, you've solved your own problems.
- 152
- 00:14:27,680 --> 00:14:30,140
- But your relatives really suffer.
- 153
- 00:14:30,310 --> 00:14:35,470
- An old friend killed himself seven years
- ago and his mom still doesn't speak.
- 154
- 00:14:35,600 --> 00:14:39,270
- Not a word. She just sits in her yard
- and stares into space.
- 155
- 00:14:39,430 --> 00:14:41,020
- She's totally done for.
- 156
- 00:14:41,180 --> 00:14:43,060
- You think it's selfish.
- 157
- 00:14:43,430 --> 00:14:45,890
- I beg your pardon,
- but once you're in that place,
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- 00:14:46,100 --> 00:14:47,600
- you don't evenexistanymore.
- 159
- 00:14:47,770 --> 00:14:51,060
- You can't think of others.
- You can't think at all anymore.
- 160
- 00:14:51,220 --> 00:14:54,350
- You just want it to stop.
- - And it does stop.
- 161
- 00:14:54,470 --> 00:14:56,970
- You've solved your problems.
- 162
- 00:14:57,180 --> 00:15:01,020
- But you're not only responsible
- for your own life.
- 163
- 00:15:01,600 --> 00:15:05,600
- It's a fact: The relatives
- suffer like hell.
- 164
- 00:15:06,560 --> 00:15:09,890
- What are you babbling about?
- You have no idea what you're saying.
- 165
- 00:15:10,100 --> 00:15:12,680
- You have this attitude that
- the media spreads...
- 166
- 00:15:12,850 --> 00:15:15,520
- What?
- - But you're just talking shit.
- 167
- 00:15:16,180 --> 00:15:20,100
- Not true at all! I told you
- that I witnessed it with a friend.
- 168
- 00:15:20,310 --> 00:15:23,060
- His mother was so sweet,
- and now she's a wreck.
- 169
- 00:15:23,220 --> 00:15:25,850
- "So sweet."
- And your friend, what about him?
- 170
- 00:15:26,060 --> 00:15:29,060
- But I see the family, too.
- They're completely ruined.
- 171
- 00:15:29,890 --> 00:15:31,680
- That's so fucked up!
- 172
- 00:15:32,810 --> 00:15:35,430
- No wonder you go to hell
- for suicide in most religions.
- 173
- 00:15:35,850 --> 00:15:38,890
- Is that so?
- - As far as I know, yes.
- 174
- 00:15:48,350 --> 00:15:50,720
- Sorry, I didn't mean to get to you...
- - Stop it.
- 175
- 00:15:59,020 --> 00:16:00,850
- I think this was a bad idea.
- 176
- 00:16:01,060 --> 00:16:03,890
- I'm not really sociable at the moment.
- I think...
- 177
- 00:16:05,100 --> 00:16:07,430
- ...you should maybe find another ride.
- 178
- 00:16:10,640 --> 00:16:12,640
- Sorry.
- - Okay.
- 179
- 00:16:13,470 --> 00:16:14,470
- 'H...
- 180
- 00:16:15,220 --> 00:16:17,560
- I'll take the next exit.
- 181
- 00:16:32,970 --> 00:16:34,640
- Her brother!
- 182
- 00:16:35,520 --> 00:16:37,770
- Fuck!
- Fuck...
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- 00:16:41,850 --> 00:16:44,850
- MY Phone.
- NO! Jule!
- 184
- 00:16:45,350 --> 00:16:46,640
- Jule!
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- 00:17:59,270 --> 00:18:03,310
- Listen, I'm taking a pit
- stop, I gotta take a nap.
- 186
- 00:18:03,430 --> 00:18:07,770
- You can crash in the bottom bunk if you like.
- - OK, cool. Great, thanks.
- 187
- 00:18:14,060 --> 00:18:16,270
- No, everything's fine.
- 188
- 00:18:19,270 --> 00:18:21,100
- I'm on my way to see you.
- 189
- 00:18:23,600 --> 00:18:25,270
- Yeah, with the RV.
- 190
- 00:18:28,180 --> 00:18:29,770
- Aren't you happy?
- 191
- 00:18:34,060 --> 00:18:36,310
- Alex, I'll call you right back.
- 192
- 00:18:40,810 --> 00:18:41,810
- Yes?
- 193
- 00:18:42,810 --> 00:18:46,060
- I'm admiring your RV.
- 194
- 00:18:46,350 --> 00:18:48,430
- We have an RV, too.
- 195
- 00:18:48,520 --> 00:18:52,060
- It's practical. Room for the kids.
- But your ride, it's just...
- 196
- 00:18:52,180 --> 00:18:53,350
- ...fantastic.
- 197
- 00:18:53,430 --> 00:18:55,180
- A cult model!
- 198
- 00:18:56,810 --> 00:18:58,060
- Thanks.
- 199
- 00:18:58,520 --> 00:18:59,890
- I'm Torge.
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- 00:19:00,350 --> 00:19:01,720
- Hello. Jule.
- 201
- 00:19:02,560 --> 00:19:04,560
- These are the original furnishings!
- 202
- 00:19:07,640 --> 00:19:08,890
- Awesome.
- 203
- 00:19:09,470 --> 00:19:11,970
- And the AC still works?
- 204
- 00:19:12,270 --> 00:19:14,310
- No, hasn't for a long time.
- 205
- 00:19:15,850 --> 00:19:17,850
- Do you have a glass of water for me?
- 206
- 00:19:18,890 --> 00:19:20,310
- Sure, yeah.
- 207
- 00:19:39,100 --> 00:19:41,060
- I'll go brush my teeth.
- - Go ahead.
- 208
- 00:19:42,640 --> 00:19:45,850
- And then in the other direction, right?
- 209
- 00:19:50,470 --> 00:19:51,850
- You're pretty.
- 210
- 00:19:55,350 --> 00:19:57,180
- Can you please leave now.
- 211
- 00:19:58,430 --> 00:20:00,640
- Why?
- - Because I say so.
- 212
- 00:20:09,350 --> 00:20:10,470
- You leave now.
- 213
- 00:20:11,640 --> 00:20:13,020
- No.
- 214
- 00:20:13,470 --> 00:20:15,640
- Leave or I'll call the police.
- 215
- 00:20:44,520 --> 00:20:45,850
- You smell so good.
- 216
- 00:20:56,180 --> 00:20:57,470
- Come here.
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- 00:20:59,020 --> 00:21:00,600
- Hands off!
- 218
- 00:21:02,600 --> 00:21:06,350
- Jule, it's Jan. Can you open up?
- I left my phone with you.
- 219
- 00:21:07,180 --> 00:21:09,270
- Come in, it's open!
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- 00:21:15,020 --> 00:21:16,890
- Get out.
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- 00:21:17,640 --> 00:21:20,180
- Get out!
- - Thanks for your hospitality.
- 222
- 00:21:20,350 --> 00:21:21,470
- Piss off.
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- 00:21:22,560 --> 00:21:25,020
- Piss off!
- - Have a nice evening.
- 224
- 00:21:25,850 --> 00:21:27,180
- He has my phone.
- 225
- 00:21:29,600 --> 00:21:31,560
- Give me the phone.
- - Piss off!
- 226
- 00:21:40,850 --> 00:21:42,640
- Stupid asshole, I'll kill you.
- 227
- 00:21:51,430 --> 00:21:52,430
- Cunt!
- 228
- 00:21:52,560 --> 00:21:54,600
- Piss off!
- 229
- 00:22:00,640 --> 00:22:02,060
- Shit, are you OK?
- 230
- 00:22:03,310 --> 00:22:05,270
- Wait, I'll get water.
- 231
- 00:22:16,350 --> 00:22:18,470
- Yeah, take off, asshole!
- 232
- 00:22:22,060 --> 00:22:23,270
- Open up.
- 233
- 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:25,350
- Alright?
- 234
- 00:22:29,520 --> 00:22:30,890
- One more time, here.
- 235
- 00:22:31,060 --> 00:22:33,470
- Sorry I sprayed you, too.
- I panicked.
- 236
- 00:22:35,640 --> 00:22:39,520
- At least you got that guy.
- - Shit, your eyes are so red.
- 237
- 00:22:41,350 --> 00:22:43,180
- So are yours.
- 238
- 00:22:43,350 --> 00:22:45,310
- We look like zombies.
- 239
- 00:22:46,470 --> 00:22:48,640
- You came out of nowhere.
- 240
- 00:22:50,270 --> 00:22:53,270
- A truck driver picked me up.
- I was sleeping in his truck.
- 241
- 00:22:53,350 --> 00:22:57,020
- No way, what a coincidence.
- If you hadn't shown up...
- 242
- 00:22:57,180 --> 00:22:58,520
- Fuck.
- 243
- 00:23:00,350 --> 00:23:01,560
- Eye drops?
- 244
- 00:23:08,100 --> 00:23:09,180
- Alright?
- 245
- 00:23:09,310 --> 00:23:11,430
- You know karate or something?
- 246
- 00:23:11,470 --> 00:23:13,020
- A bit, yeah.
- 247
- 00:23:13,100 --> 00:23:16,470
- So there was no need for the pepper spray.
- - Yes, there was.
- 248
- 00:23:16,560 --> 00:23:18,470
- Can you do me, too?
- - Sure.
- 249
- 00:23:19,640 --> 00:23:21,560
- He was pretty skilled.
- 250
- 00:23:21,640 --> 00:23:25,180
- I think he knew martial arts.
- Ex-soldier or something.
- 251
- 00:23:25,890 --> 00:23:27,430
- Open your eyes.
- 252
- 00:23:27,850 --> 00:23:31,310
- A frustrated ex-soldier.
- 253
- 00:23:32,060 --> 00:23:35,180
- Exactly. Thrown out for
- lack of intelligence.
- 254
- 00:23:35,270 --> 00:23:37,470
- Couldn't find the trigger anymore.
- 255
- 00:23:42,560 --> 00:23:44,470
- What an asshole.
- 256
- 00:23:45,430 --> 00:23:47,470
- Did you see his shoes?
- 257
- 00:23:47,850 --> 00:23:51,470
- Men in white socks and sandals,
- let me tell you: They're the worst.
- 258
- 00:23:52,520 --> 00:23:54,220
- I'll remember that.
- 259
- 00:24:01,640 --> 00:24:05,100
- So you're on your way to Bilbao
- to see your father.
- 260
- 00:24:06,640 --> 00:24:09,850
- Does he work there?
- Or are your parents divorced?
- 261
- 00:24:11,100 --> 00:24:14,890
- No, I grew up with my stepfather and...
- 262
- 00:24:15,850 --> 00:24:20,100
- ...the guy in Bilbao is my biological father.
- I've never met him.
- 263
- 00:24:21,640 --> 00:24:23,350
- Wow.
- 264
- 00:24:24,970 --> 00:24:26,890
- And why is that?
- I mean...
- 265
- 00:24:27,640 --> 00:24:31,850
- I didn't know that my stepfather
- wasn't my real father until I was 17.
- 266
- 00:24:34,270 --> 00:24:36,890
- And last month I asked my mother...
- 267
- 00:24:37,520 --> 00:24:40,640
- ...to put me in touch with
- my biological father.
- 268
- 00:24:41,060 --> 00:24:43,310
- Three days ago, he called.
- 269
- 00:24:43,560 --> 00:24:47,470
- I was just watching a game show on TV.
- Totally absurd.
- 270
- 00:24:47,640 --> 00:24:49,430
- Crazy.
- 271
- 00:24:51,470 --> 00:24:53,020
- And, I mean...
- 272
- 00:24:53,180 --> 00:24:57,100
- ...how did you find out? That
- your stepfather isn't your father?
- 273
- 00:24:59,850 --> 00:25:01,890
- Well...
- - Long story?
- 274
- 00:25:02,470 --> 00:25:05,100
- Yeah, kinda.
- - OK. You don't need to...
- 275
- 00:25:08,180 --> 00:25:11,270
- Sorry I threw you out this afternoon.
- 276
- 00:25:11,640 --> 00:25:12,890
- It's just that...
- 277
- 00:25:13,060 --> 00:25:16,270
- ...my brother was really 27
- when he committed suicide.
- 278
- 00:25:16,430 --> 00:25:18,430
- So it's a sensitive topic for me.
- 279
- 00:25:18,520 --> 00:25:20,430
- I figured.
- 280
- 00:25:21,270 --> 00:25:23,180
- Sorry that I...
- 281
- 00:25:30,850 --> 00:25:32,350
- Headache?
- 282
- 00:25:33,350 --> 00:25:36,720
- Wanna smoke some weed?
- To relax. I brought some.
- 283
- 00:25:37,560 --> 00:25:39,020
- No, thanks.
- 284
- 00:25:39,100 --> 00:25:41,180
- But you can if you want!
- - No need.
- 285
- 00:25:41,890 --> 00:25:43,270
- Beer's enough.
- 286
- 00:25:44,430 --> 00:25:46,850
- I guess I'm just really tired.
- 287
- 00:25:49,850 --> 00:25:51,350
- OK, then...
- 288
- 00:25:51,430 --> 00:25:52,890
- ...thanks for the beer.
- 289
- 00:25:53,520 --> 00:25:56,060
- I'll let you get some sleep.
- - Listen...
- 290
- 00:25:57,270 --> 00:26:00,640
- Would you mind sleeping here tonight?
- 291
- 00:26:02,020 --> 00:26:05,060
- You know, if this guy turns up again,
- I'm a bit...
- 292
- 00:26:06,350 --> 00:26:09,890
- No, sure. I can do that.
- - Really? Great, that's...
- 293
- 00:26:10,060 --> 00:26:12,430
- Thanks.
- - Sure thing.
- 294
- 00:26:18,600 --> 00:26:23,020
- Jule, sure you don't want the bed? I'm
- the guest, I should sleep on the floor.
- 295
- 00:26:24,770 --> 00:26:28,520
- In India, I slept on the floor
- for six months. Without a mat.
- 296
- 00:26:29,470 --> 00:26:30,720
- It's good here.
- 297
- 00:26:30,970 --> 00:26:32,640
- Very comfortable.
- 298
- 00:26:34,180 --> 00:26:35,520
- It's your back.
- 299
- 00:26:45,100 --> 00:26:46,970
- Do you have a favorite dream?
- 300
- 00:26:47,060 --> 00:26:48,350
- What?
- 301
- 00:26:48,430 --> 00:26:50,020
- A favorite dream.
- 302
- 00:26:52,600 --> 00:26:57,020
- Yes, flying. I love
- to dream of flying.
- 303
- 00:26:57,140 --> 00:26:59,060
- Really?
- So do I!
- 304
- 00:26:59,770 --> 00:27:06,600
- What, really?
- You too fly at night?
- 305
- 00:27:07,350 --> 00:27:14,680
- Yeah, over the city, with my arms set back.
- Like Superman.
- 306
- 00:27:15,680 --> 00:27:20,720
- I feel so super free then.
- Everything is possible.
- 307
- 00:27:23,220 --> 00:27:25,890
- And how do you take off?
- 308
- 00:27:27,100 --> 00:27:31,140
- I usually jump off a table
- or a wall or something.
- 309
- 00:27:31,680 --> 00:27:36,470
- And then, shortly before I hit the
- floor, I do a body twist...
- 310
- 00:27:36,600 --> 00:27:39,890
- ...turn on my stomach and fly away.
- 311
- 00:27:40,060 --> 00:27:43,640
- With my arms close to the body,
- like a ski jumper.
- 312
- 00:27:44,140 --> 00:27:45,430
- Wicked.
- 313
- 00:27:51,680 --> 00:27:53,140
- Have a nice flight.
- 314
- 00:27:53,270 --> 00:27:54,600
- You, too.
- 315
- 00:28:43,100 --> 00:28:45,100
- Hey!
- 316
- 00:28:45,180 --> 00:28:46,680
- Good morning!
- - Good morning.
- 317
- 00:28:47,520 --> 00:28:48,720
- I thought you'd left already.
- 318
- 00:28:48,850 --> 00:28:50,850
- Oh no, I just didn't wanna wake you up.
- 319
- 00:28:51,020 --> 00:28:55,430
- I was having breakfast with Manni,
- my trucker friend.
- 320
- 00:28:55,720 --> 00:28:56,720
- Oh, okay.
- 321
- 00:29:02,430 --> 00:29:04,720
- Did you dream of flying?
- 322
- 00:29:04,850 --> 00:29:07,640
- No, unfortunately not.
- And you?
- 323
- 00:29:07,680 --> 00:29:11,430
- Neither.
- We should have smoked that pot.
- 324
- 00:29:11,520 --> 00:29:13,520
- Yeah, maybe.
- 325
- 00:29:17,470 --> 00:29:22,890
- I gotta go. Manni has to reach Paris today.
- - Right, OK.
- 326
- 00:29:23,720 --> 00:29:25,180
- Thanks again.
- 327
- 00:29:25,770 --> 00:29:27,720
- For yesterday.
- - Sure thing.
- 328
- 00:29:30,100 --> 00:29:32,180
- Well, take care then.
- - You too.
- 329
- 00:29:32,350 --> 00:29:33,720
- Good luck.
- 330
- 00:29:34,060 --> 00:29:36,720
- Safe trip.
- - You too.
- 331
- 00:29:37,970 --> 00:29:39,310
- Bye.
- - Ciao.
- 332
- 00:29:45,100 --> 00:29:48,640
- Jan, hang on.
- Could you come back for a sec?
- 333
- 00:29:52,270 --> 00:29:55,180
- I could also take you a little further.
- 334
- 00:29:55,470 --> 00:29:57,100
- Really?
- - Yeah, sure.
- 335
- 00:29:57,390 --> 00:29:59,720
- Well, great!
- I'd love that!
- 336
- 00:29:59,850 --> 00:30:02,220
- Unless you prefer to ride with Manni.
- 337
- 00:30:03,640 --> 00:30:05,470
- Manni's music taste...
- 338
- 00:30:06,100 --> 00:30:07,220
- No.
- 339
- 00:30:07,470 --> 00:30:09,850
- Great.
- - I'll grab my stuff.
- 340
- 00:30:10,100 --> 00:30:12,140
- Cool. See you.
- - See you.
- 341
- 00:30:19,640 --> 00:30:21,100
- To the next leg, right'?
- 342
- 00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:23,970
- Let's see how many miles
- we last this time.
- 343
- 00:30:29,060 --> 00:30:31,220
- Do you mind taking country roads?
- 344
- 00:30:31,390 --> 00:30:33,720
- Not at all, I'm not in a hurry.
- 345
- 00:30:47,220 --> 00:30:50,560
- Look, there's a stork!
- It's really pretty.
- 346
- 00:30:58,270 --> 00:31:01,270
- So where are you heading?
- You haven't told me yet.
- 347
- 00:31:01,470 --> 00:31:03,520
- Oh, right.
- To Portugal.
- 348
- 00:31:03,680 --> 00:31:05,850
- Portugal?
- Wow. Pretty far.
- 349
- 00:31:06,020 --> 00:31:07,140
- Yes.
- 350
- 00:31:07,220 --> 00:31:08,770
- I'm visiting someone.
- 351
- 00:31:09,430 --> 00:31:10,520
- Your father too?
- 352
- 00:31:11,060 --> 00:31:12,220
- No.
- 353
- 00:31:13,430 --> 00:31:14,770
- My boyfriend.
- 354
- 00:31:16,220 --> 00:31:18,770
- He's doing his PhD there, in Tamera.
- 355
- 00:31:19,430 --> 00:31:21,850
- What's it on?
- - Ecological agriculture.
- 356
- 00:31:22,060 --> 00:31:24,559
- Permacultures, water
- retention systems, etc...
- 357
- 00:31:24,560 --> 00:31:26,560
- Water retention systems?
- 358
- 00:31:28,220 --> 00:31:31,470
- Not just using water,
- but keeping it in the cycle.
- 359
- 00:31:31,560 --> 00:31:34,180
- Want the details?
- - Some other time.
- 360
- 00:31:39,470 --> 00:31:41,470
- May I?
- - Sure.
- 361
- 00:31:46,430 --> 00:31:49,890
- Absurd, right'?
- Two tons of steel to move one person?
- 362
- 00:31:50,850 --> 00:31:54,390
- In 90% of the cars,
- there's only one person.
- 363
- 00:31:54,470 --> 00:31:56,220
- True.
- Like me.
- 364
- 00:31:57,060 --> 00:31:58,560
- Almost.
- 365
- 00:32:01,850 --> 00:32:03,220
- And you?
- 366
- 00:32:03,430 --> 00:32:05,770
- Lone wolf or social animal?
- 367
- 00:32:07,680 --> 00:32:10,770
- Social animal, definitely!
- Extremely social!
- 368
- 00:32:12,970 --> 00:32:17,180
- No, neither one. Some friends,
- some acquaintances, the usual.
- 369
- 00:32:18,470 --> 00:32:20,430
- Leaning towards the lone wolf, maybe.
- 370
- 00:32:22,220 --> 00:32:24,890
- You know how many people
- in Germany live alone?
- 371
- 00:32:26,220 --> 00:32:28,220
- No idea. 20%?
- - 50%.
- 372
- 00:32:28,390 --> 00:32:30,220
- Crazy.
- - Yeah, right?
- 373
- 00:32:30,680 --> 00:32:34,390
- And you know what?
- I think there's a strategy behind it.
- 374
- 00:32:34,560 --> 00:32:35,770
- Really?
- 375
- 00:32:36,560 --> 00:32:38,970
- Economic reasons.
- - "Economic reasons."
- 376
- 00:32:39,390 --> 00:32:40,470
- Yes.
- 377
- 00:32:40,770 --> 00:32:42,140
- Look:
- 378
- 00:32:42,390 --> 00:32:45,220
- Take four people who
- live in four apartments.
- 379
- 00:32:45,430 --> 00:32:49,390
- They need four fridges, four vacuum
- cleaners, four kettles, four...
- 380
- 00:32:49,770 --> 00:32:50,770
- Flat screen TVs.
- 381
- 00:32:50,890 --> 00:32:54,520
- Exactly! If they lived together,
- they'd only need one of each.
- 382
- 00:32:54,680 --> 00:32:58,970
- So economically it makes more sense if they
- live alone, as they consume more.
- 383
- 00:32:59,220 --> 00:33:04,220
- A friend wrote his thesis on that:
- "Capitalism's Separation Strategy."
- 384
- 00:33:04,430 --> 00:33:06,520
- That does sound like a thesis.
- 385
- 00:33:07,220 --> 00:33:10,220
- But being alone is against
- human nature, totally!
- 386
- 00:33:10,770 --> 00:33:13,430
- Humans are social creatures!
- Within minutes...
- 387
- 00:33:13,520 --> 00:33:15,970
- ...of being alone, we
- secrete stress hormones!
- 388
- 00:33:16,220 --> 00:33:18,430
- Cortisol and such.
- - Wow.
- 389
- 00:33:19,770 --> 00:33:25,220
- And Cortisol weakens the immune system,
- so being alone makes you sick.
- 390
- 00:33:28,220 --> 00:33:30,060
- But that's what they want.
- 391
- 00:33:30,220 --> 00:33:31,520
- What?
- 392
- 00:33:31,680 --> 00:33:35,220
- Us to be unhappy, so we consume more.
- 393
- 00:33:36,810 --> 00:33:40,430
- You keep saying "they,"
- but who are "they" supposed to be?
- 394
- 00:33:40,560 --> 00:33:45,850
- Executives and politicians
- who meet in dark rooms and decide...
- 395
- 00:33:46,020 --> 00:33:50,520
- "Let's isolate them, so they consume
- more and cease to resist.“
- 396
- 00:33:51,970 --> 00:33:53,520
- You can't seriously believe that.
- 397
- 00:33:53,680 --> 00:33:56,390
- Well, I used to.
- - And now?
- 398
- 00:33:56,520 --> 00:34:00,220
- Now I think it's inherent to the system.
- - Inherent to the system?
- 399
- 00:34:00,430 --> 00:34:06,020
- Yes. Capitalism inevitably leads to isolation
- - due to its fundamental principles.
- 400
- 00:34:07,140 --> 00:34:11,429
- "The Fundamental Principles of Capitalism."
- - Yeah, think about it:
- 401
- 00:34:11,430 --> 00:34:15,560
- From a young age we're taught
- to compete with each other.
- 402
- 00:34:15,770 --> 00:34:20,060
- It starts in school. Who's the best-looking?
- Who's the smartest? And so on...
- 403
- 00:34:20,220 --> 00:34:23,390
- Life has become a permanent audition!
- 404
- 00:34:23,470 --> 00:34:26,520
- 1000 people apply to a
- college, only ten get in.
- 405
- 00:34:26,560 --> 00:34:29,560
- 100 people apply for an
- apartment, one gets it.
- 406
- 00:34:29,680 --> 00:34:33,520
- You have to be tougher,
- quicker and stronger 24/7!
- 407
- 00:34:33,560 --> 00:34:35,020
- What a stress!
- 408
- 00:34:35,220 --> 00:34:37,770
- Well, life's no day at the beach.
- 409
- 00:34:38,060 --> 00:34:41,060
- Not in capitalism that's for sure.
- 410
- 00:34:43,640 --> 00:34:46,770
- But that's just how it is:
- Competition is in our blood.
- 411
- 00:34:46,970 --> 00:34:50,890
- Take two kids running across a field:
- One will always try to run faster.
- 412
- 00:34:52,220 --> 00:34:56,720
- How is that related?
- - It totally is! It starts there, in that field!
- 413
- 00:34:57,220 --> 00:34:59,470
- We just LOVE competing.
- 414
- 00:34:59,560 --> 00:35:03,180
- Competition is fun!
- Even jungle warriors compete.
- 415
- 00:35:03,390 --> 00:35:06,770
- But it's become so extreme!
- Nonstop struggle and competition...
- 416
- 00:35:06,970 --> 00:35:09,390
- The whole world has become
- a damn Circus Maximus!
- 417
- 00:35:09,520 --> 00:35:10,600
- You're exaggerating.
- 418
- 00:35:10,770 --> 00:35:16,970
- What? The top 5% who own the capital
- benefit from the rest scurrying about.
- 419
- 00:35:17,220 --> 00:35:21,470
- Everyone else just works their asses off,
- is unhappy and totally stressed out.
- 420
- 00:35:27,140 --> 00:35:29,310
- That's not so nice, yeah.
- 421
- 00:35:29,390 --> 00:35:31,720
- But that's nature's way.
- 422
- 00:35:31,770 --> 00:35:33,890
- The hard in the garden,
- the tender in the pond.
- 423
- 00:35:34,060 --> 00:35:36,219
- The strongest survive, these
- are the rules of evolution.
- 424
- 00:35:36,220 --> 00:35:37,770
- Says who?
- 425
- 00:35:37,850 --> 00:35:38,850
- Says Darwin.
- 426
- 00:35:39,020 --> 00:35:40,770
- Darwin?
- - Yes.
- 427
- 00:35:42,270 --> 00:35:45,680
- Whoa, I don't think
- you're up to date there.
- 428
- 00:35:47,520 --> 00:35:51,520
- Oh, fuck...
- I feel sick.
- 429
- 00:35:54,180 --> 00:35:55,520
- I'm getting off the road.
- 430
- 00:36:13,060 --> 00:36:15,850
- Oh shit, are you okay?
- 431
- 00:36:17,640 --> 00:36:19,850
- Have another sip of water.
- 432
- 00:36:23,520 --> 00:36:25,520
- Oh, shit.
- 433
- 00:36:30,310 --> 00:36:31,430
- Are you all right?
- 434
- 00:36:31,560 --> 00:36:34,180
- I hope it's not a sunstroke.
- Are you dizzy?
- 435
- 00:36:34,350 --> 00:36:37,640
- No, it's alright, I guess I just
- ate something wrong.
- 436
- 00:36:37,810 --> 00:36:39,350
- Alright.
- 437
- 00:36:39,470 --> 00:36:43,520
- I hope it's not because of
- my pro-capitalist arguments.
- 438
- 00:36:43,680 --> 00:36:45,890
- No, don't worry.
- 439
- 00:36:49,100 --> 00:36:51,140
- I already feel better.
- I'll wipe off my vomit.
- 440
- 00:36:51,270 --> 00:36:53,350
- No, no.
- Let me do that.
- 441
- 00:36:53,470 --> 00:36:55,350
- You want to clean off my vomit?
- 442
- 00:36:55,470 --> 00:36:58,270
- I was a civil servant in
- oncology, I'll manage.
- 443
- 00:36:58,430 --> 00:36:59,680
- Okay.
- 444
- 00:37:01,020 --> 00:37:02,020
- Oh, sorry.
- 445
- 00:37:02,140 --> 00:37:06,720
- All good.
- Say, can we go for a walk?
- 446
- 00:37:07,220 --> 00:37:11,890
- Yeah, sure. Look, there's a
- forest back there, a forest walk?
- 447
- 00:37:15,970 --> 00:37:20,470
- The strongest survive. It's always
- been like that. Darwin proved it.
- 448
- 00:37:20,810 --> 00:37:22,310
- No, Jan.
- 449
- 00:37:22,430 --> 00:37:26,310
- Darwin said "survival of the
- fittest", not "survival of the strongest".
- 450
- 00:37:26,430 --> 00:37:29,770
- Not the strongest survive,
- but those who adapt best.
- 451
- 00:37:30,470 --> 00:37:35,020
- It can also be the most bizarre.
- Take the peacock for example.
- 452
- 00:37:35,140 --> 00:37:38,060
- The peacock?
- - Yes. Pavo Cristatus.
- 453
- 00:37:38,310 --> 00:37:39,560
- Peacock!
- 454
- 00:37:42,560 --> 00:37:46,890
- If only the strong survive, why is there
- a bizarre animal like the peacock?
- 455
- 00:37:47,060 --> 00:37:50,640
- It's neither fast nor strong,
- can't even run away.
- 456
- 00:37:51,600 --> 00:37:54,310
- But it can spread it's tail
- to a wonderful fan.
- 457
- 00:37:54,470 --> 00:37:57,020
- The ladies love it, so it has more babies.
- 458
- 00:37:57,970 --> 00:38:02,310
- See? In this case not the strongest survived,
- but the most bizarre.
- 459
- 00:38:02,430 --> 00:38:03,850
- There are so many examples.
- 460
- 00:38:04,100 --> 00:38:07,890
- This "struggle for existence" is
- total bullshit.
- 461
- 00:38:08,560 --> 00:38:11,640
- Darwin was abused by the capitalists.
- 462
- 00:38:11,770 --> 00:38:13,430
- From the beginning.
- 463
- 00:38:20,100 --> 00:38:22,060
- But then what about gorillas?
- 464
- 00:38:22,310 --> 00:38:25,180
- Gorillas fight until only one is left:
- 465
- 00:38:25,310 --> 00:38:26,810
- The alpha male.
- 466
- 00:38:26,890 --> 00:38:31,560
- Only the alpha male may reproduce.
- It even kills the other males' babies.
- 467
- 00:38:31,810 --> 00:38:33,350
- And we're all gorillas, or what?
- 468
- 00:38:33,560 --> 00:38:37,390
- No, but human society works similarly.
- 469
- 00:38:37,600 --> 00:38:42,560
- We fight until a pecking order is created.
- And our economic system accommodates that.
- 470
- 00:38:42,770 --> 00:38:47,140
- That's why it's the only one that works,
- and why communism didn't work.
- 471
- 00:38:47,310 --> 00:38:50,890
- Objection. Firstly, communism
- was a hierarchical system too.
- 472
- 00:38:51,060 --> 00:38:55,810
- And why? Because everyone wanted
- the biggest piece of the cake!
- 473
- 00:38:55,890 --> 00:38:59,470
- That's why "real socialism" never existed.
- 474
- 00:38:59,600 --> 00:39:02,770
- Neither in East Germany,
- nor in Russia, nor in China.
- 475
- 00:39:02,850 --> 00:39:06,850
- Mao and Stalin forced a system on
- the people that they didn't want.
- 476
- 00:39:07,020 --> 00:39:09,220
- Because it doesn't fit human nature.
- 477
- 00:39:09,390 --> 00:39:13,390
- Oh, please don't start with
- "communism vs capitalism"...
- 478
- 00:39:13,470 --> 00:39:16,680
- That's so 90s.
- Both systems suck.
- 479
- 00:39:16,770 --> 00:39:20,310
- The question of the basic principle
- is much more interesting.
- 480
- 00:39:20,560 --> 00:39:23,140
- What advances mankind more?
- 481
- 00:39:23,390 --> 00:39:25,140
- Competition or cooperation?
- 482
- 00:39:25,310 --> 00:39:26,810
- Competition.
- - Cooperation.
- 483
- 00:39:27,100 --> 00:39:30,020
- Competition.
- - Cooperation! Why else did I give you a ride?
- 484
- 00:39:30,140 --> 00:39:31,680
- And why did you kick me out?
- 485
- 00:39:32,390 --> 00:39:36,100
- Come on, you know why. I took you
- 'cos I felt sorry for you.
- 486
- 00:39:36,220 --> 00:39:39,100
- What??
- You felt sorry for me??
- 487
- 00:39:39,220 --> 00:39:43,470
- Never heard of compassion,
- empathy, mirror neurons?
- 488
- 00:39:43,680 --> 00:39:48,350
- You were sad. I saw that, felt what
- you felt, and got sad, as well.
- 489
- 00:39:48,560 --> 00:39:53,310
- Empathy! That's why I gave you a ride!
- And that's the basis of humanity!
- 490
- 00:39:53,390 --> 00:39:57,890
- It generates cooperation, which isn't
- just nice, but the secret of our success!
- 491
- 00:39:58,100 --> 00:40:02,390
- Thanks to cooperation, we descend
- from Cro-Magnons, not Neanderthals.
- 492
- 00:40:04,600 --> 00:40:06,140
- Wanna hear more?
- - No.
- 493
- 00:40:06,310 --> 00:40:07,680
- Sure you do.
- - No!
- 494
- 00:40:08,100 --> 00:40:09,810
- Stop it, I'm a gorilla!
- 495
- 00:40:12,720 --> 00:40:17,310
- They lived at the end of the last Ice Age,
- around 25,000 years ago.
- 496
- 00:40:17,600 --> 00:40:20,470
- In southern France alongside
- the Neanderthals.
- 497
- 00:40:20,970 --> 00:40:24,310
- The Cro-Magnons survived,
- while the Neanderthals went extinct.
- 498
- 00:40:24,390 --> 00:40:25,850
- Know why?
- 499
- 00:40:26,100 --> 00:40:28,810
- They killed the Neanderthals?
- - No.
- 500
- 00:40:29,310 --> 00:40:31,100
- Because of battue.
- 501
- 00:40:31,470 --> 00:40:38,470
- It was like this: Neanderthals were lone
- wolves who lived in groups of eight to ten.
- 502
- 00:40:38,560 --> 00:40:42,310
- They fought each other,
- and were massive, brawny beings.
- 503
- 00:40:42,390 --> 00:40:44,560
- Like me.
- - More or less.
- 504
- 00:40:44,680 --> 00:40:48,640
- They needed around 5,000 calories
- per day, a lot of meat.
- 505
- 00:40:49,140 --> 00:40:50,560
- Like me.
- 506
- 00:40:51,470 --> 00:40:54,220
- Yeah, maybe, anyway...
- 507
- 00:40:54,390 --> 00:40:58,770
- At the end of the Ice Age, food became
- scarce and they started eating each other.
- 508
- 00:40:59,470 --> 00:41:03,680
- They were cannibals?
- - In the end. Then they starved and went extinct.
- 509
- 00:41:03,810 --> 00:41:05,810
- Now the Cro-Magnons:
- 510
- 00:41:06,100 --> 00:41:09,140
- They lived in groups of up to 400.
- 511
- 00:41:09,470 --> 00:41:12,020
- Together, they drove
- animals towards cliffs...
- 512
- 00:41:12,140 --> 00:41:14,470
- ...who panicked and fell off them.
- Et voila:
- 513
- 00:41:14,560 --> 00:41:18,140
- They had loads of meat. Real barbecue parties.
- - Cool.
- 514
- 00:41:18,390 --> 00:41:22,100
- Having so much food
- gave them time to paint caves.
- 515
- 00:41:22,470 --> 00:41:25,470
- Their tongues developed,
- they started talking.
- 516
- 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:27,560
- As the first homo sapiens.
- 517
- 00:41:27,680 --> 00:41:31,220
- And from the Cro-Magnons we descend.
- They're our ancestors.
- 518
- 00:41:31,390 --> 00:41:33,140
- Really?
- - Yes.
- 519
- 00:41:34,140 --> 00:41:37,220
- They survived because
- they cooperated...
- 520
- 00:41:37,390 --> 00:41:41,350
- ...while Neanderthals went extinct.
- Battue, that was the success factor!
- 521
- 00:41:41,470 --> 00:41:46,849
- So the social element was the
- decisive factor in enabling humanity!
- 522
- 00:41:46,850 --> 00:41:50,890
- And now the capitalists want to turn us
- back into Neanderthals, get it?
- 523
- 00:41:51,390 --> 00:41:54,640
- That's a bit one-sided, Jule.
- - No, it isn't.
- 524
- 00:41:55,390 --> 00:41:58,970
- Capitalism is an inhuman,
- misanthropic system.
- 525
- 00:41:59,100 --> 00:42:03,310
- It benefits the 1% at the top,
- while the rest of humanity feels miserable.
- 526
- 00:42:03,390 --> 00:42:05,390
- Sorry, but that's total bullshit.
- 527
- 00:42:05,470 --> 00:42:08,310
- You act like humans are
- peace-loving hippies...
- 528
- 00:42:08,390 --> 00:42:11,310
- ...who give out hugs
- all day, but they're not.
- 529
- 00:42:12,560 --> 00:42:16,470
- Know what they found on Ötzi,
- that iceman from 5,000 years ago? An ax.
- 530
- 00:42:16,640 --> 00:42:19,680
- Not a peace pipe, an ax.
- - Maybe he was felling trees.
- 531
- 00:42:20,390 --> 00:42:22,220
- It was a battle ax, for killing.
- 532
- 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:26,520
- He had war injuries
- and an arrow tip in his shoulder.
- 533
- 00:42:26,640 --> 00:42:29,220
- That tip severed an artery
- and he bled to death.
- 534
- 00:42:29,350 --> 00:42:33,220
- He was murdered from behind
- with a bow and arrow. Bang!
- 535
- 00:42:33,810 --> 00:42:37,520
- That's what I see when I look at
- 5,000 years of human history:
- 536
- 00:42:37,600 --> 00:42:40,680
- Murder and destruction.
- People slitting throats.
- 537
- 00:42:40,810 --> 00:42:44,970
- Tribal genocide, nations attacking
- each other, hate, the Holocaust...
- 538
- 00:42:45,100 --> 00:42:50,060
- ...oppression. The history of
- mankind is one big bloodbath!
- 539
- 00:42:51,390 --> 00:42:54,720
- Every 3 seconds there's a murder
- in the world. Every 3 seconds!
- 540
- 00:42:55,180 --> 00:42:59,680
- Right now, a man stabs his wife
- because she wants to leave him.
- 541
- 00:43:02,970 --> 00:43:04,560
- We're not just good, Jule.
- 542
- 00:43:04,680 --> 00:43:08,890
- We're evil, too.
- - Evil.
- 543
- 00:43:10,350 --> 00:43:13,680
- What about the guy who almost raped you.
- Did he want to cooperate?
- 544
- 00:43:13,810 --> 00:43:16,270
- What? You don't have to get polemical!
- 545
- 00:43:16,350 --> 00:43:19,196
- What's that got to do with anything?
- That was a troubled, stupid asshole.
- 546
- 00:43:19,220 --> 00:43:22,470
- Of course there are people like that.
- What fucking argument is that anyway?
- 547
- 00:43:27,100 --> 00:43:30,180
- We're talking about
- basic human traits.
- 548
- 00:43:30,350 --> 00:43:32,520
- Those that promote us as humanity.
- 549
- 00:43:34,100 --> 00:43:41,060
- Okay. And what about envy and greed?
- Aren't these also basic human traits?
- 550
- 00:43:41,350 --> 00:43:46,140
- If I eat potatoes every day, but my
- neighbour has grilled chicken...
- 551
- 00:43:46,310 --> 00:43:49,520
- ...isn't it the rule rather than the
- exception that I want chicken, too?
- 552
- 00:43:50,060 --> 00:43:53,680
- Or if someone walks to work for ten
- kilometers, while his neighbour...
- 553
- 00:43:53,810 --> 00:43:57,390
- ...goes by bike, isn't it normal and
- humane that he also wants a bike?
- 554
- 00:43:57,520 --> 00:43:59,969
- Yes, but this has nothing to do with envy.
- It's just unfair.
- 555
- 00:43:59,970 --> 00:44:01,130
- They should both have a bike.
- 556
- 00:44:01,220 --> 00:44:02,850
- No, we're going around in circles here.
- 557
- 00:44:02,970 --> 00:44:05,180
- He should save until he
- can afford a bicycle...
- 558
- 00:44:05,350 --> 00:44:07,469
- ...for that he'll work harder and produce
- better products or...
- 559
- 00:44:07,470 --> 00:44:09,680
- ...tomatoes or whatever he produces.
- 560
- 00:44:11,350 --> 00:44:16,140
- "My bike","your bike"...
- it all started much earlier.
- 561
- 00:44:16,270 --> 00:44:18,350
- With the invention of property.
- 562
- 00:44:18,470 --> 00:44:21,770
- If I don't own anything,
- you can't envy me, can you?
- 563
- 00:44:21,970 --> 00:44:25,390
- Look, nomads, they shared.
- They shared everything.
- 564
- 00:44:25,520 --> 00:44:29,809
- We love to share. Our body releases tons
- of happiness hormones when we share.
- 565
- 00:44:29,810 --> 00:44:30,810
- We love it.
- 566
- 00:44:32,310 --> 00:44:33,970
- Then why don't we do it?
- 567
- 00:44:34,850 --> 00:44:38,020
- I'm really hungry.
- Shall we cook something?
- 568
- 00:44:38,180 --> 00:44:39,390
- Yes.
- - Yes?
- 569
- 00:44:39,520 --> 00:44:41,970
- Definitely.
- Chicken, perhaps?
- 570
- 00:44:42,060 --> 00:44:43,850
- For you, only potatoes.
- 571
- 00:44:44,640 --> 00:44:46,350
- No, I need meat.
- Meeeeeat!
- 572
- 00:44:46,470 --> 00:44:48,850
- Then go hunt a deer.
- 573
- 00:44:49,520 --> 00:44:54,390
- I need you for that. For the battue.
- - Forget it. Take a spade.
- 574
- 00:45:06,890 --> 00:45:12,560
- It's great to add two or three
- sprigs of rosemary.
- 575
- 00:45:26,890 --> 00:45:28,850
- How's it going there?
- 576
- 00:45:29,600 --> 00:45:31,060
- Thanks, I'm gettin into it.
- 577
- 00:45:32,600 --> 00:45:34,180
- Still some dirt here.
- 578
- 00:45:37,890 --> 00:45:40,220
- And there's also pretty much here.
- 579
- 00:45:40,600 --> 00:45:41,850
- Get away!
- 580
- 00:45:54,350 --> 00:45:56,100
- Next stop: Dortmund.
- 581
- 00:45:56,850 --> 00:45:59,180
- All crazy Jans please disembark.
- 582
- 00:46:01,970 --> 00:46:04,850
- Driving, driving, driving
- down the Autobahn!
- 583
- 00:46:24,680 --> 00:46:26,600
- Look, the Cologne Cathedral!
- 584
- 00:46:26,680 --> 00:46:29,140
- Cologne!
- - Carnival!
- 585
- 00:46:43,100 --> 00:46:46,850
- Just drop me off at the corner,
- I'll walk to the station from there.
- 586
- 00:46:47,680 --> 00:46:49,020
- And then you'll take the bus?
- 587
- 00:46:51,520 --> 00:46:53,350
- Just as I was getting used to you.
- 588
- 00:46:54,140 --> 00:46:57,810
- Plus, I still have to convince you that
- humans aren't as bad as you think.
- 589
- 00:46:58,060 --> 00:47:00,520
- Well, that's true of course.
- 590
- 00:47:01,890 --> 00:47:03,810
- Another 300 miles?
- 591
- 00:47:05,600 --> 00:47:06,970
- Uhm, yeah!
- 592
- 00:47:07,060 --> 00:47:08,770
- Sure, I'd love that.
- 593
- 00:47:09,390 --> 00:47:11,390
- But only if it's not out of pity.
- 594
- 00:47:12,600 --> 00:47:14,970
- No, don't worry.
- Deal?
- 595
- 00:47:15,060 --> 00:47:16,350
- Deal.
- 596
- 00:47:31,100 --> 00:47:32,220
- Hey, look.
- 597
- 00:47:32,890 --> 00:47:34,970
- Hello, Belgium!
- 598
- 00:47:35,520 --> 00:47:36,970
- Bye, Germany!
- 599
- 00:47:40,100 --> 00:47:43,930
- Wanna pick something from the
- camping guide?
- 600
- 00:47:44,890 --> 00:47:47,100
- "RV Camping Guide."
- 601
- 00:47:47,350 --> 00:47:48,600
- This looks good:
- 602
- 00:47:48,720 --> 00:47:53,850
- "The camping site Champe le Monde
- lies in the midst of the hilly Ardennes."
- 603
- 00:47:58,520 --> 00:48:00,970
- They're open.
- - They are?
- 604
- 00:48:01,470 --> 00:48:03,970
- From happy lambs?
- - Yes, very happy.
- 605
- 00:48:06,970 --> 00:48:08,350
- Meat!
- 606
- 00:48:08,970 --> 00:48:11,060
- Shouldn't we grill it first?
- - No!
- 607
- 00:48:26,600 --> 00:48:28,520
- You OK or you need help?
- 608
- 00:48:28,600 --> 00:48:29,970
- I'll manage.
- 609
- 00:48:41,390 --> 00:48:42,600
- And?
- 610
- 00:48:43,180 --> 00:48:44,810
- Looking good!
- 611
- 00:48:48,720 --> 00:48:50,140
- Want some wine, too?
- 612
- 00:48:50,350 --> 00:48:51,970
- Uhm, no.
- 613
- 00:48:52,100 --> 00:48:53,600
- You don't drink?
- 614
- 00:48:53,720 --> 00:48:55,350
- Not right now, no.
- 615
- 00:48:58,680 --> 00:49:00,390
- Hunger, for example.
- 616
- 00:49:02,020 --> 00:49:07,100
- There's so much wheat that we could
- feed the world's population twice.
- 617
- 00:49:07,850 --> 00:49:10,720
- It's just not being
- distributed properly. Or...
- 618
- 00:49:10,970 --> 00:49:14,970
- Wait, I wanna show you something.
- 619
- 00:49:18,350 --> 00:49:21,520
- That red spot...
- This area would be sufficient...
- 620
- 00:49:21,560 --> 00:49:24,100
- ...to supply the whole earth
- with solar energy.
- 621
- 00:49:24,220 --> 00:49:25,720
- The sun is that strong.
- 622
- 00:49:26,350 --> 00:49:30,060
- Instead, we burn oil
- and heat up our planet.
- 623
- 00:49:33,180 --> 00:49:36,470
- Are you sure?
- - Yes, it's all been calculated.
- 624
- 00:49:38,600 --> 00:49:40,850
- And the map is always with you?
- 625
- 00:49:42,350 --> 00:49:47,390
- It reminds me of what we could do, if
- we'd just organize ourselves. Cooperate.
- 626
- 00:49:48,930 --> 00:49:52,060
- Which we don't.
- - Not yet.
- 627
- 00:49:58,520 --> 00:50:01,600
- Are you nervous about
- meeting your father?
- 628
- 00:50:02,180 --> 00:50:03,640
- No, not at all.
- 629
- 00:50:04,180 --> 00:50:05,810
- I'm looking forward to it.
- 630
- 00:50:07,720 --> 00:50:09,970
- Want to hear the rest of the story?
- 631
- 00:50:10,180 --> 00:50:12,140
- How I found out?
- 632
- 00:50:12,470 --> 00:50:13,720
- Yes, I'd love to.
- 633
- 00:50:18,810 --> 00:50:22,140
- Well, my father...
- He...
- 634
- 00:50:22,430 --> 00:50:25,140
- ...never really knew
- what to do with me.
- 635
- 00:50:25,270 --> 00:50:29,640
- He never even hid his dislike.
- I always asked myself why...
- 636
- 00:50:30,430 --> 00:50:33,140
- ...why he didn't like me, but...
- Well...
- 637
- 00:50:34,470 --> 00:50:39,430
- Then one summer day, we had this family
- celebration at my grandmother's.
- 638
- 00:50:39,470 --> 00:50:41,350
- I was 17.
- 639
- 00:50:41,970 --> 00:50:45,680
- Everyone was there:
- my older brother with his two kids...
- 640
- 00:50:45,720 --> 00:50:47,430
- I have an older brother.
- 641
- 00:50:47,600 --> 00:50:49,470
- His wife...
- 642
- 00:50:49,560 --> 00:50:51,810
- Grandparents, uncles and aunties...
- 643
- 00:50:51,890 --> 00:50:53,520
- The whole shebang.
- 644
- 00:50:54,180 --> 00:50:56,270
- So I'm sitting there...
- 645
- 00:50:56,970 --> 00:51:00,810
- ...looking around. Everyone's
- enjoying themselves, having fun.
- 646
- 00:51:03,140 --> 00:51:06,810
- Suddenly I realize something's missing.
- Something's wrong.
- 647
- 00:51:06,970 --> 00:51:10,270
- Like a part of me's missing,
- something in me is empty, you know?
- 648
- 00:51:10,430 --> 00:51:13,430
- Inside of me it was getting
- darker and darker.
- 649
- 00:51:14,350 --> 00:51:16,810
- So I'm looking at my father's relatives...
- 650
- 00:51:17,430 --> 00:51:19,060
- And suddenly...
- 651
- 00:51:19,180 --> 00:51:21,350
- All of a sudden, it clicks.
- 652
- 00:51:21,520 --> 00:51:25,270
- I realize what my problem is,
- I get up, approach my mother and say:
- 653
- 00:51:25,430 --> 00:51:27,720
- "He's not my father, right?"
- 654
- 00:51:29,350 --> 00:51:30,470
- In front of everyone?
- 655
- 00:51:31,350 --> 00:51:32,810
- In front of everyone.
- 656
- 00:51:33,720 --> 00:51:36,520
- And your mother?
- How did she react?
- 657
- 00:51:36,970 --> 00:51:40,350
- She said nothing at all.
- Which was the answer, of course.
- 658
- 00:51:41,770 --> 00:51:46,430
- Thus it was clear why he had
- treated me like shit for 17 years.
- 659
- 00:51:50,850 --> 00:51:54,850
- Is it my fault that my mother had
- good taste for once in her life...
- 660
- 00:51:55,140 --> 00:51:57,430
- by falling for a Spanish boatbuilder.
- 661
- 00:51:58,470 --> 00:52:00,430
- A Spanish boatbuilder?
- 662
- 00:52:01,720 --> 00:52:04,680
- 1993, on vacation.
- A one-night stand.
- 663
- 00:52:05,140 --> 00:52:07,520
- My stepfather wanted her to
- abort, but she refused.
- 664
- 00:52:07,680 --> 00:52:11,140
- And so one fine day
- I saw the light of the world.
- 665
- 00:52:49,810 --> 00:52:51,680
- No?
- - No, one more time.
- 666
- 00:52:51,810 --> 00:52:53,720
- Yes, okay...
- 667
- 00:52:53,850 --> 00:52:55,430
- Get back, it should be fine now.
- 668
- 00:52:55,520 --> 00:52:57,020
- Really?
- - Yes.
- 669
- 00:52:57,720 --> 00:52:58,720
- Got it?
- 670
- 00:53:00,850 --> 00:53:02,520
- Wow.
- Alright?
- 671
- 00:53:03,430 --> 00:53:04,850
- Really cool.
- 672
- 00:53:09,270 --> 00:53:10,470
- Jan?
- 673
- 00:53:10,600 --> 00:53:12,470
- Are you still awake?
- 674
- 00:53:12,600 --> 00:53:13,810
- Yes.
- 675
- 00:53:15,600 --> 00:53:18,140
- I'm really happy you're with me.
- 676
- 00:53:20,350 --> 00:53:22,720
- I'd have gone crazy on my own.
- 677
- 00:53:23,770 --> 00:53:25,430
- And gotten the flu.
- 678
- 00:53:26,220 --> 00:53:27,430
- The flu?
- 679
- 00:53:28,180 --> 00:53:30,390
- Yeah, being alone,
- cortisol and all:
- 680
- 00:53:30,470 --> 00:53:32,560
- Doesn't that weaken the immune system?
- 681
- 00:53:32,680 --> 00:53:34,430
- That's true.
- 682
- 00:53:39,350 --> 00:53:43,180
- One gentle touch kills thousands
- of stress hormones, by the way.
- 683
- 00:53:43,350 --> 00:53:44,720
- Really?
- 684
- 00:53:46,850 --> 00:53:49,680
- I have to remember that.
- - Do that.
- 685
- 00:53:53,680 --> 00:53:54,810
- Good night.
- 686
- 00:53:55,680 --> 00:53:57,180
- Good night.
- 687
- 00:54:30,430 --> 00:54:32,720
- Look, we're almost in France!
- 688
- 00:54:33,850 --> 00:54:35,430
- Bye bye, Belgium!
- 689
- 00:54:35,600 --> 00:54:37,810
- Hello, France!
- 690
- 00:54:43,430 --> 00:54:45,640
- Looks different right away, right?
- 691
- 00:54:45,720 --> 00:54:48,350
- Yeah, and much less traffic, right?
- 692
- 00:55:19,850 --> 00:55:21,350
- Alex?
- 693
- 00:55:21,850 --> 00:55:24,140
- Hi, yes, it's me.
- 694
- 00:55:25,430 --> 00:55:26,970
- I have to tell you something.
- 695
- 00:55:36,850 --> 00:55:41,850
- I did want to tell you face to face,
- but I couldn't stand it any longer, sorry.
- 696
- 00:55:44,180 --> 00:55:45,810
- I have to go now.
- 697
- 00:55:47,430 --> 00:55:51,140
- I'll call back, OK?
- Bye.
- 698
- 00:56:05,850 --> 00:56:07,430
- Are you OK?
- 699
- 00:56:08,180 --> 00:56:09,520
- So-so.
- 700
- 00:56:10,720 --> 00:56:12,350
- Can I help you?
- 701
- 00:56:12,430 --> 00:56:14,140
- No, not really.
- 702
- 00:56:14,850 --> 00:56:16,850
- I just need a minute, OK?
- - Sure.
- 703
- 00:56:17,140 --> 00:56:18,600
- Then we'll move on.
- 704
- 00:56:18,720 --> 00:56:20,430
- I'll be right back.
- 705
- 00:56:40,720 --> 00:56:42,720
- You know what always helps against grief?
- 706
- 00:56:43,720 --> 00:56:45,140
- No.
- 707
- 00:56:58,270 --> 00:56:59,850
- I love those!
- 708
- 00:57:10,810 --> 00:57:12,640
- So?
- ls It helping?
- 709
- 00:57:13,890 --> 00:57:16,430
- Yeah, much better already.
- 710
- 00:57:19,350 --> 00:57:21,180
- My grandma always made these.
- 711
- 00:57:30,720 --> 00:57:31,720
- What was that?
- 712
- 00:57:32,640 --> 00:57:36,140
- A gentle touch.
- Kills stress hormones.
- 713
- 00:57:37,350 --> 00:57:38,640
- Yeah, right.
- 714
- 00:57:43,350 --> 00:57:44,430
- Thank you.
- 715
- 00:57:47,310 --> 00:57:48,680
- Shall we?
- 716
- 00:58:05,600 --> 00:58:09,180
- So, do you have a girlfriend?
- - No, not right now.
- 717
- 00:58:09,600 --> 00:58:12,180
- My last relationship
- ended three months ago.
- 718
- 00:58:12,350 --> 00:58:13,810
- How did it end?
- 719
- 00:58:14,640 --> 00:58:17,180
- Well, we'd "grown apart."
- 720
- 00:58:17,850 --> 00:58:19,430
- How long were you together?
- 721
- 00:58:19,680 --> 00:58:20,850
- Six months.
- 722
- 00:58:21,470 --> 00:58:23,850
- Then you "grew apart" rather quickly...
- 723
- 00:58:26,970 --> 00:58:30,640
- It was the problem I always have.
- I loved her more than she loved me.
- 724
- 00:58:31,600 --> 00:58:34,140
- Actually, I think she
- didn't love me at all.
- 725
- 00:58:34,520 --> 00:58:35,890
- From the beginning?
- 726
- 00:58:36,180 --> 00:58:37,680
- I think so.
- 727
- 00:58:38,640 --> 00:58:40,680
- Then why were you with her?
- 728
- 00:58:42,140 --> 00:58:46,270
- I don't really know myself.
- It happens to me again and again.
- 729
- 00:58:47,430 --> 00:58:49,970
- I fall for women who don't fall for me.
- 730
- 00:58:50,680 --> 00:58:53,850
- I feel at home in rejection,
- as I wasn't loved enough as a child.
- 731
- 00:58:54,720 --> 00:58:56,720
- You don't sound convinced.
- 732
- 00:58:57,180 --> 00:58:59,680
- Ahh, I don't know.
- 733
- 00:58:59,720 --> 00:59:03,390
- I mean yeah, my stepdad treated me like
- shit, but that's way too simple.
- 734
- 00:59:03,970 --> 00:59:06,179
- <<You have to love yourself
- to be able to love others.>>
- 735
- 00:59:06,180 --> 00:59:08,179
- <<Loving is easy, being
- loved is difficult>>
- 736
- 00:59:08,180 --> 00:59:10,429
- Just because it's simple,
- it doesn't have to be less true.
- 737
- 00:59:10,430 --> 00:59:12,679
- I think there's something to it.
- 738
- 00:59:12,680 --> 00:59:16,600
- Oh come on, I'll buy you a <<Brigitte>>, it's all in there, too.
- - So what?
- 739
- 00:59:17,470 --> 00:59:21,520
- What, so what? Who on earth loves himself?
- Only idiots love themselves.
- 740
- 00:59:21,680 --> 00:59:22,470
- What?
- 741
- 00:59:22,600 --> 00:59:25,139
- Do you know someone who loves himself?
- I don't.
- 742
- 00:59:25,140 --> 00:59:27,720
- At least nobody with more
- than five brain cells.
- 743
- 00:59:30,520 --> 00:59:31,850
- Or do you love yourself?
- 744
- 00:59:42,680 --> 00:59:46,810
- I wasn't just at the bakery, by the way.
- - Champagne?
- 745
- 00:59:46,970 --> 00:59:50,060
- Now that we're in the Champagne...
- 746
- 00:59:51,350 --> 00:59:54,850
- After this bottle, <i>I'll</i> love myself.
- And all the women who love me.
- 747
- 00:59:56,810 --> 00:59:58,430
- One can't discuss with you today.
- 748
- 00:59:59,140 --> 01:00:01,140
- Sorry, difficult subject for me.
- 749
- 01:00:08,970 --> 01:00:11,350
- Know what my real problem is?
- 750
- 01:00:12,720 --> 01:00:15,720
- That I can't choose who
- I fall in love with.
- 751
- 01:00:16,180 --> 01:00:18,020
- Oh, right.
- - Yeah.
- 752
- 01:00:18,470 --> 01:00:21,600
- I keep falling in love with women
- who aren't right for me.
- 753
- 01:00:22,640 --> 01:00:24,520
- You know whose fault that is?
- 754
- 01:00:24,640 --> 01:00:26,970
- The MHC sector of my DNA.
- 755
- 01:00:27,180 --> 01:00:30,560
- MHC is the part that
- codes the immune system.
- 756
- 01:00:30,720 --> 01:00:32,140
- Correct.
- 757
- 01:00:32,720 --> 01:00:36,770
- It's your field,
- but I did extensive research.
- 758
- 01:00:36,890 --> 01:00:40,600
- The MHC sees to it
- that you like the smell of people...
- 759
- 01:00:40,720 --> 01:00:43,810
- ...who have an immune system
- differing strongly from your own.
- 760
- 01:00:43,970 --> 01:00:47,470
- Women can smell a
- difference of a single gene!
- 761
- 01:00:47,810 --> 01:00:49,180
- What?
- 762
- 01:00:51,720 --> 01:00:53,270
- Take two men.
- 763
- 01:00:53,520 --> 01:00:59,350
- One man's immune system differs from yours
- by one gene more than the other's.
- 764
- 01:00:59,850 --> 01:01:02,060
- You'll find his smell better.
- 765
- 01:01:02,140 --> 01:01:04,890
- You can't help it, it
- happens subconsciously.
- 766
- 01:01:06,890 --> 01:01:09,020
- The biological reason is...
- 767
- 01:01:09,140 --> 01:01:13,720
- ...if you have children with someone
- whose immune system is complementary...
- 768
- 01:01:14,180 --> 01:01:19,060
- ...the kids will be twice as resistant
- to viruses, bacteria, etc.
- 769
- 01:01:19,180 --> 01:01:21,640
- Evolutionary genius.
- 770
- 01:01:21,720 --> 01:01:28,180
- That was hugely advantageous in the past
- when people died like flies from infections.
- 771
- 01:01:29,140 --> 01:01:30,890
- In the past, yes.
- 772
- 01:01:31,020 --> 01:01:35,890
- But we no longer run around the forest in
- loincloths, looking for the best-smelling DNA.
- 773
- 01:01:36,100 --> 01:01:38,100
- Well, I do sometimes...
- 774
- 01:01:43,180 --> 01:01:46,719
- And in terms of choosing our partners,
- we're still cavemen.
- 775
- 01:01:46,720 --> 01:01:50,270
- You know what pheromones are?
- - Yes, scentless transmitting agents.
- 776
- 01:01:50,470 --> 01:01:55,719
- Right. And most of them are located here
- in the little groove above the upper lip.
- 777
- 01:01:55,720 --> 01:01:58,270
- That's why we kiss before we mate.
- 778
- 01:01:58,470 --> 01:02:00,640
- And tilt our heads sideways.
- 779
- 01:02:00,720 --> 01:02:03,060
- To smell the pheromones.
- - How romantic!
- 780
- 01:02:04,390 --> 01:02:07,180
- Kissing is a gene check.
- Nothing else.
- 781
- 01:02:08,140 --> 01:02:11,970
- Thanks, now I'll always think of
- "gene check" when I kiss, great.
- 782
- 01:02:16,020 --> 01:02:19,520
- With the first kiss, you already know
- if the sex will be good or not.
- 783
- 01:02:19,720 --> 01:02:21,100
- True.
- 784
- 01:02:21,720 --> 01:02:26,770
- And the craziest thing is: When two people
- have sex who like each other's smell...
- 785
- 01:02:26,970 --> 01:02:30,680
- ...the chance that the woman gets
- pregnant is three times as high.
- 786
- 01:02:31,890 --> 01:02:36,720
- They found that out with that
- T-shirt smell test. Ever heard of it?
- 787
- 01:02:36,890 --> 01:02:37,970
- No.
- 788
- 01:02:39,470 --> 01:02:43,060
- Ten women and ten men
- wore a T-shirt for a week...
- 789
- 01:02:43,180 --> 01:02:46,060
- ...then had to select
- the best-smelling one.
- 790
- 01:02:46,180 --> 01:02:49,430
- With those who found
- each other's smell appealing...
- 791
- 01:02:49,520 --> 01:02:53,060
- ...the woman was three times
- more likely to get pregnant.
- 792
- 01:02:54,100 --> 01:02:56,180
- Eww, how did they test that?
- 793
- 01:02:57,600 --> 01:02:59,640
- I have no clue.
- 794
- 01:03:00,350 --> 01:03:03,310
- But it doesn't work
- if the woman takes the pill.
- 795
- 01:03:03,350 --> 01:03:06,970
- Because then she prefers men
- with a similar immune system.
- 796
- 01:03:07,140 --> 01:03:10,100
- As a result, A: she won't
- get pregnant as quickly...
- 797
- 01:03:10,180 --> 01:03:12,720
- ...and B: the kids will
- be at the doctor all the time.
- 798
- 01:03:13,020 --> 01:03:17,890
- So: Get off the pill six months before
- marriage or your offspring is screwed.
- 799
- 01:03:18,100 --> 01:03:19,720
- Sure thing.
- 800
- 01:03:21,350 --> 01:03:23,350
- It actually happened to me.
- 801
- 01:03:23,470 --> 01:03:27,890
- I dated a girl who stopped taking the pill
- six months into our affair.
- 802
- 01:03:28,020 --> 01:03:30,060
- Suddenly, we couldn't stop fighting!
- 803
- 01:03:30,180 --> 01:03:34,770
- Because of the pill, so many couples
- come together who don't match at all!
- 804
- 01:03:35,350 --> 01:03:39,060
- Hey, we're close to Verdun.
- Let's have an ice cream there.
- 805
- 01:03:39,220 --> 01:03:41,640
- Good idea.
- I want one too.
- 806
- 01:04:56,020 --> 01:04:59,970
- Jan, about what you said earlier.
- The pheromones and all.
- 807
- 01:05:01,600 --> 01:05:04,770
- When someone blames
- his relationship problems on biology,
- 808
- 01:05:04,970 --> 01:05:07,220
- it triggers my internal alarm, because...
- 809
- 01:05:07,430 --> 01:05:09,180
- Because it's the truth?
- 810
- 01:05:10,060 --> 01:05:14,720
- No, kidding aside. What you're referring
- to is merely sexual attraction.
- 811
- 01:05:15,720 --> 01:05:20,140
- When two people sniff each other,
- get horny and fuck, is that love?
- 812
- 01:05:20,390 --> 01:05:21,970
- We're not animals.
- 813
- 01:05:22,060 --> 01:05:23,810
- Sure, mammals.
- 814
- 01:05:23,970 --> 01:05:28,310
- Nonsense! OK, I need to find a man hot
- before starting a relationship with him.
- 815
- 01:05:28,430 --> 01:05:32,180
- But that's just the first stage.
- It's a great stage, yes.
- 816
- 01:05:32,310 --> 01:05:37,310
- It's exciting, your knees go weak, you get
- goosebumps and have physical reactions.
- 817
- 01:05:37,430 --> 01:05:41,100
- But the truth is...
- It's also the least interesting stage.
- 818
- 01:05:41,770 --> 01:05:47,810
- I don't find it so uninteresting.
- - But it's just unconscious, primal instincts!
- 819
- 01:05:48,600 --> 01:05:51,180
- I mean, I've heard all those theories...
- 820
- 01:05:51,810 --> 01:05:56,600
- ...how women look for macho,
- testosterone-laden men while ovulating...
- 821
- 01:05:56,810 --> 01:05:59,060
- Like me?
- - Exactly.
- 822
- 01:06:00,060 --> 01:06:04,390
- The rest of the time, they prefer caring
- types who look like their relatives.
- 823
- 01:06:04,470 --> 01:06:08,600
- Hang on: So statistically speaking,
- the caring type has an advantage?
- 824
- 01:06:09,220 --> 01:06:12,640
- Well, now everything's clear, Jule.
- - Jan, stop it!
- 825
- 01:06:13,140 --> 01:06:19,810
- It's funny and I know those theories,
- but they have no significance for your life.
- 826
- 01:06:19,970 --> 01:06:21,350
- Why not?
- 827
- 01:06:22,220 --> 01:06:25,890
- Because no woman
- let's her ovaries choose the man.
- 828
- 01:06:26,600 --> 01:06:28,850
- That's crystal clear.
- - Is it?
- 829
- 01:06:29,060 --> 01:06:34,020
- Yes. Maybe for one night,
- but not for my whole life!
- 830
- 01:06:34,470 --> 01:06:36,470
- What am I gonna do with a
- hunk who's good in bed...
- 831
- 01:06:36,600 --> 01:06:38,350
- ...but we have nothing
- to say to each other?
- 832
- 01:06:38,470 --> 01:06:39,970
- That's ridiculous.
- 833
- 01:06:40,810 --> 01:06:44,390
- OK, for you guys it's different...
- - What do you mean?
- 834
- 01:06:44,470 --> 01:06:49,770
- Penis brain? Blood down there, nothing up here?
- - Oh god, here we go.
- 835
- 01:06:51,430 --> 01:06:53,060
- Let's stick to the topic of love.
- 836
- 01:06:54,310 --> 01:06:57,180
- After I've found someone
- who's sexually attractive...
- 837
- 01:06:57,310 --> 01:06:59,270
- ...that's when it gets
- interesting, doesn't it?
- 838
- 01:06:59,390 --> 01:07:03,060
- That's when the word love
- becomes really relevant:
- 839
- 01:07:03,140 --> 01:07:05,060
- When you start to tune in.
- 840
- 01:07:05,270 --> 01:07:08,770
- I mean, we don't fall in love down here.
- 841
- 01:07:08,890 --> 01:07:11,270
- But here.
- And here.
- 842
- 01:07:12,220 --> 01:07:15,270
- So yes, maybe I can't
- decide who I find hot...
- 843
- 01:07:15,810 --> 01:07:18,270
- ...but I can decide who
- I fall in love with.
- 844
- 01:07:22,390 --> 01:07:24,060
- And that's your problem.
- 845
- 01:07:24,270 --> 01:07:28,310
- Or the solution to your problem.
- You have to take it step by step.
- 846
- 01:07:28,430 --> 01:07:30,060
- Step by step?
- 847
- 01:07:30,140 --> 01:07:34,140
- Step one: find a woman you find hot.
- Step two:
- 848
- 01:07:34,270 --> 01:07:37,890
- Find out if you're on the same wavelength.
- If not, go back to step one.
- 849
- 01:07:38,060 --> 01:07:39,890
- Not so difficult.
- 850
- 01:07:40,970 --> 01:07:45,059
- There's also a step three, but we'll
- discuss that in the advanced course.
- 851
- 01:07:45,060 --> 01:07:48,600
- Let's take our time.
- - Yeah, you're still a beginner.
- 852
- 01:07:48,810 --> 01:07:51,270
- But I'm looking forward to it.
- 853
- 01:07:55,140 --> 01:07:58,470
- I can't believe how many guys
- never reach step two.
- 854
- 01:08:00,890 --> 01:08:03,310
- Oh, Jule, I'm not so sure...
- 855
- 01:08:05,060 --> 01:08:08,140
- We're discussing men-women
- relationships, right?
- 856
- 01:08:08,310 --> 01:08:11,770
- And sex is an essential part of that.
- 857
- 01:08:11,970 --> 01:08:15,770
- Originally, the man-woman thing
- was about having kids.
- 858
- 01:08:15,890 --> 01:08:17,390
- OK, true.
- 859
- 01:08:17,600 --> 01:08:19,350
- And now to my theory.
- 860
- 01:08:20,220 --> 01:08:21,810
- I'm listening.
- 861
- 01:08:22,270 --> 01:08:24,470
- Sex <i>/</i> needs <i>/</i> contrast.
- 862
- 01:08:24,770 --> 01:08:25,770
- Contrast?
- 863
- 01:08:26,430 --> 01:08:28,810
- Man/woman, plus/minus, hard/soft.
- 864
- 01:08:28,970 --> 01:08:32,100
- Oh, Jan, please...
- - What? Let me finish.
- 865
- 01:08:32,220 --> 01:08:35,470
- Friction creates heat.
- Sex.
- 866
- 01:08:36,220 --> 01:08:40,770
- This thing about the differing immune
- systems is applicable on a higher level.
- 867
- 01:08:40,810 --> 01:08:43,470
- The hot-blooded Italian
- likes the blonde Swede.
- 868
- 01:08:43,720 --> 01:08:47,140
- Exotic is sexy,
- because it expands the gene pool.
- 869
- 01:08:48,350 --> 01:08:51,810
- Difference and disharmony
- is what creates passion.
- 870
- 01:08:51,970 --> 01:08:54,810
- After a fight
- you have the best sex!
- 871
- 01:08:55,060 --> 01:08:57,220
- Passion needs contrast.
- 872
- 01:08:58,390 --> 01:09:01,430
- OK, it can help.
- - Fine.
- 873
- 01:09:01,810 --> 01:09:03,890
- But now to my actual point.
- 874
- 01:09:05,810 --> 01:09:09,140
- Long-term relationships and partnerships,
- however...
- 875
- 01:09:09,470 --> 01:09:12,770
- I agree with you there,
- they need harmony.
- 876
- 01:09:12,890 --> 01:09:15,970
- Your partner should be a real partner.
- 877
- 01:09:16,060 --> 01:09:21,390
- If one loves meat and the other is
- vegetarian, there'll be trouble...
- 878
- 01:09:21,470 --> 01:09:24,720
- Or one is orderly and the other chaotic.
- - Exactly.
- 879
- 01:09:24,890 --> 01:09:27,059
- That ends with "We're not
- right for each other."
- 880
- 01:09:27,060 --> 01:09:29,060
- Break-up reason number one.
- - Exactly.
- 881
- 01:09:29,220 --> 01:09:30,890
- So my question is:
- 882
- 01:09:31,060 --> 01:09:34,470
- Why do so many people get together
- who aren't right for each other?
- 883
- 01:09:35,060 --> 01:09:38,060
- For different reasons...
- - Because they have great sex!
- 884
- 01:09:38,220 --> 01:09:42,310
- And there you go, the reason for
- all relationship misery on this planet.
- 885
- 01:09:42,430 --> 01:09:44,890
- There's a fundamental
- contradiction between...
- 886
- 01:09:45,060 --> 01:09:48,020
- ...sexual attraction and
- successful partnership.
- 887
- 01:09:48,100 --> 01:09:51,810
- Men and woman are simply incompatible
- in the long term.
- 888
- 01:09:52,100 --> 01:09:54,680
- Sure, long-term relationships
- are culturally...
- 889
- 01:09:54,810 --> 01:09:57,390
- ...desirable because they
- bring social stability.
- 890
- 01:09:57,470 --> 01:10:00,770
- But from a biological standpoint,
- they're impossible.
- 891
- 01:10:01,270 --> 01:10:05,060
- Monogamy is culturally
- programmed unhappiness.
- 892
- 01:10:05,270 --> 01:10:06,890
- Quod erat demonstrandum.
- 893
- 01:10:08,970 --> 01:10:12,390
- How long was your longest relationship again?
- - Nine months.
- 894
- 01:10:12,970 --> 01:10:15,060
- Seriously?
- You're kidding, right?
- 895
- 01:10:29,060 --> 01:10:31,770
- Shall we drive on?
- I need to move a bit after this.
- 896
- 01:10:31,890 --> 01:10:33,220
- Sure.
- I'm...
- 897
- 01:10:33,810 --> 01:10:35,140
- ...ready.
- 898
- 01:10:37,810 --> 01:10:39,350
- Nine months!
- 899
- 01:10:47,470 --> 01:10:48,970
- Let me get this.
- 900
- 01:10:49,060 --> 01:10:50,270
- Alex?
- 901
- 01:10:52,810 --> 01:10:54,060
- What's up?
- 902
- 01:10:55,560 --> 01:10:58,060
- What?
- What's with your tone?
- 903
- 01:10:59,470 --> 01:11:01,220
- Of course I'm asking...
- 904
- 01:11:01,810 --> 01:11:03,390
- Calm down, will you?
- 905
- 01:11:04,060 --> 01:11:05,470
- Calm down.
- 906
- 01:11:06,810 --> 01:11:10,430
- What? It's my problem?
- So for you, it's a "problem?"
- 907
- 01:11:31,470 --> 01:11:33,599
- All done?
- - Yeah, I think so.
- 908
- 01:11:33,600 --> 01:11:35,350
- I'll go in and pay.
- 909
- 01:12:29,020 --> 01:12:30,390
- Ready for departure?
- 910
- 01:12:30,520 --> 01:12:32,720
- Yes...
- Almost.
- 911
- 01:12:34,220 --> 01:12:36,020
- Just your type, right?
- 912
- 01:12:36,600 --> 01:12:37,810
- What?
- 913
- 01:12:37,970 --> 01:12:39,600
- The bimbo over there.
- 914
- 01:12:39,720 --> 01:12:41,430
- No way!
- 915
- 01:12:43,970 --> 01:12:46,020
- Then why are you staring at her?
- 916
- 01:12:47,310 --> 01:12:49,890
- Well, she's sexually
- quite attractive.
- 917
- 01:12:50,060 --> 01:12:52,970
- Then go check if you're
- soul mates: step two.
- 918
- 01:12:55,310 --> 01:12:58,680
- Ask her if she'll drive you.
- She might want your genes.
- 919
- 01:12:58,720 --> 01:13:01,520
- I would never get into a car like that.
- 920
- 01:13:03,220 --> 01:13:04,810
- I prefer taking the bus.
- 921
- 01:13:05,310 --> 01:13:06,720
- Good.
- 922
- 01:13:17,390 --> 01:13:20,310
- Can I go or do you want more?
- 923
- 01:13:20,600 --> 01:13:22,430
- Just a sec...
- 924
- 01:13:35,430 --> 01:13:37,060
- Look, the Loire!
- 925
- 01:13:38,560 --> 01:13:40,470
- Shall we have a picnic?
- 926
- 01:14:09,430 --> 01:14:11,600
- Now the Captain's on board, too.
- 927
- 01:14:11,720 --> 01:14:13,430
- Right on, little mermaid.
- 928
- 01:14:13,560 --> 01:14:16,310
- What did you say, Captain Bluebeard?
- 929
- 01:14:19,220 --> 01:14:20,600
- Look, land in sight!
- 930
- 01:14:20,720 --> 01:14:22,470
- Captain, land in sight!
- 931
- 01:14:23,310 --> 01:14:25,720
- After months of traveling...
- 932
- 01:14:26,430 --> 01:14:29,720
- We hang in the ropes for a bit.
- - Exactly.
- 933
- 01:14:44,770 --> 01:14:46,520
- "Like God in France."
- 934
- 01:14:49,060 --> 01:14:51,390
- Contrast in relationships
- may create friction...
- 935
- 01:14:51,470 --> 01:14:53,680
- ...and thus passion
- and possibly great sex.
- 936
- 01:14:54,430 --> 01:14:57,770
- But is that love?
- What's that got to do with love?
- 937
- 01:14:58,390 --> 01:14:59,810
- A lot.
- 938
- 01:15:00,560 --> 01:15:04,520
- The problem with many people
- is that they confuse passion for love.
- 939
- 01:15:04,600 --> 01:15:09,220
- They think that if they suffer a lot,
- they must be deeply in love.
- 940
- 01:15:09,310 --> 01:15:11,600
- That's a huge problem, because...
- 941
- 01:15:12,430 --> 01:15:14,680
- This 'amour fou' constant fighting...
- 942
- 01:15:14,970 --> 01:15:19,520
- It works in movies, because it's entertaining
- when the sparks fly. But in reality...
- 943
- 01:15:19,720 --> 01:15:23,020
- ...it just causes aggravation,
- misery...
- 944
- 01:15:23,140 --> 01:15:26,270
- ...and pain,
- and lasts for two years max.
- 945
- 01:15:26,560 --> 01:15:27,640
- Or nine months.
- 946
- 01:15:28,560 --> 01:15:30,180
- But...
- 947
- 01:15:30,270 --> 01:15:34,180
- ...nine very steamy months.
- The partnership's a bit bumpy, yes.
- 948
- 01:15:34,470 --> 01:15:36,220
- But the sex: great.
- 949
- 01:15:36,350 --> 01:15:39,470
- But good sex is also possible
- between people who get along well.
- 950
- 01:15:40,520 --> 01:15:43,640
- Having sex with someone
- you really love is...
- 951
- 01:15:44,180 --> 01:15:46,680
- It takes you to another dimension!
- 952
- 01:15:51,180 --> 01:15:54,560
- Haven't you ever had that?
- - Sure I have.
- 953
- 01:15:55,470 --> 01:15:56,470
- See?
- 954
- 01:15:57,020 --> 01:15:59,560
- There might be another
- reason why you fall for...
- 955
- 01:15:59,640 --> 01:16:02,350
- ...women who are so different.
- Outside of biology.
- 956
- 01:16:05,770 --> 01:16:09,560
- They don't understand you
- because they're so different.
- 957
- 01:16:09,680 --> 01:16:12,470
- And thus can't see inside of you.
- - What?
- 958
- 01:16:12,770 --> 01:16:14,020
- Well...
- 959
- 01:16:14,270 --> 01:16:18,270
- Maybe you don't want anyone
- to get really close to you.
- 960
- 01:16:18,560 --> 01:16:23,220
- That's why you choose these bunnies who...
- - Sorry, but that's bullshit.
- 961
- 01:16:23,350 --> 01:16:25,640
- Why would I not want that?
- It makes no sense.
- 962
- 01:16:26,560 --> 01:16:27,560
- Well...
- 963
- 01:16:31,890 --> 01:16:35,350
- Maybe you don't want people
- to see who you really are.
- 964
- 01:16:35,430 --> 01:16:37,100
- Because you're unhappy with that.
- - What?
- 965
- 01:16:37,270 --> 01:16:38,520
- It's possible!
- 966
- 01:16:38,970 --> 01:16:40,560
- Stop it, Jule.
- 967
- 01:16:41,640 --> 01:16:46,560
- That's just total bullshit. I don't
- even wanna get further into this crap.
- 968
- 01:16:46,680 --> 01:16:49,180
- It was just an idea.
- - A shitty idea, yeah.
- 969
- 01:16:58,430 --> 01:17:01,180
- Let's clear this up.
- 970
- 01:17:01,680 --> 01:17:06,100
- Why would I have a problem with myself?
- Why? I don't get it.
- 971
- 01:17:08,100 --> 01:17:10,180
- Please.
- I'm listening.
- 972
- 01:17:11,470 --> 01:17:12,600
- Your stepfather.
- 973
- 01:17:42,350 --> 01:17:43,560
- I'm sorry.
- 974
- 01:17:46,970 --> 01:17:48,180
- It's OK.
- 975
- 01:17:51,270 --> 01:17:52,640
- It's a sore point.
- 976
- 01:17:55,680 --> 01:17:57,310
- You sank my battleship.
- 977
- 01:19:13,770 --> 01:19:15,770
- I think I have the same thing.
- 978
- 01:19:16,970 --> 01:19:18,770
- That problem with closeness.
- 979
- 01:19:21,720 --> 01:19:24,020
- I just show it differently.
- 980
- 01:19:24,470 --> 01:19:28,470
- I'm more of a person who...
- throws smoke bombs.
- 981
- 01:19:31,600 --> 01:19:34,850
- Our "me“ is in a protective capsule...
- 982
- 01:19:36,100 --> 01:19:38,430
- ...and letting someone into it...
- 983
- 01:19:39,430 --> 01:19:41,640
- ...calls for a lot of trust.
- 984
- 01:19:42,850 --> 01:19:44,430
- Because“.
- 985
- 01:19:45,020 --> 01:19:47,430
- ...if the other person leaves,
- then...
- 986
- 01:19:48,430 --> 01:19:51,180
- ...he takes a piece of you with him.
- 987
- 01:19:51,600 --> 01:19:53,270
- And you die.
- 988
- 01:19:54,140 --> 01:19:55,720
- At least a bit.
- 989
- 01:20:02,430 --> 01:20:03,810
- Dangerous thing.
- 990
- 01:20:05,810 --> 01:20:07,850
- Extremely dangerous, yes.
- 991
- 01:20:10,970 --> 01:20:13,430
- But so beautiful, too.
- 992
- 01:20:14,180 --> 01:20:16,720
- When you're merging with each other.
- 993
- 01:20:17,430 --> 01:20:19,350
- Not alone anymore.
- 994
- 01:20:21,350 --> 01:20:24,060
- I mean, we're born alone...
- 995
- 01:20:24,180 --> 01:20:26,350
- ...we die alone, but then...
- 996
- 01:20:27,350 --> 01:20:30,430
- ...there's this moment
- with your partner...
- 997
- 01:20:35,100 --> 01:20:37,600
- Do you know that feeling...
- 998
- 01:20:37,770 --> 01:20:39,640
- ...when you're with her.
- 999
- 01:20:39,770 --> 01:20:43,430
- And it feels <i>as</i> if the universe
- is revolving around you?
- 1000
- 01:20:44,470 --> 01:20:46,520
- And you don't want
- to be anywhere else.
- 1001
- 01:20:46,640 --> 01:20:48,640
- You feel like you're in
- exactly the right place.
- 1002
- 01:20:51,470 --> 01:20:53,640
- That feeling of being at home.
- 1003
- 01:20:55,430 --> 01:20:57,640
- Of having arrived.
- 1004
- 01:21:03,770 --> 01:21:06,350
- That's when I know I'm in love.
- 1005
- 01:21:09,520 --> 01:21:11,520
- Really in love.
- 1006
- 01:21:14,100 --> 01:21:15,810
- Have you ever had that?
- 1007
- 01:21:20,640 --> 01:21:22,180
- Once.
- 1008
- 01:21:22,850 --> 01:21:24,470
- How did it end?
- 1009
- 01:21:25,520 --> 01:21:27,100
- Not very well.
- 1010
- 01:21:27,430 --> 01:21:29,720
- And now you won't dare anymore?
- 1011
- 01:21:32,310 --> 01:21:34,720
- Cheers to the protective capsule!
- 1012
- 01:23:22,770 --> 01:23:25,350
- Jule!
- Come in!
- 1013
- 01:23:29,350 --> 01:23:31,639
- Come in!
- - Isn't it much too cold?
- 1014
- 01:23:31,640 --> 01:23:32,850
- Come on!
- 1015
- 01:23:33,270 --> 01:23:34,390
- No way!
- 1016
- 01:24:03,270 --> 01:24:05,770
- And we want to go...
- here.
- 1017
- 01:24:32,810 --> 01:24:34,560
- What's that?
- Looks cool.
- 1018
- 01:24:35,270 --> 01:24:36,850
- A monastery, I think.
- 1019
- 01:24:37,470 --> 01:24:40,720
- Look: "Abbaye de Noirlac."
- Shall we take a look?
- 1020
- 01:24:47,680 --> 01:24:51,600
- Was this the dining hall?
- - Yes, the "refectory."
- 1021
- 01:24:54,770 --> 01:24:56,890
- Surely bigger than our cafeteria.
- 1022
- 01:24:57,470 --> 01:25:01,180
- And the food was probably better.
- - Probably, yeah.
- 1023
- 01:25:03,100 --> 01:25:04,220
- Look, I'm enlightened.
- 1024
- 01:25:05,180 --> 01:25:06,180
- I see.
- 1025
- 01:25:22,430 --> 01:25:26,180
- A friend of mine recently stood
- in front of the altar.
- 1026
- 01:25:26,350 --> 01:25:28,640
- Her in a huge wedding dress,
- him in a suit.
- 1027
- 01:25:29,390 --> 01:25:34,390
- They marched into the church
- with organ music, and then... "l do.“
- 1028
- 01:25:34,470 --> 01:25:36,720
- Her dad was crying his eyes out.
- 1029
- 01:25:37,020 --> 01:25:39,390
- To get married,
- people still go to church.
- 1030
- 01:25:40,520 --> 01:25:43,270
- Because it's so terribly romantic.
- - It is!
- 1031
- 01:25:43,310 --> 01:25:44,350
- I don't know...
- 1032
- 01:25:44,430 --> 01:25:49,720
- Come on, better in a magical church
- than a stuffy city hall.
- 1033
- 01:25:50,140 --> 01:25:53,810
- Yeah, but paying church taxes
- your whole life just for one day?
- 1034
- 01:25:53,970 --> 01:25:55,350
- I don't know...
- 1035
- 01:25:55,850 --> 01:26:00,430
- And 50% of marriages end in divorce
- anyway. Then they kick you out of church.
- 1036
- 01:26:00,720 --> 01:26:02,140
- Not anymore.
- 1037
- 01:26:02,350 --> 01:26:03,720
- No'?
- - I don't think so.
- 1038
- 01:26:07,350 --> 01:26:10,060
- Know what the most common
- reason for divorce is?
- 1039
- 01:26:10,180 --> 01:26:12,970
- No.
- - Sexual frustration and infidelity.
- 1040
- 01:26:15,180 --> 01:26:16,810
- Which is no wonder.
- 1041
- 01:26:17,180 --> 01:26:19,850
- After ten years max, desire is gone.
- 1042
- 01:26:20,140 --> 01:26:23,180
- And in a marriage,
- you're chained to each other for life.
- 1043
- 01:26:25,140 --> 01:26:27,430
- Know what Jeanne Moreau said about that?
- 1044
- 01:26:27,850 --> 01:26:33,600
- "Sex in longer relationships is the art
- of making repeats seem like premieres."
- 1045
- 01:26:35,640 --> 01:26:39,180
- Yeah, with dildo techniques and bondage
- you can make it another three years.
- 1046
- 01:26:39,350 --> 01:26:41,470
- But you get tired of that, too.
- 1047
- 01:26:41,600 --> 01:26:44,470
- Jan, shall we discuss this elsewhere?
- 1048
- 01:26:48,060 --> 01:26:50,390
- In the confessional, perhaps?
- 1049
- 01:26:50,470 --> 01:26:51,720
- Idiot.
- 1050
- 01:26:54,850 --> 01:26:55,520
- Yes...
- 1051
- 01:26:55,680 --> 01:26:59,390
- Fidelity in marriage was actually
- invented by the Catholic church.
- 1052
- 01:26:59,470 --> 01:27:01,600
- In earlier cultures,
- it didn't exist at all.
- 1053
- 01:27:01,720 --> 01:27:04,720
- Wedded couples only sleeping
- with each other, and no one else.
- 1054
- 01:27:04,890 --> 01:27:08,720
- Neither the Babylonians,
- nor the Greeks, nor the Romans had that.
- 1055
- 01:27:09,350 --> 01:27:13,720
- OK, but why did the Christians invent it?
- There must've been some reason.
- 1056
- 01:27:14,100 --> 01:27:17,470
- Because of overpopulation in Palestine.
- - What?
- 1057
- 01:27:17,720 --> 01:27:21,390
- Well, most rules in religious texts
- have a practical reason.
- 1058
- 01:27:21,810 --> 01:27:25,720
- The Galileans, for example,
- didn't have rubbers or abortions.
- 1059
- 01:27:25,810 --> 01:27:28,720
- So they invented nuptial faithfulness
- and prohibited divorce.
- 1060
- 01:27:28,970 --> 01:27:31,520
- People had less sex,
- fewer children were conceived...
- 1061
- 01:27:31,640 --> 01:27:35,180
- ...and as it worked so well,
- they wrote it into the New Testament.
- 1062
- 01:27:35,350 --> 01:27:36,720
- You think?
- - Yeah.
- 1063
- 01:27:36,850 --> 01:27:39,470
- It's totally bizarre.
- Half of humanity is sexually frustrated...
- 1064
- 01:27:39,640 --> 01:27:42,270
- ...because they had no condoms
- in Palestine 2000 years ago.
- 1065
- 01:27:42,850 --> 01:27:44,520
- Terrible, right?
- 1066
- 01:27:46,720 --> 01:27:48,430
- But what about trust?
- 1067
- 01:27:48,600 --> 01:27:52,720
- What's more beautiful than two people
- giving each other everything...
- 1068
- 01:27:52,850 --> 01:27:57,060
- ...who are always there for each other, no matter what?
- - It can still be like that.
- 1069
- 01:27:57,180 --> 01:28:01,680
- You can jump in the sack with someone else
- and still be there for each other.
- 1070
- 01:28:01,850 --> 01:28:03,600
- What's the problem?
- 1071
- 01:28:03,720 --> 01:28:05,140
- Sure, but...
- 1072
- 01:28:05,180 --> 01:28:08,680
- I don't know.
- It hurts when my boyfriend fucks around.
- 1073
- 01:28:08,720 --> 01:28:10,520
- It just hurts.
- 1074
- 01:28:11,520 --> 01:28:15,470
- Have you ever asked yourself why?
- Why it hurts?
- 1075
- 01:28:15,850 --> 01:28:18,270
- They're feelings,
- you can't control them.
- 1076
- 01:28:18,430 --> 01:28:21,470
- But have you asked yourself
- where these feelings stem from?
- 1077
- 01:28:22,850 --> 01:28:24,680
- No idea, I...
- 1078
- 01:28:25,180 --> 01:28:27,470
- I wonder why he does it,
- why he needs it.
- 1079
- 01:28:27,600 --> 01:28:31,140
- If he still finds me attractive,
- still desires and loves me...
- 1080
- 01:28:31,600 --> 01:28:33,720
- So it's about your ego.
- 1081
- 01:28:33,810 --> 01:28:36,140
- So? Don't you have an ego?
- 1082
- 01:28:36,270 --> 01:28:38,551
- You don't care if your girlfriend
- sleeps with another guy?
- 1083
- 01:28:38,680 --> 01:28:41,180
- No.
- Not if I know beforehand.
- 1084
- 01:28:41,350 --> 01:28:45,520
- The lie and deceit is what hurts,
- not the sex itself.
- 1085
- 01:28:45,810 --> 01:28:47,720
- That hurts too, yeah.
- 1086
- 01:28:48,470 --> 01:28:49,970
- You see?
- 1087
- 01:28:51,180 --> 01:28:53,810
- I know this older couple,
- they do it like this:
- 1088
- 01:28:53,850 --> 01:28:56,430
- They have a wooden bowl
- in their wardrobe.
- 1089
- 01:28:56,810 --> 01:28:59,430
- Whenever one of them
- goes on a "trip"...
- 1090
- 01:28:59,520 --> 01:29:02,600
- ...they put their wedding ring
- in it and the other knows...
- 1091
- 01:29:03,140 --> 01:29:06,430
- They've been super happy for decades.
- 1092
- 01:29:07,720 --> 01:29:09,850
- I don't know.
- I couldn't do that.
- 1093
- 01:29:10,060 --> 01:29:12,640
- Sex isn't shaking hands.
- 1094
- 01:29:12,850 --> 01:29:15,180
- This intimacy, this holy feeling...
- 1095
- 01:29:15,350 --> 01:29:20,720
- I mean, you're creating a child.
- That's a magical moment. Making love...
- 1096
- 01:29:20,810 --> 01:29:25,430
- It's the core of a partnership. It gets
- lost if both fuck around. Don't you think?
- 1097
- 01:29:25,470 --> 01:29:27,140
- No...
- 1098
- 01:29:27,270 --> 01:29:29,680
- And 80% of people fuck around anyway.
- 1099
- 01:29:29,720 --> 01:29:34,470
- Isn't it better to be at least honest
- about it? Saves you all the drama, too.
- 1100
- 01:29:35,430 --> 01:29:40,180
- I do think it's good to stay together
- for life and all. Certainly for the kids.
- 1101
- 01:29:40,350 --> 01:29:41,720
- But...
- 1102
- 01:29:43,140 --> 01:29:45,430
- The old Romans,
- they had a great system.
- 1103
- 01:29:45,720 --> 01:29:48,520
- They had stable families and great sex.
- 1104
- 01:29:48,680 --> 01:29:51,270
- Because they had lovers.
- 1105
- 01:29:51,430 --> 01:29:53,810
- Both men and women.
- - Really?
- 1106
- 01:29:53,970 --> 01:29:57,390
- Yeah, they thought,
- "We'll give our children a stable home...
- 1107
- 01:29:57,470 --> 01:30:00,430
- ...but we won't allow that
- to sexually frustrate us."
- 1108
- 01:30:00,600 --> 01:30:03,720
- So they had sex whenever
- and with whomever they wanted.
- 1109
- 01:30:03,810 --> 01:30:06,850
- I think that's a pretty
- honest arrangement.
- 1110
- 01:30:07,430 --> 01:30:10,140
- But what if the woman fell in love
- with her affair?
- 1111
- 01:30:10,270 --> 01:30:13,140
- That was a no-go.
- Divorce was forbidden.
- 1112
- 01:30:13,430 --> 01:30:15,720
- And you can control that.
- 1113
- 01:30:15,810 --> 01:30:19,430
- You said it yourself:
- we can decide who we fall in love with.
- 1114
- 01:30:19,720 --> 01:30:21,020
- True.
- 1115
- 01:31:50,140 --> 01:31:52,140
- That tastes so divine...
- 1116
- 01:31:54,720 --> 01:31:57,850
- I'm about to have an orgasm.
- This is better than sex.
- 1117
- 01:31:59,350 --> 01:32:02,520
- Another trick to keep a marriage alive:
- food instead of sex.
- 1118
- 01:32:03,810 --> 01:32:05,100
- Correct.
- 1119
- 01:32:07,020 --> 01:32:09,970
- Apropos, how's that handled
- in Alex's commune?
- 1120
- 01:32:10,720 --> 01:32:12,390
- Different, I hope.
- 1121
- 01:32:14,430 --> 01:32:18,600
- Well, to be honest, they actually
- do have a concept of free love there.
- 1122
- 01:32:20,890 --> 01:32:23,350
- And how did you feel about that?
- You were there, right'?
- 1123
- 01:32:23,640 --> 01:32:25,060
- Yes.
- 1124
- 01:32:26,520 --> 01:32:29,520
- I don't know, I was only visiting.
- 1125
- 01:32:29,680 --> 01:32:32,430
- I think it needs time.
- 1126
- 01:32:34,350 --> 01:32:37,060
- But your boyfriend was totally into it?
- 1127
- 01:32:37,680 --> 01:32:39,720
- Yeah.
- He was quite enthusiastic.
- 1128
- 01:32:40,430 --> 01:32:42,970
- They had pretty girls there, after all.
- 1129
- 01:32:46,720 --> 01:32:48,680
- What?
- - Nothing.
- 1130
- 01:32:48,720 --> 01:32:50,600
- I won't say anything.
- 1131
- 01:32:50,810 --> 01:32:53,180
- Join in!
- They're always looking for young people.
- 1132
- 01:32:53,970 --> 01:32:57,600
- No, I don't think I'm ready
- to dissolve the barriers of my ego.
- 1133
- 01:32:58,680 --> 01:33:00,390
- That I believe.
- 1134
- 01:33:01,470 --> 01:33:04,430
- And "free love" makes me
- think of swinger clubs.
- 1135
- 01:33:06,520 --> 01:33:09,430
- You're a walking contradiction.
- - Not at all.
- 1136
- 01:33:09,520 --> 01:33:12,600
- No. I'm not saying
- everybody should bang everybody.
- 1137
- 01:33:12,720 --> 01:33:14,970
- I just say we shouldn't hold
- onto monogamy...
- 1138
- 01:33:15,140 --> 01:33:18,390
- ...only because state and church
- propagate nuclear families.
- 1139
- 01:33:18,640 --> 01:33:21,430
- The time is ripe for new
- relationship models.
- 1140
- 01:33:23,140 --> 01:33:24,140
- Yes...
- 1141
- 01:33:25,350 --> 01:33:26,640
- Maybe you're right.
- 1142
- 01:34:03,020 --> 01:34:04,020
- Morning!
- 1143
- 01:34:04,220 --> 01:34:05,470
- Morning!
- 1144
- 01:34:05,600 --> 01:34:09,390
- All good? I'm gonna take a shower.
- - Okay.
- 1145
- 01:35:15,810 --> 01:35:17,430
- Wanna snitch some corn?
- 1146
- 01:36:07,350 --> 01:36:10,640
- Carla and Nicolas?
- - Yes, Carla Bruni and Nicolas Sarkozy.
- 1147
- 01:36:11,020 --> 01:36:13,600
- And who is who?
- Is this Carla or Nicolas?
- 1148
- 01:36:13,680 --> 01:36:15,810
- The smaller one is Nicolas.
- - Of course!
- 1149
- 01:36:32,470 --> 01:36:33,600
- Smile!
- 1150
- 01:36:37,560 --> 01:36:40,470
- I feel cool, and you?
- 1151
- 01:36:40,680 --> 01:36:42,060
- You're sweating, right?
- 1152
- 01:37:36,350 --> 01:37:38,770
- Sea, we're coming!
- 1153
- 01:38:01,680 --> 01:38:02,720
- Go!
- 1154
- 01:38:10,140 --> 01:38:11,140
- Wow.
- 1155
- 01:38:18,270 --> 01:38:20,890
- Come on!
- Into the sea!
- 1156
- 01:38:30,720 --> 01:38:32,020
- So nice.
- 1157
- 01:38:36,600 --> 01:38:38,060
- Come on!
- 1158
- 01:38:44,470 --> 01:38:46,310
- Come in, it's lovely!
- 1159
- 01:39:39,970 --> 01:39:44,310
- Whoa, so nice.
- - Yeah.
- 1160
- 01:39:50,310 --> 01:39:53,810
- Around the University of Barcelona
- so much cocaine was measured...
- 1161
- 01:39:53,970 --> 01:39:57,310
- ...in the air, you would get high
- just by walking around there.
- 1162
- 01:39:59,270 --> 01:40:01,970
- And those are just the Spaniards.
- The Germans...
- 1163
- 01:40:02,060 --> 01:40:04,390
- ...drink 500 bottles of beer a year.
- Per head.
- 1164
- 01:40:04,560 --> 01:40:05,680
- 500 bottles?
- 1165
- 01:40:05,850 --> 01:40:06,850
- What?
- 1166
- 01:40:07,020 --> 01:40:09,430
- And seven liters of booze.
- On average, the German...
- 1167
- 01:40:09,520 --> 01:40:11,600
- ...drinks twice as much
- as the rest of humanity.
- 1168
- 01:40:12,560 --> 01:40:15,180
- We're a nation of full blown alcoholics.
- 1169
- 01:40:15,270 --> 01:40:19,270
- Absolutely. I mean, in fact
- we're all permanently on.
- 1170
- 01:40:19,430 --> 01:40:23,430
- But why? Why do we take so many drugs?
- Have you ever asked yourself that?
- 1171
- 01:40:23,520 --> 01:40:25,020
- No idea, there are a million reasons.
- 1172
- 01:40:25,140 --> 01:40:28,680
- Well... Look, in the 1950s,
- there was this booze ad.
- 1173
- 01:40:28,770 --> 01:40:32,060
- Super minimalistic, only a bottle of
- schnapps against a white background.
- 1174
- 01:40:32,270 --> 01:40:34,446
- And you know what was written
- underneath it in capital letters?
- 1175
- 01:40:34,470 --> 01:40:35,890
- "A vacation from yourself“.
- 1176
- 01:40:36,060 --> 01:40:38,810
- <<A vacation from yourself>>.
- Cool.
- 1177
- 01:40:39,970 --> 01:40:43,430
- That's what this is all about!
- Humans are the only living beings...
- 1178
- 01:40:43,560 --> 01:40:47,060
- ...on this planet who can
- constantly worry about themselves.
- 1179
- 01:40:47,220 --> 01:40:50,430
- About their fears, needs, deficits.
- We think about the future...
- 1180
- 01:40:50,520 --> 01:40:53,560
- ...about the past, what we
- did right, what we did wrong.
- 1181
- 01:40:53,600 --> 01:40:56,270
- We think, think, think.
- The thoughts up there...
- 1182
- 01:40:56,390 --> 01:40:58,810
- ...they permanently comment
- and evaluate everything you do.
- 1183
- 01:40:58,970 --> 01:41:02,680
- 16 hours a day, seven days a week...
- You just can't take that forever!
- 1184
- 01:41:02,850 --> 01:41:06,769
- And that is why, I say, man has
- a natural need to take drugs.
- 1185
- 01:41:06,770 --> 01:41:09,020
- At least every two weeks.
- 1186
- 01:41:09,970 --> 01:41:11,390
- You, maybe...
- 1187
- 01:41:12,600 --> 01:41:15,270
- Come on, even the natives
- in the jungle take drugs.
- 1188
- 01:41:15,430 --> 01:41:17,720
- Mushrooms, cacti, ayahuasca,
- that sort of thing.
- 1189
- 01:41:17,890 --> 01:41:20,810
- All the peoples in the history
- of mankind have taken drugs:
- 1190
- 01:41:20,890 --> 01:41:23,560
- Indians, Mayans, Incas,
- Romans, Greeks, all of them!
- 1191
- 01:41:24,430 --> 01:41:28,310
- We need to get away from ourselves every
- now and then. Otherwise we go crazy.
- 1192
- 01:41:28,430 --> 01:41:33,310
- Yes, but there are other ways to
- take a vacation from yourself.
- 1193
- 01:41:33,470 --> 01:41:36,270
- Meditation for example, dancing, yoga!
- 1194
- 01:41:37,310 --> 01:41:39,270
- Sports, sex, anything...
- 1195
- 01:41:39,390 --> 01:41:44,060
- Yes, all right. But drugs are easier.
- Open the bottle, drink, done.
- 1196
- 01:41:44,430 --> 01:41:47,496
- And human beings are lazy by nature, that's
- the second principle of thermodynamics.
- 1197
- 01:41:47,520 --> 01:41:48,970
- Yes, I'm afraid so.
- 1198
- 01:41:52,680 --> 01:41:57,430
- But Jan, what if what you call
- your self isn't your self?
- 1199
- 01:41:57,770 --> 01:41:59,180
- Yes?
- 1200
- 01:41:59,350 --> 01:42:02,809
- This voice in your head, constantly
- commenting on what you do.
- 1201
- 01:42:02,810 --> 01:42:04,520
- I don't think that's you at all.
- 1202
- 01:42:04,600 --> 01:42:07,560
- I think that's more like
- your inner commentator.
- 1203
- 01:42:07,850 --> 01:42:08,600
- What?
- 1204
- 01:42:08,770 --> 01:42:11,559
- Your inner commentator.
- Like Grandpa at the Muppet Show...
- 1205
- 01:42:11,560 --> 01:42:13,310
- ...who's always putting in his 2 cents?
- 1206
- 01:42:13,470 --> 01:42:16,270
- That old man with the
- giant nose: Hehehehehe...
- 1207
- 01:42:16,390 --> 01:42:22,810
- Yes, that's the one. Anyway,
- I think your real self is nonverbal.
- 1208
- 01:42:22,970 --> 01:42:24,720
- And it makes all the decisions.
- 1209
- 01:42:24,810 --> 01:42:27,600
- The commentator can rationalize
- these decisions afterwards...
- 1210
- 01:42:27,770 --> 01:42:29,850
- ...but in reality he has
- nothing to say, you know?
- 1211
- 01:42:30,560 --> 01:42:33,600
- Like the commentator in a soccer
- game who doesn't even play.
- 1212
- 01:42:33,720 --> 01:42:35,600
- That voice in your head,
- that's not you.
- 1213
- 01:42:36,600 --> 01:42:37,810
- Okay...
- 1214
- 01:42:37,970 --> 01:42:42,430
- Maybe. But who am I, then?
- Where is my true self located?
- 1215
- 01:42:43,890 --> 01:42:48,680
- Well, somewhere deep down,
- where you can't get with language.
- 1216
- 01:42:48,850 --> 01:42:54,390
- At the core of your being, only to
- be seen in dreams. I don't know...
- 1217
- 01:42:54,520 --> 01:42:55,680
- Or in psychoanalysis.
- 1218
- 01:42:55,810 --> 01:42:57,430
- Yes, maybe.
- 1219
- 01:42:58,600 --> 01:43:03,520
- Anyway, with drugs you can turn off
- the commentator. But not the real you.
- 1220
- 01:43:03,680 --> 01:43:04,720
- Know what I mean?
- 1221
- 01:43:04,770 --> 01:43:07,060
- But that's awesome.
- 1222
- 01:43:07,220 --> 01:43:08,060
- What?
- 1223
- 01:43:08,220 --> 01:43:11,600
- If I can turn off the commentator.
- I'll have a few hours' silence.
- 1224
- 01:43:12,220 --> 01:43:14,600
- Maybe. But with drugs
- you not only turn off the...
- 1225
- 01:43:14,680 --> 01:43:17,350
- ...commentator, you also
- harm your true self.
- 1226
- 01:43:17,470 --> 01:43:19,600
- Look at the people who
- take drugs for years.
- 1227
- 01:43:19,720 --> 01:43:22,850
- They're all totally empty at some
- point, not even there any more.
- 1228
- 01:43:23,850 --> 01:43:27,470
- I mean, you know people like that, right?
- - Yes, that's true.
- 1229
- 01:43:29,060 --> 01:43:32,600
- I think it's much better to
- harmonize your commentator...
- 1230
- 01:43:32,720 --> 01:43:35,310
- ...and your self, so that
- they work as a team.
- 1231
- 01:43:35,430 --> 01:43:38,430
- Okay.
- And how can I do that?
- 1232
- 01:43:39,720 --> 01:43:42,470
- I don't know.
- Certainly not with drugs.
- 1233
- 01:43:44,140 --> 01:43:45,270
- How then?
- 1234
- 01:43:50,220 --> 01:43:52,470
- For example, by running
- full speed to the sea...
- 1235
- 01:43:52,600 --> 01:43:54,560
- ...and jumping into the
- water fully dressed?
- 1236
- 01:44:03,560 --> 01:44:04,560
- Go!
- 1237
- 01:44:42,390 --> 01:44:45,470
- Sure you don't want help?
- - No, it's fine.
- 1238
- 01:44:45,970 --> 01:44:49,310
- OK, then I'll take a swim.
- - Have fun. See you later.
- 1239
- 01:46:27,680 --> 01:46:28,680
- Jule?
- 1240
- 01:46:37,100 --> 01:46:38,430
- Hey...
- 1241
- 01:46:39,890 --> 01:46:40,890
- Morning.
- 1242
- 01:46:43,430 --> 01:46:44,520
- Morning.
- 1243
- 01:46:46,310 --> 01:46:47,600
- This is so cool.
- 1244
- 01:46:49,850 --> 01:46:51,600
- Who gave you the wetsuit?
- 1245
- 01:46:51,770 --> 01:46:55,430
- I borrowed it from our neighbor
- and thought I'd give it a try.
- 1246
- 01:46:57,270 --> 01:46:58,680
- Just round the ankle?
- 1247
- 01:46:58,810 --> 01:47:03,270
- Just round the ankle.
- Okay, and now we'll paddle first.
- 1248
- 01:47:03,390 --> 01:47:05,520
- Hold the board like this.
- 1249
- 01:47:06,890 --> 01:47:08,600
- Right over there...
- 1250
- 01:47:12,600 --> 01:47:14,560
- Very good!
- 1251
- 01:47:16,520 --> 01:47:19,220
- You're doing great!
- Use all of your arms strength.
- 1252
- 01:47:21,310 --> 01:47:23,020
- Back there is a nice one!
- 1253
- 01:47:31,970 --> 01:47:34,560
- Wow, super, great!
- 1254
- 01:47:37,890 --> 01:47:39,430
- Try that one.
- 1255
- 01:47:40,310 --> 01:47:42,060
- You're doing great!
- 1256
- 01:47:43,310 --> 01:47:44,310
- Yes!
- 1257
- 01:47:45,220 --> 01:47:47,720
- Gosh, that was really great!
- 1258
- 01:47:51,270 --> 01:47:52,770
- Another good one!
- 1259
- 01:47:59,810 --> 01:48:01,060
- Rad!
- 1260
- 01:48:04,310 --> 01:48:06,770
- You're really good for a beginner.
- 1261
- 01:48:12,890 --> 01:48:16,060
- You know how to surf,
- You fooled me, man!
- 1262
- 01:49:18,390 --> 01:49:21,680
- Down the coast to Hossegor, Capbreton...
- 1263
- 01:49:22,270 --> 01:49:28,890
- Anglet, Biarritz, Saint Jean de Luz
- and then San Sebastian.
- 1264
- 01:49:29,600 --> 01:49:31,890
- Look!
- Spain!
- 1265
- 01:49:45,270 --> 01:49:48,060
- Where does your father live?
- Where should I drop you off?
- 1266
- 01:49:48,220 --> 01:49:51,560
- In Zumaia, a coastal town
- in the Basque Country.
- 1267
- 01:50:52,430 --> 01:50:54,020
- This is the marina.
- 1268
- 01:51:06,470 --> 01:51:08,600
- I'll check if I see him.
- - Okay.
- 1269
- 01:51:35,060 --> 01:51:36,220
- And?
- 1270
- 01:51:36,890 --> 01:51:38,020
- No, he's not here.
- 1271
- 01:51:42,220 --> 01:51:43,810
- You can drive on.
- 1272
- 01:51:46,060 --> 01:51:47,430
- Sure?
- 1273
- 01:52:19,560 --> 01:52:20,720
- Is that him?
- 1274
- 01:52:23,140 --> 01:52:24,810
- Yes, that's him.
- 1275
- 01:52:31,680 --> 01:52:33,060
- Want to go over?
- 1276
- 01:52:36,430 --> 01:52:37,430
- No.
- 1277
- 01:52:42,720 --> 01:52:45,390
- Should I leave,
- you want to be alone?
- 1278
- 01:52:46,060 --> 01:52:47,220
- No, no.
- 1279
- 01:52:59,020 --> 01:53:00,810
- Which of them is it?
- 1280
- 01:53:01,020 --> 01:53:02,810
- The one on the left.
- 1281
- 01:53:16,640 --> 01:53:18,560
- He looks happy, right?
- 1282
- 01:53:19,180 --> 01:53:21,220
- Definitely, yes.
- 1283
- 01:54:13,430 --> 01:54:16,470
- I don't know how to describe it.
- It was...
- 1284
- 01:54:20,100 --> 01:54:21,810
- It was strange.
- 1285
- 01:54:24,270 --> 01:54:26,560
- I couldn't go over to him.
- 1286
- 01:54:28,060 --> 01:54:30,100
- I just couldn't.
- 1287
- 01:54:32,720 --> 01:54:38,180
- I didn't think it'd be such a big deal.
- I thought I'd come here, see him...
- 1288
- 01:54:40,310 --> 01:54:41,720
- ...we'd talk a bit.
- 1289
- 01:54:42,720 --> 01:54:45,310
- And it'd all be good, but...
- 1290
- 01:54:47,430 --> 01:54:49,520
- While standing there...
- 1291
- 01:54:51,220 --> 01:54:54,470
- I saw a stranger, not my father.
- 1292
- 01:54:59,470 --> 01:55:01,140
- And I realized...
- 1293
- 01:55:01,640 --> 01:55:03,770
- I'll never have a father.
- 1294
- 01:55:07,890 --> 01:55:11,520
- But not only a dream fell apart...
- 1295
- 01:55:15,100 --> 01:55:17,350
- I also understood something.
- 1296
- 01:55:18,970 --> 01:55:24,640
- That I have to stop looking outside of
- myself, and start looking inside.
- 1297
- 01:55:25,600 --> 01:55:28,140
- Good, that's good.
- 1298
- 01:56:53,310 --> 01:56:55,680
- Beautiful, right?
- - Yes.
- 1299
- 01:56:57,270 --> 01:57:01,770
- When Picasso saw this, he said we haven't
- learned anything new in painting.
- 1300
- 01:57:02,680 --> 01:57:04,810
- In 25,000 years.
- 1301
- 01:57:10,180 --> 01:57:12,890
- Know why they painted mostly animals?
- 1302
- 01:57:14,060 --> 01:57:17,430
- It's assumed they worshiped
- some animals like gods.
- 1303
- 01:57:18,180 --> 01:57:22,060
- They seemed so strong to them.
- Elegant, superior to humans...
- 1304
- 01:57:23,470 --> 01:57:26,220
- They could only hunt
- them by forming groups.
- 1305
- 01:57:26,350 --> 01:57:27,680
- Battue.
- 1306
- 01:57:29,180 --> 01:57:31,470
- Look, it's depicted there.
- 1307
- 01:57:31,520 --> 01:57:32,600
- Battue?
- 1308
- 01:57:33,810 --> 01:57:35,350
- The Cro-Magnons.
- 1309
- 01:57:35,470 --> 01:57:37,640
- That's why you brought me here.
- 1310
- 01:57:37,720 --> 01:57:40,220
- The Cro-Magnons painted these!
- - Exactly.
- 1311
- 01:57:41,520 --> 01:57:44,890
- The first human who had time to do art.
- 1312
- 01:58:04,140 --> 01:58:07,180
- There they are: the Picos de Europa.
- 1313
- 01:58:46,970 --> 01:58:49,600
- Shit!
- - Are you OK?
- 1314
- 01:59:03,350 --> 01:59:05,390
- And now? We run?
- - Run.
- 1315
- 01:59:05,470 --> 01:59:06,680
- Run!
- 1316
- 01:59:11,140 --> 01:59:13,060
- Shit, it's so cold!
- 1317
- 01:59:15,770 --> 01:59:17,850
- Come on, get in.
- 1318
- 01:59:21,470 --> 01:59:22,850
- Everything's wet.
- 1319
- 01:59:23,060 --> 01:59:25,270
- Need a towel?
- - Yes, please.
- 1320
- 01:59:31,060 --> 01:59:34,140
- Can you warm me up a bit?
- - Sure. Come here.
- 1321
- 02:00:12,100 --> 02:00:13,770
- Should we really do this?
- 1322
- 02:00:17,310 --> 02:00:18,810
- Maybe we shouldn't.
- 1323
- 02:00:32,350 --> 02:00:34,770
- Damn, Jan, I...
- 1324
- 02:00:36,470 --> 02:00:37,890
- I think I...
- 1325
- 02:00:40,470 --> 02:00:42,890
- I think I'm falling in love with you.
- 1326
- 02:00:48,520 --> 02:00:50,720
- So am I.
- In you.
- 1327
- 02:00:51,140 --> 02:00:52,680
- Totally.
- 1328
- 02:01:00,470 --> 02:01:02,390
- So what do we do now?
- 1329
- 02:01:05,390 --> 02:01:06,810
- Stay strong?
- 1330
- 02:01:08,470 --> 02:01:10,140
- Yeah, right'?
- 1331
- 02:01:12,430 --> 02:01:14,180
- We talked about it.
- 1332
- 02:01:17,680 --> 02:01:19,640
- Says the polygamist.
- 1333
- 02:01:19,770 --> 02:01:22,180
- Polygamist, yes, but...
- 1334
- 02:01:22,470 --> 02:01:24,270
- I like it.
- 1335
- 02:01:26,270 --> 02:01:27,770
- So do I.
- 1336
- 02:01:36,810 --> 02:01:38,720
- But it's damn hard.
- 1337
- 02:01:38,810 --> 02:01:40,310
- Oh, yeah.
- 1338
- 02:01:44,810 --> 02:01:46,600
- But sniffing is OK, right?
- 1339
- 02:01:57,430 --> 02:01:59,310
- You smell incredibly good.
- 1340
- 02:02:00,640 --> 02:02:02,310
- So do you.
- 1341
- 02:02:06,470 --> 02:02:08,310
- Genetically compatible.
- 1342
- 02:02:09,310 --> 02:02:10,470
- Totally.
- 1343
- 02:02:16,470 --> 02:02:19,470
- Know what's almost better
- than the kiss itself?
- 1344
- 02:02:20,810 --> 02:02:22,890
- The three seconds beforehand.
- 1345
- 02:02:23,180 --> 02:02:25,810
- The feeling when you know
- it's about to happen.
- 1346
- 02:02:32,560 --> 02:02:35,140
- But we'll stay strong, right?
- 1347
- 02:04:15,140 --> 02:04:16,470
- Is everything OK?
- 1348
- 02:04:22,020 --> 02:04:23,600
- Jan, I'm pregnant.
- 1349
- 02:04:55,350 --> 02:04:58,270
- My mother wants me to get an abortion.
- 1350
- 02:05:01,390 --> 02:05:03,470
- I don't know what I want.
- 1351
- 02:05:04,270 --> 02:05:06,270
- I don't know anything anymore.
- 1352
- 02:05:10,270 --> 02:05:11,640
- Want some tea?
- 1353
- 02:05:14,810 --> 02:05:16,180
- Coming.
- 1354
- 02:05:53,810 --> 02:05:55,180
- And Alex?
- 1355
- 02:05:55,220 --> 02:05:57,430
- Does he want the child?
- 1356
- 02:05:58,180 --> 02:05:59,350
- No.
- 1357
- 02:06:00,600 --> 02:06:02,770
- "Bad timing, Jule."
- 1358
- 02:06:10,430 --> 02:06:12,060
- I can abort it with this.
- 1359
- 02:06:14,430 --> 02:06:15,720
- With pills?
- 1360
- 02:06:15,810 --> 02:06:17,520
- That works?
- 1361
- 02:06:18,220 --> 02:06:20,220
- Up until the eighth week.
- 1362
- 02:06:22,680 --> 02:06:24,680
- And what week are you in?
- 1363
- 02:06:26,100 --> 02:06:27,560
- The sixth.
- 1364
- 02:06:27,770 --> 02:06:29,770
- Not much time left.
- 1365
- 02:07:54,100 --> 02:07:55,470
- What are you making?
- 1366
- 02:07:55,680 --> 02:07:56,810
- Paella.
- 1367
- 02:08:02,100 --> 02:08:04,390
- Jan, I've made up my mind.
- 1368
- 02:08:05,850 --> 02:08:07,970
- I'm going to have the child.
- 1369
- 02:08:16,560 --> 02:08:17,680
- You think so?
- 1370
- 02:08:17,850 --> 02:08:21,100
- Of course.
- You'll be a mom. That's great.
- 1371
- 02:08:48,100 --> 02:08:49,470
- I'm hungry-
- 1372
- 02:08:50,060 --> 02:08:53,270
- My child needs food.
- - You can help me.
- 1373
- 02:08:53,810 --> 02:08:54,850
- Slicing onions.
- 1374
- 02:08:55,100 --> 02:08:56,100
- Good.
- 1375
- 02:11:13,180 --> 02:11:14,470
- I'm not pregnant.
- 1376
- 02:11:15,470 --> 02:11:16,560
- What?
- 1377
- 02:11:17,470 --> 02:11:18,770
- Yes...
- 1378
- 02:11:19,470 --> 02:11:24,890
- He said something like
- <<the egg did not stick in the uterus.>>
- 1379
- 02:11:26,890 --> 02:11:29,770
- I didn't fully understand him,
- his English was not so good.
- 1380
- 02:11:31,140 --> 02:11:33,470
- I was pregnant, but...
- 1381
- 02:11:35,020 --> 02:11:37,100
- It seems to happen a lot.
- 1382
- 02:11:37,770 --> 02:11:39,180
- On, boy.
- 1383
- 02:11:48,890 --> 02:11:50,180
- I wanna go.
- 1384
- 02:11:50,310 --> 02:11:51,390
- Sure.
- 1385
- 02:12:57,430 --> 02:13:01,270
- You know, the thought that everything
- is transient is not only sad.
- 1386
- 02:13:01,680 --> 02:13:04,140
- It's also comforting.
- 1387
- 02:13:05,640 --> 02:13:09,430
- I think that's the most important thing
- you have to understand in a relationship.
- 1388
- 02:13:10,310 --> 02:13:14,180
- You're with me, but you're not mine.
- Nobody owns nobody.
- 1389
- 02:13:15,600 --> 02:13:20,470
- And only if I accept that it can all
- be over tomorrow, I can be happy.
- 1390
- 02:13:21,810 --> 02:13:25,470
- In that moment.
- With the other one.
- 1391
- 02:14:49,890 --> 02:14:51,140
- It's back on.
- 1392
- 02:14:51,310 --> 02:14:52,350
- Great.
- 1393
- 02:15:54,310 --> 02:15:55,890
- Then good luck with...
- 1394
- 02:15:56,060 --> 02:15:57,220
- Thanks.
- 1395
- 02:16:00,890 --> 02:16:02,350
- No, don't...
- 1396
- 02:16:02,520 --> 02:16:04,140
- Sorry, I...
- 1397
- 02:16:04,720 --> 02:16:07,140
- It all went so fast...
- 1398
- 02:16:07,520 --> 02:16:08,890
- So much happened.
- 1399
- 02:16:10,890 --> 02:16:14,770
- I need time to think. I need to go
- to Alex. I need to talk to him.
- 1400
- 02:16:15,890 --> 02:16:17,770
- I might not come back.
- 1401
- 02:16:24,470 --> 02:16:25,600
- Jan!
- 1402
- 02:16:29,470 --> 02:16:30,470
- L.-
- 1403
- 02:16:39,600 --> 02:16:41,890
- I have to go or I'll lose my mind.
- 1404
- 02:17:55,100 --> 02:17:57,640
- I'd like to close now.
- 1405
- 02:18:01,430 --> 02:18:04,180
- I'm closing.
- - Alright.
- 1406
- 02:18:04,430 --> 02:18:06,350
- How much is it?
- - Eight euros.
- 1407
- 02:18:10,350 --> 02:18:11,430
- Keep the change.
- 1408
- 02:18:14,430 --> 02:18:16,140
- Do you need a room for the night?
- 1409
- 02:18:16,470 --> 02:18:18,180
- No, thanks.
- 1410
- 02:18:20,770 --> 02:18:22,600
- I'm waiting for a woman.
- 1411
- 02:18:23,770 --> 02:18:25,020
- A woman...
- 1412
- 02:18:26,270 --> 02:18:30,520
- Women are our destiny. Our destiny...
- - That's true.
- 1413
- 02:18:30,850 --> 02:18:33,720
- Good night.
- - Good night. Thanks.
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