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  3. INDOXXI
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  8. ♪ There's a place in France ♪
  9.  
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  12. ♪ Where the ladies don't wear pants ♪
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  16. ♪ But the men don't care ♪
  17.  
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  20. ♪ 'Cause they don't wear underwear ♪
  21.  
  22. 5
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  24. Felix,
  25. I can't get you high enough.
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  29. Oh!
  30.  
  31. 7
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  33. It was so high, I almost died.
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  37. Almost died? Oh, dear.
  38.  
  39. 9
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  41. That's pretty scary.
  42. So what was telling you you were dying?
  43.  
  44. 10
  45. 00:00:32,323 --> 00:00:34,868
  46. I was too high. I love it.
  47.  
  48. 11
  49. 00:00:34,951 --> 00:00:38,455
  50. - You loved it, huh?
  51. - If you love dying.
  52.  
  53. 12
  54. 00:00:39,122 --> 00:00:41,458
  55. - Hi. Eva!
  56. - Oh.
  57.  
  58. 13
  59. 00:00:41,541 --> 00:00:43,543
  60. - Hi.
  61. - Pull me up. Felix, pull me up.
  62.  
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  64. 00:00:43,626 --> 00:00:44,502
  65. Oh.
  66.  
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  69. There. Thank you.
  70.  
  71. 16
  72. 00:00:49,966 --> 00:00:51,384
  73. All right, here we go.
  74.  
  75. 17
  76. 00:00:52,135 --> 00:00:53,428
  77. Are you ready for a high flyer?
  78.  
  79. 18
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  81. Okay, Dad, be careful.
  82. Dad, be careful,
  83.  
  84. 19
  85. 00:00:55,180 --> 00:00:57,515
  86. because the...
  87. the straw's really slippery.
  88.  
  89. 20
  90. 00:00:57,599 --> 00:00:58,433
  91. What?
  92.  
  93. 21
  94. 00:00:58,516 --> 00:01:00,060
  95. The straw's
  96. really slippery so be careful.
  97.  
  98. 22
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  100. - Yeah, I am.
  101. - Okay. Promise?
  102.  
  103. 23
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  105. Ooh.
  106.  
  107. 24
  108. 00:01:05,356 --> 00:01:07,192
  109. - Oh.
  110. - Your turn, your turn.
  111.  
  112. 25
  113. 00:01:07,275 --> 00:01:09,277
  114. Oh, you're such a heavy big girl.
  115.  
  116. 26
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  118. I'll do it before ya, so...
  119.  
  120. 27
  121. 00:01:12,322 --> 00:01:13,448
  122. Say when.
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  126. Whoa!
  127.  
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  129. 00:01:17,035 --> 00:01:19,871
  130. - Dad, are you okay?
  131. - Did you get it, Mom?
  132.  
  133. 30
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  135. - I got it.
  136. - Oh, wonderful.
  137.  
  138. 31
  139. 00:01:22,082 --> 00:01:24,000
  140. I've always wanted to be in the movies.
  141.  
  142. 32
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  144. How do I get up?
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  148. That was a good slide.
  149.  
  150. 34
  151. 00:01:29,130 --> 00:01:32,300
  152. - I'm stuck. Come on, Steve, Felix.
  153. - You need help. Steve.
  154.  
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  157. Just... Stay down, Dad.
  158.  
  159. 36
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  161. Don't move.
  162.  
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  165. Oh, this... I...
  166.  
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  169. Did that hurt? Are you okay?
  170.  
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  173. I'm okay.
  174.  
  175. 40
  176. 00:01:39,808 --> 00:01:40,975
  177. Whew.
  178.  
  179. 41
  180. 00:01:56,825 --> 00:01:59,786
  181. Just the idea
  182. that I might ever lose this man
  183.  
  184. 42
  185. 00:01:59,869 --> 00:02:01,454
  186. is too much to bear.
  187.  
  188. 43
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  190. He's my dad.
  191.  
  192. 44
  193. 00:02:05,708 --> 00:02:10,171
  194. He's such an open, accepting person.
  195. That's who you want for a father.
  196.  
  197. 45
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  199. And that's who I have.
  200. Who I've always had, my whole life.
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  204. Oh!
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  208. Whoa!
  209.  
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  212. But now it's upon us.
  213.  
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  216. The beginning of his disappearance.
  217.  
  218. 50
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  220. And we're not accepting it.
  221.  
  222. 51
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  224. He's a psychiatrist. I'm a cameraperson.
  225.  
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  228. I suggested we make a movie
  229. about him dying.
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  233. He said yes.
  234.  
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  237. Hey, hey, hey, hey, hey!
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  241. All right.
  242.  
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  244. 00:03:43,306 --> 00:03:44,682
  245. So we're gonna get a stool.
  246.  
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  249. - So this is... this is it.
  250. - Wow, that's pretty narrow.
  251.  
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  254. It's pretty narrow, right?
  255.  
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  258. Yeah. How much did that cost ya?
  259.  
  260. 60
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  262. Maureen, how much did this cost us?
  263.  
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  266. Uh, 666 bucks.
  267.  
  268. 62
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  270. - I can just do it like this.
  271. - Just pop in.
  272.  
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  275. - Yeah.
  276. - Okay.
  277.  
  278. 64
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  280. - I may never get out.
  281. - I got your legs.
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  285. Oh!
  286.  
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  289. That is brutal.
  290. That looks pretty good.
  291.  
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  294. Is it cozy in there?
  295.  
  296. 68
  297. 00:04:15,338 --> 00:04:18,508
  298. - Nobody cares about comfort now.
  299. - You do.
  300.  
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  303. Good night, sweet world.
  304.  
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  307. Kimmy, I think
  308. he looks really dead.
  309.  
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  312. Ray, come look at the hand positions too.
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  316. Like that.
  317.  
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  320. And then...
  321.  
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  324. It is so weird
  325. to see your buddy in a coffin.
  326.  
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  329. This is not good for me.
  330.  
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  333. But this is a movie,
  334. and I keep reminding myself
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  338. that this is a movie,
  339.  
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  342. and you see a lot of weird stuff
  343. in movies that never happen.
  344.  
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  347. Mmm.
  348.  
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  351. Uh, he's still breathing.
  352.  
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  355. It helps make it less hard.
  356.  
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  359. That's the trick, right?
  360.  
  361. 83
  362. 00:05:10,727 --> 00:05:11,728
  363. Now he's asleep.
  364.  
  365. 84
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  367. - Okay, one, two, three.
  368. - Push with your feet.
  369.  
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  372. - Nicely done.
  373. - There you go.
  374.  
  375. 86
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  377. - Good.
  378. - Support him from behind.
  379.  
  380. 87
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  382. Okay, so now
  383. you can go down the stairs.
  384.  
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  386. 00:05:25,199 --> 00:05:26,784
  387. A resurrection.
  388.  
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  391. By George.
  392.  
  393. 90
  394. 00:05:28,953 --> 00:05:32,123
  395. Hey, it's nice to be back, you know.
  396.  
  397. 91
  398. 00:05:32,206 --> 00:05:35,626
  399. - We missed you.
  400. - I missed you guys.
  401.  
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  404. I think what you're doing
  405. is not completely a fantasy.
  406.  
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  409. I think, in a sense, it causes
  410. a lot of serious questioning,
  411.  
  412. 94
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  414. and... and everybody
  415. has to sort of prepare.
  416.  
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  419. Because everybody dies,
  420.  
  421. 96
  422. 00:05:50,516 --> 00:05:54,896
  423. and to that extent,
  424. I don't put this in a fantasy group.
  425.  
  426. 97
  427. 00:06:06,032 --> 00:06:07,158
  428. You know what I'm good at?
  429.  
  430. 98
  431. 00:06:07,241 --> 00:06:10,995
  432. I'm good at running over with a car.
  433.  
  434. 99
  435. 00:06:11,079 --> 00:06:13,831
  436. You know, I'm the bum
  437. you grab from the street
  438.  
  439. 100
  440. 00:06:13,915 --> 00:06:15,374
  441. - and throw in front of a bus.
  442. - Yeah.
  443.  
  444. 101
  445. 00:06:15,458 --> 00:06:17,668
  446. I'm the guy you whip the hell out of.
  447.  
  448. 102
  449. 00:06:17,752 --> 00:06:18,961
  450. Do you love what you do?
  451.  
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  454. In terms of stunts? Or...
  455.  
  456. 104
  457. 00:06:23,966 --> 00:06:28,012
  458. Yeah. Well, being a stuntman, you know?
  459.  
  460. 105
  461. 00:06:28,096 --> 00:06:30,181
  462. I would say I love...
  463.  
  464. 106
  465. 00:06:31,474 --> 00:06:35,645
  466. - the, um... the world of cinema.
  467. - Okay.
  468.  
  469. 107
  470. 00:06:35,728 --> 00:06:39,315
  471. And the bigger and grander, uh...
  472.  
  473. 108
  474. 00:06:40,399 --> 00:06:43,361
  475. and the more creative it is,
  476. the more I love it.
  477.  
  478. 109
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  480. - Judy, can we fix his mic?
  481. - Yes.
  482.  
  483. 110
  484. 00:06:46,280 --> 00:06:50,201
  485. So, if we were to say
  486. he had a heart attack,
  487.  
  488. 111
  489. 00:06:50,284 --> 00:06:53,454
  490. - have you ever done that?
  491. - It'd be really...
  492.  
  493. 112
  494. 00:06:54,455 --> 00:06:55,373
  495. You know.
  496.  
  497. 113
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  499. I would have him go over in the chair,
  500.  
  501. 114
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  503. 'cause that would kinda sell it.
  504. The legs go up, you know?
  505.  
  506. 115
  507. 00:07:00,503 --> 00:07:04,799
  508. - But most important, get it so no one--
  509. - Ever gets hurt.
  510.  
  511. 116
  512. 00:07:04,882 --> 00:07:06,092
  513. No one gets hurt.
  514.  
  515. 117
  516. 00:07:06,175 --> 00:07:07,844
  517. Dad's like that.
  518. He's never lost any patients.
  519.  
  520. 118
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  522. I have. I have.
  523. I've had, I think, one or two suicides.
  524.  
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  527. I didn't know that.
  528.  
  529. 120
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  531. - Mmm-hmm.
  532. - Wow.
  533.  
  534. 121
  535. 00:07:15,226 --> 00:07:17,437
  536. In fact, there's been
  537. quite a few stuntpeople
  538.  
  539. 122
  540. 00:07:17,520 --> 00:07:19,814
  541. that have... have committed suicide.
  542.  
  543. 123
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  545. Oh, yeah.
  546.  
  547. 124
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  549. So, uh, whenever
  550. you feel suicidal, talk to me.
  551.  
  552. 125
  553. 00:07:23,609 --> 00:07:27,155
  554. What do you mean,
  555. I have a problem? I have no problems!
  556.  
  557. 126
  558. 00:07:27,238 --> 00:07:28,656
  559. And then...
  560.  
  561. 127
  562. 00:07:28,739 --> 00:07:30,116
  563. And it can be as violent as you want.
  564.  
  565. 128
  566. 00:07:30,199 --> 00:07:31,325
  567. - Yeah.
  568. - But first,
  569.  
  570. 129
  571. 00:07:31,409 --> 00:07:33,578
  572. - you would put up your hands naturally.
  573. - Sure.
  574.  
  575. 130
  576. 00:07:35,288 --> 00:07:37,665
  577. Oh!
  578.  
  579. 131
  580. 00:07:37,748 --> 00:07:40,710
  581. And then what'd be nice
  582. is you could... Your chair could...
  583.  
  584. 132
  585. 00:07:40,793 --> 00:07:42,003
  586. Tip over? Yeah.
  587.  
  588. 133
  589. 00:07:42,086 --> 00:07:44,046
  590. - Or I could kick you over.
  591. - Yeah.
  592.  
  593. 134
  594. 00:07:44,130 --> 00:07:47,133
  595. I mean, that's a gritty sorta
  596.  
  597. 135
  598. 00:07:47,216 --> 00:07:49,135
  599. - mob death kind of thing.
  600. - Yeah.
  601.  
  602. 136
  603. 00:07:49,218 --> 00:07:53,139
  604. I mean, we're trying
  605. to cast stuntpeople for accidental deaths.
  606.  
  607. 137
  608. 00:07:53,222 --> 00:07:55,641
  609. - Right, you said "accidental."
  610. - Yeah.
  611.  
  612. 138
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  614. I guess what I'm trying to figure out
  615. too is does this appeal to you?
  616.  
  617. 139
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  619. This idea that your daughter
  620. has suggested, you know,
  621.  
  622. 140
  623. 00:08:02,315 --> 00:08:06,027
  624. to sort of sit back
  625. and watch Dick Johnson...
  626.  
  627. 141
  628. 00:08:06,110 --> 00:08:07,403
  629. - Yeah. Yeah.
  630. - ...you know...
  631.  
  632. 142
  633. 00:08:07,487 --> 00:08:09,530
  634. Okay, that's what I wanted to know!
  635.  
  636. 143
  637. 00:08:09,614 --> 00:08:11,699
  638. Sure. Oh, this'll be great, you know?
  639.  
  640. 144
  641. 00:08:11,782 --> 00:08:13,242
  642. - Okay, yeah.
  643. - Yeah.
  644.  
  645. 145
  646. 00:08:18,164 --> 00:08:20,333
  647. You got the stoop really nicely.
  648.  
  649. 146
  650. 00:08:20,416 --> 00:08:21,250
  651. Yeah.
  652.  
  653. 147
  654. 00:08:32,178 --> 00:08:34,180
  655. Great. Fantastic.
  656.  
  657. 148
  658. 00:08:34,263 --> 00:08:35,097
  659. Clear.
  660.  
  661. 149
  662. 00:08:47,276 --> 00:08:50,279
  663. Wow. That was me? That hurt.
  664.  
  665. 150
  666. 00:08:50,363 --> 00:08:51,572
  667. Ouch.
  668.  
  669. 151
  670. 00:08:53,741 --> 00:08:56,661
  671. What's the worst pain
  672. you've ever experienced in your life?
  673.  
  674. 152
  675. 00:08:57,495 --> 00:08:59,330
  676. Oh, I think the heart attack.
  677.  
  678. 153
  679. 00:08:59,413 --> 00:09:01,082
  680. - It hurt? The heart attack?
  681. - Yeah.
  682.  
  683. 154
  684. 00:09:01,165 --> 00:09:02,333
  685. - Really?
  686. - Yeah.
  687.  
  688. 155
  689. 00:09:02,416 --> 00:09:03,292
  690. I didn't know that.
  691.  
  692. 156
  693. 00:09:04,669 --> 00:09:06,629
  694. It was part... It hurt in your heart?
  695.  
  696. 157
  697. 00:09:06,712 --> 00:09:09,507
  698. Yeah. And, you know,
  699. the whole thing put together.
  700.  
  701. 158
  702. 00:09:09,590 --> 00:09:11,884
  703. - The... The initial thing...
  704. - Mm-hmm.
  705.  
  706. 159
  707. 00:09:11,968 --> 00:09:15,346
  708. Not getting air,
  709. not getting breath, lying down,
  710.  
  711. 160
  712. 00:09:15,429 --> 00:09:18,933
  713. and taking me to the home and having pain,
  714.  
  715. 161
  716. 00:09:19,016 --> 00:09:20,851
  717. and then going to the emergency room
  718.  
  719. 162
  720. 00:09:20,935 --> 00:09:27,483
  721. and arresting, and the whole scenario.
  722. Not one part of it, but the whole thing.
  723.  
  724. 163
  725. 00:09:27,567 --> 00:09:29,819
  726. - I'm glad you survived.
  727. - Yeah, I'm glad...
  728.  
  729. 164
  730. 00:09:29,902 --> 00:09:31,195
  731. I'm glad I survived. Yeah.
  732.  
  733. 165
  734. 00:09:33,155 --> 00:09:35,825
  735. Yeah. And lived to live
  736. how many more years?
  737.  
  738. 166
  739. 00:09:36,993 --> 00:09:41,289
  740. 1987... That's 20 years, isn't it?
  741.  
  742. 167
  743. 00:09:41,998 --> 00:09:45,209
  744. - Mmm... it's even more than that.
  745. - Is it? Seven--
  746.  
  747. 168
  748. 00:09:45,293 --> 00:09:46,335
  749. - Thirty years.
  750. - Thirty years.
  751.  
  752. 169
  753. 00:09:46,419 --> 00:09:47,420
  754. - Thirty years.
  755. - Is it 30 years?
  756.  
  757. 170
  758. 00:09:47,503 --> 00:09:50,131
  759. - You got to live an extra 30 years.
  760. - That's pretty good, yeah.
  761.  
  762. 171
  763. 00:09:51,549 --> 00:09:53,301
  764. Probably the best years of my life.
  765.  
  766. 172
  767. 00:10:01,183 --> 00:10:02,643
  768. Where did I get this from?
  769.  
  770. 173
  771. 00:10:06,856 --> 00:10:08,065
  772. I see one bug.
  773.  
  774. 174
  775. 00:10:08,149 --> 00:10:09,775
  776. There's that little fly.
  777.  
  778. 175
  779. 00:10:09,859 --> 00:10:11,694
  780. Hit him. Kill him.
  781.  
  782. 176
  783. 00:10:12,570 --> 00:10:13,613
  784. Oh, boy.
  785.  
  786. 177
  787. 00:10:16,073 --> 00:10:18,909
  788. I think this is their first killing, Dad.
  789.  
  790. 178
  791. 00:10:18,993 --> 00:10:20,828
  792. That fly is not dead yet.
  793.  
  794. 179
  795. 00:10:20,911 --> 00:10:22,496
  796. It's fighting for its life.
  797.  
  798. 180
  799. 00:10:22,580 --> 00:10:23,831
  800. Smart fly.
  801.  
  802. 181
  803. 00:10:28,961 --> 00:10:31,464
  804. - What's that?
  805. - This is my grandma.
  806.  
  807. 182
  808. 00:10:31,547 --> 00:10:33,257
  809. That's Grandma Walder.
  810.  
  811. 183
  812. 00:10:33,341 --> 00:10:36,719
  813. Already... Your grandma already died?
  814.  
  815. 184
  816. 00:10:36,802 --> 00:10:40,389
  817. She already died.
  818. She died a long, long time ago.
  819.  
  820. 185
  821. 00:10:40,473 --> 00:10:42,600
  822. - When I was--
  823. - You were a little baby?
  824.  
  825. 186
  826. 00:10:42,683 --> 00:10:47,146
  827. No, she died
  828. when I was, um, a teenage boy.
  829.  
  830. 187
  831. 00:10:47,229 --> 00:10:49,774
  832. And when I was a teenage boy...
  833.  
  834. 188
  835. 00:10:49,857 --> 00:10:52,276
  836. ...she lived with us.
  837.  
  838. 189
  839. 00:10:54,320 --> 00:10:55,780
  840. - I want this.
  841. - Yeah.
  842.  
  843. 190
  844. 00:10:55,863 --> 00:10:59,408
  845. - Who else is there, Viva?
  846. - That's your grandmother who died.
  847.  
  848. 191
  849. 00:10:59,492 --> 00:11:00,785
  850. You guys know what her name is?
  851.  
  852. 192
  853. 00:11:00,868 --> 00:11:03,329
  854. - Mama.
  855. - Yeah, that's what I called her.
  856.  
  857. 193
  858. 00:11:03,412 --> 00:11:05,247
  859. But does anyone remember what her name is?
  860.  
  861. 194
  862. 00:11:05,331 --> 00:11:08,209
  863. - Katie Jo.
  864. - Katie Jo, that's right.
  865.  
  866. 195
  867. 00:11:31,565 --> 00:11:33,818
  868. I've always been ashamed
  869. of these toes.
  870.  
  871. 196
  872. 00:11:34,693 --> 00:11:38,406
  873. They've been a source of embarrassment
  874. to me for my entire life.
  875.  
  876. 197
  877. 00:11:38,489 --> 00:11:41,575
  878. - I never wanted to go barefoot.
  879. - Aw.
  880.  
  881. 198
  882. 00:11:42,660 --> 00:11:44,954
  883. They caused my mother tears.
  884.  
  885. 199
  886. 00:11:45,037 --> 00:11:50,000
  887. When she bore me and saw those toes,
  888. she cried and cried and cried.
  889.  
  890. 200
  891. 00:11:50,084 --> 00:11:52,711
  892. - How do you know?
  893. - I was there.
  894.  
  895. 201
  896. 00:12:14,191 --> 00:12:17,445
  897. Do we actually know
  898. how Mom did fall on these stairs?
  899.  
  900. 202
  901. 00:12:17,528 --> 00:12:21,657
  902. I suspect she may have misjudged
  903.  
  904. 203
  905. 00:12:21,740 --> 00:12:24,577
  906. and thought she was down
  907. before she was down.
  908.  
  909. 204
  910. 00:12:24,660 --> 00:12:27,580
  911. - Yeah.
  912. - And stepped into nothing.
  913.  
  914. 205
  915. 00:12:27,663 --> 00:12:31,667
  916. - And what did she break?
  917. - It was a hip.
  918.  
  919. 206
  920. 00:12:31,750 --> 00:12:34,086
  921. - That was where the brutality started.
  922. - Yeah.
  923.  
  924. 207
  925. 00:12:34,170 --> 00:12:35,754
  926. But you're careful
  927. going down them.
  928.  
  929. 208
  930. 00:12:35,838 --> 00:12:38,132
  931. - Oh, yeah, I'm very careful.
  932. - Yeah.
  933.  
  934. 209
  935. 00:12:38,215 --> 00:12:40,301
  936. - I hang on to the rail.
  937. - Yeah.
  938.  
  939. 210
  940. 00:12:52,104 --> 00:12:53,814
  941. Whoa!
  942.  
  943. 211
  944. 00:14:12,643 --> 00:14:15,729
  945. Can you just, like, put one arm
  946. up against the wall,
  947.  
  948. 212
  949. 00:14:15,813 --> 00:14:18,732
  950. like, your arm that's closest
  951. to the wall, in some weird...
  952.  
  953. 213
  954. 00:14:20,025 --> 00:14:21,151
  955. Yeah, that's nice.
  956.  
  957. 214
  958. 00:14:22,778 --> 00:14:24,697
  959. Okay. Ready?
  960.  
  961. 215
  962. 00:14:25,573 --> 00:14:30,995
  963. And... action.
  964. Keep smiling, Dad. Keep smiling.
  965.  
  966. 216
  967. 00:14:31,078 --> 00:14:33,205
  968. Yeah. Perfect, I think we got it.
  969.  
  970. 217
  971. 00:14:33,289 --> 00:14:35,749
  972. - Are we doing playback?
  973. - That was beautiful.
  974.  
  975. 218
  976. 00:14:35,833 --> 00:14:38,502
  977. That was really nice jumping, Bruce.
  978.  
  979. 219
  980. 00:14:41,171 --> 00:14:44,842
  981. My parents brought us up
  982. in the Seventh-Day Adventist religion.
  983.  
  984. 220
  985. 00:14:44,925 --> 00:14:46,677
  986. That's how they were raised.
  987.  
  988. 221
  989. 00:14:46,760 --> 00:14:50,598
  990. Like any religion, it offers answers
  991. to our questions about death.
  992.  
  993. 222
  994. 00:14:52,683 --> 00:14:55,394
  995. Adventism promises heaven
  996. for the righteous.
  997.  
  998. 223
  999. 00:14:55,477 --> 00:14:58,772
  1000. But also, it tells us
  1001. that nobody's up in heaven yet.
  1002.  
  1003. 224
  1004. 00:14:59,398 --> 00:15:04,445
  1005. The dead have to wait in their graves.
  1006. They're unconscious, in a kind of sleep.
  1007.  
  1008. 225
  1009. 00:15:07,323 --> 00:15:10,618
  1010. Only when Jesus returns to earth
  1011. for the Day of Judgment
  1012.  
  1013. 226
  1014. 00:15:10,701 --> 00:15:15,164
  1015. will believers be resurrected
  1016. and rise up to heaven to live forever.
  1017.  
  1018. 227
  1019. 00:15:16,248 --> 00:15:17,708
  1020. And drop, Dad.
  1021.  
  1022. 228
  1023. 00:15:21,128 --> 00:15:24,465
  1024. As we practiced it,
  1025. Adventism was a strict religion.
  1026.  
  1027. 229
  1028. 00:15:24,548 --> 00:15:27,676
  1029. No alcohol, no dancing, no movies.
  1030.  
  1031. 230
  1032. 00:15:28,510 --> 00:15:30,888
  1033. And I tried hard
  1034. not to break a single rule.
  1035.  
  1036. 231
  1037. 00:15:32,139 --> 00:15:33,641
  1038. But when I was 11,
  1039.  
  1040. 232
  1041. 00:15:33,724 --> 00:15:37,728
  1042. my dad took my brother and me
  1043. to see Mel Brooks' Young Frankenstein.
  1044.  
  1045. 233
  1046. 00:15:38,938 --> 00:15:42,316
  1047. I was scandalized. And I loved it.
  1048.  
  1049. 234
  1050. 00:15:43,150 --> 00:15:46,528
  1051. Dad loved it, too.
  1052. He had a way of living in the moment.
  1053.  
  1054. 235
  1055. 00:15:47,363 --> 00:15:51,533
  1056. "I've got my heaven," he would say.
  1057. "Right here on earth. With all of you."
  1058.  
  1059. 236
  1060. 00:16:00,626 --> 00:16:02,336
  1061. - Good?
  1062. - Yeah, good.
  1063.  
  1064. 237
  1065. 00:16:25,859 --> 00:16:28,904
  1066. She kills me. Multiple times.
  1067.  
  1068. 238
  1069. 00:16:30,364 --> 00:16:33,409
  1070. And I come back to life.
  1071. It's Groundhog Day all over again.
  1072.  
  1073. 239
  1074. 00:16:33,492 --> 00:16:35,160
  1075. - The resurrected dad.
  1076. - Yeah.
  1077.  
  1078. 240
  1079. 00:16:35,244 --> 00:16:38,539
  1080. - That's very cool.
  1081. - The resurrected dad.
  1082.  
  1083. 241
  1084. 00:16:39,415 --> 00:16:41,166
  1085. It's not easy dying though,
  1086. let me tell you.
  1087.  
  1088. 242
  1089. 00:16:41,250 --> 00:16:43,585
  1090. No. When she told me that part,
  1091. I went, "Oh, no."
  1092.  
  1093. 243
  1094. 00:16:43,669 --> 00:16:46,588
  1095. But she said you was coming back,
  1096. I was like, "All right. That's awesome."
  1097.  
  1098. 244
  1099. 00:16:46,672 --> 00:16:49,133
  1100. It's a comedy.
  1101.  
  1102. 245
  1103. 00:16:49,216 --> 00:16:50,718
  1104. Hey now, let's do it.
  1105.  
  1106. 246
  1107. 00:16:50,801 --> 00:16:52,511
  1108. - It's a comedy.
  1109. - Hope it is.
  1110.  
  1111. 247
  1112. 00:16:52,594 --> 00:16:55,848
  1113. - How did your father pass?
  1114. - He drowned, actually.
  1115.  
  1116. 248
  1117. 00:16:55,931 --> 00:16:58,183
  1118. - Drowned?
  1119. - Mmm-hmm. He was down--
  1120.  
  1121. 249
  1122. 00:16:58,267 --> 00:17:00,769
  1123. - How did that happen?
  1124. - A boating accident.
  1125.  
  1126. 250
  1127. 00:17:00,853 --> 00:17:03,564
  1128. And he couldn't swim,
  1129. and, you know, that was it.
  1130.  
  1131. 251
  1132. 00:17:04,398 --> 00:17:06,483
  1133. - I was about eight years old.
  1134. - Wow.
  1135.  
  1136. 252
  1137. 00:17:06,567 --> 00:17:08,986
  1138. That's terrible,
  1139. to lose a father at that age.
  1140.  
  1141. 253
  1142. 00:17:09,069 --> 00:17:11,238
  1143. Yeah. Mom was a strong woman, though.
  1144.  
  1145. 254
  1146. 00:17:11,321 --> 00:17:12,948
  1147. You know, she raised us.
  1148.  
  1149. 255
  1150. 00:17:13,032 --> 00:17:14,491
  1151. - If the left hand missed...
  1152. - She did a great job.
  1153.  
  1154. 256
  1155. 00:17:14,575 --> 00:17:15,784
  1156. ...the right hand caught us.
  1157.  
  1158. 257
  1159. 00:17:15,868 --> 00:17:18,162
  1160. Yeah. Her mom died, uh...
  1161.  
  1162. 258
  1163. 00:17:19,246 --> 00:17:20,622
  1164. How long ago?
  1165.  
  1166. 259
  1167. 00:17:20,706 --> 00:17:23,876
  1168. It's already been seven years
  1169. since Mom passed, yeah.
  1170.  
  1171. 260
  1172. 00:17:23,959 --> 00:17:25,711
  1173. - Yeah.
  1174. - Yeah. Yeah.
  1175.  
  1176. 261
  1177. 00:17:25,794 --> 00:17:27,463
  1178. - That was a sad loss.
  1179. - Yeah.
  1180.  
  1181. 262
  1182. 00:17:27,546 --> 00:17:31,425
  1183. Mmm-hmm. But she had Alzheimer's,
  1184. so it was a long goodbye.
  1185.  
  1186. 263
  1187. 00:17:31,508 --> 00:17:32,593
  1188. - Mmm-hmm.
  1189. - Mmm-hmm.
  1190.  
  1191. 264
  1192. 00:17:32,676 --> 00:17:34,803
  1193. - So you're just expecting it?
  1194. - Yeah.
  1195.  
  1196. 265
  1197. 00:17:34,887 --> 00:17:39,767
  1198. We lost her several years
  1199. before she actually passed.
  1200.  
  1201. 266
  1202. 00:17:39,850 --> 00:17:40,809
  1203. - Okay.
  1204. - Yeah.
  1205.  
  1206. 267
  1207. 00:17:40,893 --> 00:17:42,519
  1208. We all carry our parents in us.
  1209. Right?
  1210.  
  1211. 268
  1212. 00:17:42,603 --> 00:17:43,479
  1213. Yeah.
  1214.  
  1215. 269
  1216. 00:17:43,562 --> 00:17:45,230
  1217. What do you carry from your dad?
  1218.  
  1219. 270
  1220. 00:17:45,314 --> 00:17:46,231
  1221. Um...
  1222.  
  1223. 271
  1224. 00:17:48,233 --> 00:17:49,234
  1225. Wow.
  1226.  
  1227. 272
  1228. 00:17:50,194 --> 00:17:51,612
  1229. I don't know. I guess...
  1230.  
  1231. 273
  1232. 00:17:52,112 --> 00:17:55,532
  1233. some people say I just look serious
  1234. all the time, you know, but...
  1235.  
  1236. 274
  1237. 00:17:55,616 --> 00:17:57,076
  1238. I don't know. I don't know.
  1239.  
  1240. 275
  1241. 00:17:57,659 --> 00:18:00,370
  1242. I'm a man of peace, you know.
  1243.  
  1244. 276
  1245. 00:18:01,497 --> 00:18:02,831
  1246. Yeah. Yeah.
  1247.  
  1248. 277
  1249. 00:18:03,624 --> 00:18:05,501
  1250. ...all this is clear,
  1251. I can start breaking this down.
  1252.  
  1253. 278
  1254. 00:18:05,584 --> 00:18:08,003
  1255. I can be out of here
  1256. in about five, ten minutes,
  1257.  
  1258. 279
  1259. 00:18:08,087 --> 00:18:09,671
  1260. and I just lay it down
  1261. neatly on the floor.
  1262.  
  1263. 280
  1264. 00:18:09,755 --> 00:18:11,173
  1265. - Beautiful.
  1266. - Let's do it.
  1267.  
  1268. 281
  1269. 00:18:11,256 --> 00:18:12,591
  1270. - Bing, bing, bing, done.
  1271. - All right.
  1272.  
  1273. 282
  1274. 00:18:12,674 --> 00:18:15,427
  1275. I like the way you bing, bing, bing.
  1276.  
  1277. 283
  1278. 00:18:15,511 --> 00:18:16,845
  1279. It's just sad for us.
  1280.  
  1281. 284
  1282. 00:18:16,929 --> 00:18:19,890
  1283. We're leaving all of this,
  1284. it's such a good-looking space,
  1285.  
  1286. 285
  1287. 00:18:19,973 --> 00:18:21,350
  1288. but we're doing it. We're doing it.
  1289.  
  1290. 286
  1291. 00:18:21,433 --> 00:18:22,768
  1292. Better not leave nothing in here,
  1293.  
  1294. 287
  1295. 00:18:22,851 --> 00:18:24,978
  1296. 'cause I'll take it home.
  1297. They call me Fred Sanford.
  1298.  
  1299. 288
  1300. 00:18:26,980 --> 00:18:28,148
  1301. It's good seeing you guys.
  1302.  
  1303. 289
  1304. 00:18:28,232 --> 00:18:30,025
  1305. Thanks, Mike. Appreciate it.
  1306.  
  1307. 290
  1308. 00:18:30,109 --> 00:18:32,069
  1309. I'll be here tomorrow
  1310. to knock down the shelves.
  1311.  
  1312. 291
  1313. 00:18:32,152 --> 00:18:33,320
  1314. - Thank you.
  1315. - Bye.
  1316.  
  1317. 292
  1318. 00:18:40,619 --> 00:18:43,455
  1319. This is actually looking like
  1320. a good situation for a heart attack.
  1321.  
  1322. 293
  1323. 00:18:43,539 --> 00:18:46,625
  1324. I don't think you should lift that.
  1325. I can lift that. Dad--
  1326.  
  1327. 294
  1328. 00:18:46,708 --> 00:18:50,420
  1329. No, I'm much stronger than you are.
  1330. Oh, piece of cake.
  1331.  
  1332. 295
  1333. 00:19:03,433 --> 00:19:06,603
  1334. - I sure was lucky to find this office.
  1335. - Yeah, right?
  1336.  
  1337. 296
  1338. 00:19:06,687 --> 00:19:08,856
  1339. Yeah, a wonderful place to work.
  1340.  
  1341. 297
  1342. 00:19:14,111 --> 00:19:16,905
  1343. Dr. Johnson's answering service.
  1344.  
  1345. 298
  1346. 00:19:17,489 --> 00:19:22,077
  1347. Dr. Johnson is now retired
  1348. and his office is closed.
  1349.  
  1350. 299
  1351. 00:19:23,036 --> 00:19:26,582
  1352. If you still need to find
  1353. another psychiatrist,
  1354.  
  1355. 300
  1356. 00:19:26,665 --> 00:19:31,670
  1357. Dr. Johnson suggests
  1358. your insurance website,
  1359.  
  1360. 301
  1361. 00:19:31,753 --> 00:19:35,174
  1362. or call their customer service
  1363. phone number.
  1364.  
  1365. 302
  1366. 00:19:36,133 --> 00:19:39,094
  1367. If you have a mental health crisis,
  1368.  
  1369. 303
  1370. 00:19:39,178 --> 00:19:44,224
  1371. don't hesitate to have someone drive you
  1372. to the nearest emergency room.
  1373.  
  1374. 304
  1375. 00:19:46,018 --> 00:19:48,395
  1376. Dr. Johnson wishes you well,
  1377.  
  1378. 305
  1379. 00:19:48,478 --> 00:19:52,024
  1380. and thanks you
  1381. for being his valued patient.
  1382.  
  1383. 306
  1384. 00:20:13,879 --> 00:20:15,714
  1385. Let 'em know I'm backing out.
  1386.  
  1387. 307
  1388. 00:20:17,549 --> 00:20:20,219
  1389. So if you can get into a spot,
  1390. you can always get out.
  1391.  
  1392. 308
  1393. 00:20:20,302 --> 00:20:21,678
  1394. That's the idea. Right?
  1395.  
  1396. 309
  1397. 00:20:24,223 --> 00:20:25,599
  1398. Thank you.
  1399.  
  1400. 310
  1401. 00:20:32,314 --> 00:20:33,690
  1402. My dad had been living alone
  1403.  
  1404. 311
  1405. 00:20:33,774 --> 00:20:37,361
  1406. and going to work and to church faithfully
  1407. ever since my mom died.
  1408.  
  1409. 312
  1410. 00:20:38,278 --> 00:20:41,198
  1411. My brother and I were both
  1412. thousands of miles away,
  1413.  
  1414. 313
  1415. 00:20:41,281 --> 00:20:44,534
  1416. and despite what we'd already been through
  1417. with Mom's Alzheimer's,
  1418.  
  1419. 314
  1420. 00:20:44,618 --> 00:20:47,663
  1421. we didn't notice anything
  1422. until it was almost too late.
  1423.  
  1424. 315
  1425. 00:20:50,374 --> 00:20:54,795
  1426. We started getting calls from his friends.
  1427. Then his secretary.
  1428.  
  1429. 316
  1430. 00:20:54,878 --> 00:20:59,633
  1431. He was double-booking his patients,
  1432. making mistakes on their prescriptions.
  1433.  
  1434. 317
  1435. 00:20:59,716 --> 00:21:03,095
  1436. He had driven his car
  1437. at high speed through a construction site,
  1438.  
  1439. 318
  1440. 00:21:03,178 --> 00:21:07,599
  1441. and then kept going,
  1442. five miles home, on four flat tires.
  1443.  
  1444. 319
  1445. 00:21:12,604 --> 00:21:15,065
  1446. Every call felt like an alarm bell,
  1447.  
  1448. 320
  1449. 00:21:15,649 --> 00:21:18,318
  1450. and even though
  1451. we should have understood perfectly,
  1452.  
  1453. 321
  1454. 00:21:18,402 --> 00:21:20,487
  1455. we just couldn't bear to hear it again.
  1456.  
  1457. 322
  1458. 00:21:32,624 --> 00:21:35,794
  1459. You never said
  1460. you were taking the car away from me.
  1461.  
  1462. 323
  1463. 00:21:35,877 --> 00:21:37,838
  1464. It was said
  1465. that we were selling the car
  1466.  
  1467. 324
  1468. 00:21:37,921 --> 00:21:39,589
  1469. 'cause you're moving to New York.
  1470.  
  1471. 325
  1472. 00:21:40,549 --> 00:21:43,051
  1473. - Yeah, it was said that.
  1474. - Right. That's all.
  1475.  
  1476. 326
  1477. 00:21:43,135 --> 00:21:46,096
  1478. But who's selling it, and when, and where?
  1479.  
  1480. 327
  1481. 00:21:46,179 --> 00:21:49,391
  1482. It's being put on Craigslist this week.
  1483.  
  1484. 328
  1485. 00:21:50,017 --> 00:21:52,436
  1486. It's at the repair shop
  1487. being finished right now.
  1488.  
  1489. 329
  1490. 00:21:54,229 --> 00:21:56,982
  1491. I'm telling you what I know.
  1492.  
  1493. 330
  1494. 00:21:57,065 --> 00:21:59,067
  1495. But you're not getting the car back,
  1496. I do know that.
  1497.  
  1498. 331
  1499. 00:21:59,151 --> 00:22:00,569
  1500. I'm never driving it again?
  1501.  
  1502. 332
  1503. 00:22:01,194 --> 00:22:02,612
  1504. No. Not that car.
  1505.  
  1506. 333
  1507. 00:22:03,447 --> 00:22:04,781
  1508. Maybe some other car.
  1509.  
  1510. 334
  1511. 00:22:06,491 --> 00:22:08,035
  1512. Is that the worst news ever?
  1513.  
  1514. 335
  1515. 00:22:08,118 --> 00:22:11,163
  1516. - Not the worst, but it's pretty bad news.
  1517. - Yeah.
  1518.  
  1519. 336
  1520. 00:22:11,913 --> 00:22:13,248
  1521. You know, I'm not far enough gone
  1522.  
  1523. 337
  1524. 00:22:13,332 --> 00:22:15,500
  1525. that I couldn't drive my own car,
  1526. you know?
  1527.  
  1528. 338
  1529. 00:22:15,584 --> 00:22:18,879
  1530. Well, it's not about that, it's about
  1531. the fact that you're moving to New York.
  1532.  
  1533. 339
  1534. 00:22:18,962 --> 00:22:21,131
  1535. - I know. And I'm not taking my car.
  1536. - You can't keep it.
  1537.  
  1538. 340
  1539. 00:22:21,214 --> 00:22:22,424
  1540. - I know that.
  1541. - That's all.
  1542.  
  1543. 341
  1544. 00:22:22,507 --> 00:22:24,718
  1545. But in between now and the time--
  1546.  
  1547. 342
  1548. 00:22:24,801 --> 00:22:26,136
  1549. It's only a couple days.
  1550.  
  1551. 343
  1552. 00:22:27,804 --> 00:22:28,680
  1553. Okay.
  1554.  
  1555. 344
  1556. 00:22:29,514 --> 00:22:31,183
  1557. Sorry.
  1558.  
  1559. 345
  1560. 00:22:31,850 --> 00:22:33,018
  1561. I know it hurts.
  1562.  
  1563. 346
  1564. 00:22:35,062 --> 00:22:36,855
  1565. It's your independence, isn't it?
  1566.  
  1567. 347
  1568. 00:22:36,938 --> 00:22:38,356
  1569. - Yeah.
  1570. - Yeah.
  1571.  
  1572. 348
  1573. 00:22:44,404 --> 00:22:45,572
  1574. Gonna be okay.
  1575.  
  1576. 349
  1577. 00:22:49,284 --> 00:22:52,996
  1578. Well, I know how Mom must have felt
  1579. when we put her in the nursing home.
  1580.  
  1581. 350
  1582. 00:22:53,080 --> 00:22:55,207
  1583. Is that what it feels like?
  1584.  
  1585. 351
  1586. 00:22:56,917 --> 00:22:58,376
  1587. - Not that bad.
  1588. - It's not that bad.
  1589.  
  1590. 352
  1591. 00:22:58,460 --> 00:22:59,795
  1592. - Not that bad.
  1593. - It's not that bad.
  1594.  
  1595. 353
  1596. 00:22:59,878 --> 00:23:01,838
  1597. It's not that bad, but that was bad.
  1598.  
  1599. 354
  1600. 00:23:01,922 --> 00:23:03,673
  1601. You're more conscious than she was then.
  1602.  
  1603. 355
  1604. 00:23:03,757 --> 00:23:06,301
  1605. Yeah. But, uh, you're not giving me credit
  1606.  
  1607. 356
  1608. 00:23:06,384 --> 00:23:08,386
  1609. for much more consciousness.
  1610.  
  1611. 357
  1612. 00:23:08,470 --> 00:23:12,140
  1613. Yes, we are. Stop it.
  1614. We just are not paying $2,000
  1615.  
  1616. 358
  1617. 00:23:12,224 --> 00:23:16,061
  1618. to put a car in a rental car garage
  1619. in New York City, that's all.
  1620.  
  1621. 359
  1622. 00:23:16,144 --> 00:23:18,313
  1623. - That's all. Yeah, I hear ya.
  1624. - That's all we're doin'.
  1625.  
  1626. 360
  1627. 00:23:18,396 --> 00:23:20,857
  1628. - You hear me?
  1629. - Yeah, I hear ya.
  1630.  
  1631. 361
  1632. 00:23:36,706 --> 00:23:41,044
  1633. You know, the thing I hate most
  1634. about my memory loss
  1635.  
  1636. 362
  1637. 00:23:41,128 --> 00:23:45,382
  1638. is that it hurts people's feelings
  1639. when I don't remember things about them.
  1640.  
  1641. 363
  1642. 00:23:45,465 --> 00:23:46,883
  1643. Especially more recent.
  1644.  
  1645. 364
  1646. 00:23:46,967 --> 00:23:48,593
  1647. - Yeah, recent--
  1648. - I got to see...
  1649.  
  1650. 365
  1651. 00:23:48,677 --> 00:23:50,470
  1652. You remember everything about your old MG.
  1653.  
  1654. 366
  1655. 00:23:50,554 --> 00:23:51,596
  1656. Yeah, that's right.
  1657.  
  1658. 367
  1659. 00:23:51,680 --> 00:23:55,976
  1660. But recent memories are...
  1661. They don't stick around.
  1662.  
  1663. 368
  1664. 00:23:56,059 --> 00:23:58,019
  1665. - That's okay.
  1666. - Well, it's not okay. You know?
  1667.  
  1668. 369
  1669. 00:23:58,103 --> 00:23:59,855
  1670. You don't want to hurt your friends.
  1671.  
  1672. 370
  1673. 00:24:01,898 --> 00:24:03,275
  1674. - Dad.
  1675. - Yeah.
  1676.  
  1677. 371
  1678. 00:24:03,358 --> 00:24:04,526
  1679. You know what's happening here?
  1680.  
  1681. 372
  1682. 00:24:04,609 --> 00:24:06,695
  1683. You're making chocolate fudge cake.
  1684.  
  1685. 373
  1686. 00:24:06,778 --> 00:24:10,073
  1687. - And why would we do that?
  1688. - In order to kill me.
  1689.  
  1690. 374
  1691. 00:24:11,700 --> 00:24:14,411
  1692. It was double valve?
  1693. Your heart surgery?
  1694.  
  1695. 375
  1696. 00:24:14,494 --> 00:24:18,498
  1697. Not valves, it was...
  1698. it was double, um, artery.
  1699.  
  1700. 376
  1701. 00:24:18,582 --> 00:24:19,958
  1702. - Bypass?
  1703. - Bypass.
  1704.  
  1705. 377
  1706. 00:24:20,041 --> 00:24:21,501
  1707. Bypass. Double bypass, yeah.
  1708.  
  1709. 378
  1710. 00:24:21,585 --> 00:24:24,087
  1711. - Coronary artery bypass.
  1712. - Right, that's what it was.
  1713.  
  1714. 379
  1715. 00:24:25,714 --> 00:24:27,465
  1716. Do you ever regret
  1717. making that cake, Joanne?
  1718.  
  1719. 380
  1720. 00:24:27,549 --> 00:24:30,010
  1721. I've been feeling guilty
  1722. all these years.
  1723.  
  1724. 381
  1725. 00:24:30,093 --> 00:24:32,846
  1726. - It's time you stopped.
  1727. - Yeah.
  1728.  
  1729. 382
  1730. 00:24:34,306 --> 00:24:37,142
  1731. All right, I do it like this,
  1732. and then I do it like this.
  1733.  
  1734. 383
  1735. 00:24:40,228 --> 00:24:42,898
  1736. Mmm.
  1737.  
  1738. 384
  1739. 00:24:44,482 --> 00:24:46,526
  1740. Look at this, will ya?
  1741.  
  1742. 385
  1743. 00:24:46,610 --> 00:24:51,323
  1744. You are completely absolved of anything
  1745. that happens to me after today.
  1746.  
  1747. 386
  1748. 00:25:03,960 --> 00:25:06,213
  1749. Well, at least a bite at a time.
  1750.  
  1751. 387
  1752. 00:25:12,844 --> 00:25:14,971
  1753. Oh, my God,
  1754. look at Mom's good memory book.
  1755.  
  1756. 388
  1757. 00:25:15,055 --> 00:25:17,891
  1758. She was so into memory stuff.
  1759.  
  1760. 389
  1761. 00:25:18,642 --> 00:25:21,353
  1762. When I was courting her,
  1763. she was deep into this.
  1764.  
  1765. 390
  1766. 00:25:22,729 --> 00:25:25,649
  1767. Which is sort of
  1768. a paradox, isn't it?
  1769.  
  1770. 391
  1771. 00:25:25,732 --> 00:25:26,608
  1772. Yeah.
  1773.  
  1774. 392
  1775. 00:25:29,194 --> 00:25:31,529
  1776. Do you think she needed memory work then?
  1777.  
  1778. 393
  1779. 00:25:33,907 --> 00:25:37,202
  1780. I don't know.
  1781. Maybe she had foreknowledge of being...
  1782.  
  1783. 394
  1784. 00:25:38,286 --> 00:25:39,621
  1785. - Right.
  1786. - ...ill, you know?
  1787.  
  1788. 395
  1789. 00:25:39,704 --> 00:25:41,539
  1790. - Yeah.
  1791. - Having Alzheimer's.
  1792.  
  1793. 396
  1794. 00:25:43,959 --> 00:25:46,544
  1795. She... She did so well in the class
  1796.  
  1797. 397
  1798. 00:25:46,628 --> 00:25:49,714
  1799. that the instructor
  1800. asked her to work for him.
  1801.  
  1802. 398
  1803. 00:25:49,798 --> 00:25:51,049
  1804. - Really?
  1805. - Yeah.
  1806.  
  1807. 399
  1808. 00:25:51,132 --> 00:25:53,510
  1809. So when I was courting her,
  1810. she was doing all that stuff.
  1811.  
  1812. 400
  1813. 00:25:53,593 --> 00:25:56,638
  1814. Uh-huh. So she had a great memory then.
  1815.  
  1816. 401
  1817. 00:25:56,721 --> 00:25:58,723
  1818. I don't know if she did or not.
  1819.  
  1820. 402
  1821. 00:25:58,807 --> 00:26:00,976
  1822. I just remember her
  1823. coming up with names of things,
  1824.  
  1825. 403
  1826. 00:26:01,059 --> 00:26:04,813
  1827. like, you remember, like, an alligator
  1828. sitting eating an ice-cream cone
  1829.  
  1830. 404
  1831. 00:26:04,896 --> 00:26:06,606
  1832. on the top of a ladder, you know--
  1833.  
  1834. 405
  1835. 00:26:06,690 --> 00:26:08,483
  1836. - That's how she'd do it.
  1837. - It's like visual...
  1838.  
  1839. 406
  1840. 00:26:08,566 --> 00:26:11,611
  1841. Visual reminders
  1842. that were sort of unusual...
  1843.  
  1844. 407
  1845. 00:26:11,695 --> 00:26:14,155
  1846. - Yeah.
  1847. - ...they stick out in your mind.
  1848.  
  1849. 408
  1850. 00:26:14,239 --> 00:26:15,365
  1851. Yeah.
  1852.  
  1853. 409
  1854. 00:26:15,448 --> 00:26:17,075
  1855. You remember her teaching you that?
  1856.  
  1857. 410
  1858. 00:26:17,158 --> 00:26:18,576
  1859. Yeah. I thought it was cool.
  1860.  
  1861. 411
  1862. 00:26:20,620 --> 00:26:21,454
  1863. Yeah.
  1864.  
  1865. 412
  1866. 00:26:33,091 --> 00:26:37,053
  1867. Okay, here we go.
  1868. One, two... whoop.
  1869.  
  1870. 413
  1871. 00:26:39,472 --> 00:26:40,307
  1872. That work?
  1873.  
  1874. 414
  1875. 00:26:40,974 --> 00:26:43,685
  1876. I see that little clock
  1877. go around all the time.
  1878.  
  1879. 415
  1880. 00:26:43,768 --> 00:26:46,396
  1881. That little clock
  1882. goes around all the time?
  1883.  
  1884. 416
  1885. 00:26:55,780 --> 00:26:56,865
  1886. 'Kay.
  1887.  
  1888. 417
  1889. 00:26:56,948 --> 00:27:00,118
  1890. So your name is, uh, Johnson.
  1891.  
  1892. 418
  1893. 00:27:00,201 --> 00:27:02,162
  1894. My name's Johnson,
  1895. what's my first name?
  1896.  
  1897. 419
  1898. 00:27:10,378 --> 00:27:11,796
  1899. I'll give you a hint.
  1900.  
  1901. 420
  1902. 00:27:12,672 --> 00:27:13,965
  1903. I'm your daughter.
  1904.  
  1905. 421
  1906. 00:27:24,059 --> 00:27:25,435
  1907. You know.
  1908.  
  1909. 422
  1910. 00:27:30,148 --> 00:27:31,816
  1911. It's Kirsten. I'm Kirsten.
  1912.  
  1913. 423
  1914. 00:27:31,900 --> 00:27:34,736
  1915. I know that one.
  1916. And is there a C. Richard Johnson?
  1917.  
  1918. 424
  1919. 00:27:34,819 --> 00:27:35,695
  1920. Yeah.
  1921.  
  1922. 425
  1923. 00:27:35,779 --> 00:27:37,280
  1924. Same family?
  1925.  
  1926. 426
  1927. 00:27:37,364 --> 00:27:39,991
  1928. Same family, totally.
  1929. That is a good point.
  1930.  
  1931. 427
  1932. 00:27:40,492 --> 00:27:41,785
  1933. Should we go downstairs?
  1934.  
  1935. 428
  1936. 00:27:42,410 --> 00:27:44,996
  1937. - Shall we?
  1938. - Gotta keep your eyes open.
  1939.  
  1940. 429
  1941. 00:27:48,375 --> 00:27:51,461
  1942. I've been shooting documentaries
  1943. for nearly 30 years,
  1944.  
  1945. 430
  1946. 00:27:51,544 --> 00:27:54,047
  1947. but this is almost all the footage
  1948. I've got of Mom.
  1949.  
  1950. 431
  1951. 00:27:56,966 --> 00:28:01,096
  1952. I don't have a single frame of the warm
  1953. and brilliant person she once was.
  1954.  
  1955. 432
  1956. 00:28:09,854 --> 00:28:11,731
  1957. So when Mom was really...
  1958.  
  1959. 433
  1960. 00:28:13,983 --> 00:28:16,152
  1961. could barely move
  1962. and all that,
  1963.  
  1964. 434
  1965. 00:28:16,236 --> 00:28:18,405
  1966. and we were gonna move her
  1967. from the house, remember?
  1968.  
  1969. 435
  1970. 00:28:18,488 --> 00:28:22,450
  1971. She, um... She came out here
  1972. and she sat in this chair
  1973.  
  1974. 436
  1975. 00:28:22,534 --> 00:28:25,495
  1976. - and she was like, "This is our house."
  1977. - Uh-huh.
  1978.  
  1979. 437
  1980. 00:28:25,578 --> 00:28:28,623
  1981. And I was like, "It's okay, Mom,
  1982. we don't have to move you."
  1983.  
  1984. 438
  1985. 00:28:28,706 --> 00:28:31,084
  1986. And she said, um...
  1987. She was like...
  1988.  
  1989. 439
  1990. 00:28:31,167 --> 00:28:34,587
  1991. She sat there and that's when
  1992. she started singing "Que Sera, Sera."
  1993.  
  1994. 440
  1995. 00:28:34,671 --> 00:28:36,214
  1996. - Oh.
  1997. - Mmm-hmm.
  1998.  
  1999. 441
  2000. 00:28:37,424 --> 00:28:39,175
  2001. - Pretty good.
  2002. - Yeah.
  2003.  
  2004. 442
  2005. 00:28:42,011 --> 00:28:44,055
  2006. - She was tough.
  2007. - She was tough.
  2008.  
  2009. 443
  2010. 00:28:44,848 --> 00:28:47,308
  2011. It's tough.
  2012.  
  2013. 444
  2014. 00:28:50,186 --> 00:28:53,314
  2015. And now we experience
  2016. something similar all over again.
  2017.  
  2018. 445
  2019. 00:28:53,398 --> 00:28:54,774
  2020. Yeah.
  2021.  
  2022. 446
  2023. 00:28:59,529 --> 00:29:02,991
  2024. Yeah, it's scary.
  2025.  
  2026. 447
  2027. 00:29:03,074 --> 00:29:04,534
  2028. Yeah.
  2029.  
  2030. 448
  2031. 00:29:05,660 --> 00:29:08,955
  2032. - Ah... I'm sorry.
  2033. - Yeah.
  2034.  
  2035. 449
  2036. 00:29:10,415 --> 00:29:12,083
  2037. Me, too.
  2038.  
  2039. 450
  2040. 00:29:13,293 --> 00:29:16,504
  2041. But I remember her being
  2042. just like, "This is our house."
  2043.  
  2044. 451
  2045. 00:29:16,588 --> 00:29:18,089
  2046. - Yeah.
  2047. - Yeah.
  2048.  
  2049. 452
  2050. 00:29:19,257 --> 00:29:21,384
  2051. - It is our house.
  2052. - She didn't wanna go.
  2053.  
  2054. 453
  2055. 00:29:21,468 --> 00:29:24,095
  2056. Nope.
  2057.  
  2058. 454
  2059. 00:29:24,179 --> 00:29:26,181
  2060. But once she got there, I think--
  2061.  
  2062. 455
  2063. 00:29:26,264 --> 00:29:28,725
  2064. No, she was like, "Let's get out of here."
  2065.  
  2066. 456
  2067. 00:29:28,808 --> 00:29:31,603
  2068. - "Let's get out of here."
  2069. - She hated that place.
  2070.  
  2071. 457
  2072. 00:29:31,686 --> 00:29:34,397
  2073. - Oh, poor her.
  2074. - Ah...
  2075.  
  2076. 458
  2077. 00:29:35,523 --> 00:29:37,984
  2078. You can include this in...
  2079. in the movie.
  2080.  
  2081. 459
  2082. 00:29:38,067 --> 00:29:40,820
  2083. - Well...
  2084. - I don't know... Not very well.
  2085.  
  2086. 460
  2087. 00:29:48,953 --> 00:29:51,456
  2088. What's gonna happen
  2089. is that your feet
  2090.  
  2091. 461
  2092. 00:29:51,539 --> 00:29:53,958
  2093. are gonna be turned into feet with toes.
  2094.  
  2095. 462
  2096. 00:29:54,584 --> 00:29:55,794
  2097. Of... clothes?
  2098.  
  2099. 463
  2100. 00:29:55,877 --> 00:29:56,753
  2101. - With toes.
  2102. - Toes.
  2103.  
  2104. 464
  2105. 00:29:56,836 --> 00:29:58,463
  2106. Your feet are gonna be turned
  2107. into feet with toes.
  2108.  
  2109. 465
  2110. 00:29:58,546 --> 00:29:59,589
  2111. How are you gonna do that?
  2112.  
  2113. 466
  2114. 00:29:59,672 --> 00:30:02,759
  2115. Well, we're gonna do a close-up
  2116. on your real feet...
  2117.  
  2118. 467
  2119. 00:30:02,842 --> 00:30:05,386
  2120. and then we're gonna have
  2121. another person...
  2122.  
  2123. 468
  2124. 00:30:06,221 --> 00:30:09,682
  2125. We're gonna do, like, the gold cloth
  2126. in front of your feet,
  2127.  
  2128. 469
  2129. 00:30:09,766 --> 00:30:12,519
  2130. and then someone else's bare feet
  2131. are gonna be there.
  2132.  
  2133. 470
  2134. 00:30:12,602 --> 00:30:16,940
  2135. Yeah. Um, because you said
  2136. to me once that that was...
  2137.  
  2138. 471
  2139. 00:30:17,023 --> 00:30:19,984
  2140. If you could wish for anything,
  2141. that was the wish that--
  2142.  
  2143. 472
  2144. 00:30:20,068 --> 00:30:21,361
  2145. Really, I told you that?
  2146.  
  2147. 473
  2148. 00:30:21,444 --> 00:30:22,862
  2149. Yeah, I was kind of surprised.
  2150.  
  2151. 474
  2152. 00:30:22,946 --> 00:30:24,823
  2153. I thought you'd wish
  2154. for world peace or something.
  2155.  
  2156. 475
  2157. 00:30:28,535 --> 00:30:30,829
  2158. - I thought--
  2159. - I'd wish for Mom not to die.
  2160.  
  2161. 476
  2162. 00:30:30,912 --> 00:30:32,622
  2163. - That would be your wish?
  2164. - Mmm-hmm.
  2165.  
  2166. 477
  2167. 00:30:32,705 --> 00:30:34,165
  2168. Yeah. Yeah, I could see that.
  2169.  
  2170. 478
  2171. 00:30:35,083 --> 00:30:36,751
  2172. Yeah, I would wish for that, too.
  2173.  
  2174. 479
  2175. 00:32:23,066 --> 00:32:24,442
  2176. Wow. Look at this.
  2177.  
  2178. 480
  2179. 00:32:24,525 --> 00:32:25,735
  2180. What a mess.
  2181.  
  2182. 481
  2183. 00:32:26,861 --> 00:32:28,738
  2184. There's Mom up on top of the case.
  2185.  
  2186. 482
  2187. 00:32:28,821 --> 00:32:30,531
  2188. - Is she?
  2189. - Yeah, see, right up there?
  2190.  
  2191. 483
  2192. 00:32:31,324 --> 00:32:32,867
  2193. Who put her up there?
  2194.  
  2195. 484
  2196. 00:32:32,951 --> 00:32:35,703
  2197. I don't know.
  2198.  
  2199. 485
  2200. 00:32:35,787 --> 00:32:38,498
  2201. It must have been Kirk.
  2202.  
  2203. 486
  2204. 00:32:38,581 --> 00:32:41,417
  2205. Well, maybe we should
  2206. change our minds.
  2207.  
  2208. 487
  2209. 00:32:42,126 --> 00:32:44,337
  2210. Just stay here.
  2211. What do you think about that?
  2212.  
  2213. 488
  2214. 00:32:44,420 --> 00:32:47,548
  2215. I kind of feel the same way.
  2216.  
  2217. 489
  2218. 00:32:47,632 --> 00:32:50,093
  2219. - It's such a great house.
  2220. - Yeah, it is, isn't it?
  2221.  
  2222. 490
  2223. 00:32:50,176 --> 00:32:51,552
  2224. It's crazy to leave it.
  2225.  
  2226. 491
  2227. 00:32:53,054 --> 00:32:55,348
  2228. Yeah, well, the problem is,
  2229.  
  2230. 492
  2231. 00:32:55,431 --> 00:32:57,934
  2232. if you don't leave it,
  2233. I don't get close to you.
  2234.  
  2235. 493
  2236. 00:32:58,017 --> 00:32:59,143
  2237. - Yeah.
  2238. - Yeah.
  2239.  
  2240. 494
  2241. 00:32:59,227 --> 00:33:00,561
  2242. - That's it.
  2243. - That's it.
  2244.  
  2245. 495
  2246. 00:33:00,645 --> 00:33:04,941
  2247. So, I'd trade this house any day
  2248. for being with you.
  2249.  
  2250. 496
  2251. 00:33:05,024 --> 00:33:08,319
  2252. There's no question about that.
  2253.  
  2254. 497
  2255. 00:33:09,153 --> 00:33:11,656
  2256. - That's not even a consideration.
  2257. - Yeah.
  2258.  
  2259. 498
  2260. 00:33:12,156 --> 00:33:13,658
  2261. I feel the same way.
  2262.  
  2263. 499
  2264. 00:33:56,576 --> 00:33:58,327
  2265. Dad, guess what's coming.
  2266.  
  2267. 500
  2268. 00:33:58,411 --> 00:34:01,122
  2269. A-ha, excellent.
  2270.  
  2271. 501
  2272. 00:34:02,123 --> 00:34:03,541
  2273. - Thank you.
  2274. - You're welcome.
  2275.  
  2276. 502
  2277. 00:34:03,624 --> 00:34:05,793
  2278. - Isn't that good stuff?
  2279. - Yeah.
  2280.  
  2281. 503
  2282. 00:34:05,877 --> 00:34:07,587
  2283. Carl, thank you.
  2284. You're the best.
  2285.  
  2286. 504
  2287. 00:34:07,670 --> 00:34:08,880
  2288. Yeah. Thank you, Carl.
  2289.  
  2290. 505
  2291. 00:34:11,257 --> 00:34:13,843
  2292. - I think that's good.
  2293. - It's wonderful.
  2294.  
  2295. 506
  2296. 00:34:13,926 --> 00:34:16,054
  2297. Yeah, she looks
  2298. very happy there.
  2299.  
  2300. 507
  2301. 00:34:17,346 --> 00:34:19,474
  2302. You got me all this stuff here,
  2303.  
  2304. 508
  2305. 00:34:19,557 --> 00:34:23,102
  2306. it's gonna be hard to get rid of me.
  2307.  
  2308. 509
  2309. 00:34:23,186 --> 00:34:25,063
  2310. As much as I may be
  2311. trying to kill you off,
  2312.  
  2313. 510
  2314. 00:34:25,146 --> 00:34:27,148
  2315. I'm not trying to get rid of you.
  2316.  
  2317. 511
  2318. 00:34:27,231 --> 00:34:29,942
  2319. It's hard to believe.
  2320. That's all right, I'm a believer.
  2321.  
  2322. 512
  2323. 00:34:30,026 --> 00:34:31,819
  2324. - You're a believer.
  2325. - I'm a true believer.
  2326.  
  2327. 513
  2328. 00:34:31,903 --> 00:34:33,738
  2329. Yeah, good show, sweetie.
  2330.  
  2331. 514
  2332. 00:35:09,816 --> 00:35:11,234
  2333. You guys look great.
  2334.  
  2335. 515
  2336. 00:35:11,317 --> 00:35:13,736
  2337. Can I tell you
  2338. something? It looks...
  2339.  
  2340. 516
  2341. 00:35:13,820 --> 00:35:15,905
  2342. This is pretty cool.
  2343.  
  2344. 517
  2345. 00:35:19,534 --> 00:35:22,995
  2346. They said they wanted us to come
  2347. to their house...
  2348.  
  2349. 518
  2350. 00:35:23,079 --> 00:35:25,248
  2351. Want another one?
  2352. Oh, yeah, you guys.
  2353.  
  2354. 519
  2355. 00:35:25,331 --> 00:35:27,083
  2356. We're raising a glass to Forrest Vu.
  2357.  
  2358. 520
  2359. 00:35:27,166 --> 00:35:28,668
  2360. Cheers, cheers, cheers.
  2361.  
  2362. 521
  2363. 00:35:28,751 --> 00:35:31,045
  2364. - Did he die?
  2365. - No! Born!
  2366.  
  2367. 522
  2368. 00:35:31,129 --> 00:35:32,171
  2369. - Oh.
  2370. - She.
  2371.  
  2372. 523
  2373. 00:35:32,255 --> 00:35:34,465
  2374. She is born.
  2375. Viva, raise your glass.
  2376.  
  2377. 524
  2378. 00:35:34,549 --> 00:35:35,591
  2379. Is today a school day?
  2380.  
  2381. 525
  2382. 00:35:35,675 --> 00:35:37,718
  2383. It sure is. We're all going.
  2384.  
  2385. 526
  2386. 00:35:40,012 --> 00:35:44,725
  2387. Come on, guys. Let's do it.
  2388. Dad, you coming?
  2389.  
  2390. 527
  2391. 00:35:44,809 --> 00:35:47,937
  2392. - We're missing...
  2393. - We're missing one person.
  2394.  
  2395. 528
  2396. 00:35:48,020 --> 00:35:49,522
  2397. I know. He's coming.
  2398.  
  2399. 529
  2400. 00:35:52,150 --> 00:35:54,277
  2401. - You got my wallet?
  2402. - You don't need it.
  2403.  
  2404. 530
  2405. 00:35:55,027 --> 00:35:55,862
  2406. One.
  2407.  
  2408. 531
  2409. 00:35:58,531 --> 00:35:59,365
  2410. Two.
  2411.  
  2412. 532
  2413. 00:36:05,121 --> 00:36:07,582
  2414. - Where is my wallet?
  2415. - It's in the house.
  2416.  
  2417. 533
  2418. 00:36:08,207 --> 00:36:10,293
  2419. - Should I go get it?
  2420. - No, I got money.
  2421.  
  2422. 534
  2423. 00:36:10,376 --> 00:36:12,044
  2424. You don't need it.
  2425. We're not getting anything.
  2426.  
  2427. 535
  2428. 00:36:12,128 --> 00:36:13,087
  2429. All right.
  2430.  
  2431. 536
  2432. 00:36:14,046 --> 00:36:17,258
  2433. Nice. Nicely done.
  2434.  
  2435. 537
  2436. 00:36:17,341 --> 00:36:19,135
  2437. The car's here, guys.
  2438.  
  2439. 538
  2440. 00:36:20,011 --> 00:36:21,762
  2441. Watch out. Watch where you're going.
  2442.  
  2443. 539
  2444. 00:36:21,846 --> 00:36:24,682
  2445. You guys watching for bicycles?
  2446. Can you watch for me?
  2447.  
  2448. 540
  2449. 00:36:25,516 --> 00:36:27,560
  2450. Okay, all right.
  2451.  
  2452. 541
  2453. 00:36:29,312 --> 00:36:32,982
  2454. I'm gonna go down and get back,
  2455. and get my dad. I'll be back.
  2456.  
  2457. 542
  2458. 00:36:35,818 --> 00:36:37,361
  2459. Just watch the bikes, Dad.
  2460.  
  2461. 543
  2462. 00:36:58,466 --> 00:37:00,509
  2463. Classic.
  2464.  
  2465. 544
  2466. 00:37:00,593 --> 00:37:04,055
  2467. ♪ I'm Popeye the sailor man ♪
  2468.  
  2469. 545
  2470. 00:37:04,138 --> 00:37:07,225
  2471. ♪ I live in the garbage can ♪
  2472.  
  2473. 546
  2474. 00:37:07,308 --> 00:37:10,269
  2475. ♪ I love to go swimmin'
  2476. With bowlegged women ♪
  2477.  
  2478. 547
  2479. 00:37:10,353 --> 00:37:12,521
  2480. ♪ I'm Popeye the sailor man ♪
  2481.  
  2482. 548
  2483. 00:37:12,605 --> 00:37:16,067
  2484. Toot-toot.
  2485.  
  2486. 549
  2487. 00:37:16,150 --> 00:37:18,277
  2488. You gotta jump out, Felix.
  2489.  
  2490. 550
  2491. 00:37:19,153 --> 00:37:21,822
  2492. Have a good day, guys.
  2493.  
  2494. 551
  2495. 00:37:22,573 --> 00:37:24,825
  2496. Okay, you did it.
  2497.  
  2498. 552
  2499. 00:37:46,055 --> 00:37:49,684
  2500. So I... I have...
  2501. I really don't have any regrets.
  2502.  
  2503. 553
  2504. 00:37:49,767 --> 00:37:53,020
  2505. - Right.
  2506. - Everything's a trade-off.
  2507.  
  2508. 554
  2509. 00:37:54,772 --> 00:37:56,732
  2510. Do you feel like you had a...
  2511.  
  2512. 555
  2513. 00:37:56,816 --> 00:37:59,735
  2514. Ever had a fantasy of what you would do
  2515. with this period of your life?
  2516.  
  2517. 556
  2518. 00:37:59,819 --> 00:38:01,028
  2519. I don't think so.
  2520.  
  2521. 557
  2522. 00:38:01,112 --> 00:38:03,072
  2523. - You didn't even think about it.
  2524. - No, I didn't.
  2525.  
  2526. 558
  2527. 00:38:03,155 --> 00:38:04,282
  2528. You didn't think about the future.
  2529.  
  2530. 559
  2531. 00:38:04,365 --> 00:38:09,704
  2532. I'm pretty good about living
  2533. in the here and the now.
  2534.  
  2535. 560
  2536. 00:38:33,561 --> 00:38:35,271
  2537. I'm gonna be happy
  2538. with the windows down.
  2539.  
  2540. 561
  2541. 00:38:35,354 --> 00:38:38,149
  2542. I'm gonna figure out
  2543. what's rattling back here.
  2544.  
  2545. 562
  2546. 00:38:38,232 --> 00:38:39,900
  2547. Okay. Yeah, we're good.
  2548.  
  2549. 563
  2550. 00:38:39,984 --> 00:38:41,193
  2551. All right. I can't--
  2552.  
  2553. 564
  2554. 00:38:41,277 --> 00:38:44,071
  2555. I think we've got our
  2556. up and down the highway pretty good.
  2557.  
  2558. 565
  2559. 00:38:44,155 --> 00:38:45,031
  2560. Okay.
  2561.  
  2562. 566
  2563. 00:38:46,824 --> 00:38:48,617
  2564. We're gonna do
  2565. some memory testing.
  2566.  
  2567. 567
  2568. 00:38:48,701 --> 00:38:52,038
  2569. I'm gonna give you five words
  2570. to remember for me, okay? Ready?
  2571.  
  2572. 568
  2573. 00:38:52,705 --> 00:38:57,543
  2574. Face, velvet, church, daisy, and red.
  2575.  
  2576. 569
  2577. 00:38:57,626 --> 00:38:58,919
  2578. Can you repeat them?
  2579.  
  2580. 570
  2581. 00:38:59,712 --> 00:39:00,546
  2582. Face.
  2583.  
  2584. 571
  2585. 00:39:02,590 --> 00:39:03,507
  2586. Velvet.
  2587.  
  2588. 572
  2589. 00:39:05,593 --> 00:39:06,719
  2590. Red.
  2591.  
  2592. 573
  2593. 00:39:06,802 --> 00:39:08,137
  2594. And I for... I don't know.
  2595.  
  2596. 574
  2597. 00:39:08,220 --> 00:39:10,306
  2598. I'm gonna do them
  2599. one more time. Ready?
  2600.  
  2601. 575
  2602. 00:39:10,389 --> 00:39:15,102
  2603. Face, velvet, church, daisy, and red.
  2604.  
  2605. 576
  2606. 00:39:16,729 --> 00:39:22,651
  2607. Face, velvet, daisy, and red.
  2608.  
  2609. 577
  2610. 00:39:23,861 --> 00:39:24,695
  2611. Okay.
  2612.  
  2613. 578
  2614. 00:39:24,779 --> 00:39:28,866
  2615. If I tell you that a banana and an orange
  2616.  
  2617. 579
  2618. 00:39:28,949 --> 00:39:32,411
  2619. are the same because they're both fruit,
  2620.  
  2621. 580
  2622. 00:39:32,495 --> 00:39:36,040
  2623. how are a what...
  2624. How are a train and bicycle the same?
  2625.  
  2626. 581
  2627. 00:39:36,123 --> 00:39:37,708
  2628. They're means of transportation.
  2629.  
  2630. 582
  2631. 00:39:37,792 --> 00:39:39,543
  2632. Excellent.
  2633.  
  2634. 583
  2635. 00:39:39,627 --> 00:39:41,879
  2636. Remember those words
  2637. I asked you to remember?
  2638.  
  2639. 584
  2640. 00:39:47,510 --> 00:39:48,552
  2641. Hmm.
  2642.  
  2643. 585
  2644. 00:39:50,471 --> 00:39:52,056
  2645. Okay, one was a color.
  2646.  
  2647. 586
  2648. 00:39:57,561 --> 00:39:59,188
  2649. You remember any of them?
  2650.  
  2651. 587
  2652. 00:39:59,271 --> 00:40:01,023
  2653. One was a body part.
  2654.  
  2655. 588
  2656. 00:40:04,568 --> 00:40:06,362
  2657. - Face.
  2658. - Okay. Good.
  2659.  
  2660. 589
  2661. 00:40:12,785 --> 00:40:16,956
  2662. - Okay. So he scored 22 in 2017...
  2663. - Uh-huh.
  2664.  
  2665. 590
  2666. 00:40:17,039 --> 00:40:20,376
  2667. - ...he's scoring 19 now.
  2668. - Oh. I'm falling apart.
  2669.  
  2670. 591
  2671. 00:40:20,459 --> 00:40:23,170
  2672. Do you think
  2673. your memory is the same?
  2674.  
  2675. 592
  2676. 00:40:23,254 --> 00:40:25,381
  2677. - Oh, it's better.
  2678. - It's better than it was?
  2679.  
  2680. 593
  2681. 00:40:25,464 --> 00:40:28,175
  2682. I don't know,
  2683. it's probably the same.
  2684.  
  2685. 594
  2686. 00:40:28,926 --> 00:40:30,886
  2687. - Okay. Do--
  2688. - I don't think it's any worse.
  2689.  
  2690. 595
  2691. 00:40:30,970 --> 00:40:33,097
  2692. Okay. So that's why
  2693. we're gonna ask your daughter
  2694.  
  2695. 596
  2696. 00:40:33,180 --> 00:40:35,057
  2697. for some information, if that's okay.
  2698.  
  2699. 597
  2700. 00:40:35,141 --> 00:40:36,142
  2701. Well, okay.
  2702.  
  2703. 598
  2704. 00:40:36,225 --> 00:40:39,103
  2705. Okay, so do you think
  2706. his memory is changing?
  2707.  
  2708. 599
  2709. 00:40:39,186 --> 00:40:40,771
  2710. Yeah, you know, I...
  2711.  
  2712. 600
  2713. 00:40:41,772 --> 00:40:44,650
  2714. I was trying to think of something to say,
  2715.  
  2716. 601
  2717. 00:40:44,733 --> 00:40:47,236
  2718. but I couldn't stop thinking
  2719. about what's coming.
  2720.  
  2721. 602
  2722. 00:40:47,736 --> 00:40:50,406
  2723. His moments of forgetfulness
  2724. are going to spread.
  2725.  
  2726. 603
  2727. 00:40:51,323 --> 00:40:54,535
  2728. He'll ask the same questions
  2729. over and over again.
  2730.  
  2731. 604
  2732. 00:40:54,618 --> 00:40:56,537
  2733. His eyes will get that distant look.
  2734.  
  2735. 605
  2736. 00:40:57,580 --> 00:40:59,748
  2737. And his personality
  2738. will begin to fade away.
  2739.  
  2740. 606
  2741. 00:41:01,208 --> 00:41:03,544
  2742. And he won't be able to follow
  2743. what I'm saying,
  2744.  
  2745. 607
  2746. 00:41:03,627 --> 00:41:05,963
  2747. so I won't be able to ask him
  2748. any more advice.
  2749.  
  2750. 608
  2751. 00:41:07,298 --> 00:41:09,800
  2752. And the whole time,
  2753. we'll just be trying to get by.
  2754.  
  2755. 609
  2756. 00:41:10,885 --> 00:41:12,845
  2757. Sound speed.
  2758.  
  2759. 610
  2760. 00:41:12,928 --> 00:41:16,140
  2761. - Cue me when you want me to walk.
  2762. - Take four, B marker.
  2763.  
  2764. 611
  2765. 00:41:17,183 --> 00:41:20,186
  2766. Okay, are you good?
  2767. All right, so, Dad, we can start walking.
  2768.  
  2769. 612
  2770. 00:41:20,269 --> 00:41:22,104
  2771. Let's start walking,
  2772. just start walking to me,
  2773.  
  2774. 613
  2775. 00:41:22,188 --> 00:41:24,607
  2776. you're doing a great speed.
  2777. That's fantastic.
  2778.  
  2779. 614
  2780. 00:41:24,690 --> 00:41:25,900
  2781. Just keep on walking.
  2782.  
  2783. 615
  2784. 00:41:25,983 --> 00:41:28,152
  2785. Watch your step here 'cause it's bumpy.
  2786.  
  2787. 616
  2788. 00:41:28,235 --> 00:41:29,737
  2789. Just... be careful,
  2790.  
  2791. 617
  2792. 00:41:29,820 --> 00:41:31,280
  2793. - you're doing great.
  2794. - Eight feet.
  2795.  
  2796. 618
  2797. 00:41:31,363 --> 00:41:34,074
  2798. Okay, so, Dad,
  2799. just watch your step, and Jake...
  2800.  
  2801. 619
  2802. 00:41:34,158 --> 00:41:36,785
  2803. Down.
  2804.  
  2805. 620
  2806. 00:41:36,869 --> 00:41:38,621
  2807. Okay, uh...
  2808.  
  2809. 621
  2810. 00:41:38,704 --> 00:41:41,874
  2811. Okay, three, two, one, drop.
  2812.  
  2813. 622
  2814. 00:41:41,957 --> 00:41:43,417
  2815. Oh, no, that's me.
  2816.  
  2817. 623
  2818. 00:41:44,543 --> 00:41:45,419
  2819. Oh.
  2820.  
  2821. 624
  2822. 00:41:46,378 --> 00:41:50,007
  2823. Oh, it hurts so bad.
  2824.  
  2825. 625
  2826. 00:41:51,759 --> 00:41:54,887
  2827. Oh, you made that poor guy fall
  2828. instead of me.
  2829.  
  2830. 626
  2831. 00:41:54,970 --> 00:41:57,139
  2832. By the way, that's all...
  2833.  
  2834. 627
  2835. 00:41:59,767 --> 00:42:02,269
  2836. They're wearing you out.
  2837.  
  2838. 628
  2839. 00:42:02,353 --> 00:42:03,771
  2840. They're wearing you out. I get scared.
  2841.  
  2842. 629
  2843. 00:42:03,854 --> 00:42:05,648
  2844. Did you get me good on the sound?
  2845.  
  2846. 630
  2847. 00:42:05,731 --> 00:42:06,857
  2848. - Yeah, I heard that.
  2849. - Was it--
  2850.  
  2851. 631
  2852. 00:42:06,941 --> 00:42:09,693
  2853. Kirsten has a mic,
  2854. so even though I was far away,
  2855.  
  2856. 632
  2857. 00:42:09,777 --> 00:42:11,987
  2858. - I heard it on Kirsten's mic.
  2859. - Yeah.
  2860.  
  2861. 633
  2862. 00:42:12,071 --> 00:42:14,281
  2863. Yeah. And I get scared each time,
  2864.  
  2865. 634
  2866. 00:42:14,365 --> 00:42:16,784
  2867. - 'cause I see this red jacket falling...
  2868. - Oh, yeah.
  2869.  
  2870. 635
  2871. 00:42:16,867 --> 00:42:18,827
  2872. - ...and I think it's you.
  2873. - It is me.
  2874.  
  2875. 636
  2876. 00:42:18,911 --> 00:42:20,871
  2877. It's only you once.
  2878.  
  2879. 637
  2880. 00:42:20,955 --> 00:42:24,041
  2881. - That was enough to make my heart flutter.
  2882. - Oh, thank you.
  2883.  
  2884. 638
  2885. 00:43:01,287 --> 00:43:03,664
  2886. - Go up to the door and ring?
  2887. - Yeah.
  2888.  
  2889. 639
  2890. 00:43:03,747 --> 00:43:05,833
  2891. - Is anybody there?
  2892. - Yep. Try it.
  2893.  
  2894. 640
  2895. 00:43:05,916 --> 00:43:07,376
  2896. All right. Here goes.
  2897.  
  2898. 641
  2899. 00:43:17,386 --> 00:43:18,929
  2900. I don't think anybody's there.
  2901.  
  2902. 642
  2903. 00:43:22,933 --> 00:43:24,727
  2904. How do you do?
  2905.  
  2906. 643
  2907. 00:43:24,810 --> 00:43:26,687
  2908. This is Lolita?
  2909.  
  2910. 644
  2911. 00:43:26,770 --> 00:43:29,732
  2912. - Oh.
  2913. - Oh.
  2914.  
  2915. 645
  2916. 00:43:31,942 --> 00:43:33,402
  2917. Oh, it's so good to see you.
  2918.  
  2919. 646
  2920. 00:43:33,485 --> 00:43:35,988
  2921. You look just the same.
  2922.  
  2923. 647
  2924. 00:43:36,071 --> 00:43:39,283
  2925. Uh... you haven't changed
  2926. a bit either.
  2927.  
  2928. 648
  2929. 00:43:39,366 --> 00:43:40,909
  2930. I would know you anywhere.
  2931.  
  2932. 649
  2933. 00:43:40,993 --> 00:43:44,330
  2934. And let's make an agreement
  2935. that neither of us ever will.
  2936.  
  2937. 650
  2938. 00:43:44,413 --> 00:43:45,247
  2939. Oh, okay.
  2940.  
  2941. 651
  2942. 00:43:45,331 --> 00:43:48,000
  2943. - We'll just always be the same.
  2944. - Excellent.
  2945.  
  2946. 652
  2947. 00:43:48,083 --> 00:43:49,543
  2948. Come on in.
  2949.  
  2950. 653
  2951. 00:43:49,627 --> 00:43:51,128
  2952. Thanks.
  2953.  
  2954. 654
  2955. 00:43:51,211 --> 00:43:53,547
  2956. Not many people
  2957. go back as far as we do.
  2958.  
  2959. 655
  2960. 00:43:53,631 --> 00:43:55,549
  2961. - Nope.
  2962. - And we meet each other
  2963.  
  2964. 656
  2965. 00:43:55,633 --> 00:43:57,801
  2966. - and we pick up where we left off.
  2967. - That's right.
  2968.  
  2969. 657
  2970. 00:43:59,970 --> 00:44:03,265
  2971. You're the best.
  2972.  
  2973. 658
  2974. 00:44:03,974 --> 00:44:09,355
  2975. I blame his constant
  2976. association with formaldehyde.
  2977.  
  2978. 659
  2979. 00:44:09,438 --> 00:44:12,650
  2980. - Such a potent poison.
  2981. - He was a pathologist, wasn't he?
  2982.  
  2983. 660
  2984. 00:44:12,733 --> 00:44:15,235
  2985. - In every sense of the word.
  2986. - Yeah.
  2987.  
  2988. 661
  2989. 00:44:15,319 --> 00:44:19,782
  2990. He told me that when he goes
  2991. into the morgue
  2992.  
  2993. 662
  2994. 00:44:19,865 --> 00:44:25,162
  2995. and he sees all these tables
  2996. with a body on it,
  2997.  
  2998. 663
  2999. 00:44:25,245 --> 00:44:27,414
  3000. he just felt a thrill go through him.
  3001.  
  3002. 664
  3003. 00:44:27,498 --> 00:44:32,086
  3004. And he said, "That's all a mystery..."
  3005.  
  3006. 665
  3007. 00:44:32,169 --> 00:44:33,921
  3008. - Yeah.
  3009. - "...and I'm the only one
  3010.  
  3011. 666
  3012. 00:44:34,004 --> 00:44:35,547
  3013. - That can figure it out."
  3014. - That can solve it.
  3015.  
  3016. 667
  3017. 00:44:35,631 --> 00:44:39,385
  3018. I thought, well, cheap thrill,
  3019. you're welcome to it.
  3020.  
  3021. 668
  3022. 00:44:39,468 --> 00:44:42,680
  3023. Leave me out of it.
  3024.  
  3025. 669
  3026. 00:44:44,264 --> 00:44:47,184
  3027. Did it change your
  3028. relationship to death, Lolita,
  3029.  
  3030. 670
  3031. 00:44:47,267 --> 00:44:50,854
  3032. being with a pathologist so long?
  3033. Did you think differently about death?
  3034.  
  3035. 671
  3036. 00:44:53,148 --> 00:44:58,153
  3037. Well... I don't know.
  3038. I suppose, a little bit, but...
  3039.  
  3040. 672
  3041. 00:45:02,157 --> 00:45:03,826
  3042. It's just inevitable...
  3043.  
  3044. 673
  3045. 00:45:05,786 --> 00:45:09,123
  3046. - and a part of who we all are.
  3047. - Yeah.
  3048.  
  3049. 674
  3050. 00:45:09,206 --> 00:45:11,750
  3051. Are you still a believer?
  3052. Do you go to church?
  3053.  
  3054. 675
  3055. 00:45:11,834 --> 00:45:15,295
  3056. - What's your relationship to all that?
  3057. - Oh, I'm definitely a believer.
  3058.  
  3059. 676
  3060. 00:45:15,379 --> 00:45:18,424
  3061. - Mmm-hmm.
  3062. - I don't worry about it.
  3063.  
  3064. 677
  3065. 00:45:18,507 --> 00:45:22,428
  3066. The Bible says that people will be
  3067. resurrected, that's good enough for me.
  3068.  
  3069. 678
  3070. 00:45:22,511 --> 00:45:24,346
  3071. Uh-huh.
  3072.  
  3073. 679
  3074. 00:45:24,430 --> 00:45:25,806
  3075. You're not worried
  3076. about the details.
  3077.  
  3078. 680
  3079. 00:45:25,889 --> 00:45:28,350
  3080. Nah.
  3081.  
  3082. 681
  3083. 00:45:29,893 --> 00:45:33,272
  3084. Those are pretty clothes, but you would
  3085. have been prettier without them.
  3086.  
  3087. 682
  3088. 00:45:33,355 --> 00:45:37,025
  3089. You don't know all the sagging
  3090. that's been going on.
  3091.  
  3092. 683
  3093. 00:45:37,109 --> 00:45:40,028
  3094. Oh. Of course I know. Of course I know.
  3095.  
  3096. 684
  3097. 00:45:40,112 --> 00:45:43,740
  3098. You know, wrinkles make twice
  3099. as much surface area, really.
  3100.  
  3101. 685
  3102. 00:45:43,824 --> 00:45:47,035
  3103. - Oh, yes.
  3104. - Really, it's improved by the wrinkles.
  3105.  
  3106. 686
  3107. 00:45:47,119 --> 00:45:50,122
  3108. - You don't really have many...
  3109. - I need some.
  3110.  
  3111. 687
  3112. 00:45:50,205 --> 00:45:51,999
  3113. - I need some. Yeah.
  3114. - Yes. Yes.
  3115.  
  3116. 688
  3117. 00:46:22,154 --> 00:46:24,865
  3118. That's looking good, guys.
  3119.  
  3120. 689
  3121. 00:46:44,468 --> 00:46:47,262
  3122. Wake up. It's time to get up.
  3123.  
  3124. 690
  3125. 00:46:47,346 --> 00:46:49,348
  3126. He's heavy.
  3127.  
  3128. 691
  3129. 00:46:49,431 --> 00:46:52,017
  3130. Oh, my gosh, Grandpa.
  3131.  
  3132. 692
  3133. 00:46:53,435 --> 00:46:54,561
  3134. Hello.
  3135.  
  3136. 693
  3137. 00:46:54,645 --> 00:46:57,606
  3138. Wake up or I'm gonna pull
  3139. your pants off.
  3140.  
  3141. 694
  3142. 00:46:57,689 --> 00:47:00,275
  3143. Ahh!
  3144.  
  3145. 695
  3146. 00:47:28,095 --> 00:47:29,763
  3147. I don't think
  3148. I warrant all this attention.
  3149.  
  3150. 696
  3151. 00:47:29,846 --> 00:47:32,474
  3152. I know.
  3153. I don't know how this is happening,
  3154.  
  3155. 697
  3156. 00:47:32,558 --> 00:47:35,269
  3157. but we're getting paid to do this, so...
  3158.  
  3159. 698
  3160. 00:47:35,352 --> 00:47:36,853
  3161. - Really?
  3162. - Yep.
  3163.  
  3164. 699
  3165. 00:47:37,354 --> 00:47:38,188
  3166. Hmm.
  3167.  
  3168. 700
  3169. 00:47:40,148 --> 00:47:41,608
  3170. I'm not getting paid, am I?
  3171.  
  3172. 701
  3173. 00:47:41,692 --> 00:47:45,487
  3174. No.
  3175.  
  3176. 702
  3177. 00:47:51,535 --> 00:47:53,745
  3178. Well, why do you become a documentarian?
  3179.  
  3180. 703
  3181. 00:47:54,913 --> 00:47:57,916
  3182. Why not just make fiction films,
  3183. where the big bucks are?
  3184.  
  3185. 704
  3186. 00:48:02,004 --> 00:48:03,630
  3187. Well, real life
  3188.  
  3189. 705
  3190. 00:48:03,714 --> 00:48:08,510
  3191. is often much more fascinating
  3192. than what you can make up.
  3193.  
  3194. 706
  3195. 00:48:08,594 --> 00:48:10,345
  3196. Mmm. Mmm-hmm.
  3197.  
  3198. 707
  3199. 00:48:17,769 --> 00:48:20,564
  3200. So, you're paid for the adventure-making.
  3201.  
  3202. 708
  3203. 00:48:20,647 --> 00:48:22,608
  3204. Mmm-hmm. Exactly.
  3205.  
  3206. 709
  3207. 00:48:33,952 --> 00:48:36,204
  3208. Do you remember when your mom
  3209. came to live with us?
  3210.  
  3211. 710
  3212. 00:48:36,705 --> 00:48:37,581
  3213. Mmm-mmm.
  3214.  
  3215. 711
  3216. 00:48:37,664 --> 00:48:40,417
  3217. Remember she got senile
  3218. and she lived with us?
  3219.  
  3220. 712
  3221. 00:48:40,500 --> 00:48:42,628
  3222. - At Bozarts?
  3223. - Where were you living?
  3224.  
  3225. 713
  3226. 00:48:42,711 --> 00:48:44,046
  3227. No, I was there.
  3228.  
  3229. 714
  3230. 00:48:44,129 --> 00:48:46,798
  3231. You were there. Oh, yeah.
  3232. Yeah, when you were a child.
  3233.  
  3234. 715
  3235. 00:48:46,882 --> 00:48:49,176
  3236. - Yeah, exactly.
  3237. - Right, I remember that.
  3238.  
  3239. 716
  3240. 00:48:53,347 --> 00:48:55,891
  3241. And now you're recreating history.
  3242.  
  3243. 717
  3244. 00:48:55,974 --> 00:49:00,729
  3245. Yeah, our history's...
  3246. history's bending back on itself.
  3247.  
  3248. 718
  3249. 00:49:05,984 --> 00:49:09,154
  3250. What do you remember about that time
  3251. with your mo... Grandma?
  3252.  
  3253. 719
  3254. 00:49:09,237 --> 00:49:12,449
  3255. With Grandma?
  3256. What I remember is that, um,
  3257.  
  3258. 720
  3259. 00:49:12,532 --> 00:49:14,951
  3260. we always wanted her to make that, um...
  3261.  
  3262. 721
  3263. 00:49:16,203 --> 00:49:19,414
  3264. either the coconut cream pie
  3265. or the chocolate cream pie,
  3266.  
  3267. 722
  3268. 00:49:19,498 --> 00:49:21,333
  3269. - and she kept making--
  3270. - It was coconut cream.
  3271.  
  3272. 723
  3273. 00:49:21,416 --> 00:49:23,001
  3274. Yeah, we wanted
  3275. the coconut cream pie,
  3276.  
  3277. 724
  3278. 00:49:23,085 --> 00:49:25,295
  3279. and she kept making the banana cream pie.
  3280.  
  3281. 725
  3282. 00:49:25,379 --> 00:49:28,048
  3283. - Mmm-hmm.
  3284. - And it would just be so disappointing.
  3285.  
  3286. 726
  3287. 00:49:33,637 --> 00:49:35,347
  3288. Chocolate ice cream.
  3289.  
  3290. 727
  3291. 00:49:37,432 --> 00:49:38,266
  3292. Nice.
  3293.  
  3294. 728
  3295. 00:49:39,017 --> 00:49:41,436
  3296. So nice.
  3297.  
  3298. 729
  3299. 00:49:47,317 --> 00:49:48,527
  3300. Life is good.
  3301.  
  3302. 730
  3303. 00:50:22,352 --> 00:50:24,396
  3304. Ooh, bummer.
  3305. You missed the house, Dad.
  3306.  
  3307. 731
  3308. 00:50:24,479 --> 00:50:25,981
  3309. - I missed the house.
  3310. - Yeah.
  3311.  
  3312. 732
  3313. 00:50:26,064 --> 00:50:28,150
  3314. - Is this the house?
  3315. - Yeah.
  3316.  
  3317. 733
  3318. 00:50:28,233 --> 00:50:30,402
  3319. - With the wolf on it?
  3320. - Yeah.
  3321.  
  3322. 734
  3323. 00:50:30,986 --> 00:50:32,195
  3324. That was it.
  3325.  
  3326. 735
  3327. 00:50:32,279 --> 00:50:34,322
  3328. It's the house, all right.
  3329.  
  3330. 736
  3331. 00:50:34,406 --> 00:50:37,117
  3332. Now, the question is,
  3333. do you know which room you live in?
  3334.  
  3335. 737
  3336. 00:50:37,200 --> 00:50:38,910
  3337. - Yeah.
  3338. - Where do you live?
  3339.  
  3340. 738
  3341. 00:50:38,994 --> 00:50:41,246
  3342. - Right in this room here.
  3343. - Nicely done.
  3344.  
  3345. 739
  3346. 00:50:44,541 --> 00:50:46,793
  3347. - You mind if I sit down?
  3348. - No. Are you tired?
  3349.  
  3350. 740
  3351. 00:50:46,877 --> 00:50:48,003
  3352. Would you like this...
  3353.  
  3354. 741
  3355. 00:50:48,086 --> 00:50:50,922
  3356. No, leave it in,
  3357. leave it in. Thank you.
  3358.  
  3359. 742
  3360. 00:50:51,006 --> 00:50:52,174
  3361. I'm gonna sit down.
  3362.  
  3363. 743
  3364. 00:50:53,508 --> 00:50:57,012
  3365. Ah, how sweet it is. Yes, indeed.
  3366.  
  3367. 744
  3368. 00:50:57,721 --> 00:50:58,764
  3369. You tired?
  3370.  
  3371. 745
  3372. 00:50:58,847 --> 00:51:02,601
  3373. Am I tired?
  3374. My feet are like concrete blocks.
  3375.  
  3376. 746
  3377. 00:51:46,603 --> 00:51:50,690
  3378. I don't really notice
  3379. a big problem with my memory.
  3380.  
  3381. 747
  3382. 00:51:50,774 --> 00:51:55,695
  3383. I think it's more apparent
  3384. to people around me than it is to me.
  3385.  
  3386. 748
  3387. 00:51:55,779 --> 00:51:59,074
  3388. You do experience worry
  3389. that you'll be a burden.
  3390.  
  3391. 749
  3392. 00:52:00,659 --> 00:52:01,618
  3393. Yeah.
  3394.  
  3395. 750
  3396. 00:52:02,118 --> 00:52:04,579
  3397. What does that mean to you?
  3398.  
  3399. 751
  3400. 00:52:09,209 --> 00:52:13,088
  3401. Nothing much more than, uh, it says.
  3402. I, you know...
  3403.  
  3404. 752
  3405. 00:52:13,171 --> 00:52:17,592
  3406. You know, if I... I... I sort of...
  3407.  
  3408. 753
  3409. 00:52:17,676 --> 00:52:21,721
  3410. I'm living with you now, and, uh...
  3411.  
  3412. 754
  3413. 00:52:23,431 --> 00:52:27,143
  3414. I... For you,
  3415. it might get worse, you know?
  3416.  
  3417. 755
  3418. 00:52:27,686 --> 00:52:30,647
  3419. You might have to take care
  3420. of me more than you do now.
  3421.  
  3422. 756
  3423. 00:52:31,314 --> 00:52:35,527
  3424. But, uh, I like living with you,
  3425. so I'm not terribly worried about it.
  3426.  
  3427. 757
  3428. 00:52:37,237 --> 00:52:40,991
  3429. Do you have any... I mean,
  3430. there are some people who feel like,
  3431.  
  3432. 758
  3433. 00:52:41,074 --> 00:52:44,119
  3434. if it gets worse
  3435. to a certain place, I don't want to live.
  3436.  
  3437. 759
  3438. 00:52:44,744 --> 00:52:47,122
  3439. No, I love life too much for that.
  3440.  
  3441. 760
  3442. 00:52:48,290 --> 00:52:51,418
  3443. So you would be interested
  3444. in living to the state
  3445.  
  3446. 761
  3447. 00:52:51,501 --> 00:52:54,588
  3448. that Mom was in
  3449. where she couldn't communicate?
  3450.  
  3451. 762
  3452. 00:52:54,671 --> 00:52:58,383
  3453. Yeah, I think so.
  3454. But I give you permission to euthanize me.
  3455.  
  3456. 763
  3457. 00:53:00,510 --> 00:53:02,762
  3458. At what point do I have
  3459. permission to do that?
  3460.  
  3461. 764
  3462. 00:53:02,846 --> 00:53:06,016
  3463. Well... pass it by me before you do it.
  3464.  
  3465. 765
  3466. 00:53:53,521 --> 00:53:55,315
  3467. Hey, buddy, you want a coffee?
  3468.  
  3469. 766
  3470. 00:53:55,398 --> 00:53:57,400
  3471. No. What I really want is a beer.
  3472.  
  3473. 767
  3474. 00:54:05,992 --> 00:54:08,411
  3475. I'm bleeding!
  3476.  
  3477. 768
  3478. 00:54:10,914 --> 00:54:12,540
  3479. No, I'm bleeding to death.
  3480.  
  3481. 769
  3482. 00:54:13,416 --> 00:54:14,751
  3483. I'm dying.
  3484.  
  3485. 770
  3486. 00:54:32,978 --> 00:54:35,981
  3487. So this is what I'm gonna stick
  3488. to your neck,
  3489.  
  3490. 771
  3491. 00:54:36,064 --> 00:54:38,441
  3492. and this is where the blood
  3493. will actually come out of.
  3494.  
  3495. 772
  3496. 00:54:38,525 --> 00:54:41,319
  3497. This is going to go along here,
  3498.  
  3499. 773
  3500. 00:54:42,195 --> 00:54:43,488
  3501. and then all of this is gonna go
  3502.  
  3503. 774
  3504. 00:54:43,571 --> 00:54:45,657
  3505. - back down through your wardrobe.
  3506. - Down here.
  3507.  
  3508. 775
  3509. 00:54:45,740 --> 00:54:49,494
  3510. Then I pump the blood through there,
  3511. which forces it to shoot right out.
  3512.  
  3513. 776
  3514. 00:54:49,577 --> 00:54:50,578
  3515. Where are you getting the blood?
  3516.  
  3517. 777
  3518. 00:54:50,662 --> 00:54:53,206
  3519. - Right here.
  3520. - Right here. From the makeup store.
  3521.  
  3522. 778
  3523. 00:54:53,289 --> 00:54:54,541
  3524. - Not from you...
  3525. - It's the makeup store.
  3526.  
  3527. 779
  3528. 00:54:54,624 --> 00:54:55,583
  3529. That's my real blood?
  3530.  
  3531. 780
  3532. 00:54:55,667 --> 00:54:59,462
  3533. - No. We would never do that.
  3534. - No, no, no. Never.
  3535.  
  3536. 781
  3537. 00:54:59,546 --> 00:55:02,048
  3538. Oh, I thought you just explained
  3539. to me how you did it.
  3540.  
  3541. 782
  3542. 00:55:02,132 --> 00:55:04,300
  3543. No, it's all fake.
  3544. With fake blood.
  3545.  
  3546. 783
  3547. 00:55:04,384 --> 00:55:07,095
  3548. - It's like paint.
  3549. - Oh, that's a relief.
  3550.  
  3551. 784
  3552. 00:55:07,178 --> 00:55:08,471
  3553. Yeah.
  3554.  
  3555. 785
  3556. 00:55:08,555 --> 00:55:09,639
  3557. I thought you were talking...
  3558.  
  3559. 786
  3560. 00:55:09,723 --> 00:55:11,599
  3561. - Gotta do a transfusion.
  3562. - ...about my blood.
  3563.  
  3564. 787
  3565. 00:55:11,683 --> 00:55:14,185
  3566. - No, they don't want your blood.
  3567. - Good.
  3568.  
  3569. 788
  3570. 00:55:14,269 --> 00:55:16,312
  3571. I like my blood,
  3572. I've grown accustomed to its--
  3573.  
  3574. 789
  3575. 00:55:16,396 --> 00:55:19,107
  3576. - You can hang on to all of your blood.
  3577. - Good.
  3578.  
  3579. 790
  3580. 00:55:19,190 --> 00:55:20,650
  3581. Not a drop of your blood
  3582. will be spilled on this plan.
  3583.  
  3584. 791
  3585. 00:55:20,734 --> 00:55:22,068
  3586. Excellent. Very good.
  3587.  
  3588. 792
  3589. 00:55:22,152 --> 00:55:23,486
  3590. So you feel comfortable with it?
  3591.  
  3592. 793
  3593. 00:55:23,570 --> 00:55:25,363
  3594. - I'm comfortable with that.
  3595. - Great.
  3596.  
  3597. 794
  3598. 00:55:25,447 --> 00:55:28,908
  3599. I would say just keep saying
  3600. the words "fake blood."
  3601.  
  3602. 795
  3603. 00:55:28,992 --> 00:55:31,244
  3604. Let's all only use the word "fake blood."
  3605.  
  3606. 796
  3607. 00:55:31,327 --> 00:55:32,912
  3608. - Yes.
  3609. - That's the way to do it.
  3610.  
  3611. 797
  3612. 00:55:32,996 --> 00:55:35,707
  3613. I'd say
  3614. stick with the fake blood...
  3615.  
  3616. 798
  3617. 00:55:35,790 --> 00:55:37,292
  3618. - You got it.
  3619. - ...and you're in good shape.
  3620.  
  3621. 799
  3622. 00:56:09,866 --> 00:56:13,203
  3623. Dad once told me that when
  3624. he first fell in love with Mom,
  3625.  
  3626. 800
  3627. 00:56:13,286 --> 00:56:15,663
  3628. he doubted that someone
  3629. as extraordinary as her
  3630.  
  3631. 801
  3632. 00:56:15,747 --> 00:56:17,207
  3633. would ever accept him.
  3634.  
  3635. 802
  3636. 00:56:18,500 --> 00:56:22,337
  3637. He felt so much shame
  3638. about the strangeness of his feet,
  3639.  
  3640. 803
  3641. 00:56:22,420 --> 00:56:24,589
  3642. and he didn't want
  3643. to reveal them to anyone.
  3644.  
  3645. 804
  3646. 00:56:26,549 --> 00:56:29,052
  3647. But then he learned
  3648. about the grief she was hiding.
  3649.  
  3650. 805
  3651. 00:56:30,386 --> 00:56:35,266
  3652. On the day of her graduation from college,
  3653. a drunk driver crashed into her car,
  3654.  
  3655. 806
  3656. 00:56:35,892 --> 00:56:41,189
  3657. killing her mother, who was riding
  3658. alongside her in the passenger seat.
  3659.  
  3660. 807
  3661. 00:56:45,401 --> 00:56:47,153
  3662. My mom was a visual person.
  3663.  
  3664. 808
  3665. 00:56:48,071 --> 00:56:50,657
  3666. She photographed flowers and landscapes.
  3667.  
  3668. 809
  3669. 00:56:50,740 --> 00:56:53,493
  3670. She and I shared a love
  3671. of the color orange.
  3672.  
  3673. 810
  3674. 00:56:55,370 --> 00:56:58,873
  3675. But when I think of that moment,
  3676. when she looked over
  3677.  
  3678. 811
  3679. 00:56:58,957 --> 00:57:03,920
  3680. and saw her beloved mother
  3681. suddenly dead right next to her,
  3682.  
  3683. 812
  3684. 00:57:05,255 --> 00:57:07,674
  3685. I feel like I could now finally understand
  3686.  
  3687. 813
  3688. 00:57:08,466 --> 00:57:12,679
  3689. why she wanted to forever turn away
  3690. from things that were difficult to see.
  3691.  
  3692. 814
  3693. 00:57:19,310 --> 00:57:22,689
  3694. It would be so easy if loving
  3695. only gave us the beautiful.
  3696.  
  3697. 815
  3698. 00:57:24,232 --> 00:57:28,027
  3699. But what loving demands is that we face
  3700. the fear of losing each other.
  3701.  
  3702. 816
  3703. 00:57:29,446 --> 00:57:32,740
  3704. That when it gets messy,
  3705. we hold each other close.
  3706.  
  3707. 817
  3708. 00:57:35,118 --> 00:57:40,165
  3709. And when we can, we defiantly celebrate
  3710. our brief moments of joy.
  3711.  
  3712. 818
  3713. 00:59:07,669 --> 00:59:09,379
  3714. This is worse than my heart attack.
  3715.  
  3716. 819
  3717. 00:59:09,462 --> 00:59:11,172
  3718. - Really? Scarier?
  3719. - Yeah.
  3720.  
  3721. 820
  3722. 00:59:11,256 --> 00:59:14,926
  3723. Much worse. I mean, much more unpleasant.
  3724. Much more painful.
  3725.  
  3726. 821
  3727. 00:59:15,009 --> 00:59:15,843
  3728. - Really?
  3729. - Yeah.
  3730.  
  3731. 822
  3732. 00:59:15,927 --> 00:59:18,680
  3733. - What's painful?
  3734. - The wet and cold.
  3735.  
  3736. 823
  3737. 00:59:18,763 --> 00:59:19,597
  3738. Yeah.
  3739.  
  3740. 824
  3741. 00:59:21,975 --> 00:59:23,059
  3742. I think we gotta stop.
  3743.  
  3744. 825
  3745. 00:59:42,829 --> 00:59:46,666
  3746. I'm so glad,
  3747. the blood, it's good, right?
  3748.  
  3749. 826
  3750. 00:59:46,749 --> 00:59:50,587
  3751. - Totally.
  3752. - Otherwise, I think, "What's going on?"
  3753.  
  3754. 827
  3755. 00:59:54,632 --> 00:59:56,634
  3756. Uh, well...
  3757.  
  3758. 828
  3759. 00:59:57,635 --> 01:00:01,472
  3760. - maybe ten different people...
  3761. - Ten different people?
  3762.  
  3763. 829
  3764. 01:00:01,556 --> 01:00:06,686
  3765. ...from the last 30 years
  3766. I've been here in New York.
  3767.  
  3768. 830
  3769. 01:00:07,812 --> 01:00:10,231
  3770. - You've taken care--
  3771. - I have experience
  3772.  
  3773. 831
  3774. 01:00:10,732 --> 01:00:14,777
  3775. with different kind cancer patients.
  3776.  
  3777. 832
  3778. 01:00:16,195 --> 01:00:19,490
  3779. Paranoia. Stroke patients.
  3780.  
  3781. 833
  3782. 01:00:21,784 --> 01:00:23,786
  3783. I can take this. Thank you.
  3784.  
  3785. 834
  3786. 01:00:23,870 --> 01:00:25,788
  3787. Thank you. Sorry to interrupt.
  3788.  
  3789. 835
  3790. 01:00:25,872 --> 01:00:28,833
  3791. You're not interrupting, Dad.
  3792. We're talking about...
  3793.  
  3794. 836
  3795. 01:00:28,916 --> 01:00:31,669
  3796. We're just talking
  3797. about how much Marta knows about...
  3798.  
  3799. 837
  3800. 01:00:32,712 --> 01:00:35,298
  3801. about what people go through
  3802. at the end of their lives.
  3803.  
  3804. 838
  3805. 01:00:35,381 --> 01:00:36,591
  3806. - Yeah.
  3807. - Yeah.
  3808.  
  3809. 839
  3810. 01:00:36,674 --> 01:00:39,677
  3811. She's saying she's accompanied
  3812. ten different people.
  3813.  
  3814. 840
  3815. 01:00:39,761 --> 01:00:40,845
  3816. - Wow.
  3817. - Yeah.
  3818.  
  3819. 841
  3820. 01:00:40,928 --> 01:00:42,513
  3821. And now there's 11.
  3822.  
  3823. 842
  3824. 01:00:42,597 --> 01:00:45,975
  3825. And I know the families, and...
  3826.  
  3827. 843
  3828. 01:00:46,059 --> 01:00:47,727
  3829. - Yeah.
  3830. - Mmm-hmm.
  3831.  
  3832. 844
  3833. 01:00:47,810 --> 01:00:49,479
  3834. Everybody's different.
  3835.  
  3836. 845
  3837. 01:00:49,562 --> 01:00:51,564
  3838. It's sort of like
  3839. being a psychiatrist, in a way.
  3840.  
  3841. 846
  3842. 01:00:51,648 --> 01:00:56,152
  3843. Right, it is, yeah. Mmm-hmm.
  3844. It's a mental health profession.
  3845.  
  3846. 847
  3847. 01:00:56,235 --> 01:00:58,738
  3848. It's a mental health
  3849. profession, caregiving. Right?
  3850.  
  3851. 848
  3852. 01:00:58,821 --> 01:01:00,281
  3853. - Yep.
  3854. - Mmm-hmm.
  3855.  
  3856. 849
  3857. 01:01:00,990 --> 01:01:02,909
  3858. You've both dealt with...
  3859.  
  3860. 850
  3861. 01:01:04,160 --> 01:01:09,582
  3862. paranoia, schizophrenia,
  3863. psychotic behavior.
  3864.  
  3865. 851
  3866. 01:01:09,666 --> 01:01:12,293
  3867. - Mmm-hmm.
  3868. - People losing their minds.
  3869.  
  3870. 852
  3871. 01:01:12,377 --> 01:01:18,675
  3872. I think, in my experience,
  3873. is if you're accepting stuff, right,
  3874.  
  3875. 853
  3876. 01:01:18,758 --> 01:01:21,010
  3877. - the life, it's much easier.
  3878. - Mmm-hmm.
  3879.  
  3880. 854
  3881. 01:01:21,094 --> 01:01:24,472
  3882. Much easier. And fighting
  3883. something that you can't...
  3884.  
  3885. 855
  3886. 01:01:24,555 --> 01:01:26,432
  3887. - Right.
  3888. - Fighting it doesn't bring it back.
  3889.  
  3890. 856
  3891. 01:01:26,516 --> 01:01:31,020
  3892. - No. You can't control so many things.
  3893. - Yeah. Hmm.
  3894.  
  3895. 857
  3896. 01:01:31,104 --> 01:01:33,856
  3897. Especially you can't control sickness,
  3898.  
  3899. 858
  3900. 01:01:34,524 --> 01:01:36,317
  3901. - the conditions...
  3902. - Certainly can't.
  3903.  
  3904. 859
  3905. 01:01:36,401 --> 01:01:38,861
  3906. - You can't control death.
  3907. - You can't control people.
  3908.  
  3909. 860
  3910. 01:01:38,945 --> 01:01:41,906
  3911. - You just... You have to accept.
  3912. - Mmm-hmm.
  3913.  
  3914. 861
  3915. 01:01:43,324 --> 01:01:45,410
  3916. - Deal with it.
  3917. - Deal with.
  3918.  
  3919. 862
  3920. 01:01:45,910 --> 01:01:46,994
  3921. Mmm-hmm.
  3922.  
  3923. 863
  3924. 01:01:47,078 --> 01:01:53,292
  3925. I remember I work in New Jersey,
  3926. I save life a few times
  3927.  
  3928. 864
  3929. 01:01:53,960 --> 01:01:55,878
  3930. for a man who had heart attack.
  3931.  
  3932. 865
  3933. 01:01:55,962 --> 01:02:00,383
  3934. After that, I remember
  3935. he gave me $20 after that.
  3936.  
  3937. 866
  3938. 01:02:00,466 --> 01:02:02,093
  3939. Like a tip.
  3940.  
  3941. 867
  3942. 01:02:02,176 --> 01:02:06,931
  3943. "It means so much for me.
  3944. Like, you saved my life."
  3945.  
  3946. 868
  3947. 01:02:17,108 --> 01:02:18,317
  3948. Bye.
  3949.  
  3950. 869
  3951. 01:02:21,487 --> 01:02:22,947
  3952. See you tomorrow.
  3953.  
  3954. 870
  3955. 01:02:24,866 --> 01:02:26,325
  3956. I love the bunny.
  3957.  
  3958. 871
  3959. 01:02:30,747 --> 01:02:31,914
  3960. So great.
  3961.  
  3962. 872
  3963. 01:02:33,082 --> 01:02:35,793
  3964. We all need a little bunny
  3965. with us at these times.
  3966.  
  3967. 873
  3968. 01:02:39,964 --> 01:02:40,882
  3969. Yeah.
  3970.  
  3971. 874
  3972. 01:02:41,591 --> 01:02:45,136
  3973. Yeah, it definitely feels like
  3974. he's sleeping more and more, doesn't it?
  3975.  
  3976. 875
  3977. 01:02:45,219 --> 01:02:47,180
  3978. - What?
  3979. - We should stop harassing you
  3980.  
  3981. 876
  3982. 01:02:47,263 --> 01:02:48,598
  3983. with this camera, huh?
  3984.  
  3985. 877
  3986. 01:02:48,681 --> 01:02:51,350
  3987. No, it's all right. I don't mind.
  3988.  
  3989. 878
  3990. 01:02:52,018 --> 01:02:53,895
  3991. I don't consider it harassment.
  3992.  
  3993. 879
  3994. 01:02:58,357 --> 01:03:01,402
  3995. The fact that he's willing
  3996. to keep doing this is--
  3997.  
  3998. 880
  3999. 01:03:01,486 --> 01:03:02,987
  4000. - It's amazing.
  4001. - Right?
  4002.  
  4003. 881
  4004. 01:03:03,070 --> 01:03:04,197
  4005. He's doing for you.
  4006.  
  4007. 882
  4008. 01:03:04,280 --> 01:03:05,823
  4009. - Yeah.
  4010. - With love.
  4011.  
  4012. 883
  4013. 01:03:05,907 --> 01:03:08,201
  4014. He's doing it for me with love.
  4015. He'll do anything for me.
  4016.  
  4017. 884
  4018. 01:03:08,284 --> 01:03:10,661
  4019. I mean, I just have to be
  4020. careful about, like...
  4021.  
  4022. 885
  4023. 01:03:11,704 --> 01:03:15,875
  4024. you know, not overstepping the bounds
  4025. of what's decent for him,
  4026.  
  4027. 886
  4028. 01:03:15,958 --> 01:03:18,294
  4029. but it's hard to know
  4030. what that is anymore.
  4031.  
  4032. 887
  4033. 01:03:18,920 --> 01:03:22,465
  4034. Yeah, he's happy.
  4035. He's laughing no matter what.
  4036.  
  4037. 888
  4038. 01:03:22,548 --> 01:03:24,342
  4039. - He is. Yeah.
  4040. - Right?
  4041.  
  4042. 889
  4043. 01:03:24,425 --> 01:03:29,430
  4044. And he's accepting...
  4045. I mean, he's very smart.
  4046.  
  4047. 890
  4048. 01:03:31,140 --> 01:03:35,353
  4049. - But the memory, what you gonna do?
  4050. - Yeah.
  4051.  
  4052. 891
  4053. 01:03:45,988 --> 01:03:48,741
  4054. - Mmm, how sweet it is.
  4055. - Pretty sweet.
  4056.  
  4057. 892
  4058. 01:03:50,409 --> 01:03:51,994
  4059. Shut the door behind you when you leave,
  4060.  
  4061. 893
  4062. 01:03:52,078 --> 01:03:53,913
  4063. because the light's on
  4064. and it keeps me awake.
  4065.  
  4066. 894
  4067. 01:03:53,996 --> 01:03:56,332
  4068. Okay.
  4069. It's actually daytime, so...
  4070.  
  4071. 895
  4072. 01:04:46,632 --> 01:04:51,929
  4073. So, you know that you woke up
  4074. in the middle of the night last night
  4075.  
  4076. 896
  4077. 01:04:52,889 --> 01:04:55,099
  4078. - multiple times...
  4079. - Mmm-hmm.
  4080.  
  4081. 897
  4082. 01:04:55,182 --> 01:04:59,854
  4083. ...uh,
  4084. and you were looking for a patient.
  4085.  
  4086. 898
  4087. 01:04:59,937 --> 01:05:00,897
  4088. What was I looking for?
  4089.  
  4090. 899
  4091. 01:05:00,980 --> 01:05:03,107
  4092. You thought that the living room
  4093. was the waiting room.
  4094.  
  4095. 900
  4096. 01:05:03,190 --> 01:05:04,025
  4097. Is that right?
  4098.  
  4099. 901
  4100. 01:05:04,108 --> 01:05:06,944
  4101. - And this was your office.
  4102. - How about that?
  4103.  
  4104. 902
  4105. 01:05:07,028 --> 01:05:10,656
  4106. And you kept checking
  4107. to see if a patient was waiting there.
  4108.  
  4109. 903
  4110. 01:05:10,740 --> 01:05:12,366
  4111. - Ha!
  4112. - Do you remember any of that?
  4113.  
  4114. 904
  4115. 01:05:12,450 --> 01:05:14,035
  4116. - No.
  4117. - Yeah.
  4118.  
  4119. 905
  4120. 01:05:14,118 --> 01:05:16,495
  4121. - Isn't that interesting?
  4122. - Yeah.
  4123.  
  4124. 906
  4125. 01:05:16,579 --> 01:05:19,415
  4126. - Huh.
  4127. - And you were fully dressed...
  4128.  
  4129. 907
  4130. 01:05:19,498 --> 01:05:21,584
  4131. - Uh-huh.
  4132. - ...so it was 3:00 in the morning
  4133.  
  4134. 908
  4135. 01:05:21,667 --> 01:05:24,003
  4136. And you got dressed
  4137. and came looking for the patient.
  4138.  
  4139. 909
  4140. 01:05:24,086 --> 01:05:25,379
  4141. Was I all dressed earlier?
  4142.  
  4143. 910
  4144. 01:05:25,463 --> 01:05:27,798
  4145. - Well, you were asleep in bed...
  4146. - Yeah.
  4147.  
  4148. 911
  4149. 01:05:27,882 --> 01:05:31,218
  4150. ...and then you got dressed
  4151. and you came to look for the patient.
  4152.  
  4153. 912
  4154. 01:05:31,302 --> 01:05:33,220
  4155. - I got dressed to come out?
  4156. - Yeah.
  4157.  
  4158. 913
  4159. 01:05:33,304 --> 01:05:36,265
  4160. 'Cause I must have
  4161. thought somebody was out there.
  4162.  
  4163. 914
  4164. 01:05:36,349 --> 01:05:37,683
  4165. - I was.
  4166. - Uh-huh.
  4167.  
  4168. 915
  4169. 01:05:37,767 --> 01:05:40,770
  4170. And the kids were, too.
  4171.  
  4172. 916
  4173. 01:05:40,853 --> 01:05:43,522
  4174. - But you were in bed.
  4175. - Yeah, we were asleep.
  4176.  
  4177. 917
  4178. 01:05:43,606 --> 01:05:46,734
  4179. You were asleep.
  4180. You should not let me get away with that.
  4181.  
  4182. 918
  4183. 01:05:46,817 --> 01:05:48,402
  4184. How would I stop you?
  4185.  
  4186. 919
  4187. 01:05:48,486 --> 01:05:50,738
  4188. Wake me up. Send me back to bed.
  4189.  
  4190. 920
  4191. 01:05:50,821 --> 01:05:53,282
  4192. - I did send you back to bed.
  4193. - Did I go?
  4194.  
  4195. 921
  4196. 01:05:53,366 --> 01:05:54,867
  4197. Yeah,
  4198. and then you came back again.
  4199.  
  4200. 922
  4201. 01:05:54,951 --> 01:05:56,035
  4202. Oh.
  4203.  
  4204. 923
  4205. 01:05:56,118 --> 01:05:58,371
  4206. - You came back three times.
  4207. - Did I really?
  4208.  
  4209. 924
  4210. 01:05:58,454 --> 01:06:02,708
  4211. Yeah. 'Cause you were
  4212. really convinced that, um...
  4213.  
  4214. 925
  4215. 01:06:03,209 --> 01:06:05,962
  4216. - there was a patient out there.
  4217. - How about that?
  4218.  
  4219. 926
  4220. 01:06:06,045 --> 01:06:08,589
  4221. - What can we do about that?
  4222. - I don't know.
  4223.  
  4224. 927
  4225. 01:06:09,340 --> 01:06:13,719
  4226. Well, just more forcibly
  4227. go back... Wake me up and tell me,
  4228.  
  4229. 928
  4230. 01:06:13,803 --> 01:06:18,474
  4231. you know, you... you...
  4232. "You no longer have a practice,
  4233.  
  4234. 929
  4235. 01:06:18,557 --> 01:06:22,561
  4236. this is not your office,
  4237. this is where you're living and sleeping,
  4238.  
  4239. 930
  4240. 01:06:23,145 --> 01:06:24,730
  4241. and go back to bed.
  4242.  
  4243. 931
  4244. 01:06:25,481 --> 01:06:27,566
  4245. You're bothering me and the children."
  4246.  
  4247. 932
  4248. 01:06:29,151 --> 01:06:31,404
  4249. I feel like
  4250. you guys have a ton of candy,
  4251.  
  4252. 933
  4253. 01:06:31,487 --> 01:06:33,072
  4254. I can only imagine how--
  4255.  
  4256. 934
  4257. 01:06:33,155 --> 01:06:34,949
  4258. Come here, let me see, let me see.
  4259.  
  4260. 935
  4261. 01:06:35,032 --> 01:06:36,617
  4262. How much you got?
  4263.  
  4264. 936
  4265. 01:06:36,701 --> 01:06:38,995
  4266. Okay, we're crossing, guys. Crossing.
  4267.  
  4268. 937
  4269. 01:07:57,656 --> 01:07:59,200
  4270. Can we cross the street?
  4271.  
  4272. 938
  4273. 01:07:59,283 --> 01:08:01,160
  4274. You want more candy over there?
  4275.  
  4276. 939
  4277. 01:08:01,243 --> 01:08:04,413
  4278. We have to get Grandpa,
  4279. and let Marco go home...
  4280.  
  4281. 940
  4282. 01:08:04,497 --> 01:08:07,291
  4283. - Where's your dad?
  4284. - In your apartment.
  4285.  
  4286. 941
  4287. 01:08:07,374 --> 01:08:09,043
  4288. Hopefully.
  4289.  
  4290. 942
  4291. 01:08:11,796 --> 01:08:13,172
  4292. Hold on.
  4293.  
  4294. 943
  4295. 01:08:13,255 --> 01:08:16,092
  4296. Where are they? Oh, they're that way?
  4297. They must be.
  4298.  
  4299. 944
  4300. 01:08:16,884 --> 01:08:18,886
  4301. - Can you see them?
  4302. - Okay.
  4303.  
  4304. 945
  4305. 01:08:47,331 --> 01:08:49,500
  4306. Here's what happened,
  4307. I'll tell you.
  4308.  
  4309. 946
  4310. 01:08:49,583 --> 01:08:52,044
  4311. You gotta get into the car,
  4312. come around that side,
  4313.  
  4314. 947
  4315. 01:08:52,128 --> 01:08:53,921
  4316. be really careful of the traffic.
  4317.  
  4318. 948
  4319. 01:08:54,463 --> 01:08:57,591
  4320. You were at the house of one of the kids,
  4321.  
  4322. 949
  4323. 01:08:58,509 --> 01:09:00,928
  4324. and then we sat you down
  4325. in front of the TV
  4326.  
  4327. 950
  4328. 01:09:01,011 --> 01:09:02,680
  4329. - 'cause you were tired.
  4330. - Right.
  4331.  
  4332. 951
  4333. 01:09:02,763 --> 01:09:04,515
  4334. - Then we went out...
  4335. - Yeah.
  4336.  
  4337. 952
  4338. 01:09:04,598 --> 01:09:05,641
  4339. ...and we came back.
  4340.  
  4341. 953
  4342. 01:09:05,724 --> 01:09:07,810
  4343. You left me in the house,
  4344. nobody else was there?
  4345.  
  4346. 954
  4347. 01:09:07,893 --> 01:09:10,646
  4348. Yeah, you were watching TV.
  4349. We left you watching TV.
  4350.  
  4351. 955
  4352. 01:09:10,729 --> 01:09:13,482
  4353. Well, it was different, it was a...
  4354.  
  4355. 956
  4356. 01:09:14,150 --> 01:09:16,110
  4357. not... not knowable place.
  4358.  
  4359. 957
  4360. 01:09:16,193 --> 01:09:18,404
  4361. - I hadn't been there before.
  4362. - Yeah.
  4363.  
  4364. 958
  4365. 01:09:19,738 --> 01:09:22,908
  4366. Anyway, you found me,
  4367. and I'm grateful for you,
  4368.  
  4369. 959
  4370. 01:09:23,617 --> 01:09:25,494
  4371. and grateful that you found me. Okay?
  4372.  
  4373. 960
  4374. 01:09:25,578 --> 01:09:28,372
  4375. - And rescuing me.
  4376. - We'll never lose you.
  4377.  
  4378. 961
  4379. 01:09:28,455 --> 01:09:30,499
  4380. - I hope that's right.
  4381. - Yeah.
  4382.  
  4383. 962
  4384. 01:09:30,583 --> 01:09:32,376
  4385. I sure could have
  4386. been lost, though.
  4387.  
  4388. 963
  4389. 01:09:32,459 --> 01:09:33,419
  4390. Did it feel--
  4391.  
  4392. 964
  4393. 01:09:33,502 --> 01:09:36,005
  4394. If you hadn't come back
  4395. with those people...
  4396.  
  4397. 965
  4398. 01:09:37,506 --> 01:09:39,675
  4399. I have no idea what I would've done.
  4400.  
  4401. 966
  4402. 01:09:43,304 --> 01:09:47,516
  4403. Oh, man, sweetie, your father is a wreck.
  4404.  
  4405. 967
  4406. 01:09:54,607 --> 01:09:56,525
  4407. Happy Halloween!
  4408.  
  4409. 968
  4410. 01:09:56,609 --> 01:09:59,778
  4411. - I'm glad you found me.
  4412. - I'm glad we found you.
  4413.  
  4414. 969
  4415. 01:10:05,034 --> 01:10:07,995
  4416. We built this set imagining
  4417. what Dad must have felt like
  4418.  
  4419. 970
  4420. 01:10:08,078 --> 01:10:09,538
  4421. when I left him all alone.
  4422.  
  4423. 971
  4424. 01:10:10,873 --> 01:10:12,917
  4425. But I was nervous putting him into it.
  4426.  
  4427. 972
  4428. 01:10:13,876 --> 01:10:16,795
  4429. It's so rare
  4430. that he's completely himself anymore.
  4431.  
  4432. 973
  4433. 01:10:17,880 --> 01:10:21,508
  4434. The other night, I stopped him
  4435. from leaving the apartment at 3:00 a.m.
  4436.  
  4437. 974
  4438. 01:10:21,592 --> 01:10:25,429
  4439. He thought he had a train to catch.
  4440. He said he was on a secret mission.
  4441.  
  4442. 975
  4443. 01:10:26,889 --> 01:10:29,058
  4444. But when I stepped onto the set
  4445. to lead him out,
  4446.  
  4447. 976
  4448. 01:10:29,141 --> 01:10:30,809
  4449. there was a moment of clarity,
  4450.  
  4451. 977
  4452. 01:10:31,518 --> 01:10:33,687
  4453. and we both knew
  4454. what this was really about.
  4455.  
  4456. 978
  4457. 01:10:35,147 --> 01:10:37,149
  4458. It was about what it was about with Mom.
  4459.  
  4460. 979
  4461. 01:10:38,192 --> 01:10:42,947
  4462. That I would have to leave him somewhere.
  4463. Someday. Somehow.
  4464.  
  4465. 980
  4466. 01:10:44,531 --> 01:10:45,824
  4467. I'll stretch the elastic.
  4468.  
  4469. 981
  4470. 01:10:45,908 --> 01:10:47,451
  4471. - Yep.
  4472. - Perfect.
  4473.  
  4474. 982
  4475. 01:10:47,534 --> 01:10:49,995
  4476. - You're a trouper. Okay.
  4477. - Yep. Yes, sir.
  4478.  
  4479. 983
  4480. 01:10:50,079 --> 01:10:52,206
  4481. So now just lie down
  4482. and take a real nap.
  4483.  
  4484. 984
  4485. 01:10:52,289 --> 01:10:54,500
  4486. - Okay.
  4487. - Put your feet up.
  4488.  
  4489. 985
  4490. 01:10:54,583 --> 01:10:56,543
  4491. - I can do that.
  4492. - Okay.
  4493.  
  4494. 986
  4495. 01:11:01,173 --> 01:11:07,513
  4496. In Adventism, after a global apocalypse,
  4497. Jesus will return to earth
  4498.  
  4499. 987
  4500. 01:11:07,596 --> 01:11:10,724
  4501. to resurrect His followers, the righteous,
  4502.  
  4503. 988
  4504. 01:11:10,808 --> 01:11:14,979
  4505. and bring them up with Him
  4506. to heaven for eternity.
  4507.  
  4508. 989
  4509. 01:11:16,689 --> 01:11:20,693
  4510. So in the face of death,
  4511. there's hope that everything will be okay.
  4512.  
  4513. 990
  4514. 01:11:24,613 --> 01:11:26,991
  4515. But what Adventism recognizes,
  4516.  
  4517. 991
  4518. 01:11:27,074 --> 01:11:30,953
  4519. that I've never grasped before,
  4520. is that the worst thing,
  4521.  
  4522. 992
  4523. 01:11:31,954 --> 01:11:35,291
  4524. the deepest fear, is being left behind.
  4525.  
  4526. 993
  4527. 01:11:52,433 --> 01:11:56,395
  4528. Dad, you know I'm going to,
  4529. uh, Israel tonight.
  4530.  
  4531. 994
  4532. 01:11:56,478 --> 01:11:58,355
  4533. Oh, I didn't know that.
  4534.  
  4535. 995
  4536. 01:11:58,439 --> 01:12:00,441
  4537. - You didn't know that?
  4538. - No.
  4539.  
  4540. 996
  4541. 01:12:00,524 --> 01:12:02,985
  4542. I thought...
  4543. I thought you remembered.
  4544.  
  4545. 997
  4546. 01:12:03,068 --> 01:12:04,611
  4547. No, I did not.
  4548.  
  4549. 998
  4550. 01:12:04,695 --> 01:12:07,197
  4551. Aw.
  4552. Is it hard on you when I'm gone?
  4553.  
  4554. 999
  4555. 01:12:07,281 --> 01:12:11,368
  4556. Yeah, it's hard.
  4557. Well, not really. Not actually.
  4558.  
  4559. 1000
  4560. 01:12:11,452 --> 01:12:13,203
  4561. - You know I... I miss you.
  4562. - Yeah.
  4563.  
  4564. 1001
  4565. 01:12:13,287 --> 01:12:15,581
  4566. - Yeah.
  4567. - I miss you.
  4568.  
  4569. 1002
  4570. 01:12:16,498 --> 01:12:21,003
  4571. Is there anything you want me to do...
  4572. Or do while you're gone?
  4573.  
  4574. 1003
  4575. 01:12:21,670 --> 01:12:23,964
  4576. - Mmm...
  4577. - How would you like me to behave?
  4578.  
  4579. 1004
  4580. 01:12:24,590 --> 01:12:26,300
  4581. Well, you're doing great behaving.
  4582.  
  4583. 1005
  4584. 01:12:26,383 --> 01:12:27,968
  4585. You don't need me to tell you
  4586. how to behave.
  4587.  
  4588. 1006
  4589. 01:12:28,052 --> 01:12:30,929
  4590. - You'll do fine.
  4591. - Well, that's why you're here.
  4592.  
  4593. 1007
  4594. 01:12:31,013 --> 01:12:32,765
  4595. When you're here, I'm behaving greatly.
  4596.  
  4597. 1008
  4598. 01:12:32,848 --> 01:12:36,268
  4599. What do you do
  4600. when I'm gone?
  4601.  
  4602. 1009
  4603. 01:12:36,352 --> 01:12:38,604
  4604. That's what I'm asking you
  4605. to tell me.
  4606.  
  4607. 1010
  4608. 01:12:39,605 --> 01:12:41,940
  4609. I don't know what to do without you.
  4610.  
  4611. 1011
  4612. 01:12:42,024 --> 01:12:44,193
  4613. - You be careful, okay?
  4614. - I will be careful.
  4615.  
  4616. 1012
  4617. 01:12:44,276 --> 01:12:48,364
  4618. You have this little brother
  4619. that you need to take care of.
  4620.  
  4621. 1013
  4622. 01:12:48,447 --> 01:12:51,075
  4623. - Are you my little brother?
  4624. - I'm your little brother,
  4625.  
  4626. 1014
  4627. 01:12:51,158 --> 01:12:54,411
  4628. who's now demented, you know?
  4629.  
  4630. 1015
  4631. 01:12:54,495 --> 01:12:57,456
  4632. That's so cute that I'm your little
  4633. brother. You're my little brother.
  4634.  
  4635. 1016
  4636. 01:12:57,539 --> 01:12:58,916
  4637. I'm your little brother.
  4638.  
  4639. 1017
  4640. 01:12:58,999 --> 01:13:01,502
  4641. I'm no longer your father,
  4642. I'm your little brother.
  4643.  
  4644. 1018
  4645. 01:13:01,585 --> 01:13:03,253
  4646. What does the little brother do?
  4647.  
  4648. 1019
  4649. 01:13:03,337 --> 01:13:06,965
  4650. Oh, he just tags along behind.
  4651. Gets in your way.
  4652.  
  4653. 1020
  4654. 01:13:07,049 --> 01:13:09,551
  4655. - Little brothers don't get in your way.
  4656. - They do.
  4657.  
  4658. 1021
  4659. 01:13:09,635 --> 01:13:11,845
  4660. - Little brothers are fun.
  4661. - Are they? Okay.
  4662.  
  4663. 1022
  4664. 01:13:11,929 --> 01:13:14,264
  4665. - Aw.
  4666. - I love you.
  4667.  
  4668. 1023
  4669. 01:13:14,348 --> 01:13:17,393
  4670. Mmm. Your eyes get a little, like, teary.
  4671.  
  4672. 1024
  4673. 01:13:17,476 --> 01:13:19,186
  4674. - Yeah.
  4675. - Are those real tears,
  4676.  
  4677. 1025
  4678. 01:13:19,269 --> 01:13:20,854
  4679. or it's just your eyes are that way?
  4680.  
  4681. 1026
  4682. 01:13:20,938 --> 01:13:22,815
  4683. - That's real, they're real tears.
  4684. - Aw.
  4685.  
  4686. 1027
  4687. 01:13:22,898 --> 01:13:24,483
  4688. I'm sorry to admit it.
  4689.  
  4690. 1028
  4691. 01:13:25,901 --> 01:13:28,487
  4692. From joy. Love.
  4693.  
  4694. 1029
  4695. 01:13:29,238 --> 01:13:31,281
  4696. That's great.
  4697.  
  4698. 1030
  4699. 01:13:37,996 --> 01:13:40,582
  4700. What you guys have to do...
  4701.  
  4702. 1031
  4703. 01:13:40,666 --> 01:13:43,460
  4704. ...is you each have to fill
  4705.  
  4706. 1032
  4707. 01:13:43,544 --> 01:13:49,258
  4708. your pie plate with the chocolate first.
  4709.  
  4710. 1033
  4711. 01:13:50,968 --> 01:13:53,762
  4712. - What do you think, Felix?
  4713. - Um, is this good?
  4714.  
  4715. 1034
  4716. 01:13:53,846 --> 01:13:56,473
  4717. I'm excited
  4718. you guys are making the cake
  4719.  
  4720. 1035
  4721. 01:13:56,557 --> 01:14:00,269
  4722. for Grandpa's 86th birthday.
  4723. Just to have forever.
  4724.  
  4725. 1036
  4726. 01:14:00,352 --> 01:14:02,479
  4727. - Wow, that's awesome.
  4728. - Right?
  4729.  
  4730. 1037
  4731. 01:14:02,563 --> 01:14:04,189
  4732. That's so cool.
  4733.  
  4734. 1038
  4735. 01:14:04,273 --> 01:14:05,858
  4736. - Don't look!
  4737. - Don't look.
  4738.  
  4739. 1039
  4740. 01:14:06,900 --> 01:14:08,986
  4741. - Did he see?
  4742. - Will you fix my TV for me?
  4743.  
  4744. 1040
  4745. 01:14:09,069 --> 01:14:11,405
  4746. - I don't think he saw.
  4747. - Did you see?
  4748.  
  4749. 1041
  4750. 01:14:11,488 --> 01:14:13,574
  4751. - What did I see? I saw...
  4752. - You saw?
  4753.  
  4754. 1042
  4755. 01:14:13,657 --> 01:14:14,908
  4756. ...uh, some cake.
  4757.  
  4758. 1043
  4759. 01:14:15,617 --> 01:14:20,539
  4760. But lucky... lucky he won't...
  4761. He will forget, right?
  4762.  
  4763. 1044
  4764. 01:14:20,622 --> 01:14:23,208
  4765. I think so. He won't
  4766. remember that we're making a cake.
  4767.  
  4768. 1045
  4769. 01:14:23,292 --> 01:14:24,918
  4770. - Don't look!
  4771. - Okay.
  4772.  
  4773. 1046
  4774. 01:14:25,002 --> 01:14:27,087
  4775. - Can somebody fix my TV for me?
  4776. - Leave.
  4777.  
  4778. 1047
  4779. 01:14:27,171 --> 01:14:29,006
  4780. - Yeah. I can.
  4781. - I'm coming.
  4782.  
  4783. 1048
  4784. 01:14:29,089 --> 01:14:31,258
  4785. - Thank you.
  4786. - Let's put on Kirk's show.
  4787.  
  4788. 1049
  4789. 01:14:31,341 --> 01:14:34,428
  4790. We find leaves both above
  4791. and below the K-T boundary,
  4792.  
  4793. 1050
  4794. 01:14:34,511 --> 01:14:36,096
  4795. but they're different leaves.
  4796.  
  4797. 1051
  4798. 01:14:36,180 --> 01:14:38,515
  4799. So there was
  4800. not only a dinosaur extinction,
  4801.  
  4802. 1052
  4803. 01:14:38,599 --> 01:14:40,851
  4804. but there was a major
  4805. plant extinction as well.
  4806.  
  4807. 1053
  4808. 01:14:40,934 --> 01:14:44,730
  4809. With little to eat, dinosaurs, mosasaurs,
  4810.  
  4811. 1054
  4812. 01:14:44,813 --> 01:14:49,318
  4813. and nearly 75 % of known species
  4814. go extinct.
  4815.  
  4816. 1055
  4817. 01:14:49,401 --> 01:14:52,196
  4818. Can you do it?
  4819. Just hold it, it's heavy.
  4820.  
  4821. 1056
  4822. 01:14:52,279 --> 01:14:57,284
  4823. ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
  4824.  
  4825. 1057
  4826. 01:14:57,367 --> 01:15:01,663
  4827. ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
  4828.  
  4829. 1058
  4830. 01:15:01,747 --> 01:15:03,290
  4831. Oh, wow!
  4832.  
  4833. 1059
  4834. 01:15:03,373 --> 01:15:07,878
  4835. ♪ Happy birthday, C. Richard Johnson ♪
  4836.  
  4837. 1060
  4838. 01:15:07,961 --> 01:15:09,171
  4839. Wow!
  4840.  
  4841. 1061
  4842. 01:15:09,254 --> 01:15:14,426
  4843. ♪ Happy birthday to you ♪
  4844.  
  4845. 1062
  4846. 01:15:17,012 --> 01:15:19,515
  4847. - I have never seen a prettier cake.
  4848. - And there's a other cake!
  4849.  
  4850. 1063
  4851. 01:15:19,598 --> 01:15:21,475
  4852. - Make the "8" stand up?
  4853. - I can.
  4854.  
  4855. 1064
  4856. 01:15:21,558 --> 01:15:23,685
  4857. - Look at that. 86, is that right?
  4858. - 86.
  4859.  
  4860. 1065
  4861. 01:15:23,769 --> 01:15:25,812
  4862. - It should be 88, shouldn't it?
  4863. - No.
  4864.  
  4865. 1066
  4866. 01:15:25,896 --> 01:15:27,731
  4867. Make a wish.
  4868.  
  4869. 1067
  4870. 01:15:31,527 --> 01:15:33,570
  4871. Yay!
  4872.  
  4873. 1068
  4874. 01:15:33,654 --> 01:15:36,782
  4875. Well done. Well done.
  4876.  
  4877. 1069
  4878. 01:15:36,865 --> 01:15:38,075
  4879. Yay.
  4880.  
  4881. 1070
  4882. 01:15:38,158 --> 01:15:41,161
  4883. - I wanna cut in the middle.
  4884. - Can I cut, too? I wanna cut.
  4885.  
  4886. 1071
  4887. 01:15:41,245 --> 01:15:43,413
  4888. Everyone's gonna
  4889. get a chance to cut. Wait.
  4890.  
  4891. 1072
  4892. 01:15:43,497 --> 01:15:46,333
  4893. - One at a time. Let her do it first.
  4894. - Wait.
  4895.  
  4896. 1073
  4897. 01:15:46,416 --> 01:15:49,628
  4898. Remember to save
  4899. some pieces for the people. Oh, yeah.
  4900.  
  4901. 1074
  4902. 01:15:49,711 --> 01:15:52,130
  4903. - That's why we're cutting so many.
  4904. - Way to go.
  4905.  
  4906. 1075
  4907. 01:15:52,214 --> 01:15:53,674
  4908. - My turn!
  4909. - Wow.
  4910.  
  4911. 1076
  4912. 01:15:53,757 --> 01:15:55,509
  4913. - Nice.
  4914. - Nicely done.
  4915.  
  4916. 1077
  4917. 01:15:55,592 --> 01:15:59,137
  4918. I'll tell you,
  4919. it's the best chocolate cake I ever had.
  4920.  
  4921. 1078
  4922. 01:15:59,221 --> 01:16:01,640
  4923. And I had a lot of chocolate cakes.
  4924.  
  4925. 1079
  4926. 01:16:01,723 --> 01:16:02,975
  4927. - That's true.
  4928. - I bet.
  4929.  
  4930. 1080
  4931. 01:16:03,058 --> 01:16:04,268
  4932. This is the best.
  4933.  
  4934. 1081
  4935. 01:16:04,351 --> 01:16:05,852
  4936. - Kids, what do you think?
  4937. - Wow.
  4938.  
  4939. 1082
  4940. 01:16:05,936 --> 01:16:09,398
  4941. Oh, who made the cake?
  4942.  
  4943. 1083
  4944. 01:16:20,075 --> 01:16:22,119
  4945. What do you think...
  4946.  
  4947. 1084
  4948. 01:16:23,287 --> 01:16:24,913
  4949. Did you eat it?
  4950.  
  4951. 1085
  4952. 01:16:24,997 --> 01:16:26,456
  4953. - Did you eat it?
  4954. - Yes.
  4955.  
  4956. 1086
  4957. 01:16:34,464 --> 01:16:36,466
  4958. Six-one-one with a notification.
  4959.  
  4960. 1087
  4961. 01:16:36,550 --> 01:16:39,595
  4962. We have an 86-year-old male
  4963. in cardiac arrest witnessed,
  4964.  
  4965. 1088
  4966. 01:16:39,678 --> 01:16:42,681
  4967. the patient's currently in V-fib,
  4968. one shock delivered,
  4969.  
  4970. 1089
  4971. 01:16:42,764 --> 01:16:45,767
  4972. CPR is in progress,
  4973. ETA is about six minutes.
  4974.  
  4975. 1090
  4976. 01:16:47,811 --> 01:16:48,854
  4977. Thank you so much.
  4978.  
  4979. 1091
  4980. 01:16:48,937 --> 01:16:51,815
  4981. We're gonna do a pulse check, rhythm check
  4982. after this. Not a problem, ma'am.
  4983.  
  4984. 1092
  4985. 01:16:53,609 --> 01:16:56,069
  4986. Analyzing now.
  4987.  
  4988. 1093
  4989. 01:16:56,153 --> 01:16:58,947
  4990. Still in V-fib. Jimmy, pull over,
  4991. we're gonna shock one more time.
  4992.  
  4993. 1094
  4994. 01:17:00,282 --> 01:17:02,159
  4995. Shock advised now.
  4996.  
  4997. 1095
  4998. 01:17:02,242 --> 01:17:04,202
  4999. It's still stopped,
  5000. there's one second, charging.
  5001.  
  5002. 1096
  5003. 01:17:04,286 --> 01:17:05,787
  5004. - Clear, clear.
  5005. - Clear? All clear.
  5006.  
  5007. 1097
  5008. 01:17:05,871 --> 01:17:06,872
  5009. Charged, shock delivered.
  5010.  
  5011. 1098
  5012. 01:17:06,955 --> 01:17:09,458
  5013. - Go ahead, Jimmy. Continue CPR.
  5014. - Ten-four.
  5015.  
  5016. 1099
  5017. 01:17:09,541 --> 01:17:10,917
  5018. Push analyze.
  5019.  
  5020. 1100
  5021. 01:17:11,001 --> 01:17:12,127
  5022. Go ahead, Jimmy.
  5023.  
  5024. 1101
  5025. 01:17:12,210 --> 01:17:15,839
  5026. - Three, four, five, six, seven.
  5027. - Analyzing now.
  5028.  
  5029. 1102
  5030. 01:17:16,715 --> 01:17:18,008
  5031. Ma'am, you gotta sit down
  5032. over there,
  5033.  
  5034. 1103
  5035. 01:17:18,091 --> 01:17:22,012
  5036. put on your seatbelt, for your safety.
  5037. And I will explain it while I go.
  5038.  
  5039. 1104
  5040. 01:17:22,095 --> 01:17:24,681
  5041. Five, six, seven, eight.
  5042.  
  5043. 1105
  5044. 01:17:24,765 --> 01:17:27,142
  5045. He's still in V-fib.
  5046. We're gonna shock one more time.
  5047.  
  5048. 1106
  5049. 01:17:27,851 --> 01:17:29,603
  5050. Did his heart stop again?
  5051.  
  5052. 1107
  5053. 01:17:29,686 --> 01:17:32,022
  5054. No, it's still stopped,
  5055. there's one second, charging.
  5056.  
  5057. 1108
  5058. 01:17:32,105 --> 01:17:33,565
  5059. - Clear. Clear?
  5060. - Clear.
  5061.  
  5062. 1109
  5063. 01:17:34,733 --> 01:17:37,611
  5064. One, two, three,
  5065. four, five, six, seven...
  5066.  
  5067. 1110
  5068. 01:17:48,580 --> 01:17:51,958
  5069. One day I was going to work,
  5070. and on the way to work,
  5071.  
  5072. 1111
  5073. 01:17:52,042 --> 01:17:54,378
  5074. I witnessed the suicide of a woman...
  5075.  
  5076. 1112
  5077. 01:17:55,671 --> 01:17:59,049
  5078. who jumped two meters ahead of me
  5079. from the bridge.
  5080.  
  5081. 1113
  5082. 01:18:01,134 --> 01:18:05,597
  5083. The first thing that I did when I came
  5084. to work was to send an email to...
  5085.  
  5086. 1114
  5087. 01:18:06,264 --> 01:18:10,644
  5088. Dick.
  5089. Uh, it had only one word in it.
  5090.  
  5091. 1115
  5092. 01:18:10,727 --> 01:18:13,063
  5093. It was a subject line, it said, "Help."
  5094.  
  5095. 1116
  5096. 01:18:14,773 --> 01:18:16,566
  5097. And he called me right away.
  5098.  
  5099. 1117
  5100. 01:18:19,194 --> 01:18:24,616
  5101. His ability to recognize
  5102. the hurt and the loss,
  5103.  
  5104. 1118
  5105. 01:18:24,700 --> 01:18:29,746
  5106. and to find the best way through that,
  5107. was something incredible.
  5108.  
  5109. 1119
  5110. 01:18:35,001 --> 01:18:37,963
  5111. He was the first person I called
  5112. when my husband died.
  5113.  
  5114. 1120
  5115. 01:18:42,759 --> 01:18:47,139
  5116. And it kind of broke my heart
  5117. a few days later when I saw him...
  5118.  
  5119. 1121
  5120. 01:18:48,140 --> 01:18:50,100
  5121. when he gave me a big hug...
  5122.  
  5123. 1122
  5124. 01:18:51,226 --> 01:18:54,855
  5125. and then five minutes later,
  5126. asked me how is my husband doing.
  5127.  
  5128. 1123
  5129. 01:19:00,861 --> 01:19:02,279
  5130. And I realized...
  5131.  
  5132. 1124
  5133. 01:19:03,196 --> 01:19:06,867
  5134. this is yet another kind of loss.
  5135. The loss of memory.
  5136.  
  5137. 1125
  5138. 01:19:13,790 --> 01:19:17,627
  5139. But I know one thing,
  5140. that for as long as my memory lives...
  5141.  
  5142. 1126
  5143. 01:19:18,253 --> 01:19:20,130
  5144. the memory of him will be in me.
  5145.  
  5146. 1127
  5147. 01:19:22,549 --> 01:19:23,383
  5148. Thank you.
  5149.  
  5150. 1128
  5151. 01:19:42,778 --> 01:19:46,740
  5152. Dick loved to attend
  5153. the many parties at our home.
  5154.  
  5155. 1129
  5156. 01:19:47,407 --> 01:19:52,162
  5157. He loved my tradition
  5158. of ending a party on a happy note.
  5159.  
  5160. 1130
  5161. 01:19:52,871 --> 01:19:58,585
  5162. Around 10:00 p.m., I would ring a bell,
  5163. get everybody's attention,
  5164.  
  5165. 1131
  5166. 01:19:58,668 --> 01:20:01,338
  5167. and with a loud voice, announce,
  5168.  
  5169. 1132
  5170. 01:20:02,339 --> 01:20:05,967
  5171. "You have eaten all my food,
  5172. you have drunk all my wine,
  5173.  
  5174. 1133
  5175. 01:20:06,051 --> 01:20:10,388
  5176. you said everything worth hearing,
  5177. now it's time to go home."
  5178.  
  5179. 1134
  5180. 01:20:25,946 --> 01:20:30,492
  5181. Before they left, I would play
  5182. a tune on my hunting horn
  5183.  
  5184. 1135
  5185. 01:20:30,575 --> 01:20:33,286
  5186. called "Going Away."
  5187.  
  5188. 1136
  5189. 01:20:38,667 --> 01:20:41,127
  5190. Boy, I gotta get through this.
  5191.  
  5192. 1137
  5193. 01:20:44,422 --> 01:20:47,300
  5194. Dick came over and said, "Ray...
  5195.  
  5196. 1138
  5197. 01:20:49,594 --> 01:20:51,513
  5198. if you outlive me,
  5199.  
  5200. 1139
  5201. 01:20:51,596 --> 01:20:54,474
  5202. I want you to play
  5203. 'Going Away...'" Oh, God.
  5204.  
  5205. 1140
  5206. 01:20:59,479 --> 01:21:02,274
  5207. "I want you to play 'Going Away'
  5208. at my funeral."
  5209.  
  5210. 1141
  5211. 01:21:11,616 --> 01:21:15,412
  5212. I spent every Saturday
  5213. of my childhood in this church.
  5214.  
  5215. 1142
  5216. 01:21:16,580 --> 01:21:18,290
  5217. Mom's funeral was here.
  5218.  
  5219. 1143
  5220. 01:21:19,749 --> 01:21:22,711
  5221. And just before we moved Dad
  5222. from Seattle to New York,
  5223.  
  5224. 1144
  5225. 01:21:22,794 --> 01:21:25,422
  5226. a little over three years ago,
  5227.  
  5228. 1145
  5229. 01:21:25,505 --> 01:21:29,676
  5230. our family, our friends, our congregation,
  5231.  
  5232. 1146
  5233. 01:21:29,759 --> 01:21:32,762
  5234. all gathered with generosity and love
  5235.  
  5236. 1147
  5237. 01:21:33,513 --> 01:21:36,099
  5238. to let us film this farewell to Dad.
  5239.  
  5240. 1148
  5241. 01:21:36,766 --> 01:21:38,977
  5242. Even knowing that he was still alive.
  5243.  
  5244. 1149
  5245. 01:21:40,145 --> 01:21:44,858
  5246. Today is not a happy day.
  5247. I promised him I would play...
  5248.  
  5249. 1150
  5250. 01:21:47,027 --> 01:21:52,324
  5251. My lip muscles are weak,
  5252. my breath is limited, but, Dick,
  5253.  
  5254. 1151
  5255. 01:21:52,407 --> 01:21:55,285
  5256. I'll try. I'll keep my promise.
  5257.  
  5258. 1152
  5259. 01:21:56,036 --> 01:21:58,121
  5260. I think he thinks it's the real thing.
  5261.  
  5262. 1153
  5263. 01:22:29,027 --> 01:22:30,528
  5264. See you later, Dick.
  5265.  
  5266. 1154
  5267. 01:22:44,292 --> 01:22:45,752
  5268. Are you ready, Dad?
  5269.  
  5270. 1155
  5271. 01:24:14,090 --> 01:24:16,593
  5272. We were so happy
  5273. with ourselves that day.
  5274.  
  5275. 1156
  5276. 01:24:17,093 --> 01:24:19,888
  5277. We thought that maybe we could stop
  5278. what was coming.
  5279.  
  5280. 1157
  5281. 01:24:19,971 --> 01:24:21,848
  5282. That we'd found a way to hold on.
  5283.  
  5284. 1158
  5285. 01:24:24,100 --> 01:24:25,643
  5286. Or almost found a way.
  5287.  
  5288. 1159
  5289. 01:24:34,235 --> 01:24:36,738
  5290. What can you say
  5291. when you've lost a best friend?
  5292.  
  5293. 1160
  5294. 01:24:39,365 --> 01:24:40,366
  5295. Or a mother?
  5296.  
  5297. 1161
  5298. 01:24:42,577 --> 01:24:45,038
  5299. Or your best friend and your father?
  5300.  
  5301. 1162
  5302. 01:24:52,295 --> 01:24:55,256
  5303. All I know is that Dick Johnson is dead.
  5304.  
  5305. 1163
  5306. 01:24:57,383 --> 01:24:59,886
  5307. All I know is that Dick Johnson is dead.
  5308.  
  5309. 1164
  5310. 01:25:02,639 --> 01:25:05,183
  5311. All I can say is Dick Johnson is dead.
  5312.  
  5313. 1165
  5314. 01:25:08,603 --> 01:25:11,731
  5315. And all I want to say is long live,
  5316. Dick Johnson.
  5317.  
  5318. 1166
  5319. 01:25:17,570 --> 01:25:18,404
  5320. Thank you.
  5321.  
  5322.  
  5323.  
  5324.  
  5325.  
  5326.  
  5327.  
  5328.  
  5329.  
  5330.  
  5331.  
  5332.  
  5333.  
  5334.  
  5335.  
  5336.  
  5337.  
  5338.  
  5339.  
  5340.  
  5341.  
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