OttomaticToday at 9:04 PM
I only care about Uldir at all because I want the plate set from it.
SofiaToday at 9:04 PM
Anyone who is actively raiding and having no problem finding a place to do that doesnt get to say they arent a raider
OttomaticToday at 9:04 PM
I am not a dedicated raider.
SofiaToday at 9:04 PM
more of a raider than i am, and im fucking trying
so
when you say that, it upsets me
OttomaticToday at 9:05 PM
I could say something rather awful in response to that, but I won't because I don't want to REALLY upset you.
SofiaToday at 9:12 PM
then why mention it at all
mission accomplished
OttomaticToday at 9:21 PM
Because you're treading a line, and I'm warning you not to cross it.
SofiaToday at 9:21 PM
:l
I don't like being threatened.
I care about you, and our friendship,  so lets jsut defuse
OttomaticToday at 9:30 PM
Then I'll be blunt about it.
I don't like being guilt tripped.
SofiaToday at 9:31 PM
im nbot guilt tripping
OttomaticToday at 9:31 PM
Yes, you are.
SofiaToday at 9:31 PM
im saying i would apppreciate it if you would not be so non chalant about easily doing something im strugling to do
OttomaticToday at 9:31 PM
I'm referencing something beyond that.
SofiaToday at 9:32 PM
then im at a loss?
OttomaticToday at 9:32 PM
Look over in the ARH chat.
SofiaToday at 9:32 PM
ARH?
oh, golden rule?
OttomaticToday at 9:33 PM
Yes.
You getting upset and then ghosting on people because "we didn't say we were RPing", is guilt tripping.
For starters, it wasn't even planned. I had gotten on my panda to idle while queued for things, and just waywardly casual RP while waiting because god why are DPS queues an eternity.
Helia just showed up. I didn't ask her to, and I didn't plan on staying longer than the queue timer.
For another, why? I understand you want to RP with me and her a lot, I get that. I really do. But, why is every instance of any RP have to be under obligation for all three of us to be involved, especially when I'm not even on Alex?
Genuinely asking that, from real curiosity.
SofiaToday at 9:40 PM
It's the only rp I get.
OttomaticToday at 9:41 PM
That's not true.
SofiaToday at 9:42 PM
...yes it is
I only ever rp if Helia asks me to get on
because otherwise im jsut sitting in the ohuse all day waiting for people to show up
OttomaticToday at 9:42 PM
You RP with the guild. And have with Chi.
SofiaToday at 9:42 PM
Chi is in discord
and i only erver rp with the guild in meetings
with helia
OttomaticToday at 9:43 PM
That's still RP.
SofiaToday at 9:43 PM
the point is the only rp i get is with helia around
OttomaticToday at 9:46 PM
Then why not pursue RP that... doesn't involve Helia?
SofiaToday at 9:51 PM
like i said, when i try to do that, it's just me sitting at the office waiting for people to sh ow up
OttomaticToday at 9:52 PM
Go somewhere aside from the office.
Sitting in a building that's really only approached by direct guild members or people associated with the guild is... kinda limiting you to only that. Related to the guild.
SofiaToday at 9:53 PM
I don't rp with strangers >.>
OttomaticToday at 9:54 PM
Well that's not something I can really help ya with. >.>
SofiaToday at 9:54 PM
i dont have a proble mwith the way it works now
OttomaticToday at 9:55 PM
Well, could you at least try to not be so uppity about it, please?
I enjoy RPing with you, I really do. But I don't want to get all three of us in a rut of only ever only RPing with only each other, y'know?